MISEDUCATIONS:
how can a 7 yr old guy give consent to sex?? how could you at that age? thats sick man.
you were raped. that you enjoyed it doesnt make it OK.

Wait men. This is not even a male topic ok. This is a feminine topic.


For a start. I have dealt with crazier stuffs in my life tHan me loosing my virginity to a woman. I have long pass that point. Their are many issues like rent, job happiness and relationship to tinker on
I only joined the conversation because it had happened to me once. Surely you get the point.

People get injured and the wound heal that is life. Poke that place all you want you won't hear a scream. That's why they call it healing.

meanwhile I was 6yrs when my parent bought me this doll she sexually molested me for months before I decided to rip her head off

All these stories are real and still happening,

I believe we should start projecting more on child molestation- for both sex, and seek out relevant & lasting remedies to such.

..... Parents will have to play a significant role here to combat it

yeye men me i loved every moment of it

Nigeria: A nation crawling with pedophiles and rapists. Nigerians will know no peace until they stop sexually abusing children. This applies to both male and female pedophiles and child molesters.

Adakintroy:



Wait men. This is not even a male topic ok. This is a feminine topic.


For a start. I have dealt with crazier stuffs in my life tHan me loosing my virginity to a woman. I have long pass that point. Their are many issues like rent, job happiness and relationship to tinker on
I only joined the conversation because it had happened to me once. Surely you get the point.

People get injured and the wound heal that is life. Poke that place all you want you won't hear a scream. That's why they call it healing.

its not about you losing your virginity to a woman. its about you being raped as a boy. just coz it was easy sex doesnt mean it was OK. you were a young boy
what if she gave you HIV/AIDS? would you still be celebrating the sex act?

dasparrow:
Nigeria: A nation crawling with pedophiles and rapists. Nigerians will know no peace until they stop sexually abusing children. This applies to both male and female pedophiles and child molesters.

its everywhere. im from Zimbabwe and even that happened to me

MISEDUCATIONS:
what did God do exactly? make you forget? make your heart into a stone?
by the way im a guy. call me ma'am again and i'll whoop your arse.

He healed me..made me whole. You know as though it had never happened.

nairalanduseles:
yeye men me i loved every moment of it

in America a lady raped a boy and became pregnant, when the boy became a working man his salary started getting child support deductions to support that child.
its fun until such things happen to you.

Adakintroy:


He healed me..made me whole. You know as though it had never happened.

is that the advice you can give to female rape victims?

Kimcutie:
Females think is only them that's molested.

Oh my God!

GOOD NIGHT....

nwanneni:
abeg,leave that guy and stop promoting weakness.
You are beginning to sound caucasian.i hate it when people exhibit weakness.
He bleeped an older woman,so what?is that something to be depressed about?
If i knew you toyflare,i will punch you in the face.
The only part that i did not like was the gay thingy!

He füùcked an older woman against his wishes! Are u okay? Do you think it's funny when someone tells you to have sex with them or they make an allegation of rape against you? Do you have a working brain? GTFOH !!

blingxx:
meanwhile I was 6yrs when my parent bought me this doll she sexually molested me for months before I decided to rip her head off

its past midnite bro,Its not normal for me to laugh to dis

eosigwe:
but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy.

Modified.

Please for those misquoting me, I do not support such abominable act. Child molestation is totally wrong. Be it a male child or a female child. It's completely wrong. Offenders should be severely punished. But that you were wrongly touched at 4 and you cannot perform your sexual duty at 34, that is not the cause. You should seek treatment.

I totally agree with you.

I happen to be an extremely good looking guy and all my life I have been "molested" even till my 40s but I don't understand the correlation between loss of sexuality and being molested especially for a guy.

Just two years ago one lady was just using me as a intimacy gadget but me sef just commot face.

At 17 I was practically raped by a calabar girl, at 19 ladies will just come to me and just find a way to get me laid and I will even enter my room in my uni days and see naked girl in my bed,at 21 two sistas wanted to tear me apart,at 25 two ladues were taking their turn on me on a regular basis not mentioning rape threats and so on.

I can't continue to write all the funny experience I had and even till date in my mid 40s i still run from ladies who just want to take advantage but it has never affected my sex life.

