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Please Help I'm In Bondage by atikuobi2019nig: 2:17am On Dec 10, 2018
please, ignore my errors for I'm not in my right frame of mind writing this, but corrections and insult are welcome, I'm typing this with an heavy heart and tears rolling down my cheeks, I'm an ambitious young man in my earlier 30s dating a very beautiful lady for the past three years, hoping to settle down with her, but all these years there has never been peace, issues almost every day, sometimes 2 weeks, one month, two months even more, but we still come back settle, after a while issue will come up again, more than 70% are as a result of jealousy and secrecy from both sides, she doesn't want to see me with any other girl, and guy are flocking around her too much which, I'm not comfortable with, and also my spending power can not meets her needs, people who are richer are coming to her, cos of her physic almost all of them are married anytime they approached her she comes and tell me at a point I advised my self to pull out, because I can not continue to bear all of these pain, now she has a financial challenge in her family, she is the only hope of her parents and me I can't help, one of my friends thou not that close who can, invited her to his house. but, this friend in question don't know she was my girlfriend she came to seek for permission I was so pained I don't know what to say finally, she left to spend the night with him, the very big problem now is that I just can't pull out, her thoughts revolves round my head every now and then it has drastically reduced my productive capacity my business is suffering, I can't think properly again, I just don't know how to get out of this mess please psychologist in the house pls, I need help I want to break out of this bondage
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 2:24am On Dec 10, 2018
Repeat this 3 times, with you hand on your chest.


"I receive sense, IJN"

"I receive sense, IJN"

"I receive sense, IJN"


And so shall it be.

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by HeavenlyCherub(f): 2:27am On Dec 10, 2018
Pray
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Cumtroller: 2:34am On Dec 10, 2018
“ I'm typing this with an heavy heart and tears rolling down my cheeks“

OP just negodu what you wrote.

Weak men everywhere, I suspect you squat to take a piss. Bitch nigga

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by atikuobi2019nig: 3:06am On Dec 10, 2018
TarOrfeek:



Repeat this 3 times, with you hand on your chest.


"I receive sense, IJN"

"I receive sense, IJN"

"I receive sense, IJN"


And so shall it be.

tell me the sense please, I'm not thinking straight again, I'm in trouble I need help what can I do I ?
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by atikuobi2019nig: 3:10am On Dec 10, 2018
TarOrfeek:



Repeat this 3 times, with you hand on your chest.


"I receive sense, IJN"

"I receive sense, IJN"

"I receive sense, IJN"


And so shall it be.

tell me the sense please, I'm not thinking straight again, I need help what can I do plzzzz
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by bigt2(m): 3:11am On Dec 10, 2018
Tears rolling down your cheeks or a smileys cheeks?

Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Lexusgs430: 3:29am On Dec 10, 2018
atikuobi2019nig:
please, ignore my errors for I'm not in my right frame of mind writing this, but corrections and insult are welcome, I'm typing this with an heavy heart and tears rolling down my cheeks, I'm an ambitious young man in my earlier 30s dating a very beautiful lady for the past three years, hoping to settle down with her, but all these years there has never been peace, issues almost every day, sometimes 2 weeks, one month, two months even more, but we still come back settle, after a while issue will come up again, more than 70% are as a result of jealousy and secrecy from both sides, she doesn't want to see me with any other girl, and guy are flocking around her too much which, I'm not comfortable with, and also my spending power can not meets her needs, people who are richer are coming to her, cos of her physic almost all of them are married anytime they approached her she comes and tell me at a point I advised my self to pull out, because I can not continue to bear all of these pain, now she has a financial challenge in her family, she is the only hope of her parents and me I can't help, one of my friends thou not that close who can, invited her to his house. but, this friend in question don't know she was my girlfriend she came to seek for permission I was so pained I don't know what to say finally, she left to spend the night with him, the very big problem now is that I just can't pull out, her thoughts revolves round my head every now and then it has drastically reduced my productive capacity my business is suffering, I can't think properly again, I just don't know how to get out of this mess please psychologist in the house pls, I need help I want to break out of this bondage


She went to prostitute herself, because she and her family had a financial challenge?

