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Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by Interesting15: 6:49am On Dec 02, 2018
by Sunday Akanni Moshood


Seriously, we humans shouldn't degrade ourselves to the level of lower animals that finds it difficult to control their sexual urges. I'm saying this to express my irritation towards those who keeps saying it is impossible to live a lifestyle of sexual chastity.

It is actually possible to completely ignore premarital sex, masturbation, pornography viewing and other illicit sexual activities. Don't let anyone deceive you. Even in this corrupt world of ours, NOT ALL YOUNG PERSONS ARE INDULGING IN SEXUAL IMMORALITIES. Many of us are youngsters with healthy sexual hormones and urges, but we still keep ourselves pure and chaste, preserving our bodies until when we will begin exploring the beautiful gift of God called sex in the safe confines of our God-approved marriage.

Let me give you good reasons you should remain a virgin till marriage.

1. It Is God's Will For You To Remain A Virgin Till Marriage: If I was preaching in a church, I will simply kick this off immediately. But since this is an 'outside platform', and there are still few persons that are yet to acknowledge the existence of God, it is necessary to show them good reasons to do so.

There is a Big God up there - an Almighty-Creator Who made everything - seen and unseen, known and unknown. Look at the shirt you put on. Imagine someone coming to tell you that no one made that shirt, but that it just came up 'just like that' out of thin air. It will sound absurd, right? In the same way, it is absurd to think that the sun, moon, stars, oceans, etc, just came up 'just like that', and that there is no one that made them. So, there is a great God Who intelligently made it all.

Now, many of us already know about God, but we, unfortunately, don't know His will for us. The Good News is, you can know all God wants from you in His Word (The Bible). And one of the things God wants for you is that you remain a virgin till marriage.

The first humans God created (Adam and Eve) were virgins till marriage. They had sex together only after God joined them to be husband and wife.

The truth is, God has certain important things He intends achieving with sex, and they can only work appropriately in marriage - between a husband and his wife. So, sex is not a mere physical activity, but something divine.

"Marriage is honourable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators (those who had sex before marriage).... God will judge" Hebrews 13:4.

2. You Won't Be Hit By The Bitter Repercussions Associated With Premarital Sex: There are a lot of dangerous effects attached to having sex outside marriage, and you will only be doing yourself a lot of good by keeping yourself a virgin till marriage.

A virgin has no business being traumatized by sexual transmitted diseases and infections. Premarital sex has killed a lot of people that are with great dreams and goals (via deadly sexual diseases). These diseases are rampant today, and even condoms won't offer 100% safety. Keeping yourself a virgin will help promote a healthy lifestyle, and you can comfortably utilize your potentials to become a great person in life.

Additionally, you see, sex is a very powerful stuff, and it's more than the few minutes pleasure derived from it. When you have sex with someone, the person drops a part of them in you, and vice versa. If the person is not your married spouse, it can cause problems for you later in the future when you eventually get married to someone else - because you are prone to keep comparing the person with your spouse.

More importantly, sex is spiritual. People carries about various spiritual problems. Sex is a gateway to sharing spiritual problems. That is why you can't afford to have sex with someone not your married spouse.

Keeping yourself a virgin till marriage will promote trust and love in your home. Most importantly, it attracts God's blessings and not otherwise.

What if you have already lost your virginity?

You can always make amends. Ask God for forgiveness. Approach Him through His Son Jesus Christ, and be determined not to go back to sexual sins. God bless you.


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1897458967032026&id=100003038222908&ref=bookmarks

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by Trustme2(m): 6:58am On Dec 02, 2018
Hmmmm. With all these girls with big 'gods'

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by cryles(m): 7:50am On Dec 02, 2018
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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by Nobody: 8:51am On Dec 02, 2018
ABSTINENCE IS THE BEST WAY TO GO.

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by salbis(m): 8:51am On Dec 02, 2018
May God deliver us from all evil.

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by tstx(m): 8:52am On Dec 02, 2018
I get why Adultery is bad, i get why stealing is bad, i get why coveting is bad, i get why rape is bad, i get why murder is bad, i get why gluttony is bad, i even get why pride is bad..... But what i don't get is, how the hell is sex between two single adult bad - ?





