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Wife to Peter Okoye, Lola Omotayo took to her Instagram handle and bows to pressure, reveals how she handles negativity.

Read her post below...

People send me DM's asking me how I remain sane and composed when so much negativity is thrown my way and my answer to you is simple: Anger only hurts you! What people think of you is none of your business, you just need to live your truth! When your sense of satisfaction and self worth is derived from the opinions of strangers then truly you are not in control of your happiness. This constant need of validation from randoms is so unhealthy. We are always told to stay away from negative vibes or negative people but then how will you grow your Love and Compassion if there is no one to upset you, hate you, hurt you or rub you the wrong way? Only YOU are responsible for your pyschic hygiene, only you can clear and fill your energy with love and goodness everyday, no one can do it for you and you can only do so through life experiences good and bad. Aim to be kind to your enemies and haters. Your acts of kindness are never wasted because ultimately, God sees your heart and that is really what matters at the end of the day. Wishing you a blessed week my Insta-fam! #lollipop #truth #love

BY GISTMORE.OOM - http://gistmore.com/lola-okoye-bows-to-pressure-reveals-how-she-handles-negativity

It must not be easy for her sha. Some people have become judge, jury and executioner on this psquare issue.

Who is Lola?

She no even fine sef....

married to a family who hate you regardless of all your sacrifices to make them successful, just because of their never ending hate for yoruba. Thank God peter is Man enough to command respect for his woman and kids, and funnily he his making record sales, endorsement and getting awards than the cowards and bigot hiding under "blood is thicker than water" line, to perpetrate evil. God always reward them according to the content of their hearts non of their coward men who run anytime things go hard would ever rule this country, only smart beautiful honest IGBO women have a better chance to lead this country.. Women of substance like the pre colonial great Aba women, okonjo iweala, oby ezikweseli, Dr Adadevoh (Ebola heroin), fearless Imo women who protested semi nakedly and got arrested for asking for the where about of lamidi kani the runaway dilector. If its to collect millions in bride price that's when they have lefelendum and erection, or when they want to humilate a poor widow by shaving her head and making her drink the water used in washing her husbands corpse just cos of inheritance

If they don’t love you.... love yourself and choke them with that self love and happiness!!! Life is beautiful

Bb

Pepper dem.

Say i hear

I still don't give a damn

Bloggers and obtuse captions sef
Which one is “bows to pressure” kwanu?

With eyes like that, any man would easily be hypnotized.



There's a coldness about those eyes too. Iykyk.

Having a fair skin makes one look more beautiful but she fine...oh Lord she just too fine!

She is looking like a grandma

Ok

some igbos are always full of hate which is very bad.....

It's not easy being a woman in a marriage because you get blamed for everything whether you are responsible for it or not. The only way to keep sane is to just be you and live your truth.

None of my business but honestly I have been wondering if her hobby can write incredibly well like she does.

I'm sure the only reason the igbos on this platform hate that girl is because she is a Yoruba.

If Yoruba's decide to pay igbos back hate for hate, none of them will be able to do business in Yoruba land

Yorubas hates Ibos to the teeth useless man Bleep off although i know this is a Yoruba platform go and die

bettercreature:
Dont mind those useless igbo men
Their women won’t even date them until they are ready to get married
They are as useless as that

Nice one!

It really doesn't matter much what others think about you...

Its all about knowing who you are and doing what you know is right and what makes you happy.

Never allow anyone holds the key to your happiness.

What the Bleep are you saying.. Who's Yoruba today without Igbos? If Igbos leave Lagos tell me one useless shop that will survive? When your oba is begging them to vote you think he is drunk? Yorubas are cowards afraid to speak like igbos who fought during the civil war. Betrayers to the core [color=#990000][/color]

adetayo234:
I'm sure the only reason the igbos on this platform hate that girl is because she is a Yoruba.

If Yoruba's decide to pay igbos back hate for hate, none of them will be able to do business in Yoruba land

BillgatesMaigad:
None of my business but honestly I have been wondering if her hobby can write incredibly well like she does.

how does that concern you.....dickheadnigga

HunWI:
Yorubas hates Ibos to the teeth useless man Bleep off although i know this is a Yoruba platform go and die

We like igbo women

HunWI:
Yorubas hates Ibos to the teeth useless man Bleep off although i know this is a Yoruba platform go and die

Hate is turning you to a blind man. It has become so bad that punctuating your comment became too much for you

Something that can be sorted out once with a simple “I’m sorry’’ u guys are beating about the bush