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I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by clive2u(m): 9:25pm On Oct 17, 2018
pls everyone i'l need a realistic advice here and from people that have actually been in love......
i love this girl so much i didnt expect it to be this much at first but when i found out she has everything i ever wanted in a girl/lady it got out of hand, now i am always afraid of loosing her and she knws about it. she loves me a lot but when she hangs out with other guys (which am totally cool with) she changes, she starts finding anything i do that use to make her smile annoying. i dnt know how to get angry. so i find myslf apologizing and trying to make peace bt she still gives me the cold shoulder till she has her fill.
i am really confused on what to do and i wish anyone that understands me should help pls. i dont wanna loose her bt i dont wanna loose myslf too but am finding it hard balance both. even one good advice will b appreciated, thank u in advance......
ps: is it right for a girlfriend to ask the boyfriend for space?
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by MJBOLT: 9:31pm On Oct 17, 2018
HARDDON
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Nobody: 9:37pm On Oct 17, 2018
If You Don't Lose Her Can You Accept To Lose Yourself Can't You Love With Your Brain Not Heart That Karma Is Done With You Shikena Why Are You Fooling Yourself

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by IamD18: 9:40pm On Oct 17, 2018
It irritates me seeing men go this low for worthless creatures.

So pathetic angry

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Liliyann(f): 9:42pm On Oct 17, 2018
The only way to ensure you don't lose her is to love her completely!!
Satisfy her needs!!
Make sure she doesn't lack financially!!
Always be there for her!!
Don't wait for her to ask before you give her anything, surprise her all the time with material gifts and expensive trip!!
Don't be stingy to spend on your girl coz she ain't cheap, she is your wife to be, your love and companion!!
Where I come from, women are known as ORIAKU!!

Op do all this things and watch your life transform for good.

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Kingosytex(m): 9:45pm On Oct 17, 2018
"you are afraid of losing your girlfriend". i advise you to liberate yourself from such psychological slavery, if you must be afraid of something, there are better things to be afraid of than just losing a mere gf

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by clive2u(m): 9:46pm On Oct 17, 2018
IamD18:
It irritates me seeing men go this low for worthless creatures.

So pathetic angry
trust me i was ones like u. its not low, its just life

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Triniti(m): 9:47pm On Oct 17, 2018
Do you have a job?......I’m asking you this question because I don’t understand why you have decided to build your world around a girl that’s going to disappoint you soon. The reason why you disgust her after hanging out with other guys is because she sees you as someone below her standard. Get busy bro, fill your mind with other productive ventures that will impact positively in your life
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by clive2u(m): 9:48pm On Oct 17, 2018
Kingosytex:
"you are afraid of losing your girlfriend". i advise you to liberate yourself from such psychological slavery, if you must be afraid of something, there are better things to be afraid of than just losing a mere gf
am not proud of it but i wish the fear vanishes
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by samysmoothfresh: 9:48pm On Oct 17, 2018
Last time i saw a lady create a thread to complain, admit their fear and/or ask for relationship advice on here: 2yrs ago


last time i saw a guy..................: 25mins ago


this is literally the 8th similar thread i've seen in 4days


these women have finally found the lock to men's brain, heart and destiny....


It's an invasion!!!!!

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by ultimate77(m): 9:49pm On Oct 17, 2018
My man, its high time you understand that you cannot keep allowing your emotions to lead you.
You have allowed yourself into that circle and it is very difficult to get out of it. You can only if you determine.


Now bro, a woman aint worth killing ones self for, you haven't really found who you really are. Trust me if you do, you will start being yourself.


This is my advice, Any woman who asks you to give her space generally is seen as tired of you and wants to try something new. If you keep begging trying to get her back, that keeps getting her upset.


Just try pull yourself together, if she said that to you, do not respond to it, give her space and don't get anywhere closer.
Do not call, do not chat her up. Just be on your own. If you have a job, focus on your job, if you can flirt, flirt with any lady you want to. Just try forgetting her. And the rest will be story. You might end up getting someone grown up more than her while flirting.

Any woman who tells me she needs chance or space, will get a whole lot of it even more for sale.
Matures guys don't beg a woman. Nigga, you can't beg a woman to date you na.. Haba!
This thing should be to her own interest huh undecided bro, be a man, try and give her the whole apace she demanded

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by IamD18: 9:50pm On Oct 17, 2018
clive2u:
trust me i was ones like u. its not low, its just life

Go get married if you need a woman in your life, not girlfriend shiiiiit. Be a man and face realities, ask yourself what that girl is adding to your life and tell if there's anything apart from pussay.

The only set of women that worth your stress and care is your mum, sister, daughter and wife, not prostitutes parading as girlfriends.

Go and marry if you want to enjoy the benefits of a woman. Make una try dey get sense.

Tufiakwa!

Spit on girlfriend pussay worshippers.

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by kodded(m): 9:51pm On Oct 17, 2018
Liliyann:
The only way to ensure you don't lose her is to love her completely!!
Satisfy her needs!!
Make sure she doesn't lack financially!!
Always be there for her!!
Don't wait for her to ask before you give her anything, surprise her all the time with material gifts and expensive trip!!
Don't be stingy to spend on your girl coz she ain't cheap, she is your wife to be, your love and companion!!
Where I come from, women are known as ORIAKU!!

