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so sad.... may you find true and complete healing...
For those saying shit happens ....the victim should move on as though nothing happened,? just having that experience stock in your memory is enough reason to know you have not moved on,you may look and think you over it but deep and turbulent water looks still... some things and actions you do might just be from the effect of that incident..... Try to talk it out with someone it will help you feel better..

why am I the only one that feels or think like it seems victims of rape and molestation have a mark on them?..... why does it keep repeating itself..

Wow really awful and disgusting!

Immarocks:


so sad.... may you find true and complete healing...
For those saying shit happens ....the victim should move on as though nothing happened,? just having that experience stock in your memory is enough reason to know you have not moved on,you may look and think you over it but deep and turbulent water looks still... some things and actions you do might just be from the effect of that incident..... Try to talk it out with someone it will help you feel better..

why am I the only one that feels or think like it seems victims of rape and molestation have a mark on them?..... why does it keep repeating itself..

please,just move away with that bs.
Check between your thighs,you will find an open,smelly cavity whereas we have dicks,big difference.things like this do not affect us in anyway.we aren't sentimental like y'all.
Find someone to talk to?you sound like a shrink,are you?

I'm sorry to ask but do you guys tinie got erect at age 3 sexually?

sexual abuse is definitely a thing, but these stories sound made up.

i remember it like it was yesterday at the age of 7 years in 1996 one of my cousin who was like about 19 or so visited us from the east we used to live in Lagos at the time, immediately i come back from school she would call me to her room and UnCloth her self . and make me suckk her sometimes she will go down on me and wrap her mouth around my cockk ,she would suckk me till i tell her to stop sometimes she will climb on me and ride me i was only 7 i thought it was fun until today i still have flash backs i became so addicted to her to the extent i went crazy when she traveled back to east i kept on asking my parents when will she visit again , she did not only take my virginity she sexually molested me and used me to her satisfaction but in everything it was an experience ,, till today i never told my parents i kept it a secret till the day i die . i wont lie i kinda enjoyed the fun . but it was totally wrong . chioma where ever you may be i only pray that God forgives you for what you did to me

I was sexually molested when I was 7 in the year 1995 by a girl called Bose at our residence address in Ring road , Benin city. The girl could force & lock me up in their kitchen then, undressed her self & force my penis into has Vigina with pressure... The experience occurred on many occasions.

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eosigwe:
but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy.

Modified.

Please for those misquoting me, I do not support such abominable act. Child molestation is totally wrong. Be it a male child or a female child. It's completely wrong. Offenders should be severely punished. But that you were wrongly touched at 4 and you cannot perform your sexual duty at 34, that is not the cause. You should seek treatment.

What an ignorant and arrant nonsense. Smh

MISEDUCATIONS:
most men were raped as boys. many men lost their virginity without their intelligent consent

might actually be right, fathers were busy pursuing money and mothers focused on their girl child, boys don't require plenty care they said. But that is actually Bulls hit. Care and protection should be given to all kids no Mather their sex. Always take a proper look at your boys the way you do the girl. Ask them those questions you ask their female counterpart.male child are not born troway expected to make their luck.the same love and care you give the girls should be shown to them too.

I have been sexual molested once in secondary school.

nwanneni:
please,just move away with that bs.
Check between your thighs,you will find an open,smelly cavity whereas we have dicks,big difference.things like this do not affect us in anyway.we aren't sentimental like y'all.
Find someone to talk to?you sound like a shrink,are you?

lol ...fortunately for you... you came out from a smelly cavity..
a smelly cavity which your"dick"can not help but stand at attention and give respect when it sees one... hell yeah... just even thinking about one

been sentimental is when guys like you act with your "dick "rather than face your demons ....

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FOOL...

It was in boarding house one senior prefect forced me to grab his penis after choking me. I was jss2 and he was in ss3

nwanneni:
it's not ok,but he whining about it is my problem in his shit.talking about depression bla bla bla....
I despise weakness and lack of strong will.if you are like him,please do change or travel to the USA.
Inferior men!

Baba carry your stupid self dey go

nwanneni:
it's not ok,but he whining about it is my problem in his shit.talking about depression bla bla bla....
I despise weakness and lack of strong will.if you are like him,please do change or travel to the USA.
Inferior men!

I would like North Korea to nuke Nigeria. So many stupid people in that country. Tufia!!

I just remembered how my cousin in boarding sch molested me. He asked me to come to their house that his dad sent him shoes from America. I got to his house he forced me to pose doggy. Today he is a pastor. I feel like reminding him Because he keeps disturbing me with daily sermon. In fact I feel like fighting him

oyb:
sexual abuse is definitely a thing, but these stories sound made up.

Bro believe.

Queenserah26:
Odikwa serious o

Odikwa very dangerous

lefulefu:
If i were raped by a woman that looks like Eniola Badmus i will be emotionally scarred for life but lf the woman looks like daniella okeke.. I have no reason to be traumatised.

