mechanics:
Wow, your friend should apologize to her and be responsible for her treatment, but he went too far o, she didn't even insult him, she just ask him simple question.

IamD18:
It's obvious they don't respect and like each other.

First; I find it disrespecting for one to dish food without taking permission from the cook. I personally hate that act and I don't do it.

And yes, most men don't do that aswell, but for him to do it shows he has no regards for the lady. For him to even allow getting into a fight with the lady shows a lot about his character.

Another thing is the manner the lady approached him with. A peaceful lady will overlook since he isn't a stranger to his boyfriend, but for her to confront her also shows they aren't in good terms.

In my opinion. The boyfriend seems to be an accommodating type of guy and for him to continue with his style of accommodating people, he needs to part way from that lady because more will happen in future to his own family member.

As for his friend's safety. He should just go alongside with his friend to plead to the girl's father. That's the only thing to do to avoid further cases and problems.

eyeview:
The girl has not told you how she must have thoroughly washed the poor guy down that made him react that way. Am sure she must have reminded him of how he is shameless to be leaching off and feeding off her man.

Tell your guy to disappear before morning.
If the dpo had trained his daughter, she won't be spending a week at the home of a man who hasn't paid her brideprice.
In our time, my father will only pick that you are in a man's house and deal with you. I guess today, both parents and the children don't have shame again

Treasuredlove:
I see your friend beating your sister or wife in the nearest future ...stay far from him. His kind has boundary and entitlement issues

azraeljaheel:



Them suppose hang you for cross then set you ablaze then smoke your ashes brown monkey tree hugger!!! Apes obey

ebenezerolaiwola:
The girl self, what's type of food that she cook that she will insult the poor guy over food, the girl no get manner, for the guy he did not do well, he would have walk away before it escalate to fighting

Elliot2:
u need to think deeply! What cook goes to the bath after cooking when guest is waiting and hungry? That same courtsey she demands of the guy requires her to have done the needful or asked him to serve himself. I guess she did that on purpose and may have spent a lot of time in the bathroom,and that may have made him impatient therefore made him to dish the food. You don't know what some of these hateful girls could do to separate their guys from their buddies and family. I can deduce frm d post that d girl never liked d guy(esp that he did not give them the needed privacy when he spent the night over).

Elliot2:
that question was useless. Didn't she know that courtsey also demands that she dished his food before going to the bathroon? A reasonable person would have apologised immediately she saw he what he has done;maybe,she intentionally did that to punish him after spending a lot of time in the bathroom.

lefulefu:
what will u be doin inside ur friend's house with his girlfriend when he has gone out for work.courtesy demands u also leave when ur own friend has left.the guy kak for im bros house as d owner don comot dey fight im friend babe over a plate of rice .which sane does that? even if d girl was scarstic cos of the food then leave and walk away.i love my self respect biko.maybe d guy has been fooling himself in the past eating all their food and the girl just had to speak her mind this time.abegi a man who cant control himself when around food is not a real man.

Mrnairalandd:
MY brother, let me give you this piece if advice and it ll help you a lot in future.

Your girlfriend is not a wife material, run for your dear life.

She ll do worse to your family.

If you like, allow emotion to becloud your sense of judgement, you ll regret it for life.


Run for your life.

See a cool girlfriend that was well raised ll not even be bothered about someone dishing a food while she was having her shower.

A good woman would have asked your friend about it before even going to the bathroom.

This girl ll make your family go through hell if you finally marry her.

Run Young man.

Trust me, for your friend to react, your girlfriend must have said a whole lot to him.

If a woman tell you that she has done 10% of verbal abuse, my brother, realistically, she must have done 120%.

Treasuredlove:
the only thing I agree with in this write up is that co habiting and fornication is bad

mechanics:
hmmmmmm, just common food, see what has happened, a simple sorry will solve the whole problem, now that police is involve, and mind you, the man should have calmed himself down and eat somewhere if he knew all this problem will arise.

Elliot2:
u can't keep friends that u don't share similiar behavious with,but u can with a girl. The op and his friend may have been really closed that stuffs like eating one another's food and sharing rooms is not a big deal. The gf may be d new one here,and therefore courtsey demands that she respect her guys buddies as much as she wants being respected by any one.

dainformant:
A "confused" Nigerian man is soliciting advice from the public after his girlfriend and his good friend clashed over food in his apartment.

According to him, his girlfriend has now involved her father who is a Divisional Police Officer in the matter and wants his friend to be arrested over the fight.

Read the full story below as shared online; 

My girlfriend visited few days ago and she planned on staying for the rest of the week. Unfortunately last night a very good friend(male) of mine visited and spent the night with us. This morning I woke up very early and left for work. I dropped money for food so she and my guy who said he will be leaving later in the day can eat.

And few mins ago my girlfriend called me crying, telling me that my friend is beating her up. I have to suspend whatever I'm doing and rushed home. On getting home the whole place was scattered both kitchen, Sitting room and bedroom. When I asked what the problem was my girlfriend told me in an emotional voice that she just finished cooking and went to the bathroom only to come out to see that my guy has already dished out food and was eating.

When she tried to question him on why he couldn't wait for her to come out and give him food . He rebuked her and they started exchanging words which later led to a fight or should I say beating.

They both agreed that that was exactly what happened and my girlfriends face and body is full of bruises now

To make matters worse my girlfriend has already contacted her father who is a DPO and he called and directed that I should get the guy arrested before he gets here tomorrow morning.

