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Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Ezeego1(m): 11:02am On Sep 12, 2018
Funny people everywhere!

These sane people will still be the one to cry and whine when their girlfriend's dumps them.

I pity you broke a5ss niggas in support of girls giving out their numbers randomly

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Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:04am On Sep 12, 2018
sunnyblue26:
How do we know what her response will cos we not be there when she would answer them
if ladies werent rejecting advances from phone toasters then we wont have been seeing some guys coming to nairaland to wail and lament about being rejected by ladies when they collect their phone numbers and try to toast them on the phone cheesy.so u alone know ur girlfriend...if she"s loyal type or the flirting type.trying to control who she talks to is a total waste of time.if u feel she aint loyal then just break up with her and save urself unnecessary high bp.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by 93Miles: 11:06am On Sep 12, 2018
TimeMachine:
Nothing is wrong is giving out her numbers and even her name. What is wrong is you, who is insecure.

If you have what it takes to be confident then you be telling her; 'Dont give me a reason to leave you out in the cold world out there'. And she will get the message.

You know why ? Cos you are complete and need no one to complete you, but to complement you. Make her your fantasy work of art, and design her with the best fabrics and trinkets that naira can buy and carry her up like a trophy and she will padlock her pusssy and hand you the key/


@d bolded.

U are not referin to Nigerian ladies right?
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by EzeIgboNwaChukwu(m): 11:07am On Sep 12, 2018
Lilymatty:

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You are really out of ur senses mr man. Go say that to ur sisters at home, thats if u have any, rubbish [/s]
jobless illiterate. My post said "naija girls" my sisters are all married with kids and are above 40 thus they ain't girls but ladies while it's very obvious you're a worthless desperate girl.
don't bother quoting back cos I won't dignify your stupidity again with a reply
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by stevups(m): 11:10am On Sep 12, 2018
If your intention is not to get married soon, start to give it out to another person.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:15am On Sep 12, 2018
abdeiz:



even if it doesnt why allow the risk...hmmm why are we even taking this matter serious sef
some of una go jus give una sef high blood pressure for nothing cheesy
do u know how many male admirers call a girl on phone in a day? cheesy
even super ugly girls they have their own male admirers grin
men who will blow 10k recharge card calling a girl.so wat of if u shout ursef hoarse and she still collects men"s contacts.
wetin u go come do?
safest thing if u not comfortable with it just break up with her make u no go murder person dauther out of anger and jealousy.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by SOLUTION99(m): 11:18am On Sep 12, 2018
Homeboiy:
But you give yours to girls Abi?
How many time does a girl call
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by GuntersChain(m): 11:21am On Sep 12, 2018
How do girls know who to say yes/no to. girls dey try shaa, in a day do u know how many guys that will come their way for a relationship. How many fit remember the names of guys way don knack dem akpako. How many girls that have boyfriend and still they are registered on all social media site. Abeg wetin dem dey find? They are not babies abeg give your number to whomever you deem fit.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Respect55(m): 11:22am On Sep 12, 2018
enuk80:


This is exactly what I meant. I'm not saying she doesn't need to give her number out but you need to let the guy you are giving yourself number out know you have a boyfriend when he keeps disturbing you. I don't see any big deal for the girl not telling the guy "I'm sorry I have a boyfriend.. Except she doesn't know what she wants "
U r right bro. But unfortunately, most of dem hardly let these new guys know
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Cr7sBabe(f): 11:28am On Sep 12, 2018
sugarsoul:

This girl, I love your spirit, you're an agriculturist too. What course?

Agric
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by erico2k2(m): 11:28am On Sep 12, 2018
Amberon:
Anyone who isn't married is single.
wrong, you aint single if spoken for.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Cyoung4real(m): 11:29am On Sep 12, 2018
Your boyfriend is not your husband!

