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Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Arthurwinner(m): 11:51am On Oct 28, 2018
[quote author=Oreofepeters post=72475695]Then what advice are you seeking? If you are capable of catering for yourself and the baby, why the worry?..[/quote

Have some certain level I wana ascertain, think it might way stuffs down
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by royalair(m): 11:52am On Oct 28, 2018
Papa Junior grin grin
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Arthurwinner(m): 11:52am On Oct 28, 2018
Randy100:
Four years ago it happened to me. I am now a father to a four year old sweet girl. It is a good thing cos you will now be more responsible.

How did you do it bro?
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Arthurwinner(m): 11:54am On Oct 28, 2018
rame18:






marry her.

I think you are bemused, try reading the stuff again
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Arthurwinner(m): 11:56am On Oct 28, 2018
Ken4agent:
She showed up at your place......u didn't think u r ready?
U commence romance session ....u didn't think u r ready?
U gain eretion while she was hot...u didn't think u r ready?
U had unprotected sex with a woman ovulating...u didn't think u r ready?
U discharge all the acamu in her with pleasure.....u didn't think u r ready?
She lastly broke the news......still u didn't think u r ready?

Guy the earlier you start getting ready the better for you two. Register her with a maternity clinic, start thinking of a good name for the pressures child, start saving cash for the hospital bills and lastly start shoping for baby things

Congratulations!!!!! U soon be a father so be ready!!!

Lol, are you a comedian
Thanks for cracking ma shit up abit
But next time talk like a man, never know it will turn out like this
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Oreofepeters: 12:01pm On Oct 28, 2018
[quote author=Arthurwinner post=72476260][/quote]if you think the pregnancy may hinder you financially then tell her to take drug and flush afterall it hasn't germinate to fully embryo...
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by samguru(m): 12:04pm On Oct 28, 2018
Guy you f**k up, you just gave all these feminists chance to score cheap points on your case.

Just take it easy and abortion is not a solution, if you are not ready to be a father, allow her to give birth and give her the custody of the child while you relocate from that area to an unknown area. My brother dont fail to discharge your responsibilities as a father to that child and let your mum knows about this.

That lady should be flogged too for trapping you
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Oreofepeters: 12:04pm On Oct 28, 2018
more reason why poverty is so prevalent in africa, we give birth unplanned hence the child suffers..

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Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Raalsalghul: 12:06pm On Oct 28, 2018
Oreofepeters:
more reason why poverty is so prevalent in africa, we give birth unplanned hence the child suffers..
Exactly. The Op's story is how it all starts. angry angry angry angry
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Yoshy: 12:07pm On Oct 28, 2018
Arthurwinner:


Lol, are you a comedian
Thanks for cracking ma shit up abit
But next time talk like a man, never know it will turn out like this

See my friend, you better start behaving like a man yourself. Take her to hospital or buy pregnancy kit at nearest pharmacy store. Get her tested, if its confirmed, congrats, you better keep that child and don't even think of committing murder.

And yes, if you can have unprotected sex, I think you're ready for anything.

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Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Pearl05(f): 12:12pm On Oct 28, 2018
Arthurwinner:

But this is not a solution


What kind of solution are you looking for? Please give the woman money to go register for antenatal . you have 8 months to prepare the ground for the arrival of your baby. Make sure you don't stress the mother.

Carry wine and some elders go pay for bride's price. Congratulations.

Inform us once the baby is born. Some of us will come for visit.

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Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by AryEmber(f): 12:15pm On Oct 28, 2018
I don't blame you but that girlfriend of yours. Anyways, I would say keep it, babies are sometimes blessing. Moreover, you are not going to do much other than providing money and other little things.
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by rame18(f): 12:16pm On Oct 28, 2018
Arthurwinner:


I think you are bemused, try reading the stuff again





you said she is pregnant and I said you should marry her, anything wrong about that advice?
cool

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Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by pureheartlady(f): 12:17pm On Oct 28, 2018
Ken4agent:
She showed up at your place......u didn't think u r ready?
U commence romance session ....u didn't think u r ready?
U gain eretion while she was hot...u didn't think u r ready?
U had unprotected sex with a woman ovulating...u didn't think u r ready?
U discharge all the acamu in her with pleasure.....u didn't think u r ready?
She lastly broke the news......still u didn't think u r ready?

Guy the earlier you start getting ready the better for you two. Register her with a maternity clinic, start thinking of a good name for the pressures child, start saving cash for the hospital bills and lastly start shoping for baby things

Congratulations!!!!! U soon be a father so be ready!!!
grin grin
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by AryEmber(f): 12:21pm On Oct 28, 2018
Pearl05:



What kind of solution are you looking for? Please give the woman money to go register for antenatal . you have 8 months to prepare the ground for the arrival of your baby. Make sure you don't stress the mother.