The same way she would prostitute herself, when you marry her..... I bet she is already a runzgal on the side, but the love is turning you blind..... You better run like fire is burning your ass....... Did you ask her how the guy squeezed her mangoro's and pounded her snail or if she gave him a head or if he tossed her salad........?

A man that loses his mind and business, because he is stupidly in love..... Would see a thousand men pass over the same girl..... Now tell me if the loss was worth it.....

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by folly22(f): 3:30am On Dec 10, 2018
She spent a night with your friend and u still think u need advice?
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Lexusgs430: 3:32am On Dec 10, 2018
folly22:
She went to spend a night with your friend and u still think u need advice?

He deserves an award...... Not that type of award.... The best idiot on nairaland.......

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by BRMN: 5:35am On Dec 10, 2018
She went to enjoy herself with your friend, and this shows she's not a responsible girl. Quit that relationship immediately. If you continue with her, I'm sorry for u.

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by highqueen(f): 5:44am On Dec 10, 2018
You really think that kind of girl.deserve your tears?
Someone that care less of your emotions cos you can't afford all her needs.

Better wake up, she has proven to you that you mean nothing to her by sleeping with your friend.
Meaning that she has slept with more guys that you don't even know, Please, quit that relationship for you sanity.

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by planetx13: 5:53am On Dec 10, 2018
What you need is a " factory reset, made in russia slap ...
It's obvious you're not thinking clearly


Ciao
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 5:57am On Dec 10, 2018
All girls are B!tches right? Let them continue to meet d real B!tches, i just luv how they cry at d end
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by carter009(m): 6:05am On Dec 10, 2018
gloria34:
All girls are B!tches right? Let them continue to meet d real B!tches, i just luv how they cry at d end

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Uglymugg: 6:06am On Dec 10, 2018
I'm sorry OP but because of your political affiliation, I cannot render any help to you.

Thanks for posting.
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:08am On Dec 10, 2018
[quote author=carter009 post=73706020][/quote]Likewise to d stupidity portrayed by u and Ur folks
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:16am On Dec 10, 2018
atikuobi2019nig:
please, ignore my errors for I'm not in my right frame of mind writing this, but corrections and insult are welcome, I'm typing this with an heavy heart and tears rolling down my cheeks, I'm an ambitious young man in my earlier 30s dating a very beautiful lady for the past three years, hoping to settle down with her, but all these years there has never been peace, issues almost every day, sometimes 2 weeks, one month, two months even more, but we still come back settle, after a while issue will come up again, more than 70% are as a result of jealousy and secrecy from both sides, she doesn't want to see me with any other girl, and guy are flocking around her too much which, I'm not comfortable with, and also my spending power can not meets her needs, people who are richer are coming to her, cos of her physic almost all of them are married anytime they approached her she comes and tell me at a point I advised my self to pull out, because I can not continue to bear all of these pain, now she has a financial challenge in her family, she is the only hope of her parents and me I can't help, one of my friends thou not that close who can, invited her to his house. but, this friend in question don't know she was my girlfriend she came to seek for permission I was so pained I don't know what to say finally, she left to spend the night with him, the very big problem now is that I just can't pull out, her thoughts revolves round my head every now and then it has drastically reduced my productive capacity my business is suffering, I can't think properly again, I just don't know how to get out of this mess please psychologist in the house pls, I need help I want to break out of this bondage
why are you wasting your time. stop being in your feelings, man up , break up with her and hustle to make real money. it is obvious you guys are keeping each other as back up plans.

Men pls i beg you all cos i will type this once. Broke+ relationship=Misery. If you cant provide in a relationship and a woman cant nuture, there is no point. the other party will entertain other options.

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by carter009(m): 6:17am On Dec 10, 2018
They problem with you is that you talk too much....
gloria34:
Likewise to d stupidity portrayed by u and Ur folks
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:17am On Dec 10, 2018
highqueen:
You really think that kind of girl.deserve your tears?
Someone that care less of your emotions cos you can't afford all her needs.

Better wake up, she has proven to you that you mean nothing to her by sleeping with your friend.
Meaning that she has slept with more guys that you don't even know, Please, quit that relationship for you sanity.
what is a financially unstable man doing in a situationship in the first place.
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:19am On Dec 10, 2018
carter009:
They problem with you is that you talk too much....
My account, my typing. Any problem?
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by highqueen(f): 6:21am On Dec 10, 2018
funmisticqueen:
what is a financially unstable man doing in a situationship in the first place.
He should have broken up with the lady than wasting his time with someone that has a bigger problem than him.


