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Rextizzle:
See who is talking about manners and respect btw you think I'm like those sex starved boys that put their dicks in random holes? you must be crazy.


Now get the fvck off my sight, you don't worth my attention.

Rextizzle:
I'm sure you are also lazy in bed

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Ode, make yourself feel better. Bloody liar. Fools like u can't even get d so called broke ladies to visit talk more of anything. You a king behind your phone na. Failed yahoo yahoo boy.

Dudeweedlmao:
One would think that you'd learn something from all the heart break you experienced from Primary school to your university days, but you didnt learn a single thing. That's not how life works, buddy. You should always do a little introspection after every heart break and allow yourself to heal, and not just jumping into a new relationship on a whim.

As for your GF, she had no right to abscond with your property and kill your Father - even though he was sick, I mean where's the love? I would have done the same in your shoes.

I can't tell you what to feel about Nigerian women/men but just know that; it's never their fault. Their parents failed them, this is why I have an eternal grudge with Boomer parents, they experienced a booming economy and were part of the industrial revolution but what did they leave us with? Nothing. But they are always the first to call us lazy and blame us for everything. Upbringing of a child really matters alot and I can assure you 100% your GF's upbringing wasnt right.

Lastly bro, never love with all your heart or trust with all your might.

linearity:
Na wao! Person wey carry police come your house come empty all your property inside van, then come collect your land join, plus come defraud you many many through first degree runs.....come your party day party?

As wetin dem take come your party? As friends or as enemies?

I weak oh.

Rextizzle:
Bro those stinking bitches really dealt with you, that's why I never trusted them from day 1, go get a foreign girl and have a good life, Nigerian girls are nuisance.

gloria34:
mimimile93, I have really come to dislike u on this forum but reading this write-up, i feel Sorry 4 u. 4 d times i insulted u (u caused it tho) i'm sorry. U just need to work on ur healing, many (male and female) have gone thru some tuff stuffs (went thru 1 in d hands of a friend recently and i have still not been able to forgive) but u just have to let go and enjoy ur life. Forget about women 4 now, just be happy. Raining insults on all women wont help tho

khiaa:
Mimimile93, sweetheart is this true?

torqque7:
Mtcheeew weak men everywhere these days. You are the cause of your own problems, so many times life gave you the opportunity to be wise from a bad experience only for you to form lover boy and do something more stupid than the last. How can you trust women whole heartedly like that?you no de hear stories ni?

[qoute]First of all it was just you and the girl staying together and therefore just you two knew where your documents were so if they got missing you should have suspected her and taken steps to investigate and then learn from the experience like everyone learns from a bad relationship.

a normal guy self would suspect his girlfriend might be f.ucking the dude because she always supports all he says everytime, but you were too love stoned to think well.

You sent money for tv and electronics and it didn't occur to you for once to ask baby bring all the receipts let me keep because of police?smh..

Tallesty1:
Some of the comments on this thread are just annoying. Like seriously, when will women start taking responsibility for their actions? You blame the few of us that are dead to love, you blame folks like mimi that loved truly...... So what de fvck do you people want from us? To turn bats and bear the blames for your own actions and inactions?

Women have been destructive from the time of Adam and all the hardhearted guys you see today are those who trusted women in the past. Trusting a girlfriend is like playing Nairabet with your life savings, you will cry.

Isn't it funny that y'all are telling the op to still try one of you when what we read here daily is how life without men is bliss? Y'all should fvck off this thread and leave him alone. He no do again, na by force?

Isn't it clear from his experience that no woman apart from his family has added any meaningful value to is life? It is same with most men.

You are angels, I agree, life with you is heavenly, I agree to that too but nah everybody wan go heaven? I personally don't so free him.

If there are some good women as y'all claim then why all these efforts to convince him to try again? Let him be. If he needs what women offer, he will definitely come for it but if he doesn't then he doesn't.

I only blame the Op for one thing, not killing her slowly. She deserved slow and continuous painful death.

I have known since I was a little that anything that has engine, tyre or boobs will definitely give you troubles.

Becareful around them.

mimimile93:
lalasticlala pls delete this thread

Iamtosignno:
Seun Should Not Because This Thread Is Educative And Moral Lesson

mimimile93:
I got so many pms from folks here wanting to know why I killed my ex while others want to know why I bash women.

Some were already calling me names and it's crazily surprising how some people judge others by the page they walked into their lives. I believe some of you here would do same if you were in my shoes. If I am to write in details what I went through in the hands of women, I will take a whole month. What I am dropping here is just a tip of what I've gone through in the hands of ho.es.

