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stpat1:
Oga forget that thing. Dont come here sounding like a victim. At 16 years of age you should know your left from your left and should be able to resist and defend yourself. Its not as if you were forcefully raped. How can someone molest you at 16? Were you that dull?
At 16 I was already done with Sec school.

Thread closed.

boyfwend:
Thread closed.

ure not the OP, i am. and besides anyone can share his experience wether its today or sometime tommorow. sexual molestation of the boy child has not stop and as far as it still rears its ugly head in our society, we should still talk about about it and condemn such act in all its entirety

i opened this thread and i havent shared my experience, i think its time i do

luckygeee:
i opened this thread and i havent shared my experience, i think its time i do

waiting

Man, this thread was truly something.

jmichael259:
waiting

wouldn't actually call it a molestation though, but when i was about 13yrs old, i kind of admired a lady who is a friend of my mum. i had no negative thought him mind but i felt she was beautiful. i guess she noticed and one day, she came close to me and try to make a move on me. she approached me and came mouth close to mine, putting her hands over my shoulders. i realised what was happening and gave her a very stern and disgusting look. she quickly adjusted and went her way. my admiration of her died that instant

luckygeee:
wouldn't actually call it a molestation though, but when i was about 13yrs old, i kind of admired a lady who is a friend of my mum. i had no negative thought him mind but i felt she was beautiful. i guess she noticed and one day, she came close to me and try to make a move on me. she approached me and came mouth close to mine, putting her hands over my shoulders. i realised what was happening and gave her a very stern and disgusting look. she quickly adjusted and went her way. my admiration of her died that instant

This your experience wins the medal

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This your experience wins the medal

hahahaha why u talk so haba!

HaileSelassie:
Hmm

When I was 6 or 7, there was this day we were at home and our neighbors started having sex, I think they were kinda related, it was just me, my elder bro, and my elder sis at home, so we caught them having sex and we took turns to peep and it aroused curiosity..
After that incident my sis will convince me to do what we saw them doing... It started little by little.. She would bring home hints and other porn magazines, after reading and getting horn.y , she would make us have sex.. I was beginning to enjoy it , but never new d damage it was doing to me. She later made me give her bj it went on till she got admission and left home, I think I was 8 or 9 by the time.. And was already very sexually aware of my self.. I had this pervert mind, I would sneak in with some female neighbors around my age and would have sex, play with each others genitals.. Back of the flower and all. I had my first and only 3 some at the age of 9, during a church retreat. They were twins , ah those girls go don grow fine now sha..

You had sex with your blood sister?

luckygeee:
wouldn't actually call it a molestation though, but when i was about 13yrs old, i kind of admired a lady who is a friend of my mum. i had no negative thought him mind but i felt she was beautiful. i guess she noticed and one day, she came close to me and try to make a move on me. she approached me and came mouth close to mine, putting her hands over my shoulders. i realised what was happening and gave her a very stern and disgusting look. she quickly adjusted and went her way. my admiration of her died that instant

Good to hear. At 13 you knew what was right or wrong and even handled it perfectly.
But I can see you are in support of a 16 yrs old that is screaming he was molested. I hope you know that a 16 should be strong enough to physically match and female of any age?

I don suspect una.

luckygeee:
ure not the OP, i am. and besides anyone can share his experience wether its today or sometime tommorow. sexual molestation of the boy child has not stop and as far as it still rears its ugly head in our society, we should still talk about about it and condemn such act in all its entirety

Oga why you still dey qoute me?

ranksz:
Good to hear. At 13 you knew what was right or wrong and even handled it perfectly.
But I can see you are in support of a 16 yrs old that is screaming he was molested. I hope you know that a 16 should be strong enough to physically match and female of any age?

I don suspect una.

whether one is 13 or 16, sexual molestation should be outrightly condemned. i was lucky, but other young male child were not as the molester might hold other advantages over them aside the age.

eosigwe:
but all this niggaz saying they can't get over it.. like WTF... how? you were molested at the age of 4,5,6,7 or even 8 and right now you are 28, 29, 30+ and you saying you can't get over it, you hate women, your John Tommy does not erect, you have lost confidence, yen yen yen. That is total bullshit. Total crap. You guys are weak. You have erectile dysfunction. Quit excessive masturbation. Those situations you experienced as a child are not the cause of your sexual problems right now. I was seriously molested by our househelp for 4 years. Between 4 and 8 years. If I hear say I never get over am. So much weakness in the world mehn. Everyone's seeking sympathy.

