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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by mailemy(m): 11:14am On Oct 11, 2018
You said it all. If you are not ready and don't intend marrying her,better to let her go than deceiving her.
UncleNnamdi:
Mr Man. There's nothing to discuss about.

She's ready and want to get married as a woman she is, that's her major priority and goal in that relationship for now, and I believe you have yours aswell.

Path ways if you aren't ready to marry her yet so that she'll settle down with someone else, while you get busy with your hustling priority until you are ready to settle down.

-Don't delay her and end up not marrying her.
-Also, don't let her drag and emotionally blackmail you into what you are not ready for.

It's a simple stuff. No time for Yama Yama.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 11:20am On Oct 11, 2018
Genniez:
lol..born twice for real..joke apart it is ridiculous, how would she cope with such li knowing the child isn't yours hmmm woman devil na real oo..My born twice bae grin

Mayb she'll feel guilty later..I don't know..thank God I don't wanna know..but years would have gone by..and she would have fulfilled her aim of not giving birth out of wedlock...cos I guess that's what drove her to do that...I can only imagine the shame..her mum and dad her deaconess and elder in church respectively....if I don't marry a virgin...not that I'm looking for a virgin though...I'm gonna do secrete paternity test for all my kids..I won't let one woman go and package android for me as iPhone
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Dapsy07: 11:26am On Oct 11, 2018
daben1:
at 24, I bet you this girl is not psychologically, mentally and emotionally fit for marriage, one if these girls that you'll marry and in the middle of the night they'll start crying, when you ask them what happened? they'll tell you nothing and in the morning they'll start crying again that when she's was crying in the night, you didn't pet her, you continued sleeping...
e b like say u sabi my girl dat year...na ha hobby b dat..anytime she start dis ha cry cry tin...e dey do me like make I jus carry my bag and travel

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by deavicky(m): 11:26am On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:


The desperation dey fear me. Maybe she get problem wey I never know.
give me her number let me talk to her for or me.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Genniez(f): 11:39am On Oct 11, 2018
1StopRudeness:
...if I don't marry a virgin...not that I'm looking for a virgin though...I'm gonna do secrete paternity test for all my kids..I won't let one woman go and package android for me as iPhone
omg..lolllll.so funny..android as iPhone kai u get am for funny words..great job tho.. Congrats on your narrow escape grin
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by ImaIma1(f): 11:44am On Oct 11, 2018
lefulefu:

deadline? shocked shocked shocked
hmm its like one malaysian big boy is already proposing to her and she"s already giving u one last chance


That is where they will see you lefulefu. It is not always about more money. She could just be using that one to push the guy.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by OLUWABIG(m): 11:52am On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:


Am telling you bro. The worse thing is that while my mum is telling her to cool down, her mum is telling me about tradition.

bro which kain mother in-law be that tradition koh mtchww
tradition as blocked some peoples brain fah!!

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by ozoneymcm: 11:54am On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:


Am telling you bro. The worse thing is that while my mum is telling her to cool down, her mum is telling me about tradition.
If you let her go, it may come back to haunt you. You may have to shift ground a little. It's not actually fair that she has to wait indefinitely. You may not be ready but you still should have a plan she can flow with

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by kinzation(m): 12:08pm On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:


This is not chop and clean mouth ooo. Funny enough we haven't had sex before as untrue as it may sound. Am not keen on that.
buh you're cooking small indomie before rice done abi

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by rosalieene(f): 12:10pm On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.
you are even saying much.

close your legs, whatever the outcome is, you won't loose at all. well except for the waste of emotions and time.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by rosalieene(f): 12:15pm On Oct 11, 2018
funmisticqueen:
fvck you nigga, see if he is dating her for almost a year and he doesn't know what he wants to do with her then he is not man enough and a waste of time. In my opinion, if he doesn't want to marry her, he should let her go.

THIS IS WHY I DON'T APPROVE OF DATING YOUR AGE MATES, THEY STILL HAVEN'T FIGURED OUT THEIR LIVES YET. OLDER MEN HAVE THEIR SHIT PULLED TOGETHER

Though i dont get why she wants to settle down at 25 when life is just starting. it is not a yoruba thing, it is an illiterate thing.
really?
25yrs is the best to get married.

is it when she gets to 30 and be jumping from one church to another that's the best?

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 12:20pm On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.

But you will get bleeped grin
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by homirefacuny(m): 12:23pm On Oct 11, 2018
daben1:
at 24, I bet you this girl is not psychologically, mentally and emotionally fit for marriage, one if these girls that you'll marry and in the middle of the night they'll start crying, when you ask them what happened? they'll tell you nothing and in the morning they'll start crying again that when she's was crying in the night, you didn't pet her, you continued sleeping...

Lord Jesus grin grin

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Moloso(m): 12:27pm On Oct 11, 2018
Hmm what a controversy... bro.. pray ask God for directions on this matter...
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 12:32pm On Oct 11, 2018
Abegi, if you love her you won't want to quit the relationship because of this..
The whole story, i can see you don't want to get married now,
Do not waste her time,women don't have much time, let her go.
Your type till 50 years, you are still single hustling money for wedding

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 12:33pm On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.

"sex".
your response reeks of it, as if "sex" happens in all relationships.
some are much disciplined and maintain a mutual "no sex till marriaqe" nexus.

so why the asinine conclusion?!
who says they've been fuckinq each other to stupor?!
you're even wronq, they've not been "fuckinq", so its you spewinq "nonsense of the hiqhest order".

you seem discreetly bitter and conspicuously misquided.
qo wise'up qirl.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by zubydave(m): 1:15pm On Oct 11, 2018
dingbang:
Sit her down and talk to sense into her
I really hate this part of nairaland where people would say "sit her down bla bla bla". They say it like the person reporting the problem has been sitting her up. undecided

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by AceVentura: 1:16pm On Oct 11, 2018
Get married when you're ready.

