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Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by mechanics(m): 8:49am On Dec 07
Wow, your friend should apologize to her and be responsible for her treatment, but he went too far o, she didn't even insult him, she just ask him simple question.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Elliot2(m): 8:56am On Dec 07
I guess it didn't cross the mind of the dumb girl that courtsey and commonsense demands that she dish the guy's food before leaving for the bathroom. This is the problem with black people,we just love to abuse everything while thinking we know all. Courtsey of that kind is not a fundamental of life,therefore situations and individual applications differ. That bitch lacks manners. Instead of her to apologise for not dishing the guys food before going to d bathroom,was there forming one useless feminist right(courtsey) and "do u know my daddy" bullshit".
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Elliot2(m): 9:02am On Dec 07
mechanics:
Wow, your friend should apologize to her and be responsible for her treatment, but he went too far o, she didn't even insult him, she just ask him simple question.
that question was useless. Didn't she know that courtsey also demands that she dished his food before going to the bathroon? A reasonable person would have apologised immediately she saw he what he has done;maybe,she intentionally did that to punish him after spending a lot of time in the bathroom.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Goalnaldo(m): 9:06am On Dec 07
IamD18:
It's obvious they don't respect and like each other.

First; I find it disrespecting for one to dish food without taking permission from the cook. I personally hate that act and I don't do it.

And yes, most men don't do that aswell, but for him to do it shows he has no regards for the lady. For him to even allow getting into a fight with the lady shows a lot about his character.

Another thing is the manner the lady approached him with. A peaceful lady will overlook since he isn't a stranger to his boyfriend, but for her to confront her also shows they aren't in good terms.

In my opinion. The boyfriend seems to be an accommodating type of guy and for him to continue with his style of accommodating people, he needs to part way from that lady because more will happen in future to his own family member.

As for his friend's safety. He should just go alongside with his friend to plead to the girl's father. That's the only thing to do to avoid further cases and problems.
after reading all the comments as of the time of typing this, I have to agree with this guy. Maybe you are a marriage counselor. Lemme chip in something. Pls guys learn to take permission before dishing food you didn't cook especially if the cook is a female. My mum finds it disrespectful when my dad, elder brother or me collects food from the pot when she is around.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Unik3030: 9:14am On Dec 07
eyeview:
The girl has not told you how she must have thoroughly washed the poor guy down that made him react that way. Am sure she must have reminded him of how he is shameless to be leaching off and feeding off her man.

Tell your guy to disappear before morning.
If the dpo had trained his daughter, she won't be spending a week at the home of a man who hasn't paid her brideprice.
In our time, my father will only pick that you are in a man's house and deal with you. I guess today, both parents and the children don't have shame again
this is the best time for the guy to show he's a real friend, I will just tell my friend to run away n look for ways to beg the dpo father n look for ways to discharge that girl cos it's obvious she has issues. though I can't do what d friend did but I don't see any big deal about d whole issue. d girl just decide to blow it out proportion cause of his father's connect

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Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Elliot2(m): 9:18am On Dec 07
Treasuredlove:
I see your friend beating your sister or wife in the nearest future ...stay far from him. His kind has boundary and entitlement issues
u need to think deeply! What cook goes to the bath after cooking when guest is waiting and hungry? That same courtsey she demands of the guy requires her to have done the needful or asked him to serve himself. I guess she did that on purpose and may have spent a lot of time in the bathroom,and that may have made him impatient therefore made him to dish the food. You don't know what some of these hateful girls could do to separate their guys from their buddies and family. I can deduce frm d post that d girl never liked d guy(esp that he did not give them the needed privacy when he spent the night over).
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by lefulefu(m): 9:24am On Dec 07
azraeljaheel:



Them suppose hang you for cross then set you ablaze then smoke your ashes brown monkey tree hugger!!! Apes obey

