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SirMichael1:
Honestly, I didn't think you posses such intelligence.

Such sarcasm. You do not possess as much intelligence as I do.

KOPT33:
The money really isn't an issue. I spend more on night-outs with my guys.

The main issue I had is the complete lack of tact. Like, she didn't even feel the need to put up a good impression for me.

Many girls have something to offer, but finding them means that one must go through all these hoops.

i am a good girl..... I have something to offer

KOPT33:
The money really isn't an issue. I spend more on night-outs with my guys.

The main issue I had is the complete lack of tact. Like, she didn't even feel the need to put up a good impression for me.

Many girls have something to offer, but finding them means that one must go through all these hoops.

lol
and that was how chisom lost a good guy

I like your maturity. I like how you handled the issue and didn't see it as a mean to desecrate chisoms vagina like most immature nairaland guys boast about.

it was a short and easy method of testing her and she failed woefully

some girls see going out on a date with a generous guy as a means of taking revenge for those guys who slept with them without them receiving any benefit

just like guys take getting a girl to sleep with them for what they spend is a way to be paid back for what they lost

like you said, this is a small price to pay to find your Queen.

I remember the story of your ex you posted on nairaland. personally I feel she was a rare gem. finding such a lady again in Nigeria will take the grace of God. Even me can't do some of the things she did.


a quick advice; try not to put any chick you meet on the same pedestal as your ex. everybody can't be the same.

"Isi ewu is calling me"
Chaiii

UyaiIncomparabl:

Such sarcasm. You do not possess as much intelligence as I do.

Usually, people who try to compare themselves with others have esteem issues. Low self-esteem makes you want to trump others when clearly you're beneath their stratum.

Do not expressly impress yourself, I'm light years ahead.

Are you as interesting offline as you are online? I'm considering my options.

auxanosolar:
i am a good girl..... I have something to offer

If you are not offering only solar solutions, then I agree with you.

Kinggnicole:
"Isi ewu is calling me"
Chaiii

I kid you not, I will tell this story till the day I die. It's so surreal.

generationz:
lol
and that was how chisom lost a good guy

I like your maturity. I like how you handled the issue and didn't see it as a mean to desecrate chisoms vagina like most immature nairaland guys boast about.

it was a short and easy method of testing her and she failed woefully

some girls see going out on a date with a generous guy as a means of taking revenge for those guys who slept with them without them receiving any benefit

just like guys take getting a girl to sleep with them for what they spend is a way to be paid back for what they lost

like you said, this is a small price to pay to find your Queen.

I remember the story of your ex you posted on nairaland. personally I feel she was a rare gem. finding such a lady again in Nigeria will take the grace of God. Even me can't do some of the things she did.


a quick advice: try not to put any chick you meet on the same pedestal as your ex. everybody can't be the same.

That last line. I think it perfectly sums my mindset. I am too trusting. My mom always told I only see the good in people. I will try to keep an open mind and not project past experiences unto the new people I meet.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Such sarcasm. You do not possess as much intelligence as I do.

Baby girl, it is not a dic.k measuring contest. You really shouldn't pay much attention to trolls. I think your station is way above that. Cheers.

KOPT33:
That last line. I think it perfectly sums my mindset. I am too trusting. My mom always told I only see the good in people. I will try to keep an open mind and not project past experiences unto the new people I meet.

that's good

BrokenCock:
ya mad! U r a confam toto-boi joor! I don read finish n na u wan show off, why must u ask her what she wants wen u r to suggest what she shd tk? Kai! Naija guys n show off ehn.

U even rush invite am come ur house, the way she came obviously showed she no get u at heart but she no wan loose, na food be her problem. Yeah! Food,u shd have sensed that at the ATM

I wanted to write a scathing comment, but then I reconsidered when I remembered you might be a kid somewhere who has no idea how adults do their thing.

the circles I move in spend money to build rapport.

Let me tell you a story.

