Guys what do you think about long distance relationship..would you date a girl or guy that leaves very far from you...right now am having this cold heart with my gal cause when i need her most she wont be here and am tempted to cheat on her cause i cant keep facing this loneliness when i see beautiful girls around the area i stay in school..i cant cope and to save this relationship i need a side chick...what do you think guys should i go ahead to find a gal where i am and still maintain the relationship with her or i break up with her ...cause we have a serious misunderstanding with this ..she was to be here with me today but her mum stopped her because of some flimsy excuse..i cant cope with this ,i love her so much but the pain and missing her is too much to handle...

Long distance relationships are only fun when it is an open long distance relationship.

Use your head.

Well, I'll go with whatever opinion the guy above me is about to say. Shalom!

THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED MARRIAGE, stop being a hypocrite... when you have a female child and a boy her age range NEEDS her, would u allow her GO?

IF BY THEN YOU WOULDN'T because you have KNOWN better then simply let WISDOM FALL ON YOU NOW instead of banana and MARRY.

if you love the girl, the thought of cheating would NEVER cross your mind.... YOU ARE MERELY DATING FOR SEX... if you are serious, MARRY HER, period!!!

sexationship IS NOT relationship.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP IS A TEST OF HOW TRUE THE LOVE IS, AND THE TEST IS COMPLETE IN MARRIAGE.
this means only people who WANT TO MARRY can endure long distance relationship

Peter4luv:
Guys what do you think about long distance relationship..would you date a girl or guy that leaves very far from you...right now am having this cold heart with my gal cause when i need her most she wont be here and am tempted to cheat on her cause i cant keep facing this loneliness when i see beautiful girls around the area i stay in school..i cant cope and to save this relationship i need a side chick...what do you think guys should i go ahead to find a gal where i am and still maintain the relationship with her or i break up with her ...cause we have a serious misunderstanding with this ..she was to be here with me today but her mum stopped her because of some flimsy excuse..i cant cope with this ,i love her so much but the pain and missing her is too much to handle...

greatnaija01:
THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED MARRIAGE, stop being a hypocrite... when you have a female child and a boy her age range NEEDS her, would u allow her GO?

IF BY THEN YOU WOULDN'T because you have KNOWN better then simply let WISDOM FALL ON YOU NOW instead of banana and MARRY.

if you love the girl, the thought of cheating would NEVER cross your mind.... YOU ARE MERELY DATING FOR SEX... if you are serious, MARRY HER, period!!!

sexationship IS NOT relationship.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP IS A TEST OF HOW TRUE THE LOVE IS, AND THE TEST IS COMPLETE IN MARRIAGE.
this means only people who WANT TO MARRY can endure long distance relationship

i love her so much it just hard to process everything when we cant create a strong mutual feelings..am not concerned about the sex...they is a lots to relationship than sex...i want to marry but you dont consider me doing that when we live so far away from each other and we meet once in a while...am just tempted and it hurt me so much...

NwaAmaikpe:



Long distance relationships are only fun when it is an open long distance relationship.

Use your head.

i guess that might help but i dont know if she will feel okay about it...but doing this i dont want to mess up my love for her...you know women they get jealous and donr share they man with any woman

smh......you're asking if your relationship works because of sex....is that all you have in your brain? sex sex sex?

damaged people, lust generation

anyways, I'll advice you to break up with your current babe and have new babe, because its sex that holds your destiny....

greatnaija01:
THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED MARRIAGE, stop being a hypocrite... when you have a female child and a boy her age range NEEDS her, would u allow her GO?

IF BY THEN YOU WOULDN'T because you have KNOWN better then simply let WISDOM FALL ON YOU NOW instead of banana and MARRY.

if you love the girl, the thought of cheating would NEVER cross your mind.... YOU ARE MERELY DATING FOR SEX... if you are serious, MARRY HER, period!!!

sexationship IS NOT relationship.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP IS A TEST OF HOW TRUE THE LOVE IS, AND THE TEST IS COMPLETE IN MARRIAGE.
this means only people who WANT TO MARRY can endure long distance relationship

God bless you for this.u are a smart person and ur kind is kinda rare in this generation. l like u already

pls DM me o, let us be friends o.... I am grateful. Am expecting your PM, thanks

Hisduchess:


God bless you for this.u are a smart person and ur kind is kinda rare in this generation. l like u already

Well, i would say i have ample experience at it. My fiancee and i are getting married soon a d guess what? She resides in Plateau and i reside in Oyo. We have been dating since 2016 and its been awesome. At times we see twice or thrice in a year within a one week period wen we are less busy. You see, its a thing of the mind. Even the space between you allows for personal development without distractions. Build what you can wen you are still single because when you marry, you won't have time for those things again . It takes a lot of discipline, courage and love to keep it together. Call yourselves everyday, make video calls, romantic messages, u can even waybill gifts to her out of the blue. Trust me, ling distance relationship works when you make effort.
#shalom

Benbobola:
Well, i would say i have ample experience at it. My fiancee and i are getting married soon a d guess what? She resides in Plateau and i reside in Oyo. We have been dating since 2016 and its been awesome. At times we see twice or thrice in a year within a one week period wen we are less busy. You see, its a thing of the mind. Even the space between you allows for personal development without distractions. Build what you can wen you are still single because when you marry, you won't have time for those things again . It takes a lot of discipline, courage and love to keep it together. Call yourselves everyday, make video calls, romantic messages, u can even waybill gifts to her out of the blue. Trust me, ling distance relationship works when you make effort.
#shalom

thank you brother for this atleast you are mature enough to give a reasonable suggestion than the mumus above me...

lilmax:
smh......you're asking if your relationship works because of sex....is that all you have in your brain? sex sex sex?

damaged people, lust generation

anyways, I'll advice you to break up with your current babe and have new babe, because its sex that holds your destiny....

guy i never said i was bothered about sex and besides i was just asking for your opinion faced with dating a gal that lives far from you..do you think it easy or do i know what she herself is doing being far from me..it hard to say if you think my mind is made up on sex alone..