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BlacSmit:
Smoke some good sticks Bro. Life goes on.

Is that how u help ppl??

Webar2018:
I'm writing this with the heaviest heart . Mods please help me make people see this ... I need advices . I can't think anymore

Before you call me an idiot please listen to my story and put yourself in my shoes . Mods help me get this to many people I think I need help before I totally lose it and do something crazy

I'm VERY SORRY FOR THE LONG EPISTLE

MY STORY :

I met this girl Jennifer ( I had to change the name ) on a lovely evening around May 2017 . Then I was in my finals and was living very fine . I had landed property , my first clean car and the rest . I was with my friends who have come to stay with me .. I met her in a popular hotel when she was celebrating her birthday with her few friends , I got to know she was also in my department but my junior colleague. So I collected her number ... I called her a few times went to her house because I was in her street .. it was that day she got to know I had a car or so she claimed .. she told me she'd love to be my PA in turn she would help me settle my results ( she was acquinted with a lecturer in my dpt then ) I agreed , I told her if she can I will buy her a phone because according to her then they just stole her phone .

Anyway she knew I had a gf but was no big deal ... because of her being my side chick ... no problem I continued with her , she followed me everywhere ..I don't know if I fell in love with her goodness or respect ..she respected my opinion and supported me in all ... I wanted her around more .. she became my confidant my best friend and someone that makes me happy . On my birthday in 2017 I invited her instead of my girl and she was very nice to me and cared for me when I was seriously sick .. when they stole my ATM card after clubbing( then I used to club ..not anymore ) she helped settle things and even sponsored our transport back home .. I loved her for that ...she was always in my apartment trying to make things better when there's nothing .. because of how close my sidechick who follows me everywhere is ,. I lost my main Chick one that suffered with me ... Anyway she was a pack of trouble and always wanting a fight but Jennifer was so calm and peaceful

As time went on I began to lose many friends because they started feeling threatened by her position ... Many started warning me but the girl was so good and I'm not perfect at all m likewise in finances I started going down ..I withdrew some money about 2million then from my savings and got a bigger house so she could live with me ...I bought very good funitures .
Something happened while she travelled , my so called friends had wicked plans for me and had to leave due many issues because I didn't want to lose her ..I stayed in hotel with my boys paying bills from November2017 until May 2018 .. then I got a house ..some of friends kept telling me she's not good , and she's not who I think she is .. I dismiss that because I always see through their fear of replacement

No relationship is perfect and we always have our own issues until 1st of January ... She refused to follow me to church and insulted me saying I wanted my ex girl that's why I'm still chatting with her .she claimed my ex screenshotted her pic and she's using it against her and I'm still talking to her ... I sensed her fear because my ex wanted me back ..nothing more then fear ...that day she insulted me that I had to hit her ... First time to hit a woman and the beginning of my mistakes

Still struggling financially I managed to buy another car and got a bigger and better home ..a lot started happening from calm and respectful she started challenging me and this led to more fights Everytime ..everyone knows I love this girl including my family infact I'm wishing she has a child for me, I want to marry her but I'm scared ... But to things are getting worst and I have nobody else I can trust .. I've lost all my friends ..she's now a drama queen and would never calm down ...she once took a knife to stab me ...and I once almost choked her to death in her sleep out of anger .. because of that I planned never to hit her again just words ... I've lost so much lately and properties worth millions because of her and since she came into my life . Even all my jewelries . she always packs her to things to leave whenever we have issues ...she promised not to do this again but she always does ..every little provocation she start packing her things to leave and this scares me .. she's the reason I'm in this country my family want me out but I don't want to leave her

Fast forward to yesterday ,we had little argument she packed even after hours of my friend holding her back and left I later found out she took my iPhone and macbook ...I called her she said she will sell them to take herself back home because we in Lagos ... And just since hours she left I've lost close to 150,000 !!!
I don't know if what people say is true about her ... I need answers ..I'm depressed I can't continue alone and I can't deal with this continuously it's draining me ..I've lost many things just my life left !!!she doesn't seem remorseful at all and switched off her phone ...my friend called her she said she's selling my iPhone and macbook ..what do I do please

The only person that can change things is you.
This is why people need to learn that some people are toxic and be you need to cut them off. How is she of benefit besides sex and positioning herself to where now you can’t even think clearly? She has managed to alienate you, break you and got you under her thumb.
Why are you putting you with all this? Have you asked yourself why?
She is not helping you. She is helping herself via you.
And one day you will wake up dead.

