Good morning to you all. Please post and handle this for me. My marriage is 4 years and my wife is 29 years, I am 37 years old. After my first child, it took my wife 7 months to start allowing me touch her.

I didn't complain. Our baby is 2 years 9 months old. My wife is a stay at home mum. I work in my late father's company with my siblings and my mum. Please is it good, in a month, my wife allows me touch her not up to 4 times and it's with begging and pleading.

I got tired of talking to her and decided to bring her father in to speak to her. We traveled for the weekend for a wedding and my hope is to spend the Sunday at their place and we travel back on Monday morning because we left our son with my mother. In the afternoon, I went to speak to her father because her parents got divorced and her father trained them by himself. When I brought up the se!x issues for the man to plead with me and advise my wife.

He started asking me how many times should my wife give me se!x? is four times a month not enough? Is his daughter a yam that I can eat as I want ? That what nonsense am I talking about? That he is disappointed.

I lost balance and felt very bad. I left that day to the hotel . Everyone reading these post, please is se!x four times a month ok ? Is it that my wife doesn't love me or what ? I wanted to fix her somewhere in the company, she said our baby is still small. I don't understand her at all please. I need solution.

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/09/my-wife-only-allows-me-to-touch-her-4-times-a-month.html

Four times every month? You mean one time every week? Bros if i were you but let me not be you, i will DIVORCE her and get married again to someone who can satisfy me sexually. Four times a month too small abeg..

We only help members, tell him to register and ask us this question again

To me, the four times is too much..

Ionkidiz:
Four times every month? You mean one time every week? Bros if i were you but let me not be you, i will DIVORCE her and get married again to someone who can satisfy me sexually. Four times a month too small abeg..

Is your sole aim of marriage sex?

Ionkidiz:
Four times every month? You mean one time every week? Bros if i were you but let me not be you, i will DIVORCE her and get married again to someone who can satisfy me sexually. Four times a month too small abeg..

4 times is too much if the person is rubbish at sex or if she is gay or if she doesn't love him.

That's once a week. She try na

First of all this proves a lot of things, there's no emotional connection, intimacy and companionship existing between you and your wife.
Sex among couples just happens if they are truely into each other, it is not something you can regulate, you can both have sex more than four times in a day depending on the kind of "network" you both have that day.

Your wife is not into you, when a woman truely loves you and is into you, sincerely speaking na you go run for sex. Even some of them that doesn't like sex, may stay with you hours in bed doing other intimacy stuff outside penetration, that's the simple truth.
Also unfortunately your father inlaw did not help matters.
Please call your wife, sit her down and discuss this with her, in the course of the discussion try to understand if there is a reason why this is happening. Let her know your sexual needs are not being met, and most importantly try and build strong companionship and intimacy with her, trust me it will solve a lot of issues for you not just this sex issue but others that may arise.

when you are at work... som1 else might be giving it to her the right way... hence......

To me, it was very silly of you to involve your Father-In-Law in this sex related issue. It would have been better you visited a counsellor or if you must go too far, visit someone with a proven track record of keeping their marriage. You strike me as one who is weak, insecure and too nice which is probably why your wife is not attracted to you in the first place.

Hmm bro I [b][/b] I don't no o how your wife takes it but for me sex four times in two week don't satisfy me not to talk of the whole one month

Sex every time instead of thinking about something more reasonable.

Answer the following question to enable me advice
1. How was your sex life with your wife before now?
2. Have you ever cheated on your wife and she caught you?
3. Has she ever asked you of anything and you deny her?
4. Do you have any character that she complains about?

Answer the following questions sincerely and by the grace of God i will tell you what exactly to do to win your wife back.

I'm surprised at what most NL'ers above have posted.

Isn't the wife only 29 years old? The man himself is 37. They're still a young couple. Sex may not be food, but it spices up a marriage immensely.

4 times a month is pitiful and enough reason for any1 to leave their marriage. Moreover, the man has pleaded with the wife and the father.

The wife may be cheating, or she doesn't love her husband, or she's repulsed by their sex life. Additionally, there are so many methods of birth control, so the fear of getting pregnant again shouldn't be an excuse.

3 - 4 times a week should be the least for them.

I'd advice that man to act just as immature as the wife and her father, and leave the marriage.

Nigerian... four good times a month is not bad. A man should be disciplined when it comes to sex. We know say e dey sweet but at least take am easy.
Moreover, if you have something really doing, most times you won't even know if your wife is existing when it comes to sex o.

Ogbeni, stop this fake stories

milemimi93:


Is your sole aim of marriage sex?

..see rubbish question

Doesn't she enjoy it? Don't you know how to do it? Do you sleep in different rooms or beds? I am left with these questions bothering me, I mean once in 2 days is not even enough for some of us.

milemimi93:
To me, the four times is too much..

As a man can you tolerate this from your wife?

ritylove:
As a man can you tolerate this from your wife?

Hey lady! How are you?

Please be reminded that sex is not food.

milemimi93:


Hey lady! How are you?

Please be reminded that sex is not food.

hmm ok...still the question was not aswered

ritylove:
hmm ok...still the question was not aswered

YES I CAN!

milemimi93:


Is your sole aim of marriage sex?

This question is irrelevant.

Read the post again and bring out something better.

It's obvious you are not married.