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why a guy should keep his money when lady closes her boarder


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some foolishness in all write up. if a lady tell you can't be sexing her until you get married to her, tell her you can't be spending for her until you get married to her as well


guys/men own no ladies any due responsibilities until you engage them. all this yeye write up is just one clownish thing I ever come across

A very childish submission. Serious women do not wait for men to achieve those things you listed just to benefit from those men. They try to be successful themselves before even marrying a man.

You just indicated the dependency syndrome most money-hungry 9ja women have.
In their warped mentality any man not swimming in money (how the money is made is irrelevant to them) is mediocre.

There are very talented school teachers who will never be stupendously rich after 35 years of hard work. But they will mentor, inspire and motivate hundreds of kids to become sportsmen/women, accountants, lawyers, doctors, engineers, pilots, teachers, professors, scientists, etc.

So should such lower middle class teachers be branded mediocres?

If such a person marries a money hungry lady, the lady might be donating her punany up and down to rich men or do other such seedy things to get money.

highqueen:
That's not true.
Please, I said loving money in positive ways.
A hardworking woman can't be lazy please.

Stop deceiving yourself. When we talk about women loving money u know what we mean, so stop the painting..lol

highqueen:
Lol, you are seeing it the wrong way though.

Will you have preferred a lazy woman that always squanders money whenever she's in possession of it?

That is what we are saying You All are Lazy For instance A hardworking woman does not beg I know that hardship can make people do despicable things but over Ninety Percent of Nigerian girls are in the BEGGING Industry no matter the packaging Another thing that baffles me is your insatiable desire to buy clothes and spend whatever dime that enters your hands What suits most of you is MARRY A RICH MAN STAY IN ONE PLACE AND MANUFACTURE children

highqueen:
So many men are dreaded by some lady's love for money, maybe because of the negative impact it has on the lady by leading her into making money in illegal ways.

But at the same time, we ought to have the positive insight on the reason our men should rather go for women that loves money.

So here are my reasons:

1) SHE ACTS AS A MOTIVATOR: When you wife a lady that loves money, you will always be motivated to financially, probably because, she may be ahead of you both financially and in economic aspect, and probably, you as a man wouldn't want that for yourself, so your financial drives will be proliferated. You will always wanna be the head, so, this becomes a driving force that will push you moving forward to maintain your ego as a man.

2) SHE HELPS EXPUNGE THE MIND OF A MEDIOCRE: A woman that has set a high standard for herself wouldnt relent in making sure that her partner has the same school of thought as hers. She will make sure that the mind of mediocrity is annihilated in the family, she will always encourage you and wouldn't want you to settle for less as she has already place her standard. A woman like this will not be okay with just a 2 bedroom flat, she would wanna explore, she won't be comfortable with eating only Garri/fufu everyday of the week, she makes you realise that you have not yet arrived.

3) SHE BRINGS BUSINESS IDEAS AND STRATEGIES: And yes, she will bring up so many business STRATEGIES to boost the financial standard/level of her husband and family. She knows the right business that can yearn more profit, she has knowledgeable ideas on technical know how, she's always drawing plans of the next business move to keep you going.
This kind of woman will always support her husband positively in business wise. She gets projects that will lead into skyrocketing financially. She'd be simply amazing.

4) SHE GUIDES YOU IN INVESTING PROPERLY: Any lady that knows the value of money will also know how to invest properly, she makes investment deals on long term profits, she firstly helps you acquire landed properties, equipment and resources. She doesn't depend on the short term investment rather she looks beyond it just to attain the best of it.

These type of lady always marks out good plan for the family, they help their husbands in any wise investment plans instead of slaying with make ups and clothes.

5) SHE'S ALWAYS GONNA MAKE YOU PROUD: A good wise woman will always make you proud because she is always gonna be successful, you will be proud of her anytime, anywhere.

You will always be grateful for having such a wonderful woman as your wife, you will over the years appreciate her efforts in making you a better man financially.

Love a woman that loves to love money in positive ways and see your coast enriched. You can't always do it alone, you need a sensible woman to handle your projects wisely.
Thank you.

