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CHoccolaTE:
This was nice to read.
Accepting a guy like you as the head would not be difficult at all

Most men see leadership as having the final say in everything regarding decision making. Any major step cannot be taken in the house unless they agree to it. I wanted to know if you are one of those men that was why I asked.

You're a fraud..

Elder0001:
You're a fraud..

You're a bigger fraud. I didn't say I wanted to do it, I said it won't be hard.
Learn to fvcking read.

CHoccolaTE:
You're a bigger fraud. I didn't say I wanted to do it, I said it won't be hard.
Learn to fvcking read.

I regret answering your earlier question..

Submission is a combination of Sub and mission. The ordained structure for marriage is such that there must be a head and that should be the man. Before marriage, a man must have a vision for his life and therefore his family. So that there is one voice in a home, there has to be a vision both the man and woman are pursuing together. Homes like this are usually blissful and purposeful and they avoid Di-vision (where there are 2 visions).

Back to what Submission therefore means- it means a woman must be ready to submit her ‘mission’ or vision to that of the man. Her mission becomes a subset of the man’s once they are married. Such that she’s committed to the family’s vision/ goals and help her husband achieve them together, as a helpmate.

That’s my simple submission.