enuk80:
Hello everyone,

I just want to know....why some girls who have serious boyfriends give their number out to another guy who they just met?

She knows she has a boy who is everything to her yet she gives her number out to total stranger who just talk to her on meeting her.

Is this really proper for a girl to give her number out when she knows she has a boyfriend?

Why can't she say no or sorry I have a boyfriend?

****after giving her number out to guys, they start asking her out and this create problems in her relationship.

PLEASE, when did BOYFRIEND become HUSBAND in Nigeria....to the extent of having RIGHTS of possession of a lady..?
This is NIGERIA and not AMERICA
It’s only a FOOLISH LADY who thinks being a girlfriend seals any union and consolidates it.
Many think the GUY has been specifically designed for them.
Even married people divorce, not to talk of boyfriend and girlfriend matter.
Smart LADIES take note
Port Harcourt girls will tell you better.

DUMP a Port Harcourt girl this week and watch her give you her WEDDING CARD in 2 weeks

Hy

Google has the final answer.....

Its not bad

It is very proper OP,
What if i am better than her boy friend and dont ask me in what way . Besides we serve different purposes
Bleep boys Gather here

Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.

So ur point is for her to keep her options open with assistant boyfriends right?

asawanathegreat:
There is nothing wrong with it.

everything is wrong with it,U r meant to stick to one man, you conversation should end at the gisting mode, why xchange phone number ?
if for biz fine, work coleague who will call at respective time and for quick catch up with work or biz fine, but for other talks, keep it face to face.If a girl does that dating they will do same married

crafteck:


So ur point is for her to keep her options open with assistant boyfriends right?

Thats the idealogy of some girls.Keep it opne

Just in case.

Respect bro,some guys thinks with their anus jst like d op

eph12:
Girlfriends, wives should be allowed to have their lives and be friends with whoever they want to be. But if you can't trust your woman not to cross the line, why are you still with her? Guys need to learn how to save themselves from headache and pain by either trusting their woman or not care about some of their actions. What's the point in monitoring and policing your girl up and down? You will only end up pushing her further away and if that's what you want, go ahead then. But just know that you can't control them and you're only asking them to get smarter if you're always in their business.

Does boyfriend now mean fiancé?

TimeMachine:
Nothing is wrong is giving out her numbers and even her name. What is wrong is you, who is insecure.

If you have what it takes to be confident then you be telling her; 'Dont give me a reason to leave you out in the cold world out there'. And she will get the message.

You know why ? Cos you are complete and need no one to complete you, but to complement you. Make her your fantasy work of art, and design her with the best fabrics and trinkets that naira can buy and carry her up like a trophy and she will padlock her pusssy and hand you the key/

Lost you halfway, your female right? You do everything right doesn't stop her from getting carried away, it's 2018 sir/ma.... Very few women of virtue left

Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.

you get sense..until he pays your Bride price nothing is certain..

Yes becus she's not the owner of the telecom network...

Is it proper for a guy in a serious relationship to collect a lady's number If guys cheat and it's not a big deal, with whom should they cheat with Pls let virgins marry virgins and others marry themselves.

Is her boyfriend's number the only number on her phone? She no go chop food again and pursue her dreams because she get one mumu boyfriend?

Shelumiel:
It's a psychological thing; it cannot be helped. The truth here is we all like a second option(even you who is reading this post) in any situation. And since the level of infidelity in Nigeria is mind blowing , it makes sense as a person to test other options and not putting your eggs in one basket.

You are correct, but the question was, is it OK?
ANSWER NO, but if you are on the 1st lane kontinu

Insecurity cause it and she think the boyfriend never marriageably serious.. hehehehe

Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.

You already have the mindset of a hoe.

Even a pastor can't settle just for a congregant's tithe.

One has to extend his/her horizon.

Na greediness

oluwasegun007:
huuurrr see you,


that's called not putting your head in one basket.

even married women give out numbers...

So is it a crime to give out a number to aa guy.. who no wethere that is your helper...you just lose..some woman just think like fish not all man that ask number want to ask you out.

enuk80:
Hello everyone,

I just want to know....why some girls who have serious boyfriends give their number out to another guy who they just met?

She knows she has a boy who is everything to her yet she gives her number out to total stranger who just talk to her on meeting her.

Is this really proper for a girl to give her number out when she knows she has a boyfriend?

Why can't she say no or sorry I have a boyfriend?

****after giving her number out to guys, they start asking her out and this create problems in her relationship.

It's very proper to give it
Your reason is just too lame.
So if favor com locate am e go tell the person sey e get bf...
I think you're not matured enough for a relationship if you think this way.

My girl is doing that shyte...
I have complained but she keep repeating same thing...

I just jejely remove her from my mind as would be wife..

To me, she's just a bed mate Now.

It is not all bad as we take it. What makes it bad is if the girl fails to tell this other guy that she has a bf.



This same shit ended my relationship few months back. My girl got involved with another guy, they got chatting and she denied she had a bf. I kicked her without a second thought.

Lmao....saw that post on Twitter this morning too.

Ladies need to wise up, no dulling.

kennygee:
When the bf hasn't married her?

I stumbled on a post this morning and this is what the clown said and I quote "you can suck my deek for 6 years and support my dreams, I'll still leave you for the love of my life".

It is so hard to be in a relationship these days, you will be being committed not knowing the dude or chic isn't even committed to you.

Just be celibate, share your number, meet people, be cultured and educate yourself.

You'll find someone who loves you enough to commit.

enuk80:
Hello everyone,

I just want to know....why some girls who have serious boyfriends give their number out to another guy who they just met?

She knows she has a boy who is everything to her yet she gives her number out to total stranger who just talk to her on meeting her.

Is this really proper for a girl to give her number out when she knows she has a boyfriend?

Why can't she say no or sorry I have a boyfriend?

****after giving her number out to guys, they start asking her out and this create problems in her relationship.

Only potential cheats gives out their numbers to guys while in a serious relationship.

enuk80:
Hello everyone,

I just want to know....why some girls who have serious boyfriends give their number out to another guy who they just met?

She knows she has a boy who is everything to her yet she gives her number out to total stranger who just talk to her on meeting her.

Is this really proper for a girl to give her number out when she knows she has a boyfriend?

What's that? Even prisoners are allowed to communicate with the outside world. Why would a woman's life shut down because she's in a serious relationship? Even wives communicate with others apart from their husbands. An adult woman should be trusted to make the right decision and know her limits with other people. Restricting her phone contacts is certainly cruel and dehumanizing

Nothing is wrong with getting to know new peeps despite being in a serious relationship with a guy but a lot is wrong with it cos 90% of guys that ask for number wants to have something serious to do with you.

There's nothing wrong with that.


So because i have a boyfriend, i'm not allowed to have friends
Everyone has different things that work out for them, there's no reason to deny a guy my number cus i have a boyfriend.
Numerous assistance and opportunities most times come from strangers whom you barely know, so should we now forfeit these prospects because there's someone in our life who may or may not even be faithful to us

Amberon:
Lmao....saw that post on Twitter this morning too.

Ladies need to wise up, no dulling.

I swear. After supporting dreams for 6 years.