Lol , funny.
6. She should work n earn hers too.

highqueen:
[s]So many men are dreaded by some lady's love for money, maybe because of the negative impact it has on the lady by leading her into making money in illegal ways.

But at the same time, we ought to have the positive insight on the reason our men should rather go for women that loves money.

So here are my reasons:

1) SHE ACTS AS A MOTIVATOR: When you wife a lady that loves money, you will always be motivated to financially, probably because, she may be ahead of you both financially and in economic aspect, and probably, you as a man wouldn't want that for yourself, so your financial drives will be proliferated. You will always wanna be the head, so, this becomes a driving force that will push you moving forward to maintain your ego as a man.

2) SHE HELPS EXPUNGE THE MIND OF A MEDIOCRE: A woman that has set a high standard for herself wouldnt relent in making sure that her partner has the same school of thought as hers. She will make sure that the mind of mediocrity is annihilated in the family, she will always encourage you and wouldn't want you to settle for less as she has already place her standard. A woman like this will not be okay with just a 2 bedroom flat, she would wanna explore, she won't be comfortable with eating only Garri/fufu everyday of the week, she makes you realise that you have not yet arrived.

3) SHE BRINGS BUSINESS IDEAS AND STRATEGIES: And yes, she will bring up so many business STRATEGIES to boost the financial standard/level of her husband and family. She knows the right business that can yearn more profit, she has knowledgeable ideas on technical know how, she's always drawing plans of the next business move to keep you going.
This kind of woman will always support her husband positively in business wise. She gets projects that will lead into skyrocketing financially. She'd be simply amazing.

4) SHE GUIDES YOU IN INVESTING PROPERLY: Any lady that knows the value of money will also know how to invest properly, she makes investment deals on long term profits, she firstly helps you acquire landed properties, equipment and resources. She doesn't depend on the short term investment rather she looks beyond it just to attain the best of it.

These type of lady always marks out good plan for the family, they help their husbands in any wise investment plans instead of slaying with make ups and clothes.

5) SHE'S ALWAYS GONNA MAKE YOU PROUD: A good wise woman will always make you proud because she is always gonna be successful, you will be proud of her anytime, anywhere.

You will always be grateful for having such a wonderful woman as your wife, you will over the years appreciate her efforts in making you a better man financially.

Love a woman that loves to love money in positive ways and see your coast enriched. You can't always do it alone, you need a sensible woman to handle your projects wisely.
Thank you. [/s]

Senseless thing!

SexExplorer:
Lol.

Your assumptions are wrong. A typical naija girl that loves money is lazy, tactless, inconsiderate and selfish.

You are right..Just like my first ex-girlfwend

highqueen:
So many men are dreaded by some lady's love for money, maybe because of the negative impact it has on the lady by leading her into making money in illegal ways.

But at the same time, we ought to have the positive insight on the reason our men should rather go for women that loves money.

So here are my reasons:

1) SHE ACTS AS A MOTIVATOR: When you wife a lady that loves money, you will always be motivated to financially, probably because, she may be ahead of you both financially and in economic aspect, and probably, you as a man wouldn't want that for yourself, so your financial drives will be proliferated. You will always wanna be the head, so, this becomes a driving force that will push you moving forward to maintain your ego as a man.

2) SHE HELPS EXPUNGE THE MIND OF A MEDIOCRE: A woman that has set a high standard for herself wouldnt relent in making sure that her partner has the same school of thought as hers. She will make sure that the mind of mediocrity is annihilated in the family, she will always encourage you and wouldn't want you to settle for less as she has already place her standard. A woman like this will not be okay with just a 2 bedroom flat, she would wanna explore, she won't be comfortable with eating only Garri/fufu everyday of the week, she makes you realise that you have not yet arrived.

3) SHE BRINGS BUSINESS IDEAS AND STRATEGIES: And yes, she will bring up so many business STRATEGIES to boost the financial standard/level of her husband and family. She knows the right business that can yearn more profit, she has knowledgeable ideas on technical know how, she's always drawing plans of the next business move to keep you going.
This kind of woman will always support her husband positively in business wise. She gets projects that will lead into skyrocketing financially. She'd be simply amazing.