Please read through this piece carefully with understanding before jumping to quote me.
I come from a family were every child is a male. No sister, female cousin, niece and all that. I have Aunt tho..

At a very young age I started girl's business. I experienced my first heart break at the age of 7. She was my second lover. The first girl I had, distance tore us apart. This second girl of mine was my class mate in primary school. I remember during that time we were together, I did stuffs for her. Gave her my sweets, ice cream, pencil, pen, copied notes for her, I'd abandoned my note to write hers, do home work and class work for her. Since we were sitting together on the same desk, I'd let her copy me during test and exams. Some times should would have higher marks than I do. After all those sacrifices I made, a b!tch got the guts to tell me it's over just because a new boy came to the class and was giving her stuffs double has I did. The boy was from a rich family while I came from a ain't rich ain't poor family. Mehn I was hurt.

I got into secondary school though boys school (boarding) I was opportune to have access to opposite sex. I dated girls then and all of them cheat. I can't stand a cheat no matter what. So I was changing girlfriends every time. Cause once they cheat I dump them. I never had a relationship that lasted for a year because all my girlfriends cheated and lie a lot. When my girlfriend cheats I dump her real quick. I didn't give room for second chance and that was my MO. Whenever I broke up with a girl, within a week or two I'll find myself in a fresh relationship with another girl. That was my own way to heal fast. Since I was operating on (you cheat I walk out), I had like 5 girlfriends in a year. B!tches weren't loyal. I left secondary school at 16yrs (2006), gain admission into Maritime Academy of Nigeria (MAN) to study nautical science. I stated dating matured girls and most of them were older than me but guess what? They were even worse than the girls I dated during secondary school days and I wasn't tired of dumping them tho some we broke up due to bad habit they exhibited or I exhibited. I have dated girls from all the six geo-political zones, I've dated Muslims and Christians. They are all useless and cheated. Two of my ex girlfriends got pregnant to other guys while being in a relationship with me. One said she was raped but during my investigation I discovered she wasn't raped. I dump her ass immediately. One thing about mimimile is, when I love, I love with everything I have and when I hate, I hate more than I ever loved. My moniker (mimimile) mimi is my name while mile is a name friends gave me because I am the type that go miles to do and undo. I'm a do or die kind of person. I don't believe in giving up. I was doing ND program at MAN. During my ND2, I and my course mates went to Malaysia for IT. Getting to Malaysia I made friends with foreign cadets I met there, we shared contacts and all that. A company in Malaysia told selected some of us that they were impressed with and told us after our program we should come back for employment. There's a particular certificate the company required from us and we were glad because we did courses that beget that cert. That cert would enable us work in Malaysia. We did other professional courses so it was a plus for us. During my ND2, I met a girl and we started dating, so when returning from Malaysia I told her about going back to Malaysia for work as soon as am done with my program at MAN. She was happy, we all got our certs and we were preparing to leave. A week to leave my traveling documents got missing including my cert. I searched everywhere even went to the school to confirmed if I've collected it and the school proved I did. I went to my friends houses to check but couldn't find it. I was confused. My girlfriend followed me in the searching and all effort to find it proved abortive..

The day came, and I escorted my friends to the airport and couldn't go because of my traveling documents. This happened in 2008 and few months later I saw my traveling documents underneath my pillow. I was scared and started asking myself who could have put it there but I checked there earlier and did not find it. That evening I went out with my girlfriend to hangout and while spending time together she started crying and telling me she took my documents. I was shocked and asked her why she did so she told me that she was scared of losing me that she knew I'd forget her as soon as I start working overseas. I was shocked and dumb. She told me she saw a chat I had with one foreign female cadet telling her how I couldn't wait to return back to Malaysia. I was so mad I left her there and told her never to come hear me again. She went me messages begging me that she did that out of pure jealousy she never wished me any bad. I was hurt but I had to let her go.. We broke up. I sent mails to the Malaysia company if I could come that I've found my documents I never gotten any response from them. I began hunting for jobs and I started doing odd jobs while chasing the real deal. In 2009 I met another girl and we started dating. I have dated so many girls between 2007-2009 none of the relationship lasted over 3months. The ladies I was with were all useless. It's kinda hard getting a full time job with a shipping company most of the jobs were on contracts and once your contract got expired you start hunting for job again and before you could find one, your papers might got expired and to renew is money. I thought of all this and I planned getting a degree in any science related course. I told my girlfriend and she welcomed the idea. This girl was great. The longest relationship I ever had was with her because she proved to be different from other girls I've met. While embarking on admission process, I got a job with one shipping company in PH. The job was based on slots and I paid to get it. It was a contract job.
My girlfriend came to my place one evening and told me that since I've gotten a job and might not be able to go to school and acquire the degree that has someone who can do that for me. I was really glad. One thing I loved about her she was quite a wit. She introduced me to a guy and told me the guy would be attending lectures, write tests, assignments and exams for me while I pay him. I met the guy and we had a deal. My girlfriend was also a student of that school. Every now and then the guy will call me or send me mail that he needs money to buy this and that, settle lectures and all that. I would call my girlfriend and she will confirmed it's true. I will send the money and some times I will send more than what he asks for. I even paid my girlfriend's school fees.

