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First you have to work on yourself as a man and get that manly confidence and esteem. You're scared of loosing her cuz you believe you may not see someone else as pretty as she is.

Never you give any girl more attention than she give to you

While going into relationship,put it in mind that nothing good last forever

while you hope for the best, always expect the worst

And why the hell will you be in a relationship where you always find yourself begging ur partner!

Since she ask for space, do yourself good by deleting her contact and anything relating to her on your phone or in your obsession .If she ever come back don't just rush to take her back be the man and place her on a watch list for a while

if she doesn't come back, live your life as the happiest man on earth.

samysmoothfresh:
Last time i saw a lady create a thread to complain, admit their fear and/or ask for relationship advice on here: 2yrs ago


last time i saw a guy..................: 25mins ago


this is literally the 8th similar thread i've seen in 4days


these women have finally found the lock to men's brain, heart and destiny....


It's an invasion!!!!!

I dey tell u. But in all honestly men outnumber women by almost 4:1 on NL. If you want to see woman lamenting about the woes men unleash on their lives go to sdk blog. I have to admit that reading their men-induced problems gives me great joy, it helps me wash away the bitterness that comes with reading different tales of men being taken on a ride by women on here.

In the end it's a 50-50 something.

But the truth is that in the dating game, the odds are usually stacked against the male and it cuts across all species. NatGeo Wild will convince you better.

Cold world!

mgtow:
You're gonna lose her either way bro. At least the probability is quite high that you guys will still end up breaking up. This is realistically speaking. Make peace with that and you'll be just fine. Remember that nothing lasts forever so enjoy that toto as the incumbent that you is and pass that hoè to the next nigga in line when you're done.

#mgtow

no offence, i knw most guys will roast me for this but must every relattionship b about sex?

clive2u:
no offence, i knw most guys will roast me for this but must every relattionship b about sex?

No it mustn't be about sex, but please tell me you have at least been fùcking her good all this while... or is it a no-sex relationship?

Be honest.

mgtow:
No it mustn't be about sex, but please tell me you have at least been fùcking her good all this while... or is it a no-sex relationship?

Be honest.

yeah
i've had a yes sex relationship in a while n it all went sour
trying smething new

clive2u:
yeah
i've had a yes sex relationship in a while n it all went sour
trying smething new

So you haven't fùcked this girl yet and you are scared of losing her. Why don't you fùck her first and let her go to hell after that if she so pleases?

Please any girl you date make sure you fùck the bejeezus out of her. That's your pension right there. You can look back and say 'well at least I fùcked her good'.

If you no fúck am and she still dump you (which she will eventually) na double loss o.

mgtow:
So you haven't fùcked this girl yet and you are scared of losing her. Why don't you fùck her first and let her go to hell after that if she so pleases?

Please any girl you date make sure you fùck the bejeezus out of her. That's your pension right there. You can look back and say 'well at least I fùcked her good'.

If you no fúck am and she still dump you (which she will eventually) na double loss o.

to me not fucking her aint a lost, loosing her is the loss. she's a good person, dnt wanna b responsible in making her bad

clive2u:
to me not fucking her aint a lost, loosing her is the loss. she's a good person, dnt wanna b responsible in making her bad

If you don't treat her like a bad bìtch in bed, some other nigga will bruv . He will spank her phat àss so hard his fingerprints will show, and slowly he will format her device with his piakantus until you become nothing but a vague memory.

Even the good girl got a freaky side. And I sure say you dey spend money on am... try fùck am before your tenure expire my guy. Odikwa important, forget laugh. Fùck her and pass her on to the nigga standing behind you.

All na one love.

Liliyann:
The only way to ensure you don't lose her is to love her completely!!
Satisfy her needs!!
Make sure she doesn't lack financially!!
Always be there for her!!
Don't wait for her to ask before you give her anything, surprise her all the time with material gifts and expensive trip!!
Don't be stingy to spend on your girl coz she ain't cheap, she is your wife to be, your love and companion!!
Where I come from, women are known as ORIAKU!!

Op do all this things and watch your life transform for good.

