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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by AfonjaBoston: 12:16pm On Nov 28, 2018
justwise:


grin grin grin right grin

.let me quickly clear up this though i have explained many times before

1. If the lady was on student visa/work visa or her kids were born in US then my view on this issue will be the opposite

2. I did not attend any visa interview during my student visa application neither was i asked anywhere in the form about returning home after graduation.

3. My point about foreign passport not a big deal was in regards to giving up kids for the seek of passport.


Nigga he riled you up for a response and you fell for his bait.

Everyone I mean everyone knows who Lucas99 is. You did not have to respond. You fall hand undecided

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by AfonjaBoston: 12:17pm On Nov 28, 2018
Babyvet:


Lol, na Wetin the guy talk for another thread , saying how he went from f1 visa and then became a us citzen , no green card .

Can you pull up the link?
Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Nobody: 12:32pm On Nov 28, 2018
AfonjaBoston:
.

See Lucas oooooo grin same Lucas that was denied renewal of visa, depressed, suicidal and highly highly fraudulent!!!

This dude is a naturally dubious person Am surprised he is still . . .

Back up your claim bro beyond reasonable doubt

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by AfonjaBoston: 12:32pm On Nov 28, 2018
LUCAS99:


Op never made mention that he needs money...

The only thing Op needs is his Papers...

If Op needs money, let Op start a fund raising campaign & send me the link...

I will personally donate $500 to kickstart the donation...


Na so e dey start grin grin lucas99 get 500 bucks to donate grin grin
Big man Lucas Hahahahaha grin see Lucas ooooooo
you just they cook them better zobo grin cheesy

Wonders shall never end shocked shocked grin

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by AfonjaBoston: 12:34pm On Nov 28, 2018
VisiFisiMisi:


Back up your claim bro beyond reasonable doubt

No need to back up any thing to you I am not your " bro" and never will be. your profile is squeaky new . grin and I want lucas99 to use his lucas99 handle to respond

Welcome to nairaland shocked least I can do is welcome an alternative back up moniker grin

OP this is the character you want to trust I sorry for you


U try well well

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Nobody: 12:36pm On Nov 28, 2018
Babyvet:


Lol, na Wetin the guy talk for another thread , saying how he went from f1 visa and then became a us citzen , no green card .

It's quite possible.

Form N-600K certificate of citizenship..
Check more about this
Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Nobody: 12:39pm On Nov 28, 2018
AfonjaBoston:


No need to back up any thing to you .your profile is squeaky new . grin

Welcome to nairaland shocked least I can do is welcome an alternative back up moniker grin

Lol well a new moniker but old user .
You just back up your claim and stop saying what can not be proofing to be true
Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by AfonjaBoston: 12:43pm On Nov 28, 2018
Am done giving Lucas99 and his alternative moniker my dollar hours

its a wrap. Mission accomplished

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Babyvet: 1:05pm On Nov 28, 2018
[quote author=AfonjaBoston post=73376246]

Can you pull up the link

https://www.nairaland.com/4678706/american-us-based-us-aspirant/14
Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by justwise(m): 1:51pm On Nov 28, 2018
AfonjaBoston:


Nigga he riled you up for a response and you fell for his bait.

Everyone I mean everyone knows who Lucas99 is. You did not have to respond. You fall hand undecided

I know him far more than you do and i also how nairalanders think when accusation is leveled against you and you failed to respond.

Lucas99 is an amateur scammer i have come to know in this section and a lot of people in US student visa thread know him very well.

I replied his post for the sake of people who doesn't know the facts.

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by justwise(m): 1:56pm On Nov 28, 2018
https://www.nairaland.com/4310114/rich-kids-miami

rich-kids-miami from a rich family but still open go-fund page begging for money

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by AfonjaBoston: 2:12pm On Nov 28, 2018
Babyvet:
[/quote]



[quote author=VisiFisiMisi post=73376824]

It's quite possible.

Form N-600K certificate of citizenship..
Check more about this

Like I said mission accomplished he is a phony see how he simply responded through his alternative moniker


He cannot claim to be a natural born his late mother ( apologies to the poor woman RIP) and remarried father were not US citizens N-600k if for children living abroad of American parents.

He came in on a US F1 visa in 2013 and claimed he has siblings who are citizens and legal residents.

Even if he were to go via their timeline he wouldn't qualify for citizenship yet.

