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newdawn2017:
it's something serious my dear, it's a form of sexual abuse. He is doing it without her consent, it wrong.

tossie101:
But she wake up and kept calm many times.
So it's her consent.
If it's not why hasn't she clearly remember rejected it.. She is enjoying it too.

Anyways the story has been reported to be false.

rame18:
you mean you sleep that deep without feeling a dick down there?? you need more help than you hubby.

HenryDion:
Op, this is a sort of fetish and my advice for you is to experiment that aspect.. Sit him down and talk things over.. If he loves sex while you're asleep, then help him out and play dead.. Explore his fantasy and he will never look outside.

If you try to change him, it won't work... Regular sex might not be enough. Be open minded and explore!

Reverse: If he finds sleeping women arousing, then you need to watch out for your kids and house help. A man that lacks control will also slide it in when he sees his daughter sleeping..

Shalom!

inscreAF:
Ive been married 5 years, the sex is good and usually regular (providing we're not fighting) but my husband has been having sex with me while I'm asleep. I know it sounds crazy! Im a very heavy sleeper and he's taking advantage of it. On a few occasions I've awoke to him fingering me and about to put it in, if he knows I'm waking up, he stops. I am all for being woke up for sex but what is driving me crazy is that he stops every time and pretends like he isn't doing anything. I hate sleeping in clothes, I'm a naked sleeper but I don't think that is an open invitation right?

Last weekend, I woke up again to him trying to get his dick in me, he froze until I acted like I was still asleep, I wanted to see how far this was going to go. I pretended to sleep and wake up 3 different times, everytime I "woke up" he pulled out, heart racing and held me in position real tight until I fell back asleep, finally he finished all over me and went to get up to get a towel and I said.... was that good for you? HE TRIED TO ACT LIKE HE WAS ASLEEP!!! I told him I was awake the whole time and asked why he did that and why he thought it was okay. His answer...I was Hot, it wont happen again.

Fast forward a week...I haven't been talking to him all week. I go to bed with clothes on all week because the thought of him doing it again just disgust me. I confront him about it, he acts like it's no big deal, I'm his wife so it should be fine, he wouldn't care if I did that to him and when I asked why he stopped when I woke up he says because he knew I'd be mad, he didnt want to get caught. I am trying to wrap my head around the whole thing. I'm pretty open minded, if it was a fettish or something, maybe I could be ok with it but he will not give me anything.

At this point in feel like I can't trust him anymore and I don't know what to do. Has anyone else ever dealt with this? Do you think I should believe him? He is only admitting to doing it this 1 time even though I've told him I've caught him before.

inscreAF:
Ive been married 5 years, the sex is good and usually regular (providing we're not fighting) but my husband has been having sex with me while I'm asleep. I know it sounds crazy! Im a very heavy sleeper and he's taking advantage of it. On a few occasions I've awoke to him fingering me and about to put it in, if he knows I'm waking up, he stops. I am all for being woke up for sex but what is driving me crazy is that he stops every time and pretends like he isn't doing anything. I hate sleeping in clothes, I'm a naked sleeper but I don't think that is an open invitation right?

Last weekend, I woke up again to him trying to get his dick in me, he froze until I acted like I was still asleep, I wanted to see how far this was going to go. I pretended to sleep and wake up 3 different times, everytime I "woke up" he pulled out, heart racing and held me in position real tight until I fell back asleep, finally he finished all over me and went to get up to get a towel and I said.... was that good for you? HE TRIED TO ACT LIKE HE WAS ASLEEP!!! I told him I was awake the whole time and asked why he did that and why he thought it was okay. His answer...I was Hot, it wont happen again.

Fast forward a week...I haven't been talking to him all week. I go to bed with clothes on all week because the thought of him doing it again just disgust me. I confront him about it, he acts like it's no big deal, I'm his wife so it should be fine, he wouldn't care if I did that to him and when I asked why he stopped when I woke up he says because he knew I'd be mad, he didnt want to get caught. I am trying to wrap my head around the whole thing. I'm pretty open minded, if it was a fettish or something, maybe I could be ok with it but he will not give me anything.

At this point in feel like I can't trust him anymore and I don't know what to do. Has anyone else ever dealt with this? Do you think I should believe him? He is only admitting to doing it this 1 time even though I've told him I've caught him before.

newdawn2017:
Op, take charge & nip it in d bud now, else its a downward spiral out of control. It's a form of sexual abuse. It's wicked on his part, it's selfish 2. Dis shows he could harm u , resist him now vehemently.

jacksondavies:
The concept of having sex with a sleeping woman is a fetish some men have.

Your husband is obviously one of them.

The way to handle this is via communication. You guys need to sit down and have a talk.