Modified.

Please for those misquoting me, I do not support such abominable act. Child molestation is totally wrong. Be it a male child or a female child. It's completely wrong. Offenders should be severely punished. But that you were wrongly touched at 4 and you cannot perform your sexual duty at 34, that is not the cause. You should seek treatment.

A messenger of truth.

please sir you need understanding otherwise you might learn the hard way that a person without understanding is a greater pussy....believe me.
please also note that I am not criticising your actions for saying the truth of your matter because it is true you have strength to recover from hard cases in life but your weakness might be very subtle to understand .
criticism of any such can be deadly ...search within.

peace.

Truthsweet:
A messenger of truth.

please sir you need understanding otherwise you might learn the hard way that a person without understanding is a greater pussy....believe me.
please also note that I am not criticising your actions for saying the truth of your matter because it is true you have strength to recover from hard cases in life but your weakness might be very subtle to understand .
criticism of any such can be deadly ...search within.

peace.

you have spoken the sweet truth

toyflare:
Warning! Long post alert!
Men get molested, and we hide it because it's either unbelievable or sounds ridiculous. My life as a kid until adulthood wasn't funny at all. First, it was the neighbor's housemaid, I was about 7 at that time and my parents were busy with work so I had to stay at my neighbor's house after school till our house maid is back from school. One day I went there, the maid called me into the kid's room and took away my clothes, made me lay down and did things I didn't understand as a child. It was confusing, and I really didn't understand what she was doing but I remember she was on top of me unclad swinging back and forth. This continued after a while, then I told mom. She didn't understand me, so I stopped going there myself and our maid told my mom she met me outside when she came back from school. I guess this made her believe me, so I had to wait in school then.

Then I was molested again by my own friend f4cking best friend turned gay! I was 10 then, and my friend was 6 years older. He was enrolled in a boarding school, I guess he learned the shit from there. When he came back he would always come to the house as usual when I noticed when we play, he touched my genitals and I wasn't comfortable with it. One day I went to his house, he was alone and locked up the place, said he wants to show me something in the room and I followed him. He went to the kitchen and brought a knife, told me to take off all my clothes or he will stab me. I was like haha very funny and he started swinging the knife and told me he joined a cult group and I shouldn't dare him. I was scared as fvck, took my clothes off with speed, he ordered me to lay on the bed and started the thing (can't go into detail cause it makes me sick) but I cried so much. Then after it he was like don't worry, you will start enjoying it soon. So I stopped going to his house but he kept coming to my house and I would lock my self inside the room and my dad will come knocking that my friend is here and I should come out. Then he started begging me that his not in any cult group, but was attracted to him. I didn't care to listen to him! So one day he came with a fancy toy and told my Lil bro he got it for him, but won't give it to him unless I followed him home. So my Lil bro asked me to go get the toy for him and I refused so he started crying, I couldn't tell him what was going on. He was very little at that time and wanted his toy, so I agreed to go, but my plan was to take the toy and fight with my friend if he tried anything stupid , so I went with my brother (my friend lives across the street) but when we got there he insisted I come in alone or he won't give it to me. My brother was like okay I'm going home . So I went in and he locked the door, I asked him for the toy and he said he won't give it to me unless I let him touch me again, I said no!!! And headed for the door, he grabbed me and pushed me to the chair I tried pushing him off but he was very much stronger than I was. Long story short, he did it again, gave me to the toy, I went to him, gave it to Lil bro and he hugged me. I went into the room and cried seriously asking God to forgive me. But it didn't stop here, it continued for years until I got older and strong enough and fought him one day before it all ended. Up till now, I still haven't told my brother what really happened.