If I'm a guy, once I notice infidelity in my relationship, I'm calling it a quit.
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:23am On Dec 10, 2018
atikuobi2019nig:
please, ignore my errors for I'm not in my right frame of mind writing this, but corrections and insult are welcome, I'm typing this with an heavy heart and tears rolling down my cheeks, I'm an ambitious young man in my earlier 30s dating a very beautiful lady for the past three years, hoping to settle down with her, but all these years there has never been peace, issues almost every day, sometimes 2 weeks, one month, two months even more, but we still come back settle, after a while issue will come up again, more than 70% are as a result of jealousy and secrecy from both sides, she doesn't want to see me with any other girl, and guy are flocking around her too much which, I'm not comfortable with, and also my spending power can not meets her needs, people who are richer are coming to her, cos of her physic almost all of them are married anytime they approached her she comes and tell me at a point I advised my self to pull out, because I can not continue to bear all of these pain, now she has a financial challenge in her family, she is the only hope of her parents and me I can't help, one of my friends thou not that close who can, invited her to his house. but, this friend in question don't know she was my girlfriend she came to seek for permission I was so pained I don't know what to say finally, she left to spend the night with him, the very big problem now is that I just can't pull out, her thoughts revolves round my head every now and then it has drastically reduced my productive capacity my business is suffering, I can't think properly again, I just don't know how to get out of this mess please psychologist in the house pls, I need help I want to break out of this bondage

undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided chaiiiiiiiiiiii

So some men can mumu like this shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by carter009(m): 6:28am On Dec 10, 2018
No problem dear, all I wanted to say is that you should take things easy,, I shouldn't have said that in they first place, but you continue if you want to.
gloria34:
My account, my typing. Any problem?
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Mintum: 6:28am On Dec 10, 2018
Op, you are your own problem. Leave the bitch and move on with your life
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Nobody: 6:42am On Dec 10, 2018
carter009:
No problem dear, all I wanted to say is that you should take things easy,, I shouldn't have said that in they first place, but you continue if you want to.
u should have said that from d beginning instead of calling me stupid. There are times i overlook insults, there are times i dont. Its just to early, Sorry 4 sounding harsh
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by CAPSLOCKED: 6:54am On Dec 10, 2018
atikuobi2019nig:
please, ignore my errors for I'm not in my right frame of mind writing this, but corrections and insult are welcome, I'm typing this with an heavy heart and tears rolling down my cheeks, I'm an ambitious young man in my earlier 30s dating a very beautiful lady for the past three years, hoping to settle down with her, but all these years there has never been peace, issues almost every day, sometimes 2 weeks, one month, two months even more, but we still come back settle, after a while issue will come up again,
IF YOU EVENTUALLY MARRY THIS PERSON IT WON'T TAKE HOURS BEFORE ONE OF YOU STABS THE OTHER PERSON TO DEATH.

more than 70% are as a result of jealousy and secrecy from both sides, she doesn't want to see me with any other girl, and guy are flocking around her too much which, I'm not comfortable with,
THE SAME PERSON THAT DOESN'T LIKE TO SEE YOU WITH OTHER GIRLS IS THE SAME PERSON THAT LIKES TO BE WITH OTHER MEN. TALK ABOUT DOUBLE STANDARDS.

and also my spending power can not meets her needs, people who are richer are coming to her, cos of her physic almost all of them are married
LOL. FROM THE WAY I'M SEEING YOU IT WON'T BE LONG BEFORE YOU DRINK THE 1 LTR OF SNIPER YOU'VE BEEN HIDING UNDER YOUR BED. cheesy

anytime they approached her she comes and tell me at a point I advised my self to pull out, because I can not continue to bear all of these pain, now she has a financial challenge in her family, she is the only hope of her parents and me I can't help, one of my friends thou not that close who can, invited her to his house. but, this friend in question don't know she was my girlfriend she came to seek for permission I was so pained I don't know what to say finally, she left to spend the night with him,
HOW MUCH THEY PAY HER FOR ONE NIGHT? MATE YOU CAN STOP STRESSING YOURSELF AND APPLY TO BE HER ACCOUNT MANAGER. YOU CAN GET HER MORE CLIENTS, AND AT THE END OF EACH WEEK SHE MAKES A LOT OF MONEY AND YOU TAKE YOUR OWN CUT. THIS WOULD SOLVE A LOT OF FINANCIAL PROBLEMS I BELIEVE.

the very big problem now is that I just can't pull out, her thoughts revolves round my head every now and then it has drastically reduced my productive capacity my business is suffering,
HAHAHA cheesy YOUR SNIPER IS CALLING YOU!