A guy approached you for a relationship, and you tell him, 'I have a boyfriend', boyfriend ke.
Its very wrong to tell a guy, "I have a boyfriend', when a guy asks you out.
Its totally wrong!
A guy met a Lady of 27 years he really admired, he asked her out and she boldly told him, 'no! Using the word "I have a boyfriend!' "
Jesus!
A boyfriend at 27 years?
A boyfriend has no right over any girl, because he is not yet matured to have a woman, that is why he is a boy.
You can only tell someone, " I am engaged or I am married'.
Telling a man that comes your way you have a boyfriend simply means you are still a kid playing around with a boy.
You can't keep a boyfriend for the rest of your life and expect to be married.
A boy must graduate to a youth, then to a man.
A boy is someone that keeps a girl for fun, a fiancé is someone that want to marry her, and man is that person that finally pay her dowry.
Having a boyfriend that sex you doesn't mean you are in a serious relationship or you have a man that will marry you: it simply means, 'I have a boy that I have fun with'
You can have as many boyfriends at a time, but you can only have one fiancé and one husband.
Dont tie down your destiny with a boy.
Don't tie down your destiny because of ignorant.
Having a boyfriend is just like having a normal friend.
Having an intimate boyfriend is like having a sexual partner, that marriage isn't yet involved.
It is not being in a relationship.
Anybody is free to toast you.
Having sex with a boy doesn't mean you guys are committed for each other
You can be in a sexual relationship and thinks or feels you are in a committed relationship.
Committed relationship starts the moment you both had graduated from that childish fantasy, from that childish fallacy and that is when he finally proposed to you and meet your parents.
Stop being ignorant!
Stop living in ignorance.
You can reject your husband because of a boyfriend.
Don't ever be proud just because you have a boy that sleeps with you..
Anybody can be a boy or girlfriend, but not everyone can be a husband or wife.
You have a boyfriend, and so what?������

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Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Shhhh01(f): 11:30am On Sep 12, 2018
enuk80:
Hello everyone,

I just want to know....why some girls who have serious boyfriends give their number out to another guy who they just met?

She knows she has a boy who is everything to her yet she gives her number out to total stranger who just talk to her on meeting her.

Is this really proper for a girl to give her number out when she knows she has a boyfriend?

Why can't she say no or sorry I have a boyfriend?

****after giving her number out to guys, they start asking her out and this create problems in her relationship.

Yes it is proper for her to give her number to other guys. Why? because u never marry am ni. Na wen u done marry am u fit see it as improper.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by bluefilm: 11:39am On Sep 12, 2018
How many times will this very stupid question make it to the front page? angry angry angry
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Cr7sBabe(f): 11:39am On Sep 12, 2018
marvinsync:


in other words ur saying don't put all ur eggs in one basket

at least keep some guys u can beg from when the need arises



I really hope I don't meet people like u , cause it will quite unfortunate


Amen
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Psoul(m): 11:39am On Sep 12, 2018
Do u knw that the girl u are claiming that u are everything to was someonelse's girlfriend before u had the opportunity to get her number and was able to either convince her or confuse her into becoming ur girlfriend?
If she had refused to share her number, you wouldn't be here claiming that u are everything to her.

Never you cage ur partner. Build trust. Giving her number to another guys means nothing if she is trustworthy.

If everyone is limited to having phone number of one's partner, this life will be so boring.

Do to ur partner what u are supposed to do for him/her to the best of ur ability. Temptations will surely come, but remembering hw good u are to him/her will go a long way restricting her easily falling to it (though some people are chronic cheats no matter what u do for them).
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Cr7sBabe(f): 11:41am On Sep 12, 2018
michael142:

You already have the mindset of a hoe.


okay, if u think so
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Cr7sBabe(f): 11:43am On Sep 12, 2018
Notatribalist:
you get sense..until he pays your Bride price nothing is certain..

exactly, that's what I mean.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by lawalosky(m): 11:46am On Sep 12, 2018
EmpresFIDEL:
I am highly principled not minding your status.
power of media, believe u me dear, the shiver that will go down in ur spine that moment.. u want even no when u will start speaking in tongues... is human nature sha,,,
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by ike007(m): 11:51am On Sep 12, 2018
if you are in a serious relationship , you can still give your number to whoever you damn well please. relationship no be jail sentence na. if the person you gave the number to after telling him/her that you are in a serious relationship persist with asking you out and you don't like it, then cut the person out simple.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by DonBenny77(m): 11:51am On Sep 12, 2018
Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.