Op do all this things and watch your life transform for good.


follow this piece of crap and get ready to call yourself her ex undecided

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by clive2u(m): 9:51pm On Oct 17, 2018
Triniti:
Do you have a job?......I’m asking you this question because I don’t understand why you have decided to build your world around a girl that’s going to disappoint you soon. The reason why you disgust her after hanging out with other guys is because she sees you as someone below her standard. Get busy bro, fill your mind with other productive ventures that will impact positively in your life
not looking down on some of those guys but i think am bettr than them, am working in a bank tho am not happy working there
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by ultimate77(m): 9:52pm On Oct 17, 2018
Liliyann:
The only way to ensure you don't lose her is to love her completely!!
Satisfy her needs!!
Make sure she doesn't lack financially!!
Always be there for her!!
Don't wait for her to ask before you give her anything, surprise her all the time with material gifts and expensive trip!!
Don't be stingy to spend on your girl coz she ain't cheap, she is your wife to be, your love and companion!!
Where I come from, women are known as ORIAKU!!

Op do all this things and watch your life transform for good.

ORIAKU GBU KWA GI DIA. all this broke ass slay sheediyots scavenging the city. This should be a nigga in need. undecided

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by sLentlover7778(m): 9:54pm On Oct 17, 2018
hope she is sacred of losing you too... if she is not then you don't need her..


mean while the most important part is that you have to make she has been Aticulated if not give am red card one time.. .

#Atiku2019

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by clive2u(m): 9:55pm On Oct 17, 2018
ultimate77:
My man, its high time you understand that you cannot keep allowing your emotions to lead you.
You have allowed yourself into that circle and it is very difficult to get out of it. You can only if you determine.


Now bro, a woman aint worth killing ones self for, you haven't really found who you really are. Trust me if you do, you will start being yourself.


This is my advice, Any woman who asks you to give her space generally is seen as tired of you and wants to try something new. If you keep begging trying to get her back, that keeps getting her upset.


Just try pull yourself together, if she said that to you, do not respond to it, give her space and don't get anywhere closer.
Do not call, do not chat her up. Just be on your own. If you have a job, focus on your job, if you can flirt, flirt with any lady you want to. Just try forgetting her. And the rest will be story. You might end up getting someone grown up more than her while flirting.

Any woman who tells me she needs chance or space, will get a whole lot of it even more for sale.
Matures guys don't beg a woman. Nigga, you can't beg a woman to date you na.. Haba!
This thing should be to her own interest huh undecided bro, be a man, try and give her the whole apace she demanded
i think this is the best advice i've received so far. i dont beg her to date. me tho but u helped a whole lot
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Mikolion87(m): 9:56pm On Oct 17, 2018
You asked if it's right for one's girlfriend to ask for space, my guess is that she's beginning to feel choked by your excessive show of affection.. My guy, I don't really know your age but if you're still in uni or has not got anything tangible doing, I'll advice you focus on achieving something worthwhile for yourself. Pay less attention to her (in fact, give her some space) while you plunge all your energy in the pursuit of your dreams and see her come after you.. You'll then be the one asking for some space. There's always time for everything

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Nobody: 9:58pm On Oct 17, 2018
The only thing I remembered being afraid to lose is ATIKU. Get someone you can confide in and get rest of mind as well.
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by ultimate77(m): 9:59pm On Oct 17, 2018
clive2u:
i think this is the best advice i've received so far. i dont beg her to date. me tho but u helped a whole lot

Always welcomed nigga.. We got each others back cool

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by tegrianonigltd(m): 9:59pm On Oct 17, 2018
Liliyann:
The only way to ensure you don't lose her is to love her completely!!
Satisfy her needs!!
Make sure she doesn't lack financially!!
Always be there for her!!
Don't wait for her to ask before you give her anything, surprise her all the time with material gifts and expensive trip!!
Don't be stingy to spend on your girl coz she ain't cheap, she is your wife to be, your love and companion!!
Where I come from, women are known as ORIAKU!!

Op do all this things and watch your life transform for good.



Stop misleading the young man, he is emotionally weak that need to be schooled on how to handle women like us the emotionally fit.
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Nobody: 10:02pm On Oct 17, 2018
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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Triniti(m): 10:02pm On Oct 17, 2018
clive2u:
not looking down on some of those guys but i think am bettr than them, am working in a bank tho am not happy working there
I guess you are no longer a teenager, why tie your happiness in a girl? Find happiness in other things not this particular girl, she’s going to break your heart soon.........I mean real soon

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by clive2u(m): 10:05pm On Oct 17, 2018
Triniti:
I guess you are no longer a teenager, why tie your happiness in a girl? Find happiness in other things not this particular girl, she’s going to break your heart soon.........I mean real soon
thanks mate, i appreciate
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Saff(f): 10:12pm On Oct 17, 2018
Tbh when a man is so frightened to lose a woman, that is the minute he loses all his power in a relationship. He becomes very vulnerable and a target for manipulation. I believe if you must love someone, you must protect yourself at all costs and apply sense. Every single damn human being is replaceable no matter how startling they may seem. The only human you cannot replace is your mother. So no matter what anybody says to you on this thread, nothing will work because you’re already too deep in. Your heart is doing all the thinking, and until something dramatic happens you will have this fragile mental attitude. Pain teaches us the greatest life lessons. Experience is the best teacher, and that is where you will learn from.