I can't think properly again, I just don't know how to get out of this mess please psychologist in the house pls, I need help I want to break out of this bondage
YOU DON'T NEED ANY PSYCHOLOGIST BROS, THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. MAYBE BECAUSE OF HER PHYSIQUE WHICH YOU MENTIONED ABOVE YOU FEEL YOU'RE A LUCKY JACKPOT WINNER TO SCORE AN "EXPENSIVE" PRICE LIKE THAT. SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE GOT AND SHE KNOWS YOU TRIPPING AND WILL ALWAYS WORSHIP HER, BECAUSE SHE KNOWS THAT YOU CONSIDER IT A FAVOR SHE'S DOING YOU BY BEING WITH A POOR YOU INSTEAD OF BEING WITH OTHER RICH MARRIED MEN.

NOW YOUR BUSINESS IS FALLING.
YOU'RE GOING INSANE AND YOUR BOTTLE OF SNIPER AWAITS YOUR LIPS BECAUSE YOU CAN'T TAKE THIS LIFE ANYMORE. APART FROM HER PHYSICAL APPEARANCE WHAT ARE THE SPECIAL QUALITIES OF THIS LADY AGAIN? WHAT DOES SHE ADD TO YOUR ALREADY FALLING BUSINESS? YOU'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR THREE YEARS AND ACCORDING TO YOU THERE HAS ALWAYS BEEN CRISIS, SO WHAT ARE YOU DOING BELIEVING THAT WHEN YOU GET MARRIED THERE WILL BE PEACE SUDDENLY?

IT NEVER ENDS WELL MY FRIEND. MAYBE NOW IS THE TIME FOR YOU TO CUT IT AND FOCUS ON DEVELOPING YOURSELF. YOU'RE LOSING YOURSELF AND YOUR BUSINESS. DO YOU THINK WHEN YOU'RE FINALLY DOWN YOU CAN RUN A FAMILY WITH EMPTY POCKETS, WHEN EVEN AT THIS STAGE THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE IS AVOIDING YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO MONEY? FINALLY YOU'LL KILL YOURSELF OVER A WOMAN'S PHYSIQUE AND SHE'LL GO ON TO ANOTHER MAN AND FORGET ABOUT YOU.

THAT SAME PERSON YOU'RE CRYING ABOUT WILL COME BACK RUNNING TO YOU IF YOU BECOME A MILLIONAIRE TODAY. SO GO AND MAKE MONEY AND FORGET ABOUT THIS PERSON. IT'S OBVIOUS HER PHYSICAL APPEARANCE IS HER BUSINESS AND SHE KNOWS THE PROFITS SHE'S NOT MAKING BECAUSE SHE'S WITH YOU.

WE'VE BEEN THERE BEFORE. MOST OF US. WE OCCUPIED THE POSITION OF THE "OPTION" AND DESPITE ALL THE CALAMITIES WE WERE GLAD TO BE IN IT BECAUSE WE DIDN'T UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH WE'LL GROW IF WE SOUGHT BETTER THINGS.
DON'T KILL YOURSELF OVER ANOTHER PERSON WHO WON'T LOSE A STRAND OF HAIR FOR YOU.
CHEER UP.

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Oreofepeters: 7:00am On Dec 10, 2018
highqueen:
You really think that kind of girl.deserve your tears?
Someone that care less of your emotions cos you can't afford all her needs.

Better wake up, she has proven to you that you mean nothing to her by sleeping with your friend.
Meaning that she has slept with more guys that you don't even know, Please, quit that relationship for you sanity.
So you are this sensible? Right now I'm flabbergasted I never believed you could reason like this.........