see what i am saying .just look at how violent this yoot i just quoted is .oga slow down on ur weed binging or else u might start running stark Unclad for central market.remain small wey u go enter dat stage.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Elliot2(m): 9:31am On Dec 07
ebenezerolaiwola:
The girl self, what's type of food that she cook that she will insult the poor guy over food, the girl no get manner, for the guy he did not do well, he would have walk away before it escalate to fighting
d girl never liked d guy. She may have eaten to her fill while cooking and therefore cared less abt d guy;again,she spent forever in d bathroom inorder to punish him.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by lefulefu(m): 9:33am On Dec 07
Elliot2:
u need to think deeply! What cook goes to the bath after cooking when guest is waiting and hungry? That same courtsey she demands of the guy requires her to have done the needful or asked him to serve himself. I guess she did that on purpose and may have spent a lot of time in the bathroom,and that may have made him impatient therefore made him to dish the food. You don't know what some of these hateful girls could do to separate their guys from their buddies and family. I can deduce frm d post that d girl never liked d guy(esp that he did not give them the needed privacy when he spent the night over).
what will u be doin inside ur friend's house with his girlfriend when he has gone out for work.courtesy demands u also leave when ur own friend has left.the guy kak for im bros house as d owner don comot dey fight im friend babe over a plate of rice .which sane man does that? even if d girl was scarstic cos of the food then leave and walk away.i love my self respect biko.maybe d guy has been fooling himself in the past eating all their food and the girl just had to speak her mind this time.abegi a man who cant control himself when around food is not a real man.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by mechanics(m): 9:34am On Dec 07
Elliot2:
that question was useless. Didn't she know that courtsey also demands that she dished his food before going to the bathroon? A reasonable person would have apologised immediately she saw he what he has done;maybe,she intentionally did that to punish him after spending a lot of time in the bathroom.
hmmmmmm, just common food, see what has happened, a simple sorry will solve the whole problem, now that police is involve, and mind you, the man should have calmed himself down and eat somewhere if he knew all this problem will arise.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Shevchenko7: 9:35am On Dec 07
OP mark my words... If you end up marrying that girl, that is how she will involve her dad and get you arrested when you guys have issues... You better be a man and leave that girl wisely... Your friend on the other hand doesn't deserve to be called your friend... How could he beat your girl up... He deserves to be arrested but not by you...
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Elliot2(m): 9:50am On Dec 07
lefulefu:
what will u be doin inside ur friend's house with his girlfriend when he has gone out for work.courtesy demands u also leave when ur own friend has left.the guy kak for im bros house as d owner don comot dey fight im friend babe over a plate of rice .which sane does that? even if d girl was scarstic cos of the food then leave and walk away.i love my self respect biko.maybe d guy has been fooling himself in the past eating all their food and the girl just had to speak her mind this time.abegi a man who cant control himself when around food is not a real man.
u can't keep friends that u don't share similiar behavious with,but u can with a girl. The op and his friend may have been really closed that stuffs like eating one another's food and sharing rooms is not a big deal. The gf may be d new one here,and therefore courtsey demands that she respect her guys buddies as much as she wants being respected by any one.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by lefulefu(m): 9:52am On Dec 07
Mrnairalandd:
MY brother, let me give you this piece if advice and it ll help you a lot in future.

Your girlfriend is not a wife material, run for your dear life.

She ll do worse to your family.

If you like, allow emotion to becloud your sense of judgement, you ll regret it for life.


Run for your life.

See a cool girlfriend that was well raised ll not even be bothered about someone dishing a food while she was having her shower.

A good woman would have asked your friend about it before even going to the bathroom.

This girl ll make your family go through hell if you finally marry her.

Run Young man.

Trust me, for your friend to react, your girlfriend must have said a whole lot to him.

If a woman tell you that she has done 10% of verbal abuse, my brother, realistically, she must have done 120%.
he should dump both his friend and his girlfriend.for his friend to attack his babe over food shows his a violent thoughtless yoot who only think with his stomach and for d girl to provoke the friend shows shes immature .a sensible individual will be smart enuf to cut off from such ppl from his life.if dem don beg d girl papa then it will be wise for his sanity to do away with both of them.

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Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by edosg(m): 9:58am On Dec 07
Treasuredlove:
the only thing I agree with in this write up is that co habiting and fornication is bad
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Elliot2(m): 9:58am On Dec 07
mechanics:
hmmmmmm, just common food, see what has happened, a simple sorry will solve the whole problem, now that police is involve, and mind you, the man should have calmed himself down and eat somewhere if he knew all this problem will arise.
girls should know that a man dating or marrying them does not mean that the life of the man must revolve and ends with them. They must respect and tolerate their guys buddies and family just as she would love being respected. All this wouldn't have happened if she had apologised swiftly for keeping him waiting in hunger while she bathed.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by lefulefu(m): 10:00am On Dec 07
Elliot2:
u can't keep friends that u don't share similiar behavious with,but u can with a girl. The op and his friend may have been really closed that stuffs like eating one another's food and sharing rooms is not a big deal. The gf may be d new one here,and therefore courtsey demands that she respect her guys buddies as much as she wants being respected by any one.
not everybody who drinks beer with u or eats from d same plate as u is really ur friend..abi u never hear of fairweather friends b4? if they are really close as u suggest then he would never have laid his hands on his friends girlfriend out of respect for his guy.he would have simply walked away and reported her to the guy.abegi na gboro friend im be and d babe sef no mature.if na me i go cut off from both of them.