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by clive2u(m): 10:27pm On Oct 17, 2018
Saff:
Tbh when a man is so frightened to lose a woman, that is the minute he loses all his power in a relationship. He becomes very vulnerable and a target for manipulation. I believe if you must love someone, you must protect yourself at all costs and apply sense. Every single damn human being is replaceable no matter how startling they may seem. The only human you cannot replace is your mother. So no matter what anybody says to you on this thread, nothing will work because you’re already too deep in. Your heart is doing all the thinking, and until something dramatic happens you will have this fragile mental attitude. Pain teaches us the greatest life lessons. Experience is the best teacher, and that is where you will learn from.
thanks so much
i appreciate
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by clive2u(m): 10:29pm On Oct 17, 2018
Saff:
Tbh when a man is so frightened to lose a woman, that is the minute he loses all his power in a relationship. He becomes very vulnerable and a target for manipulation. I believe if you must love someone, you must protect yourself at all costs and apply sense. Every single damn human being is replaceable no matter how startling they may seem. The only human you cannot replace is your mother. So no matter what anybody says to you on this thread, nothing will work because you’re already too deep in. Your heart is doing all the thinking, and until something dramatic happens you will have this fragile mental attitude. Pain teaches us the greatest life lessons. Experience is the best teacher, and that is where you will learn from.
thanks a million, i appreciate. u nailed it. cos i've tried to out myslf but cant. i'll try harder or that something dramatic will help me, the hurt will fade overtime
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Nobody: 11:24pm On Oct 17, 2018
clive2u:
pls everyone i'l need a realistic advice here and from people that have actually been in love......
i love this girl so much i didnt expect it to be this much at first but when i found out she has everything i ever wanted in a girl/lady it got out of hand, now i am always afraid of loosing her and she knws about it. she loves me a lot but when she hangs out with other guys (which am totally cool with) she changes, she starts finding anything i do that use to make her smile annoying. i dnt know how to get angry. so i find myslf apologizing and trying to make peace bt she still gives me the cold shoulder till she has her fill.
i am really confused on what to do and i wish anyone that understands me should help pls. i dont wanna loose her bt i dont wanna loose myslf too but am finding it hard balance both. even one good advice will b appreciated, thank u in advance......
ps: is it right for a girlfriend to ask the boyfriend for space?

The last time a girl wanted space, my relationship status changed, congrats bro welcome to the singles club.

My honest advice no one is meant to be, if it doesn't work move on, not that hard.
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Marshalxv(m): 11:25pm On Oct 17, 2018
Liliyann:
The only way to ensure you don't lose her is to love her completely!!
Satisfy her needs!!
Make sure she doesn't lack financially!!
Always be there for her!!
Don't wait for her to ask before you give her anything, surprise her all the time with material gifts and expensive trip!!
Don't be stingy to spend on your girl coz she ain't cheap, she is your wife to be, your love and companion!!
Where I come from, women are known as ORIAKU!!

Op do all this things and watch your life transform for good.

Well done o.
Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by Marshalxv(m): 11:31pm On Oct 17, 2018
IamD18:


Go get married if you need a woman in your life, not girlfriend shiiiiit. Be a man and face realities, ask yourself what that girl is adding to your life and tell if there's anything apart from pussay.

The only set of women that worth your stress and care is your mum, sister, daughter and wife, not prostitutes parading as girlfriends.

Go and marry if you want to enjoy the benefits of a woman. Make una try dey get sense.

Tufiakwa!

Spit on girlfriend pussay worshippers.


The thing tire me o, sometimes I wonder if these guys are under spell

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by mgtow: 11:49pm On Oct 17, 2018
You're gonna lose her either way bro. At least the probability is quite high that you guys will still end up breaking up. This is realistically speaking. Make peace with that and you'll be just fine. Remember that nothing lasts forever so enjoy that toto as the incumbent that you is and pass that hoè to the next nigga in line when you're done.

#mgtow

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Re: I'm Afraid Of Loosing My Girlfriend, What Should I Do To Get Rid Of Such Fear by mgtow: 11:52pm On Oct 17, 2018
Liliyann:
The only way to ensure you don't lose her is to love her completely!!
Satisfy her needs!!
Make sure she doesn't lack financially!!
Always be there for her!!
Don't wait for her to ask before you give her anything, surprise her all the time with material gifts and expensive trip!!
Don't be stingy to spend on your girl coz she ain't cheap, she is your wife to be, your love and companion!!
Where I come from, women are known as ORIAKU!!

Op do all this things and watch your life transform for good.

You are very stewpid, you poverty stricken retaŕd.

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