A girl broke up with me in 2006 because "someone" was asking for her hand in marriage & I wasn't even ready for myself not to talk about her.

I let her go & still got married before her in 2012.

Marriage no be child's play. You have to be financially ready/ stable to have a good marriage. Move on my brother.

I rest my case.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by InstantFunds: 1:31pm On Oct 11, 2018
Oh
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by darlenese(f): 1:31pm On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:


This is not chop and clean mouth ooo. Funny enough we haven't had sex before as untrue as it may sound. Am not keen on that.



oh now I understand why she is desperate to get married.


she is tired of celibacy. before the place will rotten

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by biggie73(m): 1:32pm On Oct 11, 2018
If you love her, why postpone the evil day?
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by condomuser: 1:33pm On Oct 11, 2018
Swallow 300g of tramadol and 200 grams of viagra then fvck her and she will be ok
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by darlenese(f): 1:36pm On Oct 11, 2018
op you don't want marriage
you dont want sex

what the FuRK are u doing in a relationship?

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Eaugusta(f): 1:37pm On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:


Make she follow go Malaysia naaa... As I be small African boy. But then again she knows am the type that can't be oppressed. Am not rich neither am I a show guy, but if Malaysia big boys pop 20 Hennessey, I go fit pop with legit money. If Malaysia big boy buy am Brazilian hair 500k, I go fit buy 20k and e go fine pass the 500k lol
I like your self confidence
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by jattopeter(m): 2:04pm On Oct 11, 2018
HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM Are you sure? This is Nigeria see how we are living now.
LaBozz:


This is not chop and clean mouth ooo. Funny enough we haven't had sex before as untrue as it may sound. Am not keen on that.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Lucifer66(m): 2:08pm On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:
I have been dating this girl for almost a year now and things have been going smooth with us until recently. I just don't know were the desperation for marriage came from. Now we barely have a normal conversation without the marriage issue coming up.

Though I don't have a steady job per say, I am a business man and am able to make myself a good some of money every week which isn't so bad. She is also working and makes around 60k every month. I have been telling her to relax a little bit so we can plan properly and get ourselves ready for the life time journey together, but she won't listen.

Her own is that in her place once a girl has graduated from school everyone is expecting her to get married. She will even bring up issues of the young girls getting married in her church and she is the only single were she works even though she is actually the youngest in her office.

She is just 24 years of age and almost 25 so she keeps saying she set a deadline for herself to get married before 25. The worse part is that sometimes she tries to threaten me that so many guys are asking for her hand in marriage but she doesn't want them, its me she wants.

This whole desperation is getting on my nerve and I really don't want to rush into marriage because her people want her to get married. So am thinking of calling the relationship off so that she can go and marry one of those men she said is asking her hand in marriage and I will wish her all the best.

Just so you know, am not trying to be tribalistic here, she is Yoruba and said that's how things are done in their culture so I don't know if that's true or she is just making all that up.
If she continues like this, Break up with her. Marriage isn't a joke nor a competition.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Lucifer66(m): 2:14pm On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.
3 months before marriage? YOU'RE A FOOL
Me, I know am marrying at 35 and no olosho can stop me.

Unless I really dig her.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 2:18pm On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:
I have been dating this girl for almost a year now and things have been going smooth with us until recently. I just don't know were the desperation for marriage came from. Now we barely have a normal conversation without the marriage issue coming up.

Though I don't have a steady job per say, I am a business man and am able to make myself a good some of money every week which isn't so bad. She is also working and makes around 60k every month. I have been telling her to relax a little bit so we can plan properly and get ourselves ready for the life time journey together, but she won't listen.

Her own is that in her place once a girl has graduated from school everyone is expecting her to get married. She will even bring up issues of the young girls getting married in her church and she is the only single were she works even though she is actually the youngest in her office.

She is just 24 years of age and almost 25 so she keeps saying she set a deadline for herself to get married before 25. The worse part is that sometimes she tries to threaten me that so many guys are asking for her hand in marriage but she doesn't want them, its me she wants.

This whole desperation is getting on my nerve and I really don't want to rush into marriage because her people want her to get married. So am thinking of calling the relationship off so that she can go and marry one of those men she said is asking her hand in marriage and I will wish her all the best.

Just so you know, am not trying to be tribalistic here, she is Yoruba and said that's how things are done in their culture so I don't know if that's true or she is just making all that up.

Your problem has nothing to do with tribe but common sense.
You don't have a steady job and you want to bear a lifetime burden of an individual, who I believe is not thinking properly and logically.
At 24,marriage should be the last thing on your mind. But with Nigerian women, we all know their quest to secure a lifetime of benefits at the expense of the man, in this scam called Marriage.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Fourwinds: 2:19pm On Oct 11, 2018
Oyindidi:
Marry her na, you want chop clean mouth fold blokos run I. Go marry her
hmmmm.... Okokobiokor

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Fourwinds: 2:21pm On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:


This is not chop and clean mouth ooo. Funny enough we haven't had sex before as untrue as it may sound. Am not keen on that.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Fourwinds: 2:31pm On Oct 11, 2018
Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Joyzuaz: 2:32pm On Oct 11, 2018
Don't mind him after wasting her time till she is 30,nl boys will now tag her midnight newspaper. Dump her asap so that guys that are ready will have even when she moves on,u will still tag her as hoelosho ,gold digger or small girl with big God at least it is better than evening newspaper tag.smh for all these small boys on nl.

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