If you where in my shoes, what will you do?

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/12/man-in-dilemma-after-his-girlfriend-and-male-friend-fought-over-food.html

Elliot2:
girls should know that a man dating or marrying them does not mean that the life of the man must revolve and ends with them. They must respect and tolerate their guys buddies and family just as she would love being respected. All this wouldn't have happened if she had apologised swiftly for keeping him waiting in hunger while she bathed.

babyfaceafrica:
fake story

dainformant:
A "confused" Nigerian man is soliciting advice from the public after his girlfriend and his good friend clashed over food in his apartment.

According to him, his girlfriend has now involved her father who is a Divisional Police Officer in the matter and wants his friend to be arrested over the fight.

Read the full story below as shared online; 

My girlfriend visited few days ago and she planned on staying for the rest of the week. Unfortunately last night a very good friend(male) of mine visited and spent the night with us. This morning I woke up very early and left for work. I dropped money for food so she and my guy who said he will be leaving later in the day can eat.

And few mins ago my girlfriend called me crying, telling me that my friend is beating her up. I have to suspend whatever I'm doing and rushed home. On getting home the whole place was scattered both kitchen, Sitting room and bedroom. When I asked what the problem was my girlfriend told me in an emotional voice that she just finished cooking and went to the bathroom only to come out to see that my guy has already dished out food and was eating.

When she tried to question him on why he couldn't wait for her to come out and give him food . He rebuked her and they started exchanging words which later led to a fight or should I say beating.

They both agreed that that was exactly what happened and my girlfriends face and body is full of bruises now

To make matters worse my girlfriend has already contacted her father who is a DPO and he called and directed that I should get the guy arrested before he gets here tomorrow morning.

If you where in my shoes, what will you do?

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/12/man-in-dilemma-after-his-girlfriend-and-male-friend-fought-over-food.html

NwaAmaikpe:




You should be more concerned with what will happen to you.
Because if the girl's DPO-of-a-father knows his onions, it is you who should be arrested for exposing his daughter to physical and sexual harm.

Back to their claims.
It just doesn't add up.

Your friend fired with hunger of the loins and some of the stomach lured your girl to cook and tend to him.
(You know how feeble a girl's defenses can be when the right words are said to her and her erogenous zones are tipped off?)

They then had some great sex behind you and apparently got into an argument afterwards.
Your girlfriend feeling very dirty and used, kicked the food she served him off his hands and in a fit of rage, he beat her to a pulp.

Denial of guilt comes naturally to offenders.
So the two of them agreeing to her story is the brightest of all the redflags.

She was preeked by him.
If he could beat her, then he can preek her.

But you were stupid to leave your goat and your yam together.
Conji defies all loyalty.
I'd shag my own pastor's wife if he gives me this opportunity.

dainformant:
A "confused" Nigerian man is soliciting advice from the public after his girlfriend and his good friend clashed over food in his apartment.

According to him, his girlfriend has now involved her father who is a Divisional Police Officer in the matter and wants his friend to be arrested over the fight.

Read the full story below as shared online; 

My girlfriend visited few days ago and she planned on staying for the rest of the week. Unfortunately last night a very good friend(male) of mine visited and spent the night with us. This morning I woke up very early and left for work. I dropped money for food so she and my guy who said he will be leaving later in the day can eat.

And few mins ago my girlfriend called me crying, telling me that my friend is beating her up. I have to suspend whatever I'm doing and rushed home. On getting home the whole place was scattered both kitchen, Sitting room and bedroom. When I asked what the problem was my girlfriend told me in an emotional voice that she just finished cooking and went to the bathroom only to come out to see that my guy has already dished out food and was eating.

When she tried to question him on why he couldn't wait for her to come out and give him food . He rebuked her and they started exchanging words which later led to a fight or should I say beating.

They both agreed that that was exactly what happened and my girlfriends face and body is full of bruises now

To make matters worse my girlfriend has already contacted her father who is a DPO and he called and directed that I should get the guy arrested before he gets here tomorrow morning.

If you where in my shoes, what will you do?

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/12/man-in-dilemma-after-his-girlfriend-and-male-friend-fought-over-food.html

Elliot2:
girls should know that a man dating or marrying them does not mean that the life of the man must revolve and ends with them. They must respect and tolerate their guys buddies and family just as she would love being respected. All this wouldn't have happened if she had apologised swiftly for keeping him waiting in hunger while she bathed.

NwaAmaikpe:




You should be more concerned with what will happen to you.
Because if the girl's DPO-of-a-father knows his onions, it is you who should be arrested for exposing his daughter to physical and sexual harm.

Back to their claims.
It just doesn't add up.

Your friend fired with hunger of the loins and some of the stomach lured your girl to cook and tend to him.
(You know how feeble a girl's defenses can be when the right words are said to her and her erogenous zones are tipped off?)

They then had some great sex behind you and apparently got into an argument afterwards.
Your girlfriend feeling very dirty and used, kicked the food she served him off his hands and in a fit of rage, he beat her to a pulp.

Denial of guilt comes naturally to offenders.
So the two of them agreeing to her story is the brightest of all the redflags.

She was preeked by him.
If he could beat her, then he can preek her.

But you were stupid to leave your goat and your yam together.
Conji defies all loyalty.
I'd shag my own pastor's wife if he gives me this opportunity.