Hahahaha if I had an aunt like lalas247 doing the do...be rest assured I will not gonna leave the do.... But if it was someone like pocohantas I'd be acutely traumatized...if not suicidal

i was sexually abused by my neighbour when i was 6 or 7 never told any one about it....she is married with kids now!!!!!am cool and great too.the world never gave the male child a chance to express himself when hurt!!!!!!...

some people are so weird

Mine was funny
At age 7 I was molested by a church member he was 12 I think
Then I got to boarding school and was molested from JSS2 to SS3
It affected my self confidence

zinnyzee:
Heh... This is a new one on me.
I always thought the molestation and abuses were one sided. This is an eye-opener.

You'd be surprise but unlike them, I don't think I can share it out in public or even with parents, so guys get abused , I know I was abused by my female house help when I was younger, but I don't think it affected me though in any way.

lefulefu:
If i were raped by a woman that looks like Eniola Badmus i will be emotionally scarred for life but lf the woman looks like daniella okeke.. I have no reason to be traumatised.

The point is....

A lot of guys who were molested were molested by either males like them, or what people will call less attractive women; like eniola badmus

it's a sad thing

Story of my life

well this is something I've once experience in my secondary school days.

I was in SS1 going to SS2 when they deployed this Corper to our school Corper Chiamaka. she's very sound in accounting which made me liked commercial class. I happen to be one of her best student that pay attention and understand her teaching. she started treating me special among my classmates. I followed her to her rented house one day when the scenario started. I saw Corper Chiamaka getting undressed, I couldn't hold my view, I decide to leave the room and she said no. she get totally undressed left with her bra. she told me help her loose at the back with her big yellow backside staring at me. I just control myself, immediately I unloose it, she put her boobs in my mouth for suck. she started moaning, she gave me a BJ thereafter and we had sex. that was my first sex banging someone I see as my mentor, she disorganized me and made me see her as a prostitute rather than mentor. since then I always avoid her. she made hate sucking boobs till date. my ex's don complain tire

toyflare:
Warning! Long post alert!
Men get molested, and we hide it because it's either unbelievable or sounds ridiculous. My life as a kid until adulthood wasn't funny at all. First, it was the neighbor's housemaid, I was about 7 at that time and my parents were busy with work so I had to stay at my neighbor's house after school till our house maid is back from school. One day I went there, the maid called me into the kid's room and took away my clothes, made me lay down and did things I didn't understand as a child. It was confusing, and I really didn't understand what she was doing but I remember she was on top of me unclad swinging back and forth. This continued after a while, then I told mom. She didn't understand me, so I stopped going there myself and our maid told my mom she met me outside when she came back from school. I guess this made her believe me, so I had to wait in school then.

Then I was molested again by my own friend f4cking best friend turned gay! I was 10 then, and my friend was 6 years older. He was enrolled in a boarding school, I guess he learned the shit from there. When he came back he would always come to the house as usual when I noticed when we play, he touched my genitals and I wasn't comfortable with it. One day I went to his house, he was alone and locked up the place, said he wants to show me something in the room and I followed him. He went to the kitchen and brought a knife, told me to take off all my clothes or he will stab me. I was like haha very funny and he started swinging the knife and told me he joined a cult group and I shouldn't dare him. I was scared as fvck, took my clothes off with speed, he ordered me to lay on the bed and started the thing (can't go into detail cause it makes me sick) but I cried so much. Then after it he was like don't worry, you will start enjoying it soon. So I stopped going to his house but he kept coming to my house and I would lock my self inside the room and my dad will come knocking that my friend is here and I should come out. Then he started begging me that his not in any cult group, but was attracted to him. I didn't care to listen to him! So one day he came with a fancy toy and told my Lil bro he got it for him, but won't give it to him unless I followed him home. So my Lil bro asked me to go get the toy for him and I refused so he started crying, I couldn't tell him what was going on. He was very little at that time and wanted his toy, so I agreed to go, but my plan was to take the toy and fight with my friend if he tried anything stupid , so I went with my brother (my friend lives across the street) but when we got there he insisted I come in alone or he won't give it to me. My brother was like okay I'm going home . So I went in and he locked the door, I asked him for the toy and he said he won't give it to me unless I let him touch me again, I said no!!! And headed for the door, he grabbed me and pushed me to the chair I tried pushing him off but he was very much stronger than I was. Long story short, he did it again, gave me to the toy, I went to him, gave it to Lil bro and he hugged me. I went into the room and cried seriously asking God to forgive me. But it didn't stop here, it continued for years until I got older and strong enough and fought him one day before it all ended. Up till now, I still haven't told my brother what really happened.

