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How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by samuelchimmy(m): 8:25pm On Dec 13, 2018
So about 6 months ago, I got hooked up with a girl, she's being kind of throwing green lights to me... So I made a pass at her.... Well she refused saying we could only be friends, i gave up after all my arsenal got empty....


Well fast forward to 2months now, this babe has been demanding all sort of stuffs, from recharge cards to transport fares, even feeding, this evening, I got pissed off (though she has no idea of it)

She asked what I ate, and I replied, indomie, she then suggested that I buy cartons of indomies for her when she will be resuming, in January.....
And that I should send her transport fare to come back from school. She's beautiful,

I'm above this help, but I feel like am been a mugu for her....
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We are good friends, apart from this, shes a nice girl.... But I think she's tryna use me.... I wouldn't think this way though if I haven't had a Convo with her when she jokingly told me she's all about a guy's money, I saw her with.....



Relationship gurus in the house how can I handle this issue....

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by Nobody: 8:27pm On Dec 13, 2018
I don't have much to say OP. I've had a lot of these kind of girls in the past, but they are now things of the past. Are you employed working for someone or you are your own boss? Bro, get out of this cycle, work and get rich and leave other things in life alone. You will be amazed how it will look as if this world belongs to you.

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by emeijeh(m): 8:28pm On Dec 13, 2018
.... You have been used, and about to be dumped.

Send the carton of indomie money plus her transport fare to your parents for Xmas

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by mikejj(m): 8:36pm On Dec 13, 2018
grin she has ur mumu button and she is pressing it well...alaye run ..

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by alexmaye(m): 8:39pm On Dec 13, 2018
Op She Is Pressing Your Mumu Button And You Are Here Complaining

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by Wuraola01(f): 8:41pm On Dec 13, 2018
Lol.

The comments above mine tho grin grin
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by alexmaye(m): 8:43pm On Dec 13, 2018
mikejj:
grin she has ur mumu button and she is pressing it well...alaye run ..
You Just Said My Mind

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by Olalan(m): 8:49pm On Dec 13, 2018
You are just probably one of her MAGAS...... be guided
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by marvin906(m): 8:51pm On Dec 13, 2018
eyah OP you've turned yourself to a walking ATM for a chick that isn't your gf worst of all you aint fvcking her
congratulations

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by samuelchimmy(m): 8:55pm On Dec 13, 2018
alexmaye:
Op She Is Pressing Your Mumu Button And You Are Here Complaining
I understand that shes pressing my mumu button, you don't expect me to walk up to her and tell her she's wrong, plus I'm not a fan of the silent treatment..... I just wish there was a way to teach her good lesson..... I hope gurus in the house can help me with that, she's coming back from school tomorrow
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by josh123(m): 9:10pm On Dec 13, 2018
u appear rich to her dats why she dey ask u all these things,

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by Zyzman: 9:12pm On Dec 13, 2018
Guy make we see the girl picture first.
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by amaniro: 9:17pm On Dec 13, 2018
Pursue her like this

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by smoby(m): 9:22pm On Dec 13, 2018
op always start with m broke anytime she ask u of something and watch the story unfold

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by alexmaye(m): 9:36pm On Dec 13, 2018
samuelchimmy:
I understand that shes pressing my mumu button, you don't expect me to walk up to her and tell her she's wrong, plus I'm not a fan of the silent treatment..... I just wish there was a way to teach her good lesson..... I hope gurus in the house can help me with that, she's coming back from school tomorrow
You Knw You Could Act Like A New Yahoo Convert And Make A Fake Call Telling Them You Have D Victim Ready In Your House When She Is Around And Watch Her Turn To Usaine Bolt

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by BIDOO(m): 9:47pm On Dec 13, 2018
Green Light Does Not Guarantee A Safe Trip, It's Quite Unfortunate That You Fall Victim Of An Accident After The Light.