In December 2017, I met an older lady ( 38 - 43 yrs) at the mall. I don't really remember how we got talking, but one thing led to another and she offered to buy me lunch. We went to a restaurant nearby, ate, and exchanged contacts. The next week I was invited to eat Sunday rice with her family. We built such an immense rapport so much that today when she needs work done which relates to my expertise, she calls me for advice. Through her I met many wonderful people and grew my network by more than 20 contacts.

What are the lessons here?

1. Do not be afraid to spend money on people you like
2. A person whom you invite to your house will share a deep and lasting rapport with you

Brightgem:
Hi, the pay me for taking me out part sha? If there was any Bush around, you should have plucked cane and flug sense and decency into her brain.

Anyways I started following you when u talked about your rise through writing on sites like freelancer. Please I have a novella I want an editor to look at asap. Do you know anyone? Or could you? I want an edit for grammar, punctuation and plot, say any inconsistencies and feedback on what the story feels like e.g interesting to read. Epp me abeg! I know it's not a free service.

That 'give me money' was one of the worst things I have ever heard. Truth be told, if that part hadn't happened, I might I have overlooked everyother thing, but that was just too much to bear.

I sent you a PM regarding your request. We might be able to work something out. Please, get back to me. Thanks.

revontuli:
You sir, managed to date a pig in human skin. I can almost hear her oink and gobble down heaps of food nonstop. Good that you ditched that gluttonous sow before she ate you too!

Absolutely dodged a bullet. In our email exchanges, this episode spurred my complaints.

That girl was just too disgusting, damn. Hope you're well.

KOPT33:
I wanted to write a scathing comment, but then I reconsidered when I remembered you might be a kid somewhere who has no idea how adults do their thing.

the circles I move in spend money to build rapport.

Let me tell you a story.

In December 2017, I met an older lady ( 38 - 43 yrs) at the mall. I don't really remember how we got talking, but one thing led to another and she offered to buy me lunch. We went to a restaurant nearby, ate, and exchanged contacts. The next week I was invited to eat Sunday rice with her family. We built such an immense rapport so much that today when she needs work done which relates to my expertise, she calls me for advice. Through her I met many wonderful people and grew my network by more than 20 contacts.

What are the lessons here?

1. Do not be afraid to spend money on people you like
2. A person whom you invite to your house will share a deep and lasting rapport with you
Blah blah blah blah

aboi!!! U dey yan rust!

BrokenCock:
aboi!!! U dey yan rust!

Your brain is probably broken. Just like your cock.

KOPT33:
That 'give me money' was one of the worst things I have ever heard. Truth be told, if that part hadn't happened, I might I have overlooked everyother thing, but that was just too much to bear.

I sent you a PM regarding your request. We might be able to work something out. Please, get back to me. Thanks.

yes please. I saw it. I want to rework the story so it's a bit on pause for now. I will get back when ready. Thanks.

KOPT33:
Your brain is probably broken. Just like your cock.

like ur own. Just that ur own makes u yan rust

KOPT33:
If you are not offering only solar solutions, then I agree with you.

lol......na u sabi

Brightgem:
Gosh! Such a vivid description! Wicked! Girls wnt stop embarrassing fellow girls.

Oh this is not vivid, you gotta see the battle scenes I write!

KOPT33:
Baby girl, it is not a dic.k measuring contest. You really shouldn't pay much attention to trolls. I think your station is way above that. Cheers.

OK.

KOPT33:
Do not tell me pele, please. I am not hurt in any way What's all the pele for?

Op it's either you are saying this to feel good about your life or you are one confused little prick. In your post, you kept mentioning specific amounts you spent on food and how they far exceeded what you would normally spend on yourself. You even said at a stage that you spent beyond your limit. If you we'rent hurt in anyway, why did you say it's worst date of your life? Now people are sympathizing with you and you are acting all cool like it's no big deal. Who are you really trying to impress?


You also come across as one lonely loser with no social life. Why would you just meet a lady at the ATM and you start trying to befriend her? Don't you have other girls within your social circle that you could have picked from? You are just desperate for female validation and the ladies can sense this which is why they are taking advantage.