4) SHE GUIDES YOU IN INVESTING PROPERLY: Any lady that knows the value of money will also know how to invest properly, she makes investment deals on long term profits, she firstly helps you acquire landed properties, equipment and resources. She doesn't depend on the short term investment rather she looks beyond it just to attain the best of it.

These type of lady always marks out good plan for the family, they help their husbands in any wise investment plans instead of slaying with make ups and clothes.

5) SHE'S ALWAYS GONNA MAKE YOU PROUD: A good wise woman will always make you proud because she is always gonna be successful, you will be proud of her anytime, anywhere.

You will always be grateful for having such a wonderful woman as your wife, you will over the years appreciate her efforts in making you a better man financially.

Love a woman that loves to love money in positive ways and see your coast enriched. You can't always do it alone, you need a sensible woman to handle your projects wisely.
Thank you.

Now ur talking, love a woman that loves money in a positive way. many of them out there love money in a negative way, lavish spending extravagantly are the majority

ur write up is very cool but I just think you've got the wrong title for it. The fact that you love money doesn't mean you can make the best decisions, challenge a mediocre and some other cool stuff you wrote. The bitter truth is that in this part of the world the love of money has more negatives than positives.
what I have read are characteristics of a success driven Lady and not a money loving lady.

OKOATA:
You be mugun. Your mates are having better thing to do with their life you are here depending on a man all your life. Are you incapacitated, you know get leg, you know get hand, what do you have to offer in a relationship, your smelly pussy. Get a life.

Guy you dey vex seriously o please take it easy o

SexExplorer:
Lol.

Your assumptions are wrong. A typical naija girl that loves money is lazy, tactless, inconsiderate and selfish.

I am a Naija lady.I like to make money.I can see everything written in me.I don't LOVE money.I am working hard for my future family.I am not lazy.

highqueen:
Lolz. At last statement, so true.


I can't marry such man o, we must travel there together.

wat of if he has a wife there
im no go want gbege nau

Elxandre:
This is a selfish and cynically self-serving write up.

A person should be motivated primarily only by his intrinsic drive and ambitions, else a deep pit of psychological and mental torment awaits him when he fails to meet up to expectations of people pushing him endlessly.

"she won't be comfortable with 2 bedroom flat" ***

Lmao. Sha don't kill your man with your lack of contentment.

Drive for success is not lack of contention.The sky is a stepping stone.Its when she naggs for wants nor try to invent solution and support for growth in partnership that will be problem.

Oh my Gad!

These stupid threads again!!!

Why is it that thunder doesn't know the right people to strike?

I mean, people like the idiots that compose these types of stupid threads.

Nonsense.

Iamgrey5:
First of all, everyone loves money, but our extent of love for money varies

Nonetheless, I am afraid you have confused a driven person or a person motivated by something for someone who simply loves money, although a driven person can also like the finest things in life.

A person after money may not necessarily be driven or motivated and a driven person might not necessarily be after financial gains.

Hence, not all persons that love money poses the traits you have highlighted above

A lot of the points you have raised are best suited to a driven person, rather than a person who loves money. I.e

A driven person inspires others around them

A driven person will always want to do more

A driven person wouldn't take no for an answer

Driven people are always successful and sometimes very rich because drive is key in this very competitive world that we find ourselves.

We thought then the same.

lefulefu:
wat of if has a wife there
im no go want gbege nau

Lol. If he insist we are not going toghter that means he isn't serious with me and I can't stand such marriage.


Better I stay here with who I can be seeing every time.

EarthKing:
. Nice assertion. In YQ's voice, oma Igala e che??

En, oma Igala oun che.

highqueen:
Lol. If he insist we are not going toghter that means he isn't serious with me and I can't stand such marriage.


