Op just tell her say her God is real and you are very sorry to let her know that when u walk into hospital to test for HIV since it is advice able for couple and the result was good for her .tell her u are HIV positive she will run comut from yoir house ,settle down with someone u think can satisfy you ,tell her say if na play you want for house you would have buy monkey .nonsense

She is very stewpid

Rozaytee:
[s]it is ur usless stupid mother dat is a hoe... Mumu[/s]

For calling my Mum, I confirm u as chief hoe of all hoes.. Yeye girl, I hope u get money from the business, nogo die for nothing oo! and learn not to insult someone's parents as u have one.

Op, maybe it's more than refusing sex. Is she still enjoying the marriage? Does she feel fulfilled? Are there kids and more chores/responsibilities for her now?

Are you catching her body language/signals that certain things may not be ok?

You can frankly discuss things with her. If after all that and more efforts and nothing works, then she just might not be into you that much anymore. But is staying put due to what society will say, to save face & avoid stigma.

If that's the case I do not envy you at all. Because las las one or both of you will cheat.

Rather than waste money buying your useless book id rathet invest in 10mg Cialis and have rock hard erection for a week. It's not even a prescription drug in Nigeria and its just about 1000 naira. Scammer oshi

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For him to hv posted this meant he is frustrated. Look for an alternative. Stop eating her food and avoid communication. Then u will see changes...no go kill yasef cos of kongi

yungchivvy:
Lol.. When she no mad. My guy she must like it oo

Even mad babes sef like Bleep. Na so one mad babe for my area just dey carry bele anyhow

mrgreen4real:

Even mad babes sef like Bleep. Na so one mad babe for my area just dey carry bele anyhow

Did you join to give Her belle?

TonyeBarcanista:

She doesn't like sex or she doesn't like sex with you?

Irrespective, you have to ensure total submissiveness of your wife towards you. Denying you of your right to her Local Government Secretariat even when you are the Executive Chairman is improper.

Perhaps, you may consider alternative!!! Denying you of your conjugal right is disloyalty and contravention of her marital responsibilities towards you.

You can't beg her, you shouldn't beg her neither will I advice you to cajole or threaten her. Seek for alternative, HEAVEN WILL NOT FALL!!!

May God Help You

seek for alternative? how can u support adultery?

Your wife dey fvck bigger prick for outside.

lefulefu:
see its highly rare for a lady u were having regular sex with to just deny u sex when u eventually married to her. Had op said they did the no sex without marriage wen dating and in married life she denied him sex i might understand dat one. There must be something op did or he's not telling us d full tory. Anyway any lady that refuses u sex is not attracted to u.dats jus d basic fact.

Na for here we go see your hand.

MUSAPLC:
Thanks bros, I do enforce her I do it like mad dog with her when she start enjoying it , I then release

This comment right hear is why she does not like sex. "you enforce her like mad dog then you release like a mad dog too?

The truth is that you are no longer satisfying her. You released when she was about to start enjoying the episode. She doesn't want to tell you so that you won't be embarrassed. Pls go for medical checkups or original herbs.

Click the below link to see some of the courses why some ladies who initially have fun with you. Later act to dislike love making.

https://www.nairaland.com/4076075/staying-strong-hard-long-lasting/2

Improve on pre-intimacy and observe her reactions

RALPHOW:
Make her happy is the solution
1.Try and get her gift regularly, it may not be expensive.
2. Make sure she is comfortable, women love comfort
3. Dont just jumb on her but a lot of fowl plays like fingering.

It's not the solution, that will make it worse. She is using Sex as a reinforcement of his behaviors, deny him and he goes begging. And buying things, poor guy.

If he does that it will encourage her. I suggest covert dread: He should show behaviors of someone cheating, like go to the gym regularly, eat healthy, go jogging and spend time with friends. And just ignore her, don't ask for sex at all.

That will get her attention. She would fear something is up and would want to offer him sex to stay.

But the crux of the matter is she didn't love him, she only settled for fear of not getting married. Women do that alot.

Damoche10:
For him to hv posted this meant he is frustrated. Look for an alternative. Stop eating her food and avoid communication. Then u will see changes...no go kill yasef cos of kongi

Exactly, I said the same thing.

Bruh! I will be biased here and throw in sentiment and emotion. Not to say the least, Pls it simply implies she doesn't like it with you. Marriage is union between two and not be managed. Pls dont disturb your brain, get another wife.

AryEmber:
So tan? Did he have a taste of her before marriage? Is he now enjoying himself? Stupid Fallacy.

He did have a taste of her before marriage as you can read above. Some women can be such a chameleon not all weather.

Oh really?

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The most probable thing is that you made her a sex object! Interested in satisfying yourself alone, you did not care about her own satisfaction and thus sex became a boring chore.......

You have to change that. If that is not the case, she has a sinister plot!

MUSAPLC:
Please what can I do, before I married my wife I told my weakness like Samson in the Bible that I love sex so much and she accepted during that period she would give me any time I demand for it and it got to a point I was tired.

I then decided to marry her, after the wedding she started giving unnecessary excuses that she doesn't like sex.

Please what can I do now because the temptation is very high now?

First investigate her there is reasons for suddent change

wae she circumcised??

Diamond23:
u v concluded already?...I tire for some people sexual orientation!

this is faceless forum, expect anything

TonyeBarcanista:

She doesn't like sex or she doesn't like sex with you?

