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Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Gboliwe: 1:19am On Dec 07
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Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by IkpuMmadu: 2:07am On Dec 07
eyeview:
The girl has not told you how she must have thoroughly washed the poor guy down that made him react that way. Am sure she must have reminded him of how he is shameless to be leaching off and feeding off her man.

Tell your guy to disappear before morning.
If the dpo had trained his daughter, she won't be spending a week at the home of a man who hasn't paid her brideprice.
In our time, my father will only pick that you are in a man's house and deal with you. I guess today, both parents and the children don't have shame again

Amazing ...this is amazing
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by NnaNna4(m): 2:21am On Dec 07
Make I hear say I am a girl and my father a DPO[/color]

I will own my neighborhood [color=#990000]
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Tycike: 2:28am On Dec 07
Bitches come and go but guys remain together forever.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by handsomeyinka(m): 2:46am On Dec 07
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



You should be more concerned with what will happen to you.
Because if the girl's DPO-of-a-father knows his onions, it is you who should be arrested for exposing his daughter to physical and sexual harm.

Back to their claims.
It just doesn't add up.

Your friend fired with hunger of the loins and some of the stomach lured your girl to cook and tend to him.
(You know how feeble a girl's defenses can be when the right words are said to her and her erogenous zones are tipped off?)

They then had some great sex behind you and apparently got into an argument afterwards.
Your girlfriend feeling very dirty and used, kicked the food she served him off his hands and in a fit of rage, he beat her to a pulp.

Denial of guilt comes naturally to offenders.
So the two of them agreeing to her story is the brightest of all the redflags.

She was preeked by him.
If he could beat her, then he can preek her.

But you were stupid to leave your goat and your yam together.
Conji defies all loyalty.
I'd shag my own pastor's wife if he gives me this opportunity.
This won't be your portion ijn
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by handsomeyinka(m): 2:50am On Dec 07
IamD18:
It's obvious they don't respect and like each other.

First; I find it disrespecting for one to dish food without taking permission from the cook. I personally hate that act and I don't do it.

And yes, most men don't do that aswell, but for him to do it shows he has no regards for the lady. For her to even allow getting into a fight with the lady shows a lot about his character.

Another thing is the manner the lady approached him with. A peaceful lady will overlook since he isn't a stranger to his boyfriend, but for her to confront her also shows they aren't in good terms.

In my opinion. The boyfriend seems to be an accommodating type of guy and for him to continue with his style of accommodating people, he needs to part way from that lady because more will happen in future to his own family member.

As for his friend's safety. He should just go alongside with his friend to plead to the girl's father. That's the only thing to do to avoid further cases and problems.
Are you a marriage counselor?
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by ebenezerolaiwola(m): 3:13am On Dec 07
The girl self, what's type of food that she cook that she will insult the poor guy over food, the girl no get manner, for the guy he did not do well, he would have walk away before it escalate to fighting
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by professor100: 3:14am On Dec 07
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked
You get pastor? Wetin I'm day preach for u.


You should be more concerned with what will happen to you.
Because if the girl's DPO-of-a-father knows his onions, it is you who should be arrested for exposing his daughter to physical and sexual harm.

Back to their claims.
It just doesn't add up.

Your friend fired with hunger of the loins and some of the stomach lured your girl to cook and tend to him.
(You know how feeble a girl's defenses can be when the right words are said to her and her erogenous zones are tipped off?)

They then had some great sex behind you and apparently got into an argument afterwards.
Your girlfriend feeling very dirty and used, kicked the food she served him off his hands and in a fit of rage, he beat her to a pulp.

Denial of guilt comes naturally to offenders.
So the two of them agreeing to her story is the brightest of all the redflags.

She was preeked by him.
If he could beat her, then he can preek her.

But you were stupid to leave your goat and your yam together.
Conji defies all loyalty.
I'd shag my own pastor's wife if he gives me this opportunity.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by bejeria101(m): 3:17am On Dec 07
dainformant:
A "confused" Nigerian man is soliciting advice from the public after his girlfriend and his good friend clashed over food in his apartment.

According to him, his girlfriend has now involved her father who is a Divisional Police Officer in the matter and wants his friend to be arrested over the fight.

