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Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 11:07am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Some of us are afraid to raise a family. When we remember that marriage is one of the necessary box we are going tick in life we become afraid/ discouraged. Share your fears/thoughts on marriage, someone may have one/two words for you. Married folks come in for encouragement. my fears; am afraid of failing as a mother am afraid of failing as a wife. I want to give my kids the best in life; empower them in/from their early lives I want a happy home but what if there is no resources to empower them (kids)? this is one question that eats me up. 1 Like |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by neonly: 11:14am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Been married for 16 yrs now is not dat bad but d stacks nd demand can be killing Marriage open yur eyes more no bi only love matter character,,discipline, sacrifice etc all matters. Men what am I saying it not easy abeg especially for dis buhari era 11 Likes |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 5:17pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
neonly:wow!! you are wonderful may God give you the strength/fortitude to continue thriving. Amen 3 Likes |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by realtalk19: 7:15pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Eberechi24: Fear of marrying the wrong spouse and having a bad marriage. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by neonly: 7:16pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Eberechi24: Amen my brother 1 Like |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by neonly: 7:16pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Eberechi24: Amen my sister sorry 1 Like |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Uyi168: 7:22pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Fear of buhari coming back after 2019... 10 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 10:04pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Uyi168:lol, I pray he never come back too 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Nobody: 10:32pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
The fear of my wife betraying me and letting my kids live miserably 5 Likes |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Uyi168: 9:37am On Sep 16, 2018 |
Eberechi24:amen o 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Chubhie: 10:40am On Sep 16, 2018 |
Once you are well prepared and armed with the right tools, there's actually nothing to fear about. Not even death itself. Melt away the fear of fear with the greatest force in the universe which is Love. 5 Likes |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 11:27am On Sep 16, 2018 |
ayobamiJR:I pray you meet a faithful woman, amen 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Nobody: 12:03pm On Sep 16, 2018 |
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Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by dankol: 12:04pm On Sep 16, 2018 |
Eberechi24: Op.. I would have hugged you if I saw you now. Exactly my fears.. But mine is even bigger as I factor in the moral decadence of our society where meritocracy is in extinction, the unfair and unequal system we find ourselves in Nigeria where good opportunities are for the rich and connected. I can't bear to have kids in this kind of society where the chances of the. Being raped, abused mentally, physically, psychologically is very high and absolute nothing can be done about it. And for me.. That's failure as a Father. 4 Likes |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 4:42pm On Sep 16, 2018 |
Chubhie:I will keep this in my heart. thank you 1 Like |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 4:49pm On Sep 16, 2018 |
dankol:@ meritocracy, this is Nigeria bro but it shouldn't stop/discouraged you from pushing. the Lord will see you through and you won't fail as a father. your desires shall be perfected |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Nobody: 6:42pm On Sep 16, 2018 |
Fear of my wife changing to become the opposite of whom I married, character-wise and physically. 3 Likes |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Katier00(f): 7:13pm On Sep 16, 2018 |
Fear of being betrayed for the second time, I won't be able to survive it 1 Like |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by aishlove(f): 7:27pm On Sep 16, 2018 |
Hmmmn, my greatest fear is been dead because nothing is permanent in this world death is the only certainty Always praying to God to forgive me of my shortcomings before death take me away 4 Likes |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by dankol: 9:02pm On Sep 16, 2018 |
Eberechi24: Unfortunately, meritocracy matters to me. Because I know what it has deprived me till date. Not even given the opportunity to even prove yourself..lol.. Not give the environment to thrive in your own niche.. I can bear it for myself.. I can't survive it for my children. |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 3:10pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
Ioannes:I pray you meet a woman who stay true to her character & other things you desired. Prepare to be true to yourself too, don't abuse. verbal and physically. 3 Likes |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 3:18pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
[quote author=Katier00 post=71256801]Fear of being betrayed for the second time, I won't be able to survive it[/ quote] aww, sorry to hear about your experience. From your experience I believe you have learnt one or two things that will help you grow stronger. of course there won't a second time. spread your wings and soar like a n eagles, love. |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Nobody: 3:18pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24: Thanks. I am built to be true to myself though. I am Taurus after all. I hope you find the right person too. 1 Like |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 3:18pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
Katier00:ww, sorry to hear about your experience. From your experience I believe you have learnt one or two things that will help you grow stronger. of course there won't a second time. spread your wings and soar like a n eagles, love. |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Nobody: 3:21pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
aishlove: Wow. That's a terrible thing to be afraid of. How do you even leave the house in the morning to work or school of you're afraid of dying? The least thing you should be afraid of is death. I could write you a thesis about why you shouldn't fear death, but I don't want to be too forward. Don't fear death. Check my profile picture. 1 Like |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 3:22pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
Ioannes:amen!! you say Taurus? we are mate "horoscopically" 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 3:27pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
dankol:Despite the system, don't be discouraged. keep doing what you know best. one day posterity will smile on you. I understand your fears very well, there are experiences you had, you won't want to kids have a taste of. Like myself I don't want my kids depends on anybody for essential needs of life (clothes, shelter, feeding, luxury). I know how it feels to lack these benefits and dangers it exposes one to if you are not contented |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by KanwuliaExtra: 3:41pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
Poverty! The worst of all fears! 2 Likes |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Nobody: 4:03pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24: Oh really! Wow. That's cool. Taurus are the best ever. 1 Like |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Winter4: 4:38pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
My fears... Falling to grass again Bad marriage Failing my children Failing as a first child The pressure is real...but I choose to believe! |
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Katier00(f): 7:02pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24:thanks sweetie. I learnt a lot from the union and am moving on to greater things now.. 2 Likes |
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