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Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Lomprico2: 10:01am On Dec 07
dainformant:
A "confused" Nigerian man is soliciting advice from the public after his girlfriend and his good friend clashed over food in his apartment.

According to him, his girlfriend has now involved her father who is a Divisional Police Officer in the matter and wants his friend to be arrested over the fight.

Read the full story below as shared online; 

My girlfriend visited few days ago and she planned on staying for the rest of the week. Unfortunately last night a very good friend(male) of mine visited and spent the night with us. This morning I woke up very early and left for work. I dropped money for food so she and my guy who said he will be leaving later in the day can eat.

And few mins ago my girlfriend called me crying, telling me that my friend is beating her up. I have to suspend whatever I'm doing and rushed home. On getting home the whole place was scattered both kitchen, Sitting room and bedroom. When I asked what the problem was my girlfriend told me in an emotional voice that she just finished cooking and went to the bathroom only to come out to see that my guy has already dished out food and was eating.

When she tried to question him on why he couldn't wait for her to come out and give him food . He rebuked her and they started exchanging words which later led to a fight or should I say beating.

They both agreed that that was exactly what happened and my girlfriends face and body is full of bruises now

To make matters worse my girlfriend has already contacted her father who is a DPO and he called and directed that I should get the guy arrested before he gets here tomorrow morning.

If you where in my shoes, what will you do?


See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/12/man-in-dilemma-after-his-girlfriend-and-male-friend-fought-over-food.html

I know you have not married her yet but lets assume she is ur wife n ur friend beats her for this reason, what will u do?

Whatever u choose to do is what u should do now.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by lefulefu(m): 10:06am On Dec 07
Elliot2:
girls should know that a man dating or marrying them does not mean that the life of the man must revolve and ends with them. They must respect and tolerate their guys buddies and family just as she would love being respected. All this wouldn't have happened if she had apologised swiftly for keeping him waiting in hunger while she bathed.
hope u know not every guy likes it if his friend orders his wife or girlfriend around.i certainly wont find it funny if someone who is my friend disrespects my wife or gf or orders her around.cettain reserves has to be respected.if u go dey give ur friend long hand like dat very soon he will be handling ur wifes booby or pressing her buttocks wen u not around or even forcing himself on her.na u give him the encouragement.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Olakunleyakub: 10:07am On Dec 07
There is more 2 the issue than food
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Kylekent59: 10:13am On Dec 07
If this story is true,then the Op is to be blamed. How could you leave your Gf and your guy together at home.

Truth be told, they had sex that day which resulted to the beating and arguments by the angerness of both your babe and guy.


If I was you, I would have gotten the both of them arrested for turning my house into an arena.

you forgot to disconnect your battery from the desktop charger having known that if the power supply should be intermittent, your desktop charger will zap your battery grin grin.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by medropoly: 10:13am On Dec 07
ask google grin grin grin
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Augustine112(m): 10:16am On Dec 07
according to this matter who is to be blame,we don't really know who is faulty, the girl is bad just becos of this little matter she has call his Father, nawa
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Dunkofia20(m): 10:25am On Dec 07
This guys must be gay
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by ponti93(m): 10:33am On Dec 07
Make friends with your kind of person... If you are decent, roll with decent people...
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by flejnr2: 10:34am On Dec 07
babyfaceafrica:
fake story




May truth never leave your mouth Watin two plates Dey do there or she dey eat for bathroom
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Ianmaduka(m): 10:41am On Dec 07
His not a good friend indeed.1st he has no right to dish out food he didn't cook and secondly he have no matters to lay hand on a woman.to cut it all short talk with him and if the DPO insist hand him over.and pread unbehalf him....
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by saintneo(m): 10:42am On Dec 07
dainformant:
A "confused" Nigerian man is soliciting advice from the public after his girlfriend and his good friend clashed over food in his apartment.

According to him, his girlfriend has now involved her father who is a Divisional Police Officer in the matter and wants his friend to be arrested over the fight.

Read the full story below as shared online; 

My girlfriend visited few days ago and she planned on staying for the rest of the week. Unfortunately last night a very good friend(male) of mine visited and spent the night with us. This morning I woke up very early and left for work. I dropped money for food so she and my guy who said he will be leaving later in the day can eat.

And few mins ago my girlfriend called me crying, telling me that my friend is beating her up. I have to suspend whatever I'm doing and rushed home. On getting home the whole place was scattered both kitchen, Sitting room and bedroom. When I asked what the problem was my girlfriend told me in an emotional voice that she just finished cooking and went to the bathroom only to come out to see that my guy has already dished out food and was eating.