Read the full story below as shared online; 

My girlfriend visited few days ago and she planned on staying for the rest of the week. Unfortunately last night a very good friend(male) of mine visited and spent the night with us. This morning I woke up very early and left for work. I dropped money for food so she and my guy who said he will be leaving later in the day can eat.

And few mins ago my girlfriend called me crying, telling me that my friend is beating her up. I have to suspend whatever I'm doing and rushed home. On getting home the whole place was scattered both kitchen, Sitting room and bedroom. When I asked what the problem was my girlfriend told me in an emotional voice that she just finished cooking and went to the bathroom only to come out to see that my guy has already dished out food and was eating.

When she tried to question him on why he couldn't wait for her to come out and give him food . He rebuked her and they started exchanging words which later led to a fight or should I say beating.

They both agreed that that was exactly what happened and my girlfriends face and body is full of bruises now

To make matters worse my girlfriend has already contacted her father who is a DPO and he called and directed that I should get the guy arrested before he gets here tomorrow morning.

If you where in my shoes, what will you do?


See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/12/man-in-dilemma-after-his-girlfriend-and-male-friend-fought-over-food.html

Your shoe no be my size!
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Jiang(m): 3:22am On Dec 07
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



You should be more concerned with what will happen to you.
Because if the girl's DPO-of-a-father knows his onions, it is you who should be arrested for exposing his daughter to physical and sexual harm.

Back to their claims.
It just doesn't add up.

Your friend fired with hunger of the loins and some of the stomach lured your girl to cook and tend to him.
(You know how feeble a girl's defenses can be when the right words are said to her and her erogenous zones are tipped off?)

They then had some great sex behind you and apparently got into an argument afterwards.
Your girlfriend feeling very dirty and used, kicked the food she served him off his hands and in a fit of rage, he beat her to a pulp.

Denial of guilt comes naturally to offenders.
So the two of them agreeing to her story is the brightest of all the redflags.

She was preeked by him.
If he could beat her, then he can preek her.

But you were stupid to leave your goat and your yam together.
Conji defies all loyalty.
I'd shag my own pastor's wife if he gives me this opportunity.

I can believe I actually fully agree with what you typed

Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by MNDY(m): 3:39am On Dec 07
Nwakaimkpe with that comment above though!!! Hahahahahaha!!!

Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by dododawa1: 4:48am On Dec 07
DPO should arrested d story teller for playing with people obligater
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by tete7000(m): 5:08am On Dec 07
I am not in your. shoe, I can't be in your shoe, and as such I can't advise
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by johnkey: 5:08am On Dec 07
Lloydthesaint:
Weed doesn’t make one violent
abeg tell the idiots make they hear
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Anijay1212(m): 5:14am On Dec 07
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked I'd shag my own pastor's wife if he gives me this opportunity.
For the first time i agree with you except this part.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by monerozi5590(m): 5:16am On Dec 07
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



You should be more concerned with what will happen to you.
Because if the girl's DPO-of-a-father knows his onions, it is you who should be arrested for exposing his daughter to physical and sexual harm.

Back to their claims.
It just doesn't add up.

Your friend fired with hunger of the loins and some of the stomach lured your girl to cook and tend to him.
(You know how feeble a girl's defenses can be when the right words are said to her and her erogenous zones are tipped off?)

They then had some great sex behind you and apparently got into an argument afterwards.
Your girlfriend feeling very dirty and used, kicked the food she served him off his hands and in a fit of rage, he beat her to a pulp.

Denial of guilt comes naturally to offenders.
So the two of them agreeing to her story is the brightest of all the redflags.

She was preeked by him.
If he could beat her, then he can preek her.

But you were stupid to leave your goat and your yam together.
Conji defies all loyalty.
I'd shag my own pastor's wife if he gives me this opportunity.




