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80% Of Young Girls In My Sec School Were Sexually Harassed By Nigerian Men / What Big Aunties Did To Us!! / These Eye-opening Stories By Men Who Were Sexually Assaulted Need To Be Heard (2) (3) (4)

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by cococandy(f): 10:59pm On Sep 05, 2018
Oh please. Shut up

Because you masked your pain does not mean the other men who talk about theirs are weak.

eosigwe:
but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy. A lady's tale I can understand but guys, mehn...

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by chuka5000(m): 10:59pm On Sep 05, 2018
eosigwe:
but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy. A lady's tale I can understand but guys, mehn...

bro, ur treatment go hard o

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by jmichael259(m): 11:00pm On Sep 05, 2018
Earthbound:
I was molested too by older babysitting family friends













But I realised much later, it was more or less consensual. Women have been telling me from a young age that I'm huge. I've grown to love it.

What do you mean by huge? How dat take be excuse for molesting you at such tender age?

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Adakintroy: 11:03pm On Sep 05, 2018
Truth is this stories are true. I had experience with my elder female cousin too and one aunt tara.


I post something similar like this on nairaland one certain time. The thing is that with male molestations. We tend to outgrow it and not bring it up. No! We don't like the victim thing.

But am glad this topic is coming up. Because women like portraying men as monster and all that. We do it yes but out of weakness and many who do it Honestly try to change. Not all though. But It's good this topic come up. So we all judge ourselves in truth. Many women making noise do worst to young boys.

We have been shielding women for too long. Now they are getting more arrogant. Making a fool of men as though we are the only once capale of this kind of attrocities.. It high time they are called out and shamed too. anyone is capable of weakness.

Let them come out and refute it if their conscience can witness with them.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by techstack: 11:04pm On Sep 05, 2018
I only remember it when issues like this are raised.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:04pm On Sep 05, 2018
amaniro:





Hallelujah I testify to this


at age 8 I was not even a virgin
women will never know this. but the majority of men are damaged goods psychologically.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 11:05pm On Sep 05, 2018
Pple be saying rubbish. When I was around 7 or 8 yrs, our neighbor's househelp had sex with me. This one is not molestation oo because I enjoyed it. I enjoyed it so much that I wanted to have sex with her employer's daughter the next day. She refused. Anyway no regrets so far...maybe thats even the reason why I have a big diiick ryt now....because of the intense pressure I started experiencing in that region from childhood

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by spiritedtete: 11:06pm On Sep 05, 2018
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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by nnaeyes6: 11:06pm On Sep 05, 2018
I remembered being locked up in a room with a bigger Lady for shaku shaku dance but I have pass through that sha. just that anytime I see the lady, I always feel fury. although she was not the cause but one yeye aunty taking care of us kids then

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:07pm On Sep 05, 2018
Adakintroy:
Truth is this stories are true. I had experience with my elder female cousin too and one sister tire.


I post something similar like this on nairaland one certain time. The thing is that with male molestations. We tend to outgrow it and not bring it up. No! We don't like the victim thing.

But am glad this topic is coming up. Because women like portraying men as monster and all that. We do it yes but out of weakness and many who do it. Honestly try to change. It's good this topic come up. So we all judge ourselves in truth. Many women making noise do worst to young boys.

we outgrow it but it stays with us in the subconcious, influencing and controlling us in ways we cant even detect or understand. we need therapy.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 11:07pm On Sep 05, 2018
jmichael259:


What do you mean by huge? How dat take be excuse for molesting you at such tender age?
They made me conscious about it from my primary school days. I forgive them though. No PTSD for me.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by bukatyne(f): 11:07pm On Sep 05, 2018
Deadlock:
Bad relatives are worse than sworn enemies.

As in.

The closer the person, the harder the betrayal.

God heal these men.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by cococandy(f): 11:08pm On Sep 05, 2018
Prognose:
The worst I've ever had was my aunt's friend kissing me full on the lips on my birthday. embarassed

And one time when we were kids and the house help would make us watch her masturbate and suck her own breasts embarassed

Guess I dodged a bullet.


Yuck
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by FTjnr(m): 11:08pm On Sep 05, 2018
when i was just 6, i was locked up in a room and gangbãnged by all the married women in our compound.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by stasius: 11:08pm On Sep 05, 2018
.... And some boys were molested by uncles oo and male servants when they were growing up. Take note of that.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:09pm On Sep 05, 2018
Souless0:
Pple be saying rubbish. When I was around 7 or 8 yrs, our neighbor's househelp had sex with me. This one is not molestation oo because I enjoyed it. I enjoyed it so much that I wanted to have sex with her employer's daughter the next day. She refused. Anyway no regrets so far...maybe thats even the reason why I have a big diiick ryt now....because of the intense pressure I started experiencing in that region from childhood
you enjoyed it although it was force. thats how men become rapists because in his mind, "I enjoyed forced sex, so this girl MUST also enjoy forced sex". which is bad.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by ofemigeorge(m): 11:09pm On Sep 05, 2018
eosigwe:
but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy. A lady's tale I can understand but guys, mehn...
My brother I tirer
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:11pm On Sep 05, 2018
stasius:
.... And some boys were molested by uncles oo and male servants when they were growing up. Take note of that.
if you go to BBC and CNN, when they talk about Male rape ITS ALWAYS men being raped by other men. which is a tiny minority. they NEVER talk about women raping men.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by adedehinbo(m): 11:11pm On Sep 05, 2018
I was molested by a family friend and a cousin both married with 4 kids each,I remember those aunties would chase me around the compound when its almost dawn of the day and when she finally catches she makes me press her breasts and would take me to toilet and starts molesting me,gosh I hate to see them now,they thought I had forgotten but I hate to see them now

