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"I Can't Settle For Less. If You Don't Have Money Back Off" - Nigerian Woman / Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men / "Dear Men, If You Have Hustled So Hard And No Money, Get Married"- Nigerian Lady (2) (3) (4)
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Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Rapmoney(m): 10:21am On Oct 02, 2023 |
This is just a piece of my opinion which is based on the realities on ground. Nigerian men should not lower their guard when it comes to dating and marriage. We compromise too much when it involves romance, especially among our Eastern brothers. Arinze, you dey hustle since you graduate in 2010. You don toil sotay the skin for your palms don hard like Okpella granite. Now, Baba God don show you love small, come bless you with comfortable life. The first thing you did was to pick a girl from a financially weak background for dating or marriage because of big yansh and breasts. You polished her and has also done a lot for her family. Let me tell you, that same girl and her family would not accept you if you weren't comfortable. In Nigeria, it's only bad for a man to be broke and not a lady. Broke men are useless while broke women are angels. If you are a man who has struggled very hard to achieve comfort for yourself, you need a class of woman who will complement your status and not just anybody because that same anybody no go send you if you no get bread. The only women that should be deserving of your financial generosity should be your mum and sisters. Except she is a girl who has supported you of which I know it is very scarce to see in Nigeria. Getting a Nigeria girl who can support you, even if it is shikini these days is like betting on Enugu Rangers to beat Manchester City and still expecting to win. Na as e be me for mind I talk am. I know say this post fit vex some people. 231 Likes 22 Shares
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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by TemplarLandry: 10:23am On Oct 02, 2023 |
Childish epistle. Learn life. Rapmoney: 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Reminderz: 10:23am On Oct 02, 2023 |
This is why we keep telling men, women don't lower your standards, so why should you as a man lower yours? be ruthless in your choice of women you choose to be with... if she doesn't meet your standards.. dump her! she has to earn a place in your life, she has to earn it, not being given for free... she has to work for it if she wants part of it.. when you're broke and valueless, they ignore you because to them, you're below their level... when you've toiled hard, do the same thing to them... if she belongs to the street, just leave her there... 189 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Jennyclay(f): 10:27am On Oct 02, 2023 |
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me. I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men. If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born. Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer. 13 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Rapmoney(m): 10:34am On Oct 02, 2023 |
TemplarLandry: I no send you, baba. Maybe to you, learning life is all about littering every thread on Nairaland with meaningless comments. 201 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Vinnie2000(m): 10:37am On Oct 02, 2023 |
Struggling Guys when they Finally Make it should TARGET FRESH, CHASTE Girls between 21,22Years for Marriage! 🤨🙂 Dat's what HE Peter Obi did when he started making money @30,31Years!. ☺️☺️ It's FOOLISH for any Guy to use his HARD EARNED MONEY to Marry a Girl who has been FUCCKED by BigMen, Ex-Boyfriends, Politicians and Yahoo Boys! 😒😕 179 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by talented321: 11:21am On Oct 02, 2023 |
Whether hard earned or easy earn, it's not advisable to have anything to do with any woman who is not business orientated and a woman who believe it is your duty to do everything for her... 177 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Daniel7543: 11:29am On Oct 02, 2023 |
Jennyclay:E be like say dis thread pain u well well 136 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by AsomArchitectNG(m): 11:32am On Oct 02, 2023 |
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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Alonso91(m): 11:36am On Oct 02, 2023 |
Preach the gospel bro,i hope they listen 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Offpointng: 11:40am On Oct 02, 2023 |
There's just one Lady like that I've met during NYSC who I swore then I would have married if I made it. well I did made it but Bro she's way older than I am. she's 6years older than I am But Mehnn this girl cared for me when I had nothing, respected me in that stage despite being older and would always do anything I asked if she really can do it. but that was the only coma , she's way older than I am. I'm thinking of opening a shop for her sometime next year just to appreciate her. May God bless her. I just wish I can marry her tbh. 113 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by HYDEEE: 11:43am On Oct 02, 2023 |
TemplarLandry:Teach us about life knowledgeable one. 40 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Ballzproblem2: 11:45am On Oct 02, 2023 |
like it's crazy, seeing financially successful men going for village uneducated women , disgusting. 79 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Gboom: 12:55pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Jennyclay:If this is your mindset, a time will come when you just have to settle for these kinds of men you detested or detesting now 85 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by ednut1(m): 1:01pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
There is no true love for a man who has made it. The money attracts all manner of girls. You can only get true love if a woman accepted you while you were broke. For those men that found love after they got rich if you ever have money issues or go broke again that woman wont stay 119 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by WhatIf: 1:01pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
I thank God for my wife, she supported me fully without any grumbling. The Lord shall greatly reward her for me. 42 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Lordbinsmar: 1:01pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by CaveAdullam: 1:02pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