If i were raped by a woman that looks like Eniola Badmus i will be emotionally scarred for life but lf the woman looks like daniella okeke.. I have no reason to be traumatised.

Funny enough this females will hardly give it to adult male

MISEDUCATIONS:
its not about you losing your virginity to a woman. its about you being raped as a boy. just coz it was easy sex doesnt mean it was OK. you were a young boy
what if she gave you HIV/AIDS? would you still be celebrating the sex act?

Now listen friend before you back me up against the wall like we are going toe to toe with one another.

We are men. That means we are the stronger of the two species. Mentally emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. It's a fact. If you read my initial post, I wrote how we have always shielded them. It's because I knew they are capable of what we are capable off. They are weak. Not because they do it, But because they hardly ever admitt. Instead they make us look like the only monster in the play. That's why I said its OK for this event to pup up every now so often so we look ourselves in the eye to judge. Not unto condemnation, but in the truth that everyone is capable of mutual weakness.



Because maybe then the right humility will come. We are not going to chestise anyone yet..seeing that both parties are capable of similar feats.

dasparrow:
Nigeria: A nation crawling with pedophiles and rapists. Nigerians will know no peace until they stop sexually abusing children. This applies to both male and female pedophiles and child molesters.

Exactly. We have many pedophiles and rapists. They won't go after people hurting innocents people that can't give consent, but once you mention two grown people of same sex that can give consent ehh, see them coming to preach to you. What a hypocritical nation!!

eosigwe:
but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy.

Modified.

Please for those misquoting me, I do not support such abominable act. Child molestation is totally wrong. Be it a male child or a female child. It's completely wrong. Offenders should be severely punished. But that you were wrongly touched at 4 and you cannot perform your sexual duty at 34, that is not the cause. You should seek treatment.

No mind them. They have ED.
I am vehemently opposed to defiling a girl child. But men coming to talk about depression because of toto as a boy. Nonsense. They're mad!!!

[quote author=toyflare post=70929349]Warning! Long post alert!
Men get molested, and we hide it because it's either unbelievable or sounds ridiculous. My life as a kid until adulthood wasn't funny at all. First, it was the neighbor's housemaid, I was about 7 at that time and my parents were busy with work so I had to stay at my neighbor's house after school till our house maid is back from school. One day I went there, the maid called me into the kid's room and took away my clothes, made me lay down and did things I didn't understand as a child. It was confusing, and I really didn't understand what she was doing but I remember she was on top of me unclad swinging back and forth. This continued after a while, then I told mom. She didn't understand me, so I stopped going there myself and our maid told my mom she met me outside when she came back from school. I guess this made her believe me, so I had to wait in school then.

Then I was molested again by my own friend f4cking best friend turned gay! I was 10 then, and my friend was 6 years older. He was enrolled in a boarding school, I guess he learned the shit from there. When he came back he would always come to the house as usual when I noticed when we play, he touched my genitals and I wasn't comfortable with it. One day I went to his house, he was alone and locked up the place, said he wants to show me something in the room and I followed him. He went to the kitchen and brought a knife, told me to take off all my clothes or he will stab me. I was like haha very funny and he started swinging the knife and told me he joined a cult group and I shouldn't dare him. I was scared as fvck, took my clothes off with speed, he ordered me to lay on the bed and started the thing (can't go into detail cause it makes me sick) but I cried so much. Then after it he was like don't worry, you will start enjoying it soon. So I stopped going to his house but he kept coming to my house and I would lock my self inside the room and my dad will come knocking that my friend is here and I should come out. Then he started begging me that his not in any cult group, but was attracted to him. I didn't care to listen to him! So one day he came with a fancy toy and told my Lil bro he got it for him, but won't give it to him unless I followed him home. So my Lil bro asked me to go get the toy for him and I refused so he started crying, I couldn't tell him what was going on. He was very little at that time and wanted his toy, so I agreed to go, but my plan was to take the toy and fight with my friend if he tried anything stupid , so I went with my brother (my friend lives across the street) but when we got there he insisted I come in alone or he won't give it to me. My brother was like okay I'm going home . So I went in and he locked the door, I asked him for the toy and he said he won't give it to me unless I let him touch me again, I said no!!! And headed for the door, he grabbed me and pushed me to the chair I tried pushing him off but he was very much stronger than I was. Long story short, he did it again, gave me to the toy, I went to him, gave it to Lil bro and he hugged me. I went into the room and cried seriously asking God to forgive me. But it didn't stop here, it continued for years until I got older and strong enough and fought him one day before it all ended. Up till now, I still haven't told my brother what really happened.