Then again 3 years ago I was raped by my church group leader! I won't mention the church. This woman is married and older than my own mother! All her 3 kids are schooling in the UK! Her husband is a manager in one of the top oil companies ( Name withheld). At my workplace, I was working in the customer care sector and meet clients daily. Lots of sugar mummy's wanted me to be there son, some told me directly others where hiding about it but opened up later. This woman was just good to me and at the same time always preaching to me about Jesus so I didn't suspect her in any way. She invited me to her church because I just moved to the state recently and didn't have a church at that time. So I started worshipping at her church, so one day she invited me to her house fellowship and I went, after the fellowship she asked me to wait behind so I could help her tidy the place and I did before I left she gave me 4k for TP, I refused but she insisted so I took it. I kept going for house fellowship every week and she always gave me TP (4k, 6k, 10k). Every time I asked her why she gave me so much just for transport, she will say she's encouraging me because she knew I wasn't earning much.
So one day I went for house fellowship, as usual, I stayed behind to arrange the place, then took the plates to the kitchen. I noticed someone walk into the kitchen and turned off the light I was like, ma did you off the light? She said yes. I said okay... But I'm still using it, she didn't answer me and kept walking close to me then suddenly hugged me. I just stood, and was like ma is there any problem, she said no! And kept hugging me. After a while she let me go and I rushed off the kitchen and started gathering my stuff to go home. But when I wanted to open the door, I noticed it was locked! I searched for the keys and it wasn't where it supposed to be. I started calling for her and told her I couldn't find the keys, she said she kept it in her daughter's room I should go there and take it. I went there to look for it but couldn't find the keys, so I told her and she said she's coming to get it but she didn't come out, she was inside her room and refused to answer me. I stood there thinking of what to do next, then my girlfriend started calling me! I told her I just left the fellowship and she was shouting at me that it's almost 11 pm and I'm not back yet, I pleaded with her that we had a meeting blah blah blah. I ended the calling and started calling madam to come open her door let me go home for christ sake. The woman no gree, I called my roommate and told him the situation of things and he told me not to worry, I shouldn't answer my girlfriends call again, he will call her and tell her my phone was stolen and they beat me up but I'm home sleeping.
I was there waiting in the sitting room till past twelve before she opened the door almost unclad and was smiling at me. At this moment I was already angry asked her to open the door let me go and she started shouting at me before I knew it she slapped me! And my body went cold instantly. She said I should forget about going home today except I do what she says. Then the next minute she started begging me that she's sorry, she's lonely and needed someone to talk to. I couldn't say anything, as she was begging her hands were already going inside my Jeans. I was like Ma please I beg you in the name of God please stop let me go. I started preaching to her that she's married and this is evil the woman stood up and started crying that she's sorry it's the devil's hand work.
At that point, I thought everything was fine but I need to leave immediately! She told me the key is in her child's room and where to get it. I didn't trust going into that room alone, but I went anyway, the key wasn't where she said it was. And I as I was about leaving the room to go tell her, she's already at the door, then walked in and closed the door. She told me I can't go, and she hasn't had sex in a long time, so If I don't want her to tell her husband I raped her I should allow her do what she wants or she will call her husband and scream on the phone.
My eyes flashed before my eyes again, I tried talking to her again and she started calling him on the phone and put it on speaker phone so I can see she's not playing about it. I thought of going to prison and losing my job and worse ending up in the news. Then I accepted on the condition we use protection, she already had everything with her, even a lubricant! Then I knew she planned the whole thing. The sad truth is at that time I was still a virgin and never had sex with a woman.

Again sorry for the long post, but before you ask what's the name of this movie I really don't care if you believe it or not! And if you think it has no physiological effect then you're very wrong. I'm very withdrawn and find it extremely difficult to trust anyone. I have no friends! I don't ever near a church or want to hear anything about churches. (she attends a big church and I see her on TV sometimes singing praises). The moment I see an older woman I look at you in disgust, and before you say anything I'm already hating you. It's been years and I'm battling depression, so I need sleeping pills to sleep properly. At some point, I turned to drugs and later stopped because of its effects physiologically.
Being forced against your will to have sex is rape! And men get raped too and I don't think it's fun when it's a woman your mother's age and if that's a fantasy for you then you need to get your brain examined.

guy you will make a family of three children living in the UK whose father works in an oil company . Be worried about their mother. lolz just joking

MISEDUCATIONS:
most men were raped as boys. many men lost their virginity without their intelligent consent

Funke!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Oh my God!!!!!!!!!!!!

FTjnr:
when i was just 6, i was locked up in a room and gangbãnged by all the married women in our compound.

weldon sir

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SO WE SHOULDN'T TALK ABOUT IT WHEN MEN ARE MOLESTED, BECAUSE MEN ARE WORSE?

MANY MEN GO THROUGH A LOT OF DAMAGES, BOTH AS KIDS AND AS ADULTS BUT THE WORLD DOESN'T HEAR ABOUT IT BECAUSE THE SOCIETY EASILY SHRUGS IT OFF AND EXPECT MEN TO BE TOUGH, OR PRETEND AT LEAST.

YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MANY MEN GO THROUGH EVIL IN THE HANDS OF WOMEN UNLESS YOU'RE A WITNESS.

Oshey omo dada

I was molested at age 8 in 2000 by our housemaid. I woke up and found myself on top of her.