In 2012 I lost my dad to stroke. When he had the stroke he was paralyzed, I brought him to my house to stay and I paid someone to care for him since I don't have sister or mom and my brothers were far from home. While on water, I do tell my girlfriend to be going to my place and check on my dad time to time. She did and am always delighted to have as a girlfriend. I spent most of my time on water due to the nature of my job.
I rented 2 bed rooms flat. Because of lack of time, I sent my girlfriend most of the things I'd do on land and she's always ready to help. I sent her money to buy my home appliance which she did. She bought TVs for the 2 rooms including sitting room, bought fridge, a/c, dinning table, chairs, in fact she bought everything needed to make a house comfortable. She bought them little by little depending on the money I sent. She was a good planner and whenever I returned back home to meet the house am always super excited. I bought a car I was using whenever am around and when am on water, she drove the car. My properties were ours. One day, she advised me to buy a land and she told me she saw one at a nice location. Because of the trust and love I have for her, I gave her money to buy it. She bought it and fence it. She once took me to the land. I was so so thankful to her I bought her gifts that day.
I asked her for the land documents later that night she told it was with a lawyer friend that there are certain things to be done before hanging it over to me. I told her when the documents are ready she should keep it.

In that same 2012, I went back to MAN to do my HND. In 2014 the guy called that I should send him 300k for project and I asked my girlfriend she confirmed it so I sent him 350k through my girlfriend. I always sent him money through my girlfriend. That same 2014 my contact with the company expired. I was doing my HND program at MAN and I began job hunting again. I asked my guys abroad if there was any vacancy in their company they said they will inform me whenever there's one. Now that I wasn't working again I had much time for yourself so I went to my girlfriend's school to see the guy and know how far he has gone with the project. Getting there to my greatest surprised I discovered this guy was defrauding me. He didn't do anything in fact my name wasn't in the school. All the papers he sent me were fake. It's not good to be deeply in love I swear. Love and sense are enemies at any time. I went to my girlfriend I was very mad at her. How could she do this to me, I mean I love her and did stuffs for her and she did this to me? Hire someone to defraud me? I wanted to arrest the guy and the girl but a friend advised me against it telling me I'd put my self in trouble that I wanted getting a degree illegally. I kept cool and told my girlfriend that it was over. She begged I told her no way. I was very hurt. I gave her a date to come to my place and pack her clothes from my house. That day came she came, guess what! She came with a big van, two policemen and two boys. I was wondering what she brought a van for and the police and I thought maybe she brought police due to fear of being beaten. They entered the house and my girlfriend started packing my tvs, fridge, chairs, tables I was shocked. I told her those things belong to me though she bought them but they are mine because she used my money to buy. She deep her hand into her purse and brought out receipts. Lo and behold everything she bought in my house has a receipt in her name. I was very shocked and almost fainted. The police men were ready to arrest me if I do anything silly. I sat on the floor and watched them pack my things put in the van and zoomed off. The only thing she left behind was beds, plates and pots. The next day I called her to bring my land documents she laughed and asked me which land, if I've bought any land before. I was confused and wanted to kill myself. I went to her place and discovered a b!tch wasn't living there anymore. I went to her brother told him everything the niggah never supported her. He told me he will help me track her down. Few weeks later her friend called me and demanded to see me I told her where to meet me and she came. She told me that she had a some to tell me I told her go ahead. She told me that my girlfriend killed my dad. I don't her she should stop that joke that my dad died of stroke. She opened her phone and showed me the chat she had with my girlfriend in 2012 how my girlfriend told her that she was going to kill my dad reason because my dad was messing up the house pooing on his body and she needed privacy and all that. I asked this her friend why didn't she tell me she said the had a deal and since she couldn't keep to her own promise she decided to exposed her. Mehn I was weak on the chair I was sitting. I wanted informing my brothers but was still confused about this. I quickly recalled there was a day me and my girlfriend had issues and she told me if am not careful I'll die the same way my dad died. I couldn't decode what she was saying because I knew my dad died of stroke. Was she saying am going to die of stroke.? I didn't pay mind to that statement. I met a friend who told me to report to the police and still Nigeria police system is faulty I abolished his opinion. I called my girlfriend I asked her why she killed my dad she asked me who told me I told her nobody that I remembered a day she said I will die like my dad. She cursed me on phone and ended the call. I was so hurt couldn't hold myself together. I started hating women, posted stuffs against women on my FB until I was banned on Facebook. During her birthday I paid someone to poisoned her drink and sh drank and died. Immediately sh died I was name first suspect. I was arrested, charge to court, pleaded guilty and sentence to jail. I didn't complete my HND program, lost my house properties, didn't have a degree, no land.
In court I showed the judge the chat and how she killed my dad (her friend was no where to be found) the judge told me he would do same if he was in my shoes. He gave me a lighter sentence I was sent to prison 2014, Dec 2017 I was released. That same week I was released, a lady mistakenly stepped on my while walking and before she could say sorry I hit her on her breast she fainted. I was arrested again and 3 weeks was released, went to rehab. My psychologist told me if there's any way I can leave the country I should leave that he's afraid of what would happened if I remain in Nigeria. I called few of my friends abroad and the helped me I got papers and move to Thailand. I am in Thailand working in a bar at my age. Someone should give me a reason why I should love women especially Nigerian women. I hate them. Whenever guys bring girls to this bar and I discovered the ladies are Nigerians I feel very bitter. I can't get erection from a Nigerian woman no matter how sexy she is.