Too much sense in this post.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by lordswill03: 5:17am On Dec 07
Maybe they've done it self and used fight as a cover up
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Desyluv(m): 5:19am On Dec 07
That Guy soo called your friend must be mad, and if I we're you I will beat him first before getting him arrested
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by ikhileomotayo: 5:19am On Dec 07
lefulefu:
how will a normal man blow his top cos of food.stop making friends with igbo smokers

Not just Igbo smokers, but smokers of a particular variety of weed: Kwale weed grin
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by kingjoe(m): 5:21am On Dec 07
This particular issue has happened to me.so those saying its false should have a rethink. intact when I started reading this I was wondering when I sent this to nairaland without me knowing till I got to a certain part of the gist. in my own case ,both were having sense of entitlement. they almost fought. as my girl pushed the guy which could had led to a fight but the my guy restrained himself. this my friend goes to the kitchen to serve himself but my girl warned him not to do so rather seek her to serve him.but he won't listen .on one particular day he came my girl took a pot of soup she just cooked and left because the guy had gone ahead to boil water for making garri.although later some friends all blamed my guy that he was wrong for going to dish out meals when a girl is at home.it also made me not to marry her as she was intolerant and ready to fight even as a Christian.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by autonomous22: 5:22am On Dec 07
You shud v added the name of ur friend let's see if him is from Yoruba, coz dey love food more than anything...
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by mudiana(m): 5:44am On Dec 07
Na food go kill that guy.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by pocohantas(f): 5:57am On Dec 07
IamD18:
It's obvious they don't respect and like each other.

First; I find it disrespecting for one to dish food without taking permission from the cook. I personally hate that act and I don't do it.

And yes, most men don't do that aswell, but for him to do it shows he has no regards for the lady. For her to even allow getting into a fight with the lady shows a lot about his character.

Another thing is the manner the lady approached him with. A peaceful lady will overlook since he isn't a stranger to his boyfriend, but for her to confront her also shows they aren't in good terms.

In my opinion. The boyfriend seems to be an accommodating type of guy and for him to continue with his style of accommodating people, he needs to part way from that lady because more will happen in future to his own family member.

As for his friend's safety. He should just go alongside with his friend to plead to the girl's father. That's the only thing to do to avoid further cases and problems.

That is all.
His friend is violent, but the girl has serious issues. It is her type that will be harrassing in-laws, na like this e dey start.

Anyway, I blame unemployment. If two of them had a job, they won't be home fighting over food cooked with another man's sweat.

The guy should do away with both of them.

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Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by palashbiswas: 6:01am On Dec 07
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by jacoik(m): 6:21am On Dec 07
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



You should be more concerned with what will happen to you.
Because if the girl's DPO-of-a-father knows his onions, it is you who should be arrested for exposing his daughter to physical and sexual harm.

Back to their claims.
It just doesn't add up.

Your friend fired with hunger of the loins and some of the stomach lured your girl to cook and tend to him.
(You know how feeble a girl's defenses can be when the right words are said to her and her erogenous zones are tipped off?)

They then had some great sex behind you and apparently got into an argument afterwards.
Your girlfriend feeling very dirty and used, kicked the food she served him off his hands and in a fit of rage, he beat her to a pulp.

Denial of guilt comes naturally to offenders.
So the two of them agreeing to her story is the brightest of all the redflags.

She was preeked by him.
If he could beat her, then he can preek her.

But you were stupid to leave your goat and your yam together.
Conji defies all loyalty.
I'd shag my own pastor's wife if he gives me this opportunity.
lolxxxxx I swear ur sense will not kill you, see as u analysis the whole issue lolzzzzz. in fact guy, I dash u 1 million billion as u made me confused this morning
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by freemi(m): 6:21am On Dec 07
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



You should be more concerned with what will happen to you.
Because if the girl's DPO-of-a-father knows his onions, it is you who should be arrested for exposing his daughter to physical and sexual harm.

Back to their claims.
It just doesn't add up.

Your friend fired with hunger of the loins and some of the stomach lured your girl to cook and tend to him.
(You know how feeble a girl's defenses can be when the right words are said to her and her erogenous zones are tipped off?)

They then had some great sex behind you and apparently got into an argument afterwards.
Your girlfriend feeling very dirty and used, kicked the food she served him off his hands and in a fit of rage, he beat her to a pulp.

Denial of guilt comes naturally to offenders.
So the two of them agreeing to her story is the brightest of all the redflags.

She was preeked by him.
If he could beat her, then he can preek her.

But you were stupid to leave your goat and your yam together.
Conji defies all loyalty.
I'd shag my own pastor's wife if he gives me this opportunity.
haha. Nice one. Making sense
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Divinalss: 6:21am On Dec 07
Guy be careful it seems like they are lovers ooo.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by dingbang(m): 6:25am On Dec 07
I can't even invite a male friend over when my babe is around. Case closed.

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