Then again 3 years ago I was raped by my church group leader! I won't mention the church. This woman is married and older than my own mother! All her 3 kids are schooling in the UK! Her husband is a manager in one of the top oil companies ( Name withheld). At my workplace, I was working in the customer care sector and meet clients daily. Lots of sugar mummy's wanted me to be there son, some told me directly others where hiding about it but opened up later. This woman was just good to me and at the same time always preaching to me about Jesus so I didn't suspect her in any way. She invited me to her church because I just moved to the state recently and didn't have a church at that time. So I started worshipping at her church, so one day she invited me to her house fellowship and I went, after the fellowship she asked me to wait behind so I could help her tidy the place and I did before I left she gave me 4k for TP, I refused but she insisted so I took it. I kept going for house fellowship every week and she always gave me TP (4k, 6k, 10k). Every time I asked her why she gave me so much just for transport, she will say she's encouraging me because she knew I wasn't earning much.
So one day I went for house fellowship, as usual, I stayed behind to arrange the place, then took the plates to the kitchen. I noticed someone walk into the kitchen and turned off the light I was like, ma did you off the light? She said yes. I said okay... But I'm still using it, she didn't answer me and kept walking close to me then suddenly hugged me. I just stood, and was like ma is there any problem, she said no! And kept hugging me. After a while she let me go and I rushed off the kitchen and started gathering my stuff to go home. But when I wanted to open the door, I noticed it was locked! I searched for the keys and it wasn't where it supposed to be. I started calling for her and told her I couldn't find the keys, she said she kept it in her daughter's room I should go there and take it. I went there to look for it but couldn't find the keys, so I told her and she said she's coming to get it but she didn't come out, she was inside her room and refused to answer me. I stood there thinking of what to do next, then my girlfriend started calling me! I told her I just left the fellowship and she was shouting at me that it's almost 11 pm and I'm not back yet, I pleaded with her that we had a meeting blah blah blah. I ended the calling and started calling madam to come open her door let me go home for christ sake. The woman no gree, I called my roommate and told him the situation of things and he told me not to worry, I shouldn't answer my girlfriends call again, he will call her and tell her my phone was stolen and they beat me up but I'm home sleeping.
I was there waiting in the sitting room till past twelve before she opened the door almost unclad and was smiling at me. At this moment I was already angry asked her to open the door let me go and she started shouting at me before I knew it she slapped me! And my body went cold instantly. She said I should forget about going home today except I do what she says. Then the next minute she started begging me that she's sorry, she's lonely and needed someone to talk to. I couldn't say anything, as she was begging her hands were already going inside my Jeans. I was like Ma please I beg you in the name of God please stop let me go. I started preaching to her that she's married and this is evil the woman stood up and started crying that she's sorry it's the devil's hand work.
At that point, I thought everything was fine but I need to leave immediately! She told me the key is in her child's room and where to get it. I didn't trust going into that room alone, but I went anyway, the key wasn't where she said it was. And I as I was about leaving the room to go tell her, she's already at the door, then walked in and closed the door. She told me I can't go, and she hasn't had sex in a long time, so If I don't want her to tell her husband I raped her I should allow her do what she wants or she will call her husband and scream on the phone.
My eyes flashed before my eyes again, I tried talking to her again and she started calling him on the phone and put it on speaker phone so I can see she's not playing about it. I thought of going to prison and losing my job and worse ending up in the news. Then I accepted on the condition we use protection, she already had everything with her, even a lubricant! Then I knew she planned the whole thing. The sad truth is at that time I was still a virgin and never had sex with a woman.

Again sorry for the long post, but before you ask what's the name of this movie I really don't care if you believe it or not! And if you think it has no physiological effect then you're very wrong. I'm very withdrawn and find it extremely difficult to trust anyone. I have no friends! I don't ever near a church or want to hear anything about churches. (she attends a big church and I see her on TV sometimes singing praises). The moment I see an older woman I look at you in disgust, and before you say anything I'm already hating you. It's been years and I'm battling depression, so I need sleeping pills to sleep properly. At some point, I turned to drugs and later stopped because of its effects physiologically.
Being forced against your will to have sex is rape! And men get raped too and I don't think it's fun when it's a woman your mother's age and if that's a fantasy for you then you need to get your brain examined.

1 you claim you were a virgin yet your neighbours house maid had slept with you

2 secondly I do not believe all the other times your male friend raped you was done without consent. why did you continuously go to his house if you didn't want it. my guess is you enjoyed it but the guilt you feel that homosexuality is seen as a sin and a crime in Africa is making you second guess

sorry about the older lady and the house maid , those were the only people I feel you didn't consent too.

generationz:
1 you claim you were a virgin yet your neighbours house maid had slept with you

2 secondly I do not believe all the other times your male friend raped you was done without consent. why did you continuously go to his house if you didn't want it. my guess is you enjoyed it but the guilt you feel that homosexuality is seen as a sin and a crime in Africa is making you second guess

sorry about the older lady and the house maid , those were the only people I feel you didn't consent too.