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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by festwiz(m): 8:53am On Dec 02, 2018
Everyone is passing around opinions and calling them facts. Such nonsense

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by Emmzy201(m): 8:54am On Dec 02, 2018
Av f*cked many girls and I still maintain my virginity

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by tintingz(m): 8:55am On Dec 02, 2018
Why is God so concern about virgins? Lmfao!

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by hakeem4(m): 8:55am On Dec 02, 2018
I still do not understand why you think sex is sacred grin

Or how a cosmic puppet will be up in the cloud and begin to dictate to you how to and when to have sex

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by fykes(m): 9:00am On Dec 02, 2018
Op wait until u are married and see what opinion u hold about sex... For now... Quietly go to church it's the honourable thing for you to do.

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by yarimo(m): 9:03am On Dec 02, 2018
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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by abbaapple: 9:07am On Dec 02, 2018
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Interesting15:
by Sunday Akanni Moshood


Seriously, we humans shouldn't degrade ourselves to the level of lower animals that finds it difficult to control their sexual urges. I'm saying this to express my irritation towards those who keeps saying it is impossible to live a lifestyle of sexual chastity.

It is actually possible to completely ignore premarital sex, masturbation, pornography viewing and other illicit sexual activities. Don't let anyone deceive you. Even in this corrupt world of ours, NOT ALL YOUNG PERSONS ARE INDULGING IN SEXUAL IMMORALITIES. Many of us are youngsters with healthy sexual hormones and urges, but we still keep ourselves pure and chaste, preserving our bodies until when we will begin exploring the beautiful gift of God called sex in the safe confines of our God-approved marriage.

Let me give you good reasons you should remain a virgin till marriage.

1. It Is God's Will For You To Remain A Virgin Till Marriage: If I was preaching in a church, I will simply kick this off immediately. But since this is an 'outside platform', and there are still few persons that are yet to acknowledge the existence of God, it is necessary to show them good reasons to do so.

There is a Big God up there - an Almighty-Creator Who made everything - seen and unseen, known and unknown. Look at the shirt you put on. Imagine someone coming to tell you that no one made that shirt, but that it just came up 'just like that' out of thin air. It will sound absurd, right? In the same way, it is absurd to think that the sun, moon, stars, oceans, etc, just came up 'just like that', and that there is no one that made them. So, there is a great God Who intelligently made it all.

Now, many of us already know about God, but we, unfortunately, don't know His will for us. The Good News is, you can know all God wants from you in His Word (The Bible). And one of the things God wants for you is that you remain a virgin till marriage.

The first humans God created (Adam and Eve) were virgins till marriage. They had sex together only after God joined them to be husband and wife.

The truth is, God has certain important things He intends achieving with sex, and they can only work appropriately in marriage - between a husband and his wife. So, sex is not a mere physical activity, but something divine.

"Marriage is honourable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators (those who had sex before marriage).... God will judge" Hebrews 13:4.

2. You Won't Be Hit By The Bitter Repercussions Associated With Premarital Sex: There are a lot of dangerous effects attached to having sex outside marriage, and you will only be doing yourself a lot of good by keeping yourself a virgin till marriage.

A virgin has no business being traumatized by sexual transmitted diseases and infections. Premarital sex has killed a lot of people that are with great dreams and goals (via deadly sexual diseases). These diseases are rampant today, and even condoms won't offer 100% safety. Keeping yourself a virgin will help promote a healthy lifestyle, and you can comfortably utilize your potentials to become a great person in life.

Additionally, you see, sex is a very powerful stuff, and it's more than the few minutes pleasure derived from it. When you have sex with someone, the person drops a part of them in you, and vice versa. If the person is not your married spouse, it can cause problems for you later in the future when you eventually get married to someone else - because you are prone to keep comparing the person with your spouse.

More importantly, sex is spiritual. People carries about various spiritual problems. Sex is a gateway to sharing spiritual problems. That is why you can't afford to have sex with someone not your married spouse.