He is a phony a big scammer and a very sick person.
Claiming citizenship status is a crime and you will be busted again Prince Egu Uduka

Read up pages 20 to 30 of his profile page 25 is most interesting grin

https://www.nairaland.com/lucas99/posts/25

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by AfonjaBoston: 2:24pm On Nov 28, 2018
Lucas99 is to me just another out of status illegal alien gingering another illegal alien in this case the OP to continuously live in fear .

OP is selfish period and I don't pity her condition neither do I care about what her decision will be or her present predicament.

I only WORRY and have a SORRY feeling for those kids.

Nothing you guys say will dissuade or influence her .

she already has a game plan and Will pursue it irrespective of anything

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Beautyaddy: 2:36pm On Nov 28, 2018
AfonjaBoston:
Lucas99 is to me just another out of status illegal alien gingering another illegal alien in this case the OP to continuously live in fear .

OP is selfish period and I don't pity her condition neither do I care about what her decision will be or her present predicament.

I only WORRY and have a SORRY feeling for those kids.

Nothing you guys say will dissuade or influence her .

she already has a game plan and Will pursue it irrespective of anything


I don't think he is lying though of being a US citizen.

A number of his post have been deleted.

I remember when he first posted this discussion of how and what he went through in getting the US citizenship but most of those post have been deleted.
Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by AfonjaBoston: 2:52pm On Nov 28, 2018
Beautyaddy:


I don't think he is lying though of being a US citizen.

A number of his post have been deleted.

I remember when he first posted this discussion of how and what he went through in getting the US citizenship but most of those post have been deleted.

Why have they?
Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by AfonjaBoston: 2:56pm On Nov 28, 2018
Beautyaddy:


I don't think he is lying though of being a US citizen.

A number of his post have been deleted.

I remember when he first posted this discussion of how and what he went through in getting the US citizenship but most of those post have been deleted.

His "rap sheet" is very long on this website and probably real life whether convicted or yet to be and his life has been pretty darn inconsistent just like his lies

I would not give a hoot if a well known self professed criminal gives a wrong advice.

But for lucas99 to point fingers at another who is legally resident in a country my guts cannot stand that

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Babyvet: 6:00pm On Nov 28, 2018
AfonjaBoston:






Like I said mission accomplished he is a phony see how he simply responded through his alternative moniker


He cannot claim to be a natural born his late mother ( apologies to the poor woman RIP) and remarried father were not US citizens N-600k if for children living abroad of American parents.

He came in on a US F1 visa in 2013 and claimed he has siblings who are citizens and legal residents.

Even if he were to go via their timeline he wouldn't qualify for citizenship yet.

He is a phony a big scammer and a very sick person.
Claiming citizenship status is a crime and you will be busted again Prince Egu Uduka

Read up pages 20 to 30 of his profile page 25 is most interesting grin

https://www.nairaland.com/lucas99/posts/25

That Lucas business , I have looked at his history and he has beeen accused of scam by other Posters on here. If the op like , she can follow his lead, we all have advised her enough. They say a word is enough for the wise.

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Mancala: 6:12pm On Nov 28, 2018
EgunMogaji:


My wife who joined me 5 years ago has made it known that she’s not part of my retirement to Nigeria cheesy

I’ve been consuming odd amount of kulikuli.

It's as if our wives have met and agreed to conspire against our dreams of retiring to Ibadan. My wife and kids declared that they will not be part of my Ibadan retirement project. She said the best she can do is to be sending me pocket money every month for my upkeep shocked. Be careful with Ibadan KuliKuli, it dey run belle. My wife absolutely loves it but always pays dearly for it later grin

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Beautyaddy: 6:17pm On Nov 28, 2018
Mancala:


It's as if our wives have met and agreed to conspire against our dreams of retiring to Ibadan. My wife and kids declared that they will not be part of my Ibadan retirement project. She said the best she can do is to be sending me pocket money every month for my upkeep shocked. Be careful with Ibadan KuliKuli, it dey run belle. My wife absolutely loves it but always pays dearly for it later grin

Awww, your wife must be one of those extra-ordinary type of woman.

Sending you money after you retire in Naija for your upkeep.

Isn't that what your retirement money hopefully in dollars suppose to be doing? grin

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Mancala: 6:43pm On Nov 28, 2018
justwise:


grin grin grin right grin

.let me quickly clear up this though i have explained many times before

1. If the lady was on student visa/work visa or her kids were born in US then my view on this issue will be the opposite

2. I did not attend any visa interview during my student visa application neither was i asked anywhere in the form about returning home after graduation.