Don't be too troubled.

Your husband's case isn't so weird. Some men are into their wives peeing on them. Some prefer their wives to be dominant.

Some women penetrate their husbands.

Just talk to him and sort your issues out.

inscreaf

thebosstrevor:
liar, you got this from reddit

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/9rxx1t/my_husband_has_sex_with_me_while_i_sleep_wth/

I am tired of Nairaland. many fake questions here and people stealing questions from quora and reddit and acting like it is their life situation.

GeeRex:
his your husband, no big deal

superlightning:
Where did this one come from? Where is the sexual abuse or wickedness in this matter? Stop disinforming someone with something you don't understand. Your type destroys homes and marriages by spewing FALSE INFORMATION and causing unnecessary PANIC.

inscreAF:
Ive been married 5 years, the sex is good and usually regular (providing we're not fighting) but my husband has been having sex with me while I'm asleep. I know it sounds crazy! Im a very heavy sleeper and he's taking advantage of it. On a few occasions I've awoke to him fingering me and about to put it in, if he knows I'm waking up, he stops. I am all for being woke up for sex but what is driving me crazy is that he stops every time and pretends like he isn't doing anything. I hate sleeping in clothes, I'm a naked sleeper but I don't think that is an open invitation right?

Last weekend, I woke up again to him trying to get his dick in me, he froze until I acted like I was still asleep, I wanted to see how far this was going to go. I pretended to sleep and wake up 3 different times, everytime I "woke up" he pulled out, heart racing and held me in position real tight until I fell back asleep, finally he finished all over me and went to get up to get a towel and I said.... was that good for you? HE TRIED TO ACT LIKE HE WAS ASLEEP!!! I told him I was awake the whole time and asked why he did that and why he thought it was okay. His answer...I was Hot, it wont happen again.

Fast forward a week...I haven't been talking to him all week. I go to bed with clothes on all week because the thought of him doing it again just disgust me. I confront him about it, he acts like it's no big deal, I'm his wife so it should be fine, he wouldn't care if I did that to him and when I asked why he stopped when I woke up he says because he knew I'd be mad, he didnt want to get caught. I am trying to wrap my head around the whole thing. I'm pretty open minded, if it was a fettish or something, maybe I could be ok with it but he will not give me anything.

At this point in feel like I can't trust him anymore and I don't know what to do. Has anyone else ever dealt with this? Do you think I should believe him? He is only admitting to doing it this 1 time even though I've told him I've caught him before.

inscreAF:
Ive been married 5 years, the sex is good and usually regular (providing we're not fighting) but my husband has been having sex with me while I'm asleep. I know it sounds crazy! Im a very heavy sleeper and he's taking advantage of it. On a few occasions I've awoke to him fingering me and about to put it in, if he knows I'm waking up, he stops. I am all for being woke up for sex but what is driving me crazy is that he stops every time and pretends like he isn't doing anything. I hate sleeping in clothes, I'm a naked sleeper but I don't think that is an open invitation right?

Last weekend, I woke up again to him trying to get his dick in me, he froze until I acted like I was still asleep, I wanted to see how far this was going to go. I pretended to sleep and wake up 3 different times, everytime I "woke up" he pulled out, heart racing and held me in position real tight until I fell back asleep, finally he finished all over me and went to get up to get a towel and I said.... was that good for you? HE TRIED TO ACT LIKE HE WAS ASLEEP!!! I told him I was awake the whole time and asked why he did that and why he thought it was okay. His answer...I was Hot, it wont happen again.

Fast forward a week...I haven't been talking to him all week. I go to bed with clothes on all week because the thought of him doing it again just disgust me. I confront him about it, he acts like it's no big deal, I'm his wife so it should be fine, he wouldn't care if I did that to him and when I asked why he stopped when I woke up he says because he knew I'd be mad, he didnt want to get caught. I am trying to wrap my head around the whole thing. I'm pretty open minded, if it was a fettish or something, maybe I could be ok with it but he will not give me anything.

At this point in feel like I can't trust him anymore and I don't know what to do. Has anyone else ever dealt with this? Do you think I should believe him? He is only admitting to doing it this 1 time even though I've told him I've caught him before.

thebosstrevor:
liar, you got this from reddit

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/9rxx1t/my_husband_has_sex_with_me_while_i_sleep_wth/

I am tired of Nairaland. many fake questions here and people stealing questions from quora and reddit and acting like it is their life situation.

Strangebuttrue:
And so? He owns you

Xammie001:
What's This One Saying Harrassing Her And U Are Saying He Owns Her Can U Do That To Ur Wife

prettysassygirl:
Probably he would love to sleep with dead women too