Then again 3 years ago I was raped by my church group leader! I won't mention the church. This woman is married and older than my own mother! All her 3 kids are schooling in the UK! Her husband is a manager in one of the top oil companies ( Name withheld). At my workplace, I was working in the customer care sector and meet clients daily. Lots of sugar mummy's wanted me to be there son, some told me directly others where hiding about it but opened up later. This woman was just good to me and at the same time always preaching to me about Jesus so I didn't suspect her in any way. She invited me to her church because I just moved to the state recently and didn't have a church at that time. So I started worshipping at her church, so one day she invited me to her house fellowship and I went, after the fellowship she asked me to wait behind so I could help her tidy the place and I did before I left she gave me 4k for TP, I refused but she insisted so I took it. I kept going for house fellowship every week and she always gave me TP (4k, 6k, 10k). Every time I asked her why she gave me so much just for transport, she will say she's encouraging me because she knew I wasn't earning much.
So one day I went for house fellowship, as usual, I stayed behind to arrange the place, then took the plates to the kitchen. I noticed someone walk into the kitchen and turned off the light I was like, ma did you off the light? She said yes. I said okay..
Guy no vex oo when is part II coming out?

MISEDUCATIONS:
is that the advice you can give to female rape victims?

Has jailing the offenders even for a lifetime healed anyone?

tomdon:



No mind them. They have ED.
I am vehemently opposed to defiling a girl child. But men coming to talk about depression because of toto. They're mad!!!

Shebi you go marry born pikin, both boys and girls! May they be severely raped and molested by friends and family!!

Arondizuogu:


Exactly. We have many pedophiles and rapists. They won't go after people hurting innocents people that can't give consent, but once you mention two grown people of same sex that can give consent ehh, see them coming to preach to you. What a hypocritical nation!!

Very hypocritical.

ndy87:
A friend of mine( a guy) was molested by their maids. they had 3 of them and they all used to take turns to molest him, and he was 6 when it started until he left for boarding school at 11. he was molested for 5 years. too many sexually frustrated humans.

Many ladies are sexually frustrated even the very attractive ones.

I won't forget the one I experienced 2 years ago. She is a 37year old lady,pretty with a backside that will turn a man's head.

Her hubby dey abroad and she found me very attractive so she approached me stylishly but when I realized she is married I said NEVER.

Then she begged me to just massage her body and finger her even if I won't make love to her and I still refused.

The day she told me she hasn't been laid for over 4years I felt a strong pity but not enough to make me commit adultery.

But surprisingly,her husband died and she had to travel to mourn him but when she came back she came with full force.

To cut the story short,yes with my consent but totally against my will and desire she really molested "raped" took advantage and in fact she made me her intimacy gadget and will just use me whenever and however and I was like...

I was molested at 25

AdaAde:
Rape is not an experience that can easily be forgotten. In fact, it can never be forgotten.
But speaking up helps loosen the burden.

I love your outward natural beauty.

MISEDUCATIONS:
call me ma'am again and i'll whoop your arse.

This got me cracking out loud!!!

Odikwa serious o

grossintel:
And you encourage him to become a Gigolo and this is an opportunity to you? Are you mentally stable at all? He sounds like he was in a perfect relationship and happy with his life until this happened.

happy with his life?
How did he get close to the woman in the first place?it's the peanuts the woman was throwing at him that brought them close,doesn't sound like he was doing OK to me.
Now when the floodgates opened,what did he do?chickened out.
You don't get anywhere in life by being a fool.
I guess you are another inferior man!

Arondizuogu:


He füùcked an older woman against his wishes! Are u okay? Do you think it's funny when someone tells you to have sex with them or they make an allegation of rape against you? Do you have a working brain? GTFOH !!

it's not ok,but he whining about it is my problem in his shit.talking about depression bla bla bla....
I despise weakness and lack of strong will.if you are like him,please do change or travel to the USA.
Inferior men!