3. My point about foreign passport not a big deal was in regards to giving up kids for the seek of passport.


Being that I was the "culprit" that suggested giving up the kids for adoption, I feel the need to clarify. First, the suggestion was that if she eventually married a U.S. citizen to regularize her stay, she should consider getting the man she marries to adopt her kids. This means her new spouse will become their "legal father" while she remains their legal/biological mother. The biological father remains just that! She would need to get the consent of their biological father to do this hence my suggestion to have that discussion now rather than later. Why consider doing this? It would help bolster the evidence of a "real marriage" to USCIS and make the AOS interviews much easier. I have seen this happen and believe me, it makes a big difference.

Justwise - why do you think this is such an egregious act? From what we knew at that time, the biological dad had already given up those kids for all practical intents and purposes! Their Mom was making crucial decisions about their future without reference to him. He appeared not to be in the picture. Why not make it official when she has a new spouse and secure the kids future? Dad will forever be their bilogical dad, no one can take that away from him. But in terms of day to day care and welfare, someone else will be responsible. No different from the reality today!

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Mancala: 6:55pm On Nov 28, 2018
Beautyaddy:


Awww, your wife must be one of those extra-ordinary type of woman.

Sending you money after you retire in Naija for your upkeep.

Isn't that what your retirement money hopefully in dollars suppose to be doing? grin

Her point is that it's not just my retirement money, it belongs to the both of us and she will not condone me carrying everything to Nigeria. She will manage it from here and send me pocket money.
Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Beautyaddy: 7:19pm On Nov 28, 2018
Mancala:


Her point is that it's not just my retirement money, it belongs to the both of us and she will not condone me carrying everything to Nigeria. She will manage it from here and send me pocket money.

Okay, thought as much. Very good idea.

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by justwise(m): 8:21pm On Nov 28, 2018
Mancala:


Being that I was the "culprit" that suggested giving up the kids for adoption, I feel the need to clarify. First, the suggestion was that if she eventually married a U.S. citizen to regularize her stay, she should consider getting the man she marries to adopt her kids. This means her new spouse will become their "legal father" while she remains their legal/biological mother. The biological father remains just that! She would need to get the consent of their biological father to do this hence my suggestion to have that discussion now rather than later. Why consider doing this? It would help bolster the evidence of a "real marriage" to USCIS and make the AOS interviews much easier. I have seen this happen and believe me, it makes a big difference.

Justwise - why do you think this is such an egregious act? From what we knew at that time, the biological dad had already given up those kids for all practical intents and purposes! Their Mom was making crucial decisions about their future without reference to him. He appeared not to be in the picture. Why not make it official when she has a new spouse and secure the kids future? Dad will forever be their bilogical dad, no one can take that away from him. But in terms of day to day care and welfare, someone else will be responsible. No different from the reality today!

My initial comment regarding this still stand, the end game is to get foreign passport in exchange for your two kids, buy-one-get two free(marry their mum and get two kids) only an irresponsible father will do that.

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by AfonjaBoston: 8:28pm On Nov 28, 2018
Mancala:


Being that I was the "culprit" that suggested giving up the kids for adoption, I feel the need to clarify. First, the suggestion was that if she eventually married a U.S. citizen to regularize her stay, she should consider getting the man she marries to adopt her kids. This means her new spouse will become their "legal father" while she remains their legal/biological mother. The biological father remains just that! She would need to get the consent of their biological father to do this hence my suggestion to have that discussion now rather than later. Why consider doing this? It would help bolster the evidence of a "real marriage" to USCIS and make the AOS interviews much easier. I have seen this happen and believe me, it makes a big difference.

Justwise - why do you think this is such an egregious act? From what we knew at that time, the biological dad had already given up those kids for all practical intents and purposes! Their Mom was making crucial decisions about their future without reference to him. He appeared not to be in the picture. Why not make it official when she has a new spouse and secure the kids future? Dad will forever be their bilogical dad, no one can take that away from him. But in terms of day to day care and welfare, someone else will be responsible. No different from the reality today!

Father never die una done dey share him pikin give another man like say na hamburger and fries.

She did not tell you that he is dead neither is the biological father not in their lives.

So you think adoption or guardianship is just transferred like say you are buying grocery at Wal-Mart?



Just because a woman or man is married to another man or woman respectively doesn't transfer responsibility or guardianship of previous kids to the new partner it doesnt work like that.

