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Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by akilo1: 3:23am On Nov 15, 2018 |
Op just tell her say her God is real and you are very sorry to let her know that when u walk into hospital to test for HIV since it is advice able for couple and the result was good for her .tell her u are HIV positive she will run comut from yoir house ,settle down with someone u think can satisfy you ,tell her say if na play you want for house you would have buy monkey .nonsense 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Cbest1b1(m): 3:23am On Nov 15, 2018 |
She is very stewpid |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by SPOILT9JAOLOSHO(m): 3:26am On Nov 15, 2018 |
Rozaytee:For calling my Mum, I confirm u as chief hoe of all hoes.. Yeye girl, I hope u get money from the business, nogo die for nothing oo! and learn not to insult someone's parents as u have one. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by AreaFada2: 3:26am On Nov 15, 2018 |
Op, maybe it's more than refusing sex. Is she still enjoying the marriage? Does she feel fulfilled? Are there kids and more chores/responsibilities for her now? Are you catching her body language/signals that certain things may not be ok? You can frankly discuss things with her. If after all that and more efforts and nothing works, then she just might not be into you that much anymore. But is staying put due to what society will say, to save face & avoid stigma. If that's the case I do not envy you at all. Because las las one or both of you will cheat. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Nobody: 3:32am On Nov 15, 2018 |
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Damoche10: 3:40am On Nov 15, 2018 |
For him to hv posted this meant he is frustrated. Look for an alternative. Stop eating her food and avoid communication. Then u will see changes...no go kill yasef cos of kongi 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by mrgreen4real(m): 3:49am On Nov 15, 2018 |
yungchivvy:Even mad babes sef like Bleep. Na so one mad babe for my area just dey carry bele anyhow |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by SPOILT9JAOLOSHO(m): 4:04am On Nov 15, 2018 |
mrgreen4real:Did you join to give Her belle? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by EzeIgboNwaChukwu(m): 4:11am On Nov 15, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista:seek for alternative? how can u support adultery? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by OgogoroFreak(m): 4:12am On Nov 15, 2018 |
Your wife dey fvck bigger prick for outside. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Nobody: 4:19am On Nov 15, 2018 |
lefulefu: Na for here we go see your hand. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Sparkles003(f): 4:30am On Nov 15, 2018 |
MUSAPLC:This comment right hear is why she does not like sex. "you enforce her like mad dog then you release like a mad dog too? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by MissionaryK(m): 4:47am On Nov 15, 2018 |
The truth is that you are no longer satisfying her. You released when she was about to start enjoying the episode. She doesn't want to tell you so that you won't be embarrassed. Pls go for medical checkups or original herbs. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by IMASTEX: 4:54am On Nov 15, 2018 |
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Integrafamoo: 5:00am On Nov 15, 2018 |
Improve on pre-intimacy and observe her reactions 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Nobody: 5:04am On Nov 15, 2018 |
RALPHOW: It's not the solution, that will make it worse. She is using Sex as a reinforcement of his behaviors, deny him and he goes begging. And buying things, poor guy. If he does that it will encourage her. I suggest covert dread: He should show behaviors of someone cheating, like go to the gym regularly, eat healthy, go jogging and spend time with friends. And just ignore her, don't ask for sex at all. That will get her attention. She would fear something is up and would want to offer him sex to stay. But the crux of the matter is she didn't love him, she only settled for fear of not getting married. Women do that alot. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Nobody: 5:05am On Nov 15, 2018 |
Damoche10:Exactly, I said the same thing. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by GCsomething: 5:05am On Nov 15, 2018 |
Bruh! I will be biased here and throw in sentiment and emotion. Not to say the least, Pls it simply implies she doesn't like it with you. Marriage is union between two and not be managed. Pls dont disturb your brain, get another wife. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by almarthins(m): 5:15am On Nov 15, 2018 |
AryEmber: He did have a taste of her before marriage as you can read above. Some women can be such a chameleon not all weather. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by cardoctor(m): 5:19am On Nov 15, 2018 |
Oh really? |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Bionic07: 5:20am On Nov 15, 2018 |
. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by bamasite(m): 5:31am On Nov 15, 2018 |
Chat me up on WhatsApp zero seven zero three 455 4516. The most probable thing is that you made her a sex object! Interested in satisfying yourself alone, you did not care about her own satisfaction and thus sex became a boring chore....... You have to change that. If that is not the case, she has a sinister plot! MUSAPLC: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by johnsonedidiong(m): 6:25am On Nov 15, 2018 |