My advice is to come off your high horse and do a proper introspection to understand if you truly deserve love from the girls you are approaching and trying to trick with expensive dates that you can hardly afford. Look for girls of your grade that will appreciate you for who you really are and not going after arm candies who will place you where you rightly belong. What that girl did to you is reality check in my view. She doesn't see you as deserving of her company, which is why she kept ignoring you during the date and asked to be paid in the end. It's a cold world out there and nobody owes you affection or tact as you put it.

Curvinus:
Op it's either you are saying this to feel good about your life or you are one confused little prick. In your post, you kept mentioning specific amounts you spent on food and how they far exceeded what you would normally spend on yourself. You even said at a stage that you spent beyond your limit. If you we'rent hurt in anyway, why did you say it's worst date of your life? Now people are sympathizing with you and you are acting all cool like it's no big deal. Who are you really trying to impress?


You also come across as one lonely loser with no social life. Why would you just meet a lady at the ATM and you start trying to befriend her? Don't you have other girls within your social circle that you could have picked from? You are just desperate for female validation and the ladies can sense this which is why they are taking advantage.


My advice is to come off your high horse and do a proper introspection to understand if you truly deserve love from the girls you are approaching and trying to trick with expensive dates that you can hardly afford. Look for girls of your grade that will appreciate you for who you really are and not going after arm candies who will place you where you rightly belong. What that girl did to you is reality check in my view. She doesn't see you as deserving of her company, which is why she kept ignoring you during the date and asked to be paid in the end. It's a cold world out there and nobody owes you affection or tact as you put it.

You certainly did not make any dent on me. First, you come at with me your self-righteousness, and then you think you can give advise. Does it work that way?

That was just one experience, I like an adventure. I can meet a girl anywhere, and it wouldn't be any of your concern.

If you live a sheltered and orderly life, do you not think that there might be people who thrive in chaos? My point is don't project your leanings on other people.

You say I could hardly afford those dates: perhaps you were right. I am sure you would have been happier if I had given in to unnecessary demands. The wise ones who have been to this thread have seen beyond my words. You sadly did not.

If you need something and you are not willing to spend on it, what then is the essence of your moeny?

Please, swerve, thank you. The people who understand me, understand me. Don't force yourself if you cannot comprehend. I doubt you're even out of your father's house.

SWERVE!

UyaiIncomparabl:
That's an eyesore. I'm a Lady and I'm not gonna be biased in anyway. I feel ashamed when I read stuffs about dates gone wrong with a shaming character exhibited from girls. It's annoying.

I do not pass my limits when I'm invited for dates. In fact, I get scared of going to dates. I do not need someone to have a wrong perception of me or to use me as a centre of discussion amongst friends. I order what you order or even less. This story right here is what you get when you follow leeches, broke and hungry girls. Ladies need to give themselves self respect. Well, KOPT33, you bleeped up, immediately she amounted those damn bills, you shoulda shared it amongst you two.

I don't want to be too judgmental, but if I find out that as a girl, you have nothing or less to offer, you possess those attributes, I completely cut off. I can't be carrying two burdey ale friends.

this isn't you four years later. You've completely changed. Who bewitched you?

limcar:
this isn't you four years later. You've completely changed. Who bewitched you?

That’s the beauty of change. People change.

UyaiIncomparabl:
That’s the beauty of change. People change.

are you domineering

limcar:
are you domineering

Kinda.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Kinda.

i knew it. Just be submissive

limcar:
i knew it. Just be submissive

Lol.

Osalobua, na who dey like this post na? Biko, stop liking them. You guys are haunting me. I can’t believe I once wrote such an immature comment as that once upon a time. I’m cringing badly right now. I didn’t even finish reading what I wrote because na flop. Please, these likes are haunting me. Stop. 😩

UyaiIncomparabl:
Osalobua, na who dey like this post na? Biko, stop liking them. You guys are haunting me. I can’t believe I once wrote such an immature comment as that once upon a time. I’m cringing badly right now. I didn’t even finish reading what I wrote because na flop. Please, these likes are haunting me. Stop. 😩

lemme like this one too.

this one and devil na the same,they came to kill(waste resources) and destroy (waste you)..


break up with thaa hooo.... Post Malone

Tenrack:
lemme like this one too.

Stop haunting me. 😫