Better I stay here with who I can be seeing every time.

there many ladies here who have husbands overseas .many of them get guys wey dey service them or there some dat have re ignited relationships with their ex here.their husbands will be sending monthly euros and pounds frm overseas and they will be lavishing the money on their boyfriends .some ladies have accepted their long distance marriage hence they aim to have the best of both worlds .

lefulefu:
there many ladies here who have husbands overseas .many of them get guys wey dey service them or there some dat have re ignited relationships with their ex here.their husbands will be sending monthly euros and pounds frm overseas and they will be lavishing the money on their boyfriends .some ladies have accepted their long distance marriage hence they aim to have the best of both worlds .

Ladies with mind.
I know someone that her husby comes back once in 4years.

The lady's life style tire me.

Senseless topic

highqueen:
So many men are dreaded by some lady's love for money, maybe because of the negative impact it has on the lady by leading her into making money in illegal ways.

But at the same time, we ought to have the positive insight on the reason our men should rather go for women that loves money.

So here are my reasons:

1) SHE ACTS AS A MOTIVATOR: When you wife a lady that loves money, you will always be motivated to financially, probably because, she may be ahead of you both financially and in economic aspect, and probably, you as a man wouldn't want that for yourself, so your financial drives will be proliferated. You will always wanna be the head, so, this becomes a driving force that will push you moving forward to maintain your ego as a man.

2) SHE HELPS EXPUNGE THE MIND OF A MEDIOCRE: A woman that has set a high standard for herself wouldnt relent in making sure that her partner has the same school of thought as hers. She will make sure that the mind of mediocrity is annihilated in the family, she will always encourage you and wouldn't want you to settle for less as she has already place her standard. A woman like this will not be okay with just a 2 bedroom flat, she would wanna explore, she won't be comfortable with eating only Garri/fufu everyday of the week, she makes you realise that you have not yet arrived.

3) SHE BRINGS BUSINESS IDEAS AND STRATEGIES: And yes, she will bring up so many business STRATEGIES to boost the financial standard/level of her husband and family. She knows the right business that can yearn more profit, she has knowledgeable ideas on technical know how, she's always drawing plans of the next business move to keep you going.
This kind of woman will always support her husband positively in business wise. She gets projects that will lead into skyrocketing financially. She'd be simply amazing.

4) SHE GUIDES YOU IN INVESTING PROPERLY: Any lady that knows the value of money will also know how to invest properly, she makes investment deals on long term profits, she firstly helps you acquire landed properties, equipment and resources. She doesn't depend on the short term investment rather she looks beyond it just to attain the best of it.

These type of lady always marks out good plan for the family, they help their husbands in any wise investment plans instead of slaying with make ups and clothes.

5) SHE'S ALWAYS GONNA MAKE YOU PROUD: A good wise woman will always make you proud because she is always gonna be successful, you will be proud of her anytime, anywhere.

You will always be grateful for having such a wonderful woman as your wife, you will over the years appreciate her efforts in making you a better man financially.

Love a woman that loves to love money in positive ways and see your coast enriched. You can't always do it alone, you need a sensible woman to handle your projects wisely.
Thank you.

This points u raised isn’t the character of a gal that loves money bt rather a gal that values and appreciates money. They are quite different.

A gal can love money and be useless bt she cannot value money and be unproductive. Anybody who loves money has a tendency to be useless or evil.

E b lyk sey d O.P dey 4 kualar lumpur

highqueen:
Ladies with mind.
I know someone that her husby comes back once in 4years.

The lady's life style tire me.

once in every four yrs?. Hmm its like the guy probably has a wife over there. There was one my aunty told me about one edo guy who was based in austria. His mom would always be nagging him on phone to come back home and marry a home based wife. The guy later agreed and the accepted the lady his mom arranged for him. He did the marriage rites and later travelled back with promises of making arrangement so that the lady will join him over dere. My aunt said that was the last the wife heard from the man. He later changed his phone line when the wife and mom's calls were so insistent. The lady later got remarried to a guy here after she got tired of waiting for the overseas husband to come and take her to europe.