Bla bla bla. Bor borin boring boriiing. your joy so much depends on the dough huh? Materialistic momma! I hail thee

Buy her a car

Liliyann:
The only way to ensure you don't lose her is to love her completely!!
Satisfy her needs!!
Make sure she doesn't lack financially!!
Always be there for her!!
Don't wait for her to ask before you give her anything, surprise her all the time with material gifts and expensive trip!!
Don't be stingy to spend on your girl coz she ain't cheap, she is your wife to be, your love and companion!!
Where I come from, women are known as ORIAKU!!

Op do all this things and watch your life transform for good.

After reading this your comments I can't hold myself than to laugh my ass out... Lolz. You sound like the girlfriend he is talking about. Just give me everything I asked for and I will stay.... Funny you. I just pity the guy in advanced.

mgtow:
If you don't treat her like a bad bìtch in bed, some other nigga will bruv . He will spank her phat àss so hard his fingerprints will show, and slowly he will format her device with his piakantus until you become nothing but a vague memory.

Even the good girl got a freaky side. And I sure say you dey spend money on am... try fùck am before your tenure expire my guy. Odikwa important, forget laugh. Fùck her and pass her on to the nigga standing behind you.

All na one love.

very funny, thanks anyway. all na advice

There's a very paranoid feeling when you're getting ready to marry. One truth is you can't trust your wife, You can only ask God to help you with the process. From your own end, Don't flirt too because you're the man. At this point, You have liberty to choose now what you want or later in life when you lost the liberty to choose again.

STAY WISE....ITS GUWOP

Liliyann:
The only way to ensure you don't lose her is to love her completely!!
Satisfy her needs!!
Make sure she doesn't lack financially!!
Always be there for her!!
Don't wait for her to ask before you give her anything, surprise her all the time with material gifts and expensive trip!!
Don't be stingy to spend on your girl coz she ain't cheap, she is your wife to be, your love and companion!!
Where I come from, women are known as ORIAKU!!

Op do all this things and watch your life transform for good.

mbaise deadly girls aff come again o op pls dont listen to her oooo

MJBOLT:

HARDDON

HARDDON? Nah, https://datingdrill.com

Liliyann:
The only way to ensure you don't lose her is to love her completely!!
Satisfy her needs!!
Make sure she doesn't lack financially!!
Always be there for her!!
Don't wait for her to ask before you give her anything, surprise her all the time with material gifts and expensive trip!!
Don't be stingy to spend on your girl coz she ain't cheap, she is your wife to be, your love and companion!!
Where I come from, women are known as ORIAKU!!

Op do all this things and watch your life transform for good.

Yes, Mr Adviser, wehdone... He should kukuma give her his atm card.. Yeye... I do not even know why the rule now is when you have a girlfriend, you muat spend on her.. That is thrash.. SHE IS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY BIKONU! she is just your girlfriend not your wife! You give her things when you are sincerely moved to because you appreciate the relationship and vice versa.. Whether the relationship lasts or not, that is how love should be.. It is not COMPULSORY... relationship teaches you how to express love, learning how to put the other person's interest first, to be better when you get married.. Love isnt about money, sex, feelings, no! Its about "I care" "Self sacrificing spirit in other things aside money!" "I accept You although no one loves nonsense".... MEN! your girlfriends are not your responsibility.. WOMEN! your boyfriends are not your responsibility... But they sure need your support and loyalty!!!

clive2u:
pls everyone i'l need a realistic advice here and from people that have actually been in love......
i love this girl so much i didnt expect it to be this much at first but when i found out she has everything i ever wanted in a girl/lady it got out of hand, now i am always afraid of loosing her and she knws about it. she loves me a lot but when she hangs out with other guys (which am totally cool with) she changes, she starts finding anything i do that use to make her smile annoying. i dnt know how to get angry. so i find myslf apologizing and trying to make peace bt she still gives me the cold shoulder till she has her fill.
i am really confused on what to do and i wish anyone that understands me should help pls. i dont wanna loose her bt i dont wanna loose myslf too but am finding it hard balance both. even one good advice will b appreciated, thank u in advance......
ps: is it right for a girlfriend to ask the boyfriend for space?

At times we may not be able to control some certain things within us

If she has demanded for a space please give her that space

Probably you are choking her or the relationship is choking her

But in all, prepare your mind and give her space and by the time she comes back to fill the space, it's left for you to accept it or tell her too that you too need a breathing space