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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by ifko: 10:00am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Jiang:Bro i love ur comment just that u didn't tell d guy to drop her number for guys that are ready to marry yhis yeal. Labozz pls drop d babe number here |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by marvinsync(m): 10:01am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Jamariwolff: hahahaha, u go marry urself with all these shakara and u didn't see when the op later said he hasn't had sex 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Jesusgirl92(f): 10:03am On Oct 11, 2018 |
LaBozz:if u ain't ready, don't let her rush you into it. This her "many guys are asking me to marry them" talk makes me wonder if she really loves you or she just wants the "Mrs" title... Let her go... Let it not seem like you are "hindering" her dreams. Glad you're part of the "team no sex till marriage" crew... At least she won't say "you used and dumped" her when u've had you fill... Wish you the very best brov. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by midehi2(f): 10:05am On Oct 11, 2018 |
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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by bibicici(f): 10:05am On Oct 11, 2018 |
To be honest sir, you don't love her enough to marry her. If you do, you'd at least get her engaged and set a time. It could be 2 years from now, that's enough time to save up. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by midehi2(f): 10:06am On Oct 11, 2018 |
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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by midehi2(f): 10:07am On Oct 11, 2018 |
milemimi93:create jare 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by NWABUKA007(m): 10:08am On Oct 11, 2018 |
WOW, it's good to be here.
like seriously I've learnt a lot while reading comments.
I was thinking about something like this too.
but somehow I've been able to reach a conclusion. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Jesusgirl92(f): 10:09am On Oct 11, 2018 |
milemimi93:tell me something 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Elderay(m): 10:09am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Guy let ur source of income solid enough before u get married o actually there's blessing in marriage but heaven help those who help themselves.. my own gf even chop belle for me when I refused to dance to her tone...but we saw hell bcoz my source of income was weak and I even loss my job imagine..follow ur mind o. |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by midehi2(f): 10:09am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Jamariwolff:yes yes yes |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by valentinos22(m): 10:10am On Oct 11, 2018 |
obviously u are not yet ready! plus the girl is having a toaster she is secretly considering but that she loves u is the only reason she is forewarning you. cozz if she was into you alone, she will spend her time helping you grow instead of pushing u into what you both cannot sustain financially.... take it or leave it. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by midehi2(f): 10:11am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Jamariwolff:
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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 10:11am On Oct 11, 2018 |
pocohantas: So u can give good advice like this...?? |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by justmi1: 10:13am On Oct 11, 2018 |
I feel most comments here are from guys and we are not seeing it from her ( a young lady's) perspective. We would all agree that these days, many guys are only out to waste a girl's time which they don't have, psychologically. She may not be convinced that you would end up marrying her after so much wait, and for her to be willing to settle down at her age is commendable, her contemporaries would rather be jumping from a relationship to another. About finances, it's very important to be financially sustainable before marriage, however money or wealth is not determined by being single or married - you can be married and still hustle. Plan your family- you can marry and have kids later, after all that's your fear - that you are not ready to bring up kids, but you want to have the sex without commitment- " after all girls full town". On her approach, I think she didn't address the matter well, especially with the threats of other guys asking her for marriage but her goal of marrying at a certain age is intact for her reasons. Finally, if you really love her, talk with her, and give her assurance, a timeline. You cannot make all your money before you get married and you may still lose all your money after marriage, otherwise let her go. The only requirement for marriage is, the right partner, a mutual plan for the future and commitment. My opinion. 8 Likes |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 10:15am On Oct 11, 2018 |
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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by midehi2(f): 10:17am On Oct 11, 2018 |
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Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 10:19am On Oct 11, 2018 |