Irrespective, you have to ensure total submissiveness of your wife towards you. Denying you of your right to her Local Government Secretariat even when you are the Executive Chairman is improper.

Perhaps, you may consider alternative!!! Denying you of your conjugal right is disloyalty and contravention of her marital responsibilities towards you.

You can't beg her, you shouldn't beg her neither will I advice you to cajole or threaten her. Seek for alternative, HEAVEN WILL NOT FALL!!!

May God Help You

True.But op,her disinterest,are you sure she is not having anything against you in her mind? Maybe you have to find out.You guys settle and make love not sex.

You need pre-intimacy. caress her boobs and stroke her punna very well. let her cum then Bleep d hell out of her. u need to ignite her . start her engine

MUSAPLC:
Please what can I do, before I married my wife I told my weakness like Samson in the Bible that I love sex so much and she accepted during that period she would give me any time I demand for it and it got to a point I was tired.

I then decided to marry her, after the wedding she started giving unnecessary excuses that she doesn't like sex.

Please what can I do now because the temptation is very high now?

You didn't tell us that the reason she stopped. Never demonise your wife in public, it always bounces back to you. Courtship is always easier than marriage. In marriage it's always difficult to remain the same person. It's either your are happier cos you decided to spice up the marriage, I mean always arousing your wife curiosity and attraction towards you, Or it becomes boring due to lame routine. Having sex in the same position , same place everytime. Lame!
Obviously, I will be blunt. You are not paying attention. She has been complaining. Women complain via altitude change. We are like kids. We are emotional beings, you must possess some measure of emotional intellegence to keep us worshiping the floor you walk on.

Now back to the issue. Since you got married to her, how is the sex? Better to her. Or lame? How long do you last? Do you know her fantasies? Do you satisfy them or just satisfy your self leaving her in limbo?
Do you suffer from quick ejaculation, and now burns our faster than a flaring gas, instead of the oil that burns slowly? Answer truthfully, if you need help.

Is it now routine? Do you take her out. I lean showcase her. It most not be about money. Just simple wears and you stroll out holding hands on cool evenings. Even if it's just few street walk round the neighborhood or the the park, movies, beach, nice dinner or a music lounge, just any thing.

Does she like meat when did you buy her small gifts like suya? Do you engage her in discussions? Do you discuss what she wants or you are the lord and master over all? What she thinks and feels doesn't matter at all. Bros! She will start hating at you and she needs tonne happy to Bleep. She who is angry or harbours resentment towards you cannot Bleep you. Go out with her some Friday nights, after work, have some beer and talk about the exciting past, her present and future dreams. Ask her questions about her five year, ten year, twenty year plans. We live to talk when we are comfortable with you and with just that you will have our heart.
Go have your wife's heart. Give her MouthAction, watch soft porn or some romantic movies with you, buy her Christian books on sex and marriage. " straight sex talk is one of them "
Never yell at her and expect the best. Treat her like a little kid and as a grown up friend. Do not make the mistake of cheating, it never goes away. Flirting could rekindle her interest if she was been silly. The fear of losing you to another could work also, but you have to work on yourself first. Stop those bad habits you took. Find her what she wants and show care. You may not necessarily do them. Give her orgasm and she will always pray for you. Just imagine you having sex and before you reach ejaculation, she stops you that she is tired or that's it's painful or for no reason at all. How will you feel. With time, you will hate sex with her cos its of no use. Just ponder on that. That's how she is feeling right now.

Finally, how have the finances being? Everything can't be bad. Na! Work better on finances. Seat her down and plan the future with her. You need not tell her details of everything, just let her have the feeling or sense of belonging. Been supportive. You just should not lie to her. Rather keep your mouth shut or change topic smartly.

Wo! The list is endless. With time, I could refer you to some groups on other social media on how to make your wife worship the ground you walk on without being necessarily rich physically, but in emotional intelligence. Shalom

MUSAPLC:
Please what can I do, before I married my wife I told my weakness like Samson in the Bible that I love sex so much and she accepted during that period she would give me any time I demand for it and it got to a point I was tired.

I then decided to marry her, after the wedding she started giving unnecessary excuses that she doesn't like sex.

Please what can I do now because the temptation is very high now?

You were transparent enough to tell her what you liked most and she cooperated with you until you married her and she starts showing herself

Seat her down and ask her why the suden change in urge for sex and find out is if she doing it intentionally to wicked you or she is doing as a result of

Stress.

Domestic work overload.

Unsolved personal issues between both of you.

It might be giving her bruises
Lost of interest in you and sex

Financial burden on her

Lack of care from you

Lack of attention from you

Lastly maybe she doesn't enjoy sex and sees no reason giving it to you to enjoy alone

Follow this steps and the out come will give you an idea on how to go about it

When u think marriage will give u unlimited access to kpekus and you realise that you are playing yourself

MUSAPLC:
Please what can I do, before I married my wife I told my weakness like Samson in the Bible that I love sex so much and she accepted during that period she would give me any time I demand for it and it got to a point I was tired.

I then decided to marry her, after the wedding she started giving unnecessary excuses that she doesn't like sex.

Please what can I do now because the temptation is very high now?

Help with house chores...that is the solution to your problem.

Join her in washing the plates, cooking, washing clothes
Buy appliances that make chores easier to do.

Good luck