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by Allaboutkatiee(f): 7:39am On Dec 10, 2018
atikuobi2019nig:
please, ignore my errors for I'm not in my right frame of mind writing this, but corrections and insult are welcome, I'm typing this with an heavy heart and tears rolling down my cheeks, I'm an ambitious young man in my earlier 30s dating a very beautiful lady for the past three years, hoping to settle down with her, but all these years there has never been peace, issues almost every day, sometimes 2 weeks, one month, two months even more, but we still come back settle, after a while issue will come up again, more than 70% are as a result of jealousy and secrecy from both sides, she doesn't want to see me with any other girl, and guy are flocking around her too much which, I'm not comfortable with, and also my spending power can not meets her needs, people who are richer are coming to her, cos of her physic almost all of them are married anytime they approached her she comes and tell me at a point I advised my self to pull out, because I can not continue to bear all of these pain, now she has a financial challenge in her family, she is the only hope of her parents and me I can't help, one of my friends thou not that close who can, invited her to his house. but, this friend in question don't know she was my girlfriend she came to seek for permission I was so pained I don't know what to say finally, she left to spend the night with him, the very big problem now is that I just can't pull out, her thoughts revolves round my head every now and then it has drastically reduced my productive capacity my business is suffering, I can't think properly again, I just don't know how to get out of this mess please psychologist in the house pls, I need help I want to break out of this bondage

Op kill yourself nau
Na woman matter you just pack put for head.
That girl has totally destroyed you emotionally.
Like for 3years??
Ha this is not normal again na.
I pray you receive sense and flee from that girl before its too late.
My thoughts tho.

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Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:48am On Dec 10, 2018
gloria34:
All girls are B!tches right? Let them continue to meet d real B!tches, i just luv how they cry at d end
A-ha cool down na...

Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by MannieA(f): 8:02am On Dec 10, 2018
Uglymugg:
I'm sorry OP but because of your political affiliation, I cannot render any help to you.

Thanks for posting.


lolllzzz......kai!!
Re: Please Help I'm In Bondage by MannieA(f): 8:18am On Dec 10, 2018
atikuobi2019nig:
please, ignore my errors for I'm not in my right frame of mind writing this, but corrections and insult are welcome, I'm typing this with an heavy heart and tears rolling down my cheeks, I'm an ambitious young man in my earlier 30s dating a very beautiful lady for the past three years, hoping to settle down with her, but all these years there has never been peace, issues almost every day, sometimes 2 weeks, one month, two months even more, but we still come back settle, after a while issue will come up again, more than 70% are as a result of jealousy and secrecy from both sides, she doesn't want to see me with any other girl, and guy are flocking around her too much which, I'm not comfortable with, and also my spending power can not meets her needs, people who are richer are coming to her, cos of her physic almost all of them are married anytime they approached her she comes and tell me at a point I advised my self to pull out, because I can not continue to bear all of these pain, now she has a financial challenge in her family, she is the only hope of her parents and me I can't help, one of my friends thou not that close who can, invited her to his house. but, this friend in question don't know she was my girlfriend she came to seek for permission I was so pained I don't know what to say finally, she left to spend the night with him, the very big problem now is that I just can't pull out, her thoughts revolves round my head every now and then it has drastically reduced my productive capacity my business is suffering, I can't think properly again, I just don't know how to get out of this mess please psychologist in the house pls, I need help I want to break out of this bondage





.lollzz...oga...u are the one causing ur problems...
tbh ehnnn..some of y'all don't need advice coz...it's just a simple thing you need to do...why would God be giving u signs and you are thinking it's a problem
These are signs DAT the relationship isn't right ..she isn't the one for you....
how can a Lady leave her boyfriend and go to another man's house and sleep which means she doesn't respect you... she doesn't respect you at all!!!
you're in DAT relationship because of her looks.....you are bearing all these shii coz she's beautiful and you feel you won't get somebody as pretty as her again.... my dear...u don't know your worth!!!do not place looks over ur happiness.. be with somebody DAT makes you happy..
you are going bankrupt trying to please somebody DAT doesn't care about you!!you are only doing urself o.. .find somebody better...there are lots of good women DAT need good men.
your relationship with her is very toxic.......
and u said rich men are always around her ..if rich men are always around her. leave her for them ..any woman who uses her body to make money and gives silly excuses is a fool......

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