When she tried to question him on why he couldn't wait for her to come out and give him food . He rebuked her and they started exchanging words which later led to a fight or should I say beating.

They both agreed that that was exactly what happened and my girlfriends face and body is full of bruises now

To make matters worse my girlfriend has already contacted her father who is a DPO and he called and directed that I should get the guy arrested before he gets here tomorrow morning.

If you where in my shoes, what will you do?


See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/12/man-in-dilemma-after-his-girlfriend-and-male-friend-fought-over-food.html

Arrest the idiot?
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by saintneo(m): 10:47am On Dec 07
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



You should be more concerned with what will happen to you.
Because if the girl's DPO-of-a-father knows his onions, it is you who should be arrested for exposing his daughter to physical and sexual harm.

Back to their claims.
It just doesn't add up.

Your friend fired with hunger of the loins and some of the stomach lured your girl to cook and tend to him.
(You know how feeble a girl's defenses can be when the right words are said to her and her erogenous zones are tipped off?)

They then had some great sex behind you and apparently got into an argument afterwards.
Your girlfriend feeling very dirty and used, kicked the food she served him off his hands and in a fit of rage, he beat her to a pulp.

Denial of guilt comes naturally to offenders.
So the two of them agreeing to her story is the brightest of all the redflags.

She was preeked by him.
If he could beat her, then he can preek her.

But you were stupid to leave your goat and your yam together.
Conji defies all loyalty.
I'd shag my own pastor's wife if he gives me this opportunity.

criminal mind. I like the spin off though.
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Badonasty(m): 10:53am On Dec 07
dainformant:
A "confused" Nigerian man is soliciting advice from the public after his girlfriend and his good friend clashed over food in his apartment.

According to him, his girlfriend has now involved her father who is a Divisional Police Officer in the matter and wants his friend to be arrested over the fight.

Read the full story below as shared online; 

My girlfriend visited few days ago and she planned on staying for the rest of the week. Unfortunately last night a very good friend(male) of mine visited and spent the night with us. This morning I woke up very early and left for work. I dropped money for food so she and my guy who said he will be leaving later in the day can eat.

And few mins ago my girlfriend called me crying, telling me that my friend is beating her up. I have to suspend whatever I'm doing and rushed home. On getting home the whole place was scattered both kitchen, Sitting room and bedroom. When I asked what the problem was my girlfriend told me in an emotional voice that she just finished cooking and went to the bathroom only to come out to see that my guy has already dished out food and was eating.

When she tried to question him on why he couldn't wait for her to come out and give him food . He rebuked her and they started exchanging words which later led to a fight or should I say beating.

They both agreed that that was exactly what happened and my girlfriends face and body is full of bruises now

To make matters worse my girlfriend has already contacted her father who is a DPO and he called and directed that I should get the guy arrested before he gets here tomorrow morning.

If you where in my shoes, what will you do?


See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/12/man-in-dilemma-after-his-girlfriend-and-male-friend-fought-over-food.html

stop associating with hungry people
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by mechanics(m): 11:36am On Dec 07
Elliot2:
girls should know that a man dating or marrying them does not mean that the life of the man must revolve and ends with them. They must respect and tolerate their guys buddies and family just as she would love being respected. All this wouldn't have happened if she had apologised swiftly for keeping him waiting in hunger while she bathed.
hahahahahah, how do you know she kept him waiting since you were not there?
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by Awesomefred32(m): 11:41am On Dec 07
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



You should be more concerned with what will happen to you.
Because if the girl's DPO-of-a-father knows his onions, it is you who should be arrested for exposing his daughter to physical and sexual harm.

Back to their claims.
It just doesn't add up.

Your friend fired with hunger of the loins and some of the stomach lured your girl to cook and tend to him.
(You know how feeble a girl's defenses can be when the right words are said to her and her erogenous zones are tipped off?)

They then had some great sex behind you and apparently got into an argument afterwards.
Your girlfriend feeling very dirty and used, kicked the food she served him off his hands and in a fit of rage, he beat her to a pulp.

Denial of guilt comes naturally to offenders.
So the two of them agreeing to her story is the brightest of all the redflags.

She was preeked by him.
If he could beat her, then he can preek her.

But you were stupid to leave your goat and your yam together.
Conji defies all loyalty.
I'd shag my own pastor's wife if he gives me this opportunity.

smileysmiley
Re: Man Confused As His Girlfriend And His Friend Fight Over Food. Photo by selfmadeboss: 12:09pm On Dec 07
this nigerian rule where peoople cant dish food except the person that cooked it is pure poo. in my house no body dishes food for anyone. u eat as ou like fuckers

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