Women have done more harm than good.

Presently my cousin is serving term in US prison because of a woman. That one is a story for another day.

KingSango:
When you were born the planet's were in a certain position. The weakness of your planet's creates trials in your life, maybe Venus or Moon because both deal with love and women. You come from a bloodline that preferred males over females which is typical culture in some Nigerian ethnic groups. Your jumping from one woman to another didn't balance your life. Your meditation on the bad qualities of women draws bad women to you. When we want something desire can kill the results, kinda like spilling your drink while raising the cup to your lips.


Woman is pleasure....good puzzy actually means pleasure in magical language. Yet woman is more than just pleasure she is art, beauty, love and comfort. Your mother was a Nigerian woman and your grandmother so you can't hate Nigerian women. You need to meditate on good puzzy. Create a single image of pleasure, art, beauty, love and comfort. Make a petition to your ancestral mothers in your lineage whom your family have neglected in order to have more males. There are women in your line who wanted to come back but your family preferred boys over girls. This is your imbalance and your bad experiences are called Karma. It's meant to teach you balance of both genders is needed to make family.


Ase

Organs:
Bro, stop blaming and chastising women. This is majorly your fault. Firstly, we heard your own piece, not the numerous ladies you dated. I have a friend who saw his ex sending "text" of normal greeting to her ex, he was livid, he sent her packing, she begged and begged that there was nothing between them and that she just informed him she is now in the US as they separated on an OK note. He refused, now maybe you will accuse her of cheating and this was just a friendly hi-hi ohh. That my friend regretted it to this day. Also, another one i heard of sacked his girlfriend and accused her of cheating because she had a common disease that can be contacted from using public bathrooms. You are paying someone money to get you a degree, how can you accuse someone of cheating when you are dealing in illegality yourself? Also, there is a reason why girls cheat on you. i have dated naija ladies also and majority are loyal, only very few will cheat. If truly, you take care of your woman and respect her, (by her own standards oh) not yours as most mumu men think, so you are taking her to Dubai for Christmas and claim to be taking good care of her by spending money and buying her designer bags and shoes and all she begged and wanted was for you to follow her to her small, poor village with no electricity and spend christmas with her and her grandma who is the only person left and matters to her in the whole world. A lady that complains of men always cheating on her, found out that she is always and forever looking for and dating very very handsome, half-caste looking guys that babes are always throwing themselves at. Now she is not very very pretty, or endowed or rich, but just an average babe, but she will never date an average guy but she will do anything, everything to be with a knockout handsome tall guy, then complain of heartbreaks when the guy was just managing her anyways... so maybe same thing with you. The bottom line is this bro, Me i no fine sef, just ordinary bobo, but i have dated Naija babes as well, i am not rich just comfortable, Alhamdulilah, i can guarantee you majority of the naija babes i dated, you or anyone with all their money, handsomeness, etc, couldn't have been able to snatch her from me, why, cos, i try to be sincere, fair, and just and most importantly live life with the fear of God, I am muslim. So, for example, a lady that i tell, mba-mba, i cannot pay money for a degree and i advice her not to do it that it is wrong, tell me why will that lady want to leave me? As a matter of fact, a lady (African American) that i dated, a brilliant lawyer, beautiful, stunning, etc, has two houses and drives brand new cars wanted to be married to me that is just a student working odd jobs, by force by fire and even gave me ultimatum of Dec 31st to propose else, relationship is over. It was over my dear since yes, i think am well-well but me, na naija muslim babe i wan marry. Now, about two years later wey we meet again, (she say she dey find either a naija or muslim cos of me) wey i ask am why she wan marry me bad bad, she said combination of so many things, i asked her for examples and she said dem plenty but told me two that i remembered, she said she showed me porn of a horse and a woman and that i told her not to ever look at something like that again and that it is bad for the mind and soul and us as human beings should not pollute our minds with filth like that, now Mimi, i couldn't rem but that is me for you right there, i will most probably say something like that, then the second thing was i told her to move her mum out of a nursing home into her house to live with her (which she did), that one i rem vividly cos she wanted to argue and i told her those were excuses and that she was just ungrateful and selfish, period. Conclusively, start by asking God and her family for forgiveness for the murder, cos, you will answer to that when you meet God, then live your life aright other things will follow.