First investigate her there is reasons for suddent change |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by mamaafrik(m): 6:29am On Nov 15, 2018 |
wae she circumcised?? |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by akinszz: 6:36am On Nov 15, 2018 |
Diamond23:this is faceless forum, expect anything 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by sweetilicious(f): 6:45am On Nov 15, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista:True.But op,her disinterest,are you sure she is not having anything against you in her mind? Maybe you have to find out.You guys settle and make love not sex. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by newoffer: 6:52am On Nov 15, 2018 |
You need pre-intimacy. caress her boobs and stroke her punna very well. let her cum then Bleep d hell out of her. u need to ignite her . start her engine 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by pwettyeddy(f): 7:02am On Nov 15, 2018 |
MUSAPLC: You didn't tell us that the reason she stopped. Never demonise your wife in public, it always bounces back to you. Courtship is always easier than marriage. In marriage it's always difficult to remain the same person. It's either your are happier cos you decided to spice up the marriage, I mean always arousing your wife curiosity and attraction towards you, Or it becomes boring due to lame routine. Having sex in the same position , same place everytime. Lame! Obviously, I will be blunt. You are not paying attention. She has been complaining. Women complain via altitude change. We are like kids. We are emotional beings, you must possess some measure of emotional intellegence to keep us worshiping the floor you walk on. Now back to the issue. Since you got married to her, how is the sex? Better to her. Or lame? How long do you last? Do you know her fantasies? Do you satisfy them or just satisfy your self leaving her in limbo? Do you suffer from quick ejaculation, and now burns our faster than a flaring gas, instead of the oil that burns slowly? Answer truthfully, if you need help. Is it now routine? Do you take her out. I lean showcase her. It most not be about money. Just simple wears and you stroll out holding hands on cool evenings. Even if it's just few street walk round the neighborhood or the the park, movies, beach, nice dinner or a music lounge, just any thing. Does she like meat when did you buy her small gifts like suya? Do you engage her in discussions? Do you discuss what she wants or you are the lord and master over all? What she thinks and feels doesn't matter at all. Bros! She will start hating at you and she needs tonne happy to Bleep. She who is angry or harbours resentment towards you cannot Bleep you. Go out with her some Friday nights, after work, have some beer and talk about the exciting past, her present and future dreams. Ask her questions about her five year, ten year, twenty year plans. We live to talk when we are comfortable with you and with just that you will have our heart. Go have your wife's heart. Give her MouthAction, watch soft porn or some romantic movies with you, buy her Christian books on sex and marriage. " straight sex talk is one of them " Never yell at her and expect the best. Treat her like a little kid and as a grown up friend. Do not make the mistake of cheating, it never goes away. Flirting could rekindle her interest if she was been silly. The fear of losing you to another could work also, but you have to work on yourself first. Stop those bad habits you took. Find her what she wants and show care. You may not necessarily do them. Give her orgasm and she will always pray for you. Just imagine you having sex and before you reach ejaculation, she stops you that she is tired or that's it's painful or for no reason at all. How will you feel. With time, you will hate sex with her cos its of no use. Just ponder on that. That's how she is feeling right now. Finally, how have the finances being? Everything can't be bad. Na! Work better on finances. Seat her down and plan the future with her. You need not tell her details of everything, just let her have the feeling or sense of belonging. Been supportive. You just should not lie to her. Rather keep your mouth shut or change topic smartly. Wo! The list is endless. With time, I could refer you to some groups on other social media on how to make your wife worship the ground you walk on without being necessarily rich physically, but in emotional intelligence. Shalom 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by frozen70(f): 7:14am On Nov 15, 2018 |
MUSAPLC: You were transparent enough to tell her what you liked most and she cooperated with you until you married her and she starts showing herself Seat her down and ask her why the suden change in urge for sex and find out is if she doing it intentionally to wicked you or she is doing as a result of Stress. Domestic work overload. Unsolved personal issues between both of you. It might be giving her bruises Lost of interest in you and sex Financial burden on her Lack of care from you Lack of attention from you Lastly maybe she doesn't enjoy sex and sees no reason giving it to you to enjoy alone Follow this steps and the out come will give you an idea on how to go about it |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by san316(m): 7:16am On Nov 15, 2018 |
When u think marriage will give u unlimited access to kpekus and you realise that you are playing yourself 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Nobody: 7:26am On Nov 15, 2018 |
MUSAPLC: Help with house chores...that is the solution to your problem. Join her in washing the plates, cooking, washing clothes Buy appliances that make chores easier to do. Good luck |
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