Keeping yourself a virgin till marriage will promote trust and love in your home. Most importantly, it attracts God's blessings and not otherwise.

What if you have already lost your virginity?

You can always make amends. Ask God for forgiveness. Approach Him through His Son Jesus Christ, and be determined not to go back to sexual sins. God bless you.


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1897458967032026&id=100003038222908&ref=bookmarks
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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by LucifersPreeq: 9:08am On Dec 02, 2018
If I no f my girlfriend wetin I gain .....I still think s*x is a major part of any relationship,and yes even marriages. So shouldn't we get to know how wide her puna is?How big his d is? If he's a 2 second somebody? Etc. Believe it or not many marriages end today because they didn't have enough sexual inform about their partners not until after the marriage proper .I basically don't see anything wrong with premarital sex, especially when two adults are involved. But always use protection wink

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by dracosith(m): 9:09am On Dec 02, 2018
tstx:
I get why Adultery is bad, i get why stealing is bad, i get why coveting is bad, i get why rape is bad, i get why murder is bad, i get why gluttony is bad, i even get why pride is bad..... But what i don't get is, how the hell is sex between two single adult bad - ?

Same here. I just don’t understand that part

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by mohiozua(m): 9:11am On Dec 02, 2018
Bullshit.




Sex is not spiritual.
Sex was never spiritual.
Sex would never be spiritual.


It's all about mind control.



Sex is simply a physical act that's why the benefits (of good sex) and losses (of bad sex and unprotected sex) are physical

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by ChinagoChiBoy: 9:12am On Dec 02, 2018
In Nigeria it is only our parents that thinks we are virgins....

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by tstx(m): 9:13am On Dec 02, 2018
dracosith:


Same here. I just don’t understand that part

I think some of these laws we hold dearly were made by men... Also some of the stories in the Bible were purposely put there to further the cause of Christianity.....

But we will never know..

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by Quality20(m): 9:18am On Dec 02, 2018
All these bad ppl will disagree with u. Many of then just want to sleep with every new person they see, as if trying to initiate and drag others with them to hell

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by Daniel058(m): 9:20am On Dec 02, 2018
Listen Brethren, in 1 Cor. 2:14 the Bible say " The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit.



I still don't know why some people call themselves Christians and still support what the Bible condemned.. cry

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by willian10: 9:20am On Dec 02, 2018
Hhmmm
Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by Wayneju(m): 9:26am On Dec 02, 2018
Isn't this issue of virginity overstressed??
There are men in Guam whose full-time job is to travel the countryside and deflower young virgins, who pay them for the privilege of having sex for the first time.

Reason: Under Guam law, it is expressly forbidden for virgins to marry.
Live and let live.
Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by kennyz247(m): 9:28am On Dec 02, 2018
leave our sex fo,,us mr over sabi wen u mary woman wey hey puma b like ocean bank ur eye go clear

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by Delivar(m): 9:37am On Dec 02, 2018
Waiting till marriage when you are not even sure you will get married.

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by braveboy64(m): 9:45am On Dec 02, 2018
hakeem4:
I still do not understand why you think sex is sacred grin

Or how a cosmic puppet will be up in the cloud and begin to dictate to you how to and when to have sex
Buroda Hakeemuu

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by dracosith(m): 9:45am On Dec 02, 2018
tstx:


I think some of these laws we hold dearly were made by men... Also some of the stories in the Bible were purposely put there to further the cause of Christianity.....

But we will never know..

Man has too many problems. No need complicating it with too many religious practices

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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by PotatoSalad(m): 9:48am On Dec 02, 2018
Taste before you buy please.
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Re: Why You Should Remain A Virgin Till Marriage by PrickGetSize(m): 9:55am On Dec 02, 2018
I liked this post not because I support it but because I'm a Christian. Virginity can not grant one a straight ticket to heaven neither is it a Christian quality. I don't support marriage even though it's biblical but I always make emphasis on the need to fvck your partner first and get to understand your sexual compatibility before taking your relationship to another level.

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