I agree. 1. Men shouldn't settle for less. Which is an appropriate method to apply since women aren't settling for less. 2. Relationship in our contemporary day is more of economics than love and romance. In such cases, men must be pragmatic and extend this romantic economics to cover and protect their interests. That's, as a (rich) man, date like the people in charge of empires and dynasties. They don't marry commoners and peasants. Follow the same route. 3. It's fine if women want to play the same game. It's an open field. However, each side - male and female have a lot of compromises to make and a lot of quid pro quo to enhance their game and optimize their wins. 4. However, men date low. While women date high. So, a rich man would rather have a harem of broken beautiful women (which most women prefer to be in a relationship with instead of a broke poor man) than be in a relationship with the daughter of the richest man in the world. Both strategies have their pros and cons. 5. Being married to a harem of broke (beautiful) women grants him the ability to live as freely as he desires. No woman can limit his urge except he chooses to. But some rich men who are blinded by romance allow their "idol woman" to restrict them. She becomes his god and he, her follower. Being married to a rich woman limits his authority in the home. And even proves difficult when said woman is from a wealthy home. Considering both sides, his compromise is predicated on his short and long-term interests. 6. In the real sense, it's women who see romance as business. Men see romance as romance accompanied by plethoras of sacrifices. But we're in a bastardized world. It's foolish to reward those who weren't loyal to you due to your low performance, penury, and shame. 7. A rich woman will always play higher. She's winning already. Poor women have lower chances of winning even though they can also play the game. The best is to hustle for men with a relentless pursuit of their desires. Ambitious men who dare the devil at his gate. Men who would rather die than settle for less. They must bear with these men in love and hate; joy and sorrow; pain and pleasures. These are the men who wouldn't treat them as trash when they become part of the high table. Yes, they must compromise their fertility + youth for such men. The risk is lower compared to being classified as a leech. During the process of struggling together, she can establish her stakes. 8. But women are too emotional + stúpid. They rather trade long-term goals for short-term goals, wanting men who treat them as trash and in the end, come up with a series of woes, lamentations, and regrets, full of resentment and developed witchy attitudes. Like I said earlier, the relationship these days is all about economics. Fake people. Fake love. 44 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by GanagiBitrus: 1:03pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Naija can force you to settle for less. You may study hard and dream to become a medical doctor, but end up becoming a native Doctor or bus ConDoctor. 12 Likes |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by vincenteger: 1:03pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Forget that thing. If na yarsh and breast go give you peace of mind, marry her and complain here later. That's why nairaland was created. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Nobody: 1:04pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
True that They should settle for high Last last the high no fit pass fine face and bbl bum. No be Nigerian men? 8 Likes |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Elxandre(m): 1:04pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
In all you do don't go and marry a richer woman willingly sha in the name of not settling for less. In verydarkman's voice, "you'll learn" 😂 Doesn't mean you should marry a complete liability though. But the best thing is to have a woman you met while still poorer. Any woman you meet after getting quite comfortable automatically shows you love which might be fake if you can't discern. 23 Likes |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Lordbinsmar: 1:04pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Vinnie2000: Nairaland feminists aka evening news papers will come for your head ooo ;DBased on the table you dey shake. 18 Likes |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Nobody: 1:04pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Men are leeches Modern generation men are becoming very weak My rule is conquer me into submission and I'll totally submit else I slip away. Topics like this irritate the hell out of me 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by iCauseTrouble: 1:05pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by NutritionGuru: 1:06pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
OP what do you mean by hustling hard? The myopic mentality of average Southern Nigerian Youth that Life is all about making money is the reason why most of the Youths are japaing and leaving their Ancestral Homelands to be taken over by Invaders. The purpose of marriage should be to unite in matrimony with the lady that shall prayerfully help you fulfill your Divine Destiny. For example, Sunday Igboho's ultimate Destiny was to help Revive Nigerians' Courage at a time when all Hope was lost, and it was his wife that supported and helped him to achieve exactly that. Do you know what you were Divinely put on Earth to Achieve for Nigeria and Humanity as a whole?! Stop being shallow-minded squadering your Life Time on Earth chasing money instead of Impacting Humanity meaningfully with your Life. You don't even need to make Millions to marry right, all you need is to discover your Right Purpose for Existence Thanks for this. WealthyNigerian: 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 1:06pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Jennyclay:watch it Be careful Always remember all humans are same there isn't much difference The only difference is some are just more privileged than others! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by bonnyhope: 1:06pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Stop looking for attention Your time done pass Men are looking for unused girls We are wiser now 49 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by TANID(m): 1:06pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Well Say 2 Likes |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by gentlesmithugo(m): 1:06pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Supported with one crate of heineken 3 Likes |
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Obakoolex(m): 1:07pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Na like this some feminist go dey view this thread. 26 Likes
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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Hezzyluv: 1:07pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
I no dey kuku toast girl wey no dey do business or work sef let alone marrying liability 14 Likes 1 Share |
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