Maddam all ur points are Totally useless.It seems u don't understand d term Love money.Marrying a woman who Loves money (I.e longer throat for money) is dangerous.They could do anything for money.Even if it takes her to dump u,kill u to claim ur property or wealth to marry anoda,sleep around with rich neighbors or friends for money and despise u because of ur financial state.In summary Girls who love money are dangerous to get married to.they are never content and grateful,no matter wat u give to dem or do for dem. If u had said a productive minded,business minded,prosperous minded or supportive minded girl.Dat would av been a different matter.

As I always say, women are highly selective. Men need to motor this and stop getting with bums.

lefulefu:
once in every four yrs?. Hmm its like the guy probably has a wife over there. There was one my aunty told me about one edo guy who was based in austria. His mom would always be nagging him on phone to come back home and marry a home based wife. The guy later agreed and the accepted the lady his mom arranged for him. He did the marriage rites and later travelled back with promises of making arrangement so that the lady will join him over dere. My aunt said that was the last the wife heard from the man. He later changed his phone line when the wife and mom's calls were so insistent. The lady later got remarried to a guy here after she got tired of waiting for the overseas husband to come and take her to europe.

Lool. Better I stay here with husby than to be waiting for an imaginary European based guy.

I stopped reading at number three, cos that's where you stopped being realistic... Bla bla fairy tales... If only the earth is flat...

highqueen:
So many men are dreaded by some lady's love for money, maybe because of the negative impact it has on the lady by leading her into making money in illegal ways.

But at the same time, we ought to have the positive insight on the reason our men should rather go for women that loves money.

So here are my reasons:

1) SHE ACTS AS A MOTIVATOR: When you wife a lady that loves money, you will always be motivated to financially, probably because, she may be ahead of you both financially and in economic aspect, and probably, you as a man wouldn't want that for yourself, so your financial drives will be proliferated. You will always wanna be the head, so, this becomes a driving force that will push you moving forward to maintain your ego as a man.

2) SHE HELPS EXPUNGE THE MIND OF A MEDIOCRE: A woman that has set a high standard for herself wouldnt relent in making sure that her partner has the same school of thought as hers. She will make sure that the mind of mediocrity is annihilated in the family, she will always encourage you and wouldn't want you to settle for less as she has already place her standard. A woman like this will not be okay with just a 2 bedroom flat, she would wanna explore, she won't be comfortable with eating only Garri/fufu everyday of the week, she makes you realise that you have not yet arrived.

3) SHE BRINGS BUSINESS IDEAS AND STRATEGIES: And yes, she will bring up so many business STRATEGIES to boost the financial standard/level of her husband and family. She knows the right business that can yearn more profit, she has knowledgeable ideas on technical know how, she's always drawing plans of the next business move to keep you going.
This kind of woman will always support her husband positively in business wise. She gets projects that will lead into skyrocketing financially. She'd be simply amazing.

4) SHE GUIDES YOU IN INVESTING PROPERLY: Any lady that knows the value of money will also know how to invest properly, she makes investment deals on long term profits, she firstly helps you acquire landed properties, equipment and resources. She doesn't depend on the short term investment rather she looks beyond it just to attain the best of it.

These type of lady always marks out good plan for the family, they help their husbands in any wise investment plans instead of slaying with make ups and clothes.

5) SHE'S ALWAYS GONNA MAKE YOU PROUD: A good wise woman will always make you proud because she is always gonna be successful, you will be proud of her anytime, anywhere.

You will always be grateful for having such a wonderful woman as your wife, you will over the years appreciate her efforts in making you a better man financially.

Love a woman that loves to love money in positive ways and see your coast enriched. You can't always do it alone, you need a sensible woman to handle your projects wisely.
Thank you.

Love of money is the root of all evil.

I am guessing you mean 'a financially savvy lady' or 'a financially intelligent lady'.

Anybody (males/female) who loves money will be desperate.

highqueen:
Lool. Better I stay here with husby than to be waiting for an imaginary European based guy.

ehn but the possibility of collecting dollars,euros,turkish lira and british pound sterling is wat makes this overseas husbands hotcake.

MariaLavina:
LordKO what's your say on this.




PS: Simple English please

Lol. Na ihm be say I go come make you teach simple English. Meanwhile, refer to page 2, I've already made a contribution.