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by bukatyne(f): 11:12pm On Sep 05, 2018
eosigwe:
but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy. A lady's tale I can understand but guys, mehn...

Read your post again and confirm it makes sense to you.

Is everyone like you? Have you sat down to examine if you have any unhealthy view of females?

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by happney65: 11:12pm On Sep 05, 2018
Na me wan molest one girl like that nobody wan molest me..Like our house help sha..she be big aunty ohh..Far Far Older than me..She don dey act all mushy mushy towards me,she go cuddle me sleep with her big breasts..Na so me think na Green light..I was in primary 5 or thereabout..Na so me sef say make i go comot her underwear one day while she was sleeping na so she vex hold my hand say wetin i dey try do?.. grin grin grin

She sha ended up telling my mum sha but me deny ohh..yeah i remember her name now...Precious... grin grin

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Adakintroy: 11:12pm On Sep 05, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
we outgrow it but it stays with us in the subconcious, influencing and controlling us in ways we cant even detect or understand. we need therapy.


Maybe or maybe not.

Am fine. I have outgrown it. Am not a white boy. Am a black man. I seen worst stuff already to cover that.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:12pm On Sep 05, 2018
eosigwe:
but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy. A lady's tale I can understand but guys, mehn...
you will understand when a woman rapes your only son amd passes AIDS to him. then for the first time you'll understand RAPE IS RAPE NO MATTER WHO THE VICTIM IS.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:14pm On Sep 05, 2018
Adakintroy:



Maybe or maybe not.

Am fine. I have outgrown it. Am not a white boy. Am a black man. I seen worst stuff already to cover that.
dont you think that this macho attitude is the reason black men make up the biggest number of rapists? that they need therapy because they dont even see they are sick mentally and emotionally??

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by adedehinbo(m): 11:15pm On Sep 05, 2018
FTjnr:
when i was just 6, i was locked up in a room and gangbãnged by all the married women in our compound.
take note this is not a lieing competition

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 11:16pm On Sep 05, 2018
FTjnr:
when i was just 6, i was locked up in a room and gangbãnged by all the married women in our compound.
i smell lies grin

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 11:16pm On Sep 05, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
you enjoyed it although it was force. thats how men become rapists because in his mind, "I enjoyed forced sex, so this girl MUST also enjoy forced sex". which is bad.
It wasn't forced. It was mutual. The lady in question was 7 yrs older or more

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by courna(m): 11:19pm On Sep 05, 2018
Souless0:
Pple be saying rubbish. When I was around 7 or 8 yrs, our neighbor's househelp had sex with me. This one is not molestation oo because I enjoyed it. I enjoyed it so much that I wanted to have sex with her employer's daughter the next day. She refused. Anyway no regrets so far...maybe thats even the reason why I have a big diiick ryt now....because of the intense pressure I started experiencing in that region from childhood
bro...

you no well at all
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Ugosample(m): 11:19pm On Sep 05, 2018
eosigwe:
but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy. A lady's tale I can understand but guys, mehn...

"a lady's tale you can understand"

This up there is what ruined your comment

it's either you are sympathetic to molestation victims or not


Not doing half and half

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Rajosh(m): 11:19pm On Sep 05, 2018
eosigwe:
but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy. A lady's tale I can understand but guys, mehn...
A lady got raped, couldn't get over it and 22 months later, she committed suicide. Others got raped and a few weeks later, they're fine.
Not everyone is built Same way. You're lucky to have a tough resistance. Others are not.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Adakintroy: 11:19pm On Sep 05, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
dont you think that this macho attitude is the reason black men make up the biggest number of rapists? that they need therapy because they dont even see they are sick mentally and emotionally??


Blacks are not sick. They are naturally more agressive. Its nature. They had lived in forest. They may have needed that level of agressive to survive in their natural habitat.

Aside..
Those who need therapy know themself. I was molested yes. But I have gotten over that now. Am a man. That memory has faded. If I want to go down memory lane about all the shiit that I have Been through in this crazy world. I will be in intense rehab.

This is life man. Shiiit happens from day one. Suck it up. Like I said. Leave those stuffs for the white boys. We believe in God they dont.

You have no idea what God can help you absorbed.

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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by sarcasticdude(m): 11:21pm On Sep 05, 2018
Dat is how we travelled to the village when I was 12+ these villa mgbeke was just eyeing me,so she molested me,but something strange happened,while she was molesting me,what happened was dat..........


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