Carry wine and some elders go pay for bride's price. Congratulations.

Inform us once the baby is born. Some of us will come for visit.
I taya for him oh. Abortion, he talk say conscience no go gree, marriage is not an option. Abeg bros, wetin you want self?
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Arthurwinner(m): 12:21pm On Oct 28, 2018
rame18:






you said she is pregnant and I said you should marry her, anything wrong about that advice?
cool

Tryna get shits in place for now, isn't da gona pull it down?
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Arthurwinner(m): 12:23pm On Oct 28, 2018
Pearl05:



What kind of solution are you looking for? Please give the woman money to go register for antenatal . you have 8 months to prepare the ground for the arrival of your baby. Make sure you don't stress the mother.

Carry wine and some elders go pay for bride's price. Congratulations.

Inform us once the baby is born. Some of us will come for visit.

I think I'm still not into that marriage stuff, never want to cheat on ma wife
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Arthurwinner(m): 12:25pm On Oct 28, 2018
[quote author=Yoshy post=72476603]

See my friend, you better start behaving like a man yourself. Take her to hospital or buy pregnancy kit at nearest pharmacy store. Get her tested, if its confirmed, congrats, you better keep that child and don't even think of committing murder.

And yes, if you can have unprotected sex, I think you're ready for anything.

[/quote

She went for a test already , I saw confirmation
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Arthurwinner(m): 12:26pm On Oct 28, 2018
Oreofepeters:
if you think the pregnancy may hinder you financially then tell her to take drug and flush afterall it hasn't germinate to fully embryo...

Leme think
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by rame18(f): 12:27pm On Oct 28, 2018
Arthurwinner:


Tryna get shits in place for now, isn't da gona pull it down?





you for no shook ya preek at all o.

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Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Randy100: 12:28pm On Oct 28, 2018
Arthurwinner:


How did you do it bro?
I accepted it in good faith. It won't be easy. I thank God that I had finished schooling when it happened. I worked my ass off so as to take care of my sweet girl. Don't worry you will survive.
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by rame18(f): 12:29pm On Oct 28, 2018
Oreofepeters:
if you think the pregnancy may hinder you financially then tell her to take drug and flush afterall it hasn't germinate to fully embryo...





what kind of advice is this? please don't encourage him to commit murder.
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Nobody: 12:31pm On Oct 28, 2018
kill the girl...SIMPLE
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Oreofepeters: 12:42pm On Oct 28, 2018
rame18:






what kind of advice is this? please don't encourage him to commit murder.
I wouldn't like to shove my opinion down your throat, but for me, that's the best option. it's better you abort it than birthing and watch it suffer. That's not a , murder(stand to be corrected) afterall I waste a lot of sperm sometimes when having shower. Have I committed murder too?

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Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Yoshy: 12:46pm On Oct 28, 2018
[quote author=Arthurwinner post=72477051][/quote]


You have an existing fear of she playing games. So O advice you monitor the process and it's confirmed..own up, there is nothing bad in bringing a beautiful soul to the world.
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Arthurwinner(m): 1:27pm On Oct 28, 2018
Yoshy:



You have an existing fear of she playing games. So O advice you monitor the process and it's confirmed..own up, there is nothing bad in bringing a beautiful soul to the world.

Thanks
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Arthurwinner(m): 1:28pm On Oct 28, 2018
Randy100:
I accepted it in good faith. It won't be easy. I thank God that I had finished schooling when it happened. I worked my ass off so as to take care of my sweet girl. Don't worry you will survive.

Thanks
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Agboki: 1:29pm On Oct 28, 2018
Arthurwinner:
She went for a test already , I saw confirmation


grin grin grin grin
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by emitheo3: 12:08am On Oct 29, 2018
funmisticqueen:
if they both do not want the baby,let them contact me
Why should they do?
You want to carry out the abortion for them?
Or you want the child?
I'm confused.
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by emitheo3: 12:09am On Oct 29, 2018
Arthurwinner:


Have always preached against abortion, ma conscience will not allow me
Then congrats...you're now a father!
Be responsible.
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by myettiallah: 12:40am On Oct 29, 2018
Arthurwinner:


I think you are bemused, try reading the stuff again
Are u alright at all?
U asked for a solution and someone suggested u marry, but u are instead insulting dem??
Wat do u really want from nairalanders?
When u were pounding her raw, u allowed ur sense go to ur dick.
Re: My Gf Just Told Me She's Pregnant, How Do I Deal With This? by Arthurwinner(m): 7:07am On Oct 29, 2018
AryEmber:
I don't blame you but that girlfriend of yours. Anyways, I would say keep it, babies are sometimes blessing. Moreover, you are not going to do much other than providing money and other little things.

Thanks

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