daveP:
Dobt hold on to this myopic reason. it's too fallacious.


Be realistic, not sarcastic!!!

omoharry:
..my sister, I sister you talk true.

oyepaulkay:


Somebody talking from experience

Mruwa1:
Most and not all ..relax there are still good guys maybe u r looking from wrong /different direction ..

majekdom2:
feminism advocates a right to a standard/ values and not “being able to afford a standard”/ values when it comes to a romantic relationship. Being able to afford means “price tag/limit” on the individual or situation you wish to relate with. This is why you came first with finance not checking clearly that one can have values that match upto “your” standard. I have heard many girls say “ he can’t afford me”. Isn’t that lame and this is obviously what you are saying too indirectly- a woman who is financially dependent cannot afford men of certain values because she needs him to meet her financial needs. A woman who is financially independent is able to afford any man with her desired values because she doesn’t need him for her financial needs, and there are not many men of values thus the high number of single women . I don’t have a comprehension problem, you are the one with a bleeped up mentality or perhaps one who don’t know what word to use.

cronsberg:
Because responsible men simply are refusing to chase after the hard to get women unlike before.

MissWrite:



Apparently, I can't follow your reasoning either..... . Not without giving myself a headache. Let's not try to understand each other anymore; we are intellectually divergent and have nothing to discuss.

Daeylar:
Why is it bordering you that women are single to the point where you propose these misogynistic and pedophilic solutions to reduce the number of single women around.

Did the women tell you that they minded being single and did they ask you for solution?

What do you mean by early marriage? A girl under 18?

You are the kind of person dasparrow is talking about.

majekdom2:
you posts are filled with bias and are bereft of thoughts from quality experience or wisdom.

omoharry:
that being single has alot of emotinal trauma..it a myth to me.because if you are single by choice that means you have other things doing for yourself that you have always wanted..to achieve..but the others that allow family and social pressure to get to them usually fall into your category.I choose to remain single by choice not because i am looking for a man with money but Someone I will be at peace with..I have not found that person..and if I dont find him..then I would rather remain single ..forget the biological clock bla bla bla..things..I really don't care about those things..I am this kind of person that believe that i need not conceive and give birth before i can be a mother, must I?..no!..there are so many motherless children all over the place that need all love and care that they can get..if possible a mother figure....so there are so many things in this world that need our attention and contribution for the good of mankind...Marriage is not for every body.If you find love and a good and hard working person with a wonderful personality then marry but if not it is not the end of the world..one should not end up with necessary idiot and monster in sheep clothing just because society is on their neck to get married...I see marriage has one of those circle of life and not everyone will be captured in this cycle.So let the single women be please...na waooo!!

bukatyne:
Battle of the sexes.

For there to be high rate of single ladies means there is also a high rate of single guys.

And I want to assume the single ladies referenced in this thread is 30s and above.

There are various reasons however, anyone who wants to get married WILL get married.

And 27 is not the time for a lady who is interested in marriage to clean up her acts and start looking.

I encourage early marriage in males and females as I believe the earlier the better.

A lady at 20/21 and guy at 24/25 should start thinking of marriage.

MissWrite:



Awww...lol. Now I hurt your feelings? Oya, sorry. But life is like that: we don't all belong in the same class. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

kunleweb:
I'm begging for an answer, why are there too many single ladies these days. Just heard of a stunt where a sister ( rich and graduate, working class with car who had no husband ) pulled a game-play to unseat her uneducated sister from her husband, i'm left bewildered why, why are there too many single sisters out-there left unmarried. I need answers. I really do as it beats my understanding.

DonPikko:
you're right, have you noticed the way
average Nigerian ladies fall for celebrities/wealthy guys/ abroad based guys, a Nigerian guy should just fall into any of the above, you won't have all this headache

Bidobado1:


Your post should read why are there so many single black women in the world.
Over 70 percent of black women in America have never been married, yet 55 percent of them have kids. Black women may have nice bodies, but their disgusting attitude is UNIVERSAL

bukatyne:
Battle of the sexes.

For there to be high rate of single ladies means there is also a high rate of single guys.

And I want to assume the single ladies referenced in this thread is 30s and above.

There are various reasons however, anyone who wants to get married WILL get married.

And 27 is not the time for a lady who is interested in marriage to clean up her acts and start looking.

I encourage early marriage in males and females as I believe the earlier the better.

A lady at 20/21 and guy at 24/25 should start thinking of marriage.

Biglittlelois:



Wrong!!! opposites attracts, it's now left for either one of them to be influenced or walk away.

Hanseel1:



People like you are the problem in this country.

Why should a 20 years old lady or a 24years old man be thinking about marriage? Were you trying to sound sarcastic or what exactly.

At 20 they'd probably still be in school even if they're not, they won't have a job. Why should a jobless lady think about marriage?

Any individual not above 27/26 shouldn't think about marriage.

vislabraye:


If opposite attracts, is that the reason you attract jerks cos you're a good girl

majekdom2:
I like this

pocohantas:


All the girls selling tomatoes and smoked fish in the market, those girls that will be very happy to have a fine boy like you... why haven't you married one of them?

soundforce:

I sense regrets. You seem to be very uncomfortable in your marriage

Sophyrocks:


Very peaceful i tell you. No stress. You have no idea! I don't understand why people don't get it.

CaptainMitch:
Hope you know that is the counterfeit Piiko you are chatting with??

pocohantas:


All the girls selling tomatoes and smoked fish in the market, those girls that will be very happy to have a fine boy like you... why haven't you married one of them?

kunleweb:
Is this excuse legit when many fathers and mothers of the previous generations got married before they had jobs and were not at the mercy of jobs

bukatyne:


O yeah, we are the problem till ladies and guys are desperately trying to settle down in their 30s. The lady especially is too desperate and can longer diligently choose so she settles for anyone and later cry that all men are...... Insert whatever adjective you like.

And who told you that people at 20 don't have jobs?

Let's assume the are even in school.

At 20, a lady starts preparing for marriage... Start becoming more homely, start doing personality checks and realise that fuckboys are off the table. She might find someone at 21, study him in a 2yr courtship and start prepping for wedding so that by 24/25/26, she is married.

Because she is still young, she is not pressured to settle and can end a relationship if the guy is not what she thought he was when she gets closer.

Whatever she thinks she is enjoying with random men can be enjoyed with one man if she marries right. Couples do date nights, go to clubs if inclined, go for vacation, have destination sex, have sex in their car/balconey/hotel/rooftop etc. As they like it.

Ditto a guy.

dasparrow:


Can you blame your women? In the past, our mothers and grandmothers married and stuck with our broke fathers and grandfathers. But guess what? The minute our fathers and grandfathers finally hit it big and became rich, they dumped the woman of their youth - our mothers and grandmothers who stuck with them in trying times - and went on to marry some twenty-two year old.

African men can never be trusted and I will never advice any female related to me to settle with some broke Nigerian or African nigga. Go and make money first because it takes money to raise a family.

This is why Africans can never seem to get out of poverty. You don't even have sufficient money to take care of yourself yet you are dreaming of bringing a woman and innocent children into your poverty stricken life to suffer with you. Nonsense!

ecstasy357:


An open socket will always attract a waiting plug.

Are the girls responsible? If they are, the fvck boys have no other option than to look elsewhere.