Make una dey reason small. Desperation should not be stupidity

Crimes ( Adoption, immigration etc) involving kids are one of the most terrible things one can do just to "regularize" (who even came up with this word sef. grin)
papers

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Mancala: 9:20pm On Nov 28, 2018
justwise:


My initial comment regarding this still stand, the end game is to get foreign passport in exchange for your two kids, buy-one-get two free(marry their mum and get two kids) only an irresponsible father will do that.


And that end game is neither a bad thing or illegal. Different strokes, different folks; I guess we agree to disagree. Mum and kids live with new husband/father. He is responsible for their day to day upkeep and making real time decisions in their lives. What more does a "real father" do? Biological father is thousands of miles away, out of the picture. Doesn't know how the kids are feeding or schooling or anything. I guess he continues to wear the cloak of responsibility until he relinquishes on paper what he has already reliquished in practice!

To the OP - I am speaking hypothetically and in broad terms, not saying this is your situation exactly. It just appeared to be the case before more information became available.

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Mancala: 9:32pm On Nov 28, 2018
AfonjaBoston:


Father never die una done dey share him pikin give another man like say na hamburger and fries.

[/b]She did not tell you that he is dead neither is the biological father not in their lives.

So you think adoption or guardianship is just transferred like say you are buying grocery at Wal-Mart?



[b]Just because a woman or man is married to another man or woman respectively doesn't transfer responsibility or guardianship of previous kids to the new partner it doesnt work like that.

Make una dey reason small. Desperation should not be stupidity

Crimes ( Adoption, immigration etc) involving kids are one of the most terrible things one can do just to "regularize" (who even came up with this word sef. grin)
papers

Yes, It does work like this for real! The distinction is this. Bilogical fatherhood is a far cry from "being a father" to the children. If in practice, the biological father is not being responsible for his kids, why would he care if legal guardianship is transferred? In fact, in most cases, the biological father is happy to be relieved of the legal responsibility. And there is no crime involved here. Legal consent is sought and given in these situations. I understand your point of view, I am a full blooded Nigerian too, however, sometimes our Nigerian sentiment holds us back from reality.

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by prettyynx(m): 7:46am On Dec 02, 2018
Sad tho ! But going back to Naija would only frustrate you along the line ... and tbh with u, the best gift you can give your kids now is dual citizenship... find a way to do it by all means .,because later in the future they would ask why u gave up on doing it ...
meanwhile , I’ll advice u go to another state (probably NJ,Newark) and find a way to get better jobs and save up .. I’m sure u know what to save up for !!
If u are tired of that .... find your way to the Canadian boarder and file for refugee claimant ! U must have a valid reason to file for refugee claimant !

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by justwise(m): 10:14am On Dec 02, 2018
LUCAS99:


Op never made mention that he needs money...

The only thing Op needs is his Papers...

If Op needs money, let Op start a fund raising campaign & send me the link...

I will personally donate $500 to kickstart the donation...

This is what you do for a living scamming people , you have been claiming to be an American citizen for sometime now but 6 months ago you started go fund page asking for $15000 to fund your deportation case.

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by dustydee: 11:48am On Dec 02, 2018
justwise:


This is what you do for a living scamming people , you have been claiming to be an American citizen for sometime now but 6 months ago you started go fund page asking for $15000 to fund your deportation case.

Justwise!!! shocked
How did you find out about this gofundme page? And he used the picture he had posted somewhere on Nairaland.
And to think I believed him on the other thread where he was arguing that he went straight from F1 to citizenship.

Only $10 in 5 months? shocked grin
Amelikans don dey wise o.

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by Mizwisdom(f): 11:51am On Dec 02, 2018
Nairaland detectives are better than CIA o

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Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by rs172(m): 12:02pm On Dec 02, 2018
No be this dude open thread of rich kid spending dollar in U
S.A na wa oooo
Re: To Move Back From America Or Not... by justwise(m): 12:03pm On Dec 02, 2018
dustydee:

Justwise!!! shocked
How did you find out about this gofundme page? And he used the picture he had posted somewhere on Nairaland.
And to think I believed him on the other thread where he was arguing that he went straight from F1 to citizenship.

Only $10 in 5 months? shocked grin
Amelikans don dey wise o.

You remember my comment about him in that thread? Ok after that post someone contacted me to give more details about his fraudulent activities outside nairaland and supported that with the link.

I did not confront him with that link for months now but because his actions here I decided to bring it out here for unsuspecting individuals here to be aware. He has access to more doctored documents than you can imagine

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