All these ones seeking helpers
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Cr7sBabe(f): 11:57am On Sep 12, 2018
DonBenny77:




All these ones seeking helpers


Yea...we all need help. God won't come from heaven to help u. He helps by using humans.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Tonimordred(m): 12:02pm On Sep 12, 2018
Yes she knws dat she is affair wit sum1 den u met her ask of her num den give u whc means she is ready....cos girls wey go do go do if u knw u knw.....ANIMASHAUN
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by valentinos22(m): 12:04pm On Sep 12, 2018
lefulefu:
she can always switch off her phone if her phone keeps ringing while she's having a quality time with u and if later they call and ask her why her fone was off she can say i was having a nice time with my boyfriend or fiancee. Dem no go kill am for tellin dem d truth naucheesy.
is it that you are jobless or what?do you have relatives?is there no important thing in ur life that u are expecting a call about? are u aware u just sounded like " a small geh with a big god" ? why live a life of switching of phone before u can know peace? is ur boyfriend dumb that he will not notice ur phone is switched of whenever u are with him? if u are bereft of ideas, is ur bf also bereft of the alarm bells in a failing relationship?

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Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by openmine(m): 12:09pm On Sep 12, 2018
MissJoy29:
Solution to unfaithfulness you mean?
Yeah sorry... thanks for the correction!
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 12:12pm On Sep 12, 2018
enuk80:


After giving out her number, the guy start disturbing her causing problem in her serious relationship. What is the point of giving out the number when you know the intention of the guy...

You girls should stop saying "you don't know where help will come from. " that's bias
This right here @bolded is the reason why you have problems with her & probably will continue to have even with other people that may come after her. You know why? I will tell you cos I got a lot of insight from that statement @bolded. Let me tell you this:
1) Not every guy who comes into a girl's life is out for sex or even for dating. I for one have had(still have) friends who aren't like that. Same way not every lady who comes into a guy's life is out for money.
2) Maturity is very important. You, your partner, your friends and her friends should only be mature people. It saves a lot of headache.
3) You forgot about existing friends. The ones she had before she met you. What does she do about those ones?
4) Trust is very important in relationships/marriage. That comes from a level of openness and honesty you both have built together. If you don't trust your partner, trust me, you will be miserable.
5) This is the most important. I'm always very sceptical of people who are very controlling & possessive. Chances are that they are doing something much worse. I don't usually take such people serious. You shouldn't expect what you can't give out in relationships. That'd be hypocrisy and deception.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 12:17pm On Sep 12, 2018
enuk80:


After giving out her number, the guy start disturbing her causing problem in her serious relationship. What is the point of giving out the number when you know the intention of the guy...

You girls should stop saying "you don't know where help will come from. " that's bias
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by hush15: 12:19pm On Sep 12, 2018
Olalan:
A girl who is committed in her relationship wouldn't be giving number to guys cause the truth is we all know what the likely intention of the guy is.
BTW it's also applicable to guys you can't be saying you are committed in your relationship yet still trying to make more friends of the opposite sex.

you right but then it depends. its a thin line actually because you cant say because you in a relationship, you wont meet people again however we know when a flirty impression is being made. At that point, you know you want to keep a distance knowing you presently occupied but thats the problem, people like to think about their sex appeal more than trouble and heartaches that comes with it more especially when they in active relationship.

i had a gf who despite all my genuine affections for her would always put our relationship on the line. we quarreled alot then and eventually had to go our seperate ways cos she kept keeping contacts that where flirting all around her. Her arguement was i had security issues which i didnt but you cant keep putting my interest on the line and expect me not to worry. Best is you rather let go than let one girl give you migraine when she isnt sure of what she wants.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Sep 12, 2018
I will now miss important shows and life changing creative meetings because I have a man lol it’s all about what you do projecting on others not everyone takes a number to toast you if you are my husband you have nothing to fear really ...all for 1
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by BrainnewsNg(f): 12:24pm On Sep 12, 2018
TimeMachine:
Nothing is wrong is giving out her numbers and even her name. What is wrong is you, who is insecure.

If you have what it takes to be confident then you be telling her; 'Dont give me a reason to leave you out in the cold world out there'. And she will get the message.

You know why ? Cos you are complete and need no one to complete you, but to complement you. Make her your fantasy work of art, and design her with the best fabrics and trinkets that naira can buy and carry her up like a trophy and she will padlock her pusssy and hand you the key/

Thank you
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by valentinos22(m): 12:26pm On Sep 12, 2018
oluwasegun007:


even married women give out numbers...
bros i think say na only me notice am oh.....married women now worst!

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