#shit_happens

There could be cases of emotional blackmail, bullying, seniority, closeness to the family, running errands, watching movies, enticements or parents' orders beyond your control that leaves you suddenly alone with the molester.

P.S: Even if a minor becomes a willing participator or 'enjoys it', it's still called rape. "statutory rape"

jmichael259:
#shit_happens

There could be cases of emotional blackmail, bullying, seniority, closeness to the family, running errands, watching movies, enticements or parents' orders beyond your control that leaves you suddenly alone with the molester.

P.S: Even if a minor becomes a willing participator or 'enjoys it', it's still called rape. "statutory rape"

yeah statutory rape

generationz:
1 you claim you were a virgin yet your neighbours house maid had slept with you

2 secondly I do not believe all the other times your male friend raped you was done without consent. why did you continuously go to his house if you didn't want it. my guess is you enjoyed it but the guilt you feel that homosexuality is seen as a sin and a crime in Africa is making you second guess

sorry about the older lady and the house maid , those were the only people I feel you didn't consent too.

Do you anything about grooming at all?

So much ignorance.

1Sharon:
Do you anything about grooming at all?

So much ignorance.

Do you have insomnia (sleeping disorder)? Cos ur profile status says u can't sleep

Phillian212:
Do you have insomnia (sleeping disorder)? Cos ur profile status says u can't sleep

It's a snapchat filter

Arthurwinner:
I got molested too

Sorry Dear hope you are healing

cooltola:
It was in boarding house one senior prefect forced me to grab his penis after choking me. I was jss2 and he was in ss3

Sorry

Interesting

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Can't even read the stories with a straight face. Perhaps I should start up an NGO for molested males.

seriously sexual molestation goods booth ways. The vad thing about it is not whether you feel pleasure or not but the fact that you never wanted it iin the first place. Men can be raped too. This one of the few instances where men are victims

luckygeee:
ure not the OP, i am. and besides anyone can share his experience wether its today or sometime tommorow. sexual molestation of the boy child has not stop and as far as it still rears its ugly head in our society, we should still talk about about it and condemn such act in all its entirety

very true but this society shelters paedophiles because of one prophet who did it. Did you hear about the surviving Rkelly series. He is has a sexual cult for underage girls

funmisticqueen:
very true but this society shelters paedophiles because of one prophet who did it. Did you hear about the surviving Rkelly series. He is has a sexual cult for underage girls

sorry to say but i think there is a kind of high powered conspiracy against the pied piper of RnB ( R kelly)

luckygeee:
sorry to say but i think there is a kind of high powered conspiracy against the pied piper of RnB ( R kelly)

no smoke without fire. He had a sex video with an underaged girl around 2001

I Don't know how to start but I'll just say I was too, as a child molested by our house maid her name was biodun then we stayed at okeira kekere at ajah and she would tell my elder bros to go play outside and do her thing I told my dad and stepmother this but the witch wouldn't believe me and say gbenue soun well eventually the bitch got preggers and they returned her to the village, till today i avoid women like plague especially the ones bearing biodun and bukola

Story story

Olorunnim:
I Don't know how to start but I'll just say I was too, as a child molested by our house maid her name was biodun then we stayed at okeira kekere at ajah and she would tell my elder bros to go play outside and do her thing I told my dad and stepmother this but the witch wouldn't believe me and say gbenue soun well eventually the bitch got preggers and they returned her to the village, till today i avoid women like plague especially the ones bearing biodun and bukola

Got pregnant by another person ?

deor03:
Got pregnant by another person ?

yeah some thugish dude back this was back In the years was i like 8 years old then.

How far with the judgement of those guys who killed kay low??have they sentenced them??i hope they've not released those guys so that they can go and kill the next victim?


If truely they've released those guys through the backdoor,then indeed nigeria is a zoo and a big disgrace to the human race. As for the lifeless president we have,i know say one day,the useless aboki go comot dey go him village daura.