bibicici: You are talking of love, is she behaving like someone that loves the man either..?? You don't threaten a man just so that he can do what u want.. and then say if he didn't do it means he doesn't love u...what kind of wayo love is that?...this kinda lady will use sex, and other bargaining means even in marriage to make the man do things he won't do...or haven't u heard of ladies say stuff like " chose between me and your mother, or your brother, family etc....is marriage by December a life /death situation for her.? That's not how to cajole marriage out of a man....there are better and loving ways to do it.. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by obyno1011(m): 10:20am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Oga, People set life targets for themselves, and this is one of hers. She wants marriage and you cannot delay her. You are a business man, and making reasonable income while she's also working with reasonable income. The only way I would have advised you otherwise is if you found something bad about her. If you are clinically compatible, please start marriage preparations, it may take you one year but you will be glad you did. If you aren't ready, free her. I love her sincerity, |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by erico2k2(m): 10:23am On Oct 11, 2018 |
UncleNnamdi:Izza zimple azzat 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by AbuMikey(m): 10:27am On Oct 11, 2018 |
LaBozz: I like this! |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Tonytonex(m): 10:31am On Oct 11, 2018 |
lefulefu:LOL |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by fynex(m): 10:33am On Oct 11, 2018 |
LaBozz: It's not so it's done in Yoruba It may be the pressure she's having from home or the fear of you telling her it's over etc. You just need to sit her down and talk And if she's still insisting I think it would be better for you to let her go. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by frozen70(f): 10:36am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Marriage is like a woman who is planning to carry pregnancy She must have considered somany things before embarking on the journey and hope to get to a successful delivery She is ready for marriage but you are not yet Don't let her rush you into what you are not fully prepared for Marriage is the only school that the certificate(marriage certificate) will be giving to you before commencing lectures If you are not really really ready for marriage, you might rush out or get depressed Her tribe shouldn't be an issue if you love her From the look of things she is going into marriage because her friends are there, even she doesn't have idea of what marriage is She is very young to seek else where if she thinks it's an easy journey I will advice you seat her down, tell her that you love her but you are not really prepared for marriage now Be specific that it will take you another 5yrs or more to talk and plan marriage And you would not want to hold her down incase she finds a suitor. She might be unhappy with this but is the best approach Women are wise and smartter when it comes to issues of marriage because its their domain |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Mannygoulding(m): 10:41am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Sir you're making enough money weekly; You're comfortable she's earning 60k enough to make y'all comfy y'all are young and still there's prospect lurking so wetin u dey wait for?? millions?? lol...you go wait tire. Go find out marriages that last, how they started, you'll find out that they started with little or nothing and they stand the test of time. Oya read the story of Olu and Joke Silva. Now the ones that waited for money hitherto married late or they end in divorce. there's nothing in ur story except ure not ready to marry, then free her and find someone who isn't ready. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by kilokeys(m): 10:42am On Oct 11, 2018 |
LaBozz: oga go for ur size that can wait.. 18 ish me sef that is 5 years older than u cant date 25 now. cos i am not ready |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Nobody: 10:42am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Jamariwolff: Everything fûck fûck fûck... Did u read when the OP said they have never fûcked b4? You girls always based everything on fûcking... Okay now as OP no dey fûck her for the one year nkor where u want pass argue the matter now! 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by boyjo: 10:50am On Oct 11, 2018 |
LaBozz: Then break up with her naw. You no want, other people want, let her go please. Tell am say you no do again, simple sturvs! |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Bolubaba(m): 10:50am On Oct 11, 2018 |
I experienced something similar years back. She was 23 and wanted to settle down while i needed 3 years to run a program to make our standard of living better than what she was seeing. I told her to wait that she was still young but she refused and broke up with me and got married to a guy in a space of 7 month. Now We do chat ones in while but she as not for ones chat with me without saying she wished she was still single. While attending to some of my client in the lab, her mother brought one of their family member to the lab for diagnosis. Her mother was shocked to see me there because i was working outside the region before being transfered down. We exchanged greetings, she ended up saying i've been unfair that i could have been coming to their place ones in a while just to say hello. In a nut shell, my ex is now 27 married with a son (3 years) and am also married with a son (3 month+). You know whats best for you and your happiness is in your own hands, so make the choice you would always be happy you made. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by laborious(m): 10:55am On Oct 11, 2018 |
I am passing thru this same shit....abi na me even post am?? Op what is the girls name ...dm me make e no be wetin i dey think... Siggy on point 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by Genniez(f): 11:02am On Oct 11, 2018 |
1StopRudeness:lol..born twice for real..joke apart it is ridiculous, how would she cope with such li knowing the child isn't yours hmmm woman devil na real oo..My born twice bae 1 Like |
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