Dami12345:
Nigger you dumb...Nigerian girls? Loyal? Hahaha.
Sorry bro, when you see your babe on another guy you be asking her to explain herself right?
Oh I know, she tripped and he fell?

FrostyButter:
Wow. Deep stuff. Still, I feel you need to see a good therapist from time to time to properly heal. Like wise finding God. There is still enough time to heal, find a great woman and start a family. But you have to heal properly . We have all had terrible people walk into our lives. Every one of us. But when its repeated like yours, you need to heal. Hell, this could even be spiritual. I see God helping you.

mimimiles93:
Sorry for the late reply.

I was banned. Courtesy of Brightgem.

Evrtytin u read up there really happend.

Remember when I told u it's LOYALTY over LOVE?

I don't need love no more. All I need is loyalty.


Nigerian women are dumb demons. All of them.

Engaged them in a convo and see them ecposed their illiterancy.

Engaged them in sex and see em give u a mind blowing sex.

Sex sex sex sex is what Nigerian women are good at.


I was done with them anyways.

khiaa:
Most of your brothers say they suck at the embolden, anyway why were you banned and how have you been?

mimimiles93:
iLege.ndd how far bro?
I've bin busy lately. I work overtime.

I hardly have time to write tho I've written close to half.

I was thinkin maybe I cud just record it in an audio form and send to u then u convert it into text.

Whattchu think?

4FACEADELEKE:
minimile I will advice you to read this books the manipulated man by Esther viller,no more mr nice guy by Robert Glover,the art of seduction by Robert greene,just for a start,it will help you a lot it did help me when I was in the same place you are.There are many other red pill books just start with this first.Wishing you the best in life,and may all your dreams,including those you have given up on be fulfilled.#CARRYONSOLDIER

Henitan24:
I just did, my instinct is always right. I could feel your pain from afar before this and I understand every single thing you've been through before now because there can never be a misogynist without a reason but dear you're still the one to be blamed for this in the long run. You've made a lot of mistakes and it's pitiable that a lot of guys out there are still repeating the same things, never flaunt your money in the presence of any woman, that can even turn an angel to be beast because we are all materialistic by nature and some of us can go extra miles in achieving their aims, which is the greatest mistake you've ever made and you're also too quick in jumping from one woman to another as if your life solely depend on one. This is a thousands shades of stupidity and foolishness in you alone


But Minimile93 trust me that's not the end of you having blissful relationship that can lead to marriage, you only need a while to heal. Be friend with married couples, intelligent and working class and modest, female colleagues interact with them, be open minded to them, please pour your pains and burden because to me you deserve to be more happy than you claimed to be because I can still feel some pains hiding somewhere inside of you. You deserve the best because your best is yet to come. Please give room for love, happiness and ladies to come to your life. The broken pieces than still be fix and trust me when it's being fixed it becomes more beautiful. Don't give up yet!

okikiosibodu:
You are going to make a great mum and a great wife