Pubichairs:
your eyes never cleared... she'll still come back and you'll accept her...nonsense and Jennifer

So true
Some men can’t see sense even if it hits them in the face twice.
How one human can put up with all that drama is beyond me. I actually got tired just reading about it.

Adasun:
I would have just leave u to be melt down by dat soft doll but for some reasons,i will help as much as i can.




Some ladies are so good in manipulation,very cunning.when a lady enters a man's life and saw how independent he is,it makes her nervous and look dispensable.



What she does first is to supply u with mad s*xx and respect. This are the two ultimate things men want.

She would start making sure she takes the centre stage of ur life.cutting ur time-out with friends and families.



She keep being the obidient dog and keep supplying u with more s*x until she becomes the ultimate joy of ur life. She is ur life,happiness,and u sorely obtain satisfaction frm her.




By then friends and family would be warning u but you would be blinded by her manipulative skills.




When she finally saw dat u are in her control and she had totally drove all friends and family away,she would then burst out with all manner of actions.by then,u will be running helter scetter to please her because she is ur only source of joy. The one time independent,rich,comfortable and well-to-do young man has been reduce to a puppet in the hands of a female.




What u need to do now is to connect with ur friends again,as for me, i would NOT accept such a friend ever again. They may accept u back,go out with them,connect with ur former babe if u still love her,if not,find a new sexy dull.



Go back to your formal routing and never accept dat bi*tch back if she ever comes back crawling. Do not be violent op.do every thing with calmness.



The problem is dat when gurus tried to help u guys out here.u will result to insult and shouting "go and make money". If u had known dis,u would have avoid dis frm playing out.




Thanks to God for ubunja and ilegend,those 2 guys really help my ministry.

man niggah. nice to know you still think about me. as do I about you and all my brothers on NL.

Webar2018:
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Fiyinfoluwa20:
Bro, please I need your help with my Fiverr account. Made a Level 2 seller last year and left he platform for paid employment. Now I need to reactivate the ACCT, problem is I used a foreign sign in details and don’t have access to the number I registered with again. How to go about this ?

Thanks.

Just login, your account might have been deported to Nigeria and if it hasn't been deported, continue rendering your service.

ubunja:
man niggah. nice to know you still think about me. as do I about you and all my brothers on NL.

thanks man

mrphysics:
Just login, your account might have been deported to Nigeria and if it hasn't been deported, continue rendering your service.

forgot the password

Fiyinfoluwa20:
forgot the password

Use the forgot password functionality. Just enter the email used in creating the account and a link would be sent to it. Click on the link to reset your password.

You be yahoo boy from what i can read because you are still a student and have all these properties.

To solve your problem use d girl do yahoo plus

Awww, ure emotional and soft.. Me likey!!
Boo, better start saving money and forget about her for now. Ull see she will come back

Girls are truly manipulative. It will seem like an addiction of some sort, but you need to snap out of it for the greater good.

mrphysics:
Use the forgot password functionality. Just enter the email used in creating the account and a link would be sent to it. Click on the link to reset your password.

Thanks bro, did exactly this. However, it is asking me to check my phone, which I don’t use any longer

Fiyinfoluwa20:
Thanks bro, did exactly this. However, it is asking me to check my phone, which I don’t use any longer

Sorry about that. Go and do welcome back for the SIM. It will only take a day and less than N500. Then restart the process, this time, you will be in possession of the number.

It's worth it