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by Tamarapetty(f): 9:55pm On Dec 13, 2018
Oga, tell her to goan find work, u don't have money, na until she suck you dry?? Not like u're even dating

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by samuelchimmy(m): 9:56pm On Dec 13, 2018
BIDOO:
Green Light Does Not Guarantee A Safe Trip, It's Quite Unfortunate That You Fall Victim Of An Accident After The Light.
very quite unfortunate, I miscalculated this one, now I think she had this coming all a long,
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by samuelchimmy(m): 9:59pm On Dec 13, 2018
alexmaye:
You Knw You Could Act Like A New Yahoo Convert And Make A Fake Call Telling Them You Have D Victim Ready In Your House When She Is Around And Watch Her Turn To Usaine Bolt

Lmao, no, that's way too high...., I think I have a better idea what to do to her now.. Thanks
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by samuelchimmy(m): 10:03pm On Dec 13, 2018
Tamarapetty:
Oga, tell her to goan find work, u don't have money, na until she suck you dry?? Not like u're even dating
I'm not like that, this is a person I'm prolly gna be seeing frequently involuntarily.... So I'm not gna say that to her face.... I have a better idea what lesson to teach her now
Thanks
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by Deckline(m): 10:19pm On Dec 13, 2018
A moment of silence for this Op. lipsrsealed embarassed

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by lilmax(m): 10:36pm On Dec 13, 2018
lol Nigerian girl give you green light and you jump inside? grin

I think one of my flaw is "I do not tolerate crap".... so the moment I spot nonsense I kick her out,even though its three days into dating

bros leave the irresponsible for the irresponsible, go find girl with sense....a Nigerian girl giving you green light instead of walking straight to you is fraud grin

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:08pm On Dec 13, 2018
When you are tired you know what to do

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by TheManofTomorrow(m): 12:19am On Dec 14, 2018
So, apart from yahoo guys who benefit directly from these ladies destinies, random hustling guys still spend on hoes May I ask you what you re benefitting directly from her?
I find it her believing you're not a g-boy. undecided
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by Bioles1187(m): 12:30am On Dec 14, 2018
BIDOO:
Green Light Does Not Guarantee A Safe Trip, It's Quite Unfortunate That You Fall Victim Of An Accident After The Light.
i love this

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by Bioles1187(m): 12:31am On Dec 14, 2018
donproject:
I don't have much to say OP. I've had a lot of these kind of girls in the past, but they are now things of the past. Are you employed working for someone or you are your own boss? Bro, get out of this cycle, work and get rich and leave other things in life alone. You will be amazed how it will look as if this world belongs to you.
nice write up
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by eaglejay13(m): 6:44am On Dec 14, 2018
alexmaye:
You Knw You Could Act Like A New Yahoo Convert And Make A Fake Call Telling Them You Have D Victim Ready In Your House When She Is Around And Watch Her Turn To Usaine Bolt
grin cheesy
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by alexmaye(m): 6:51am On Dec 14, 2018
eaglejay13:
grin cheesy
Surest Bet
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by alexmaye(m): 6:51am On Dec 14, 2018
samuelchimmy:


Lmao, no, that's way too high...., I think I have a better idea what to do to her now.. Thanks
Ok Bro
Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by femi4: 6:52am On Dec 14, 2018
samuelchimmy:
So about 6 months ago, I got hooked up with a girl, she's being kind of throwing green lights to me... So I made a pass at her.... Well she refused saying we could only be friends, i gave up after all my arsenal got empty....


Well fast forward to 2months now, this babe has been demanding all sort of stuffs, from recharge cards to transport fares, even feeding, this evening, I got pissed off (though she has no idea of it)

She asked what I ate, and I replied, indomie, she then suggested that I buy cartons of indomies for her when she will be resuming, in January.....
And that I should send her transport fare to come back from school. She's beautiful,

I'm above this help, but I feel like am been a mugu for her....
.
We are good friends, apart from this, shes a nice girl.... But I think she's tryna use me.... I wouldn't think this way though if I haven't had a Convo with her when she jokingly told me she's all about a guy's money, I saw her with.....



Relationship gurus in the house how can I handle this issue....
learn to say NO even when it hurts

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Re: How Do You Handle An Irresponsible Girl Like This One by Mutemenot(m): 8:05am On Dec 14, 2018
Don't let her go free with all you have spent. Make sure you chop her kpomo before her dismissal .if you want the trick consult me
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