HARDDON:
dating drill's blog just got a fresh wine https://datingdrill.com/how-avoid-deal-rejection-from-ladies/

and henceforth, we would be updating it regularly( at least 10 times or more weekly) because workload has reduced a bit.

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HARDDON:
We definitely must get on track! there is a whole lot we havent covered just yet.

If only i can find the page for my last sequential drops in

Anybody remember? Help!

HARDDON:

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS
SENSE PILL 148 :
Don't flirt with who you can't flaunt

irumole1975:
@ Harddon, I remember one of your lessons and I deployed it. Its a potent pill bro. Thanks for letting me have my balls intact.

Me and bae had a little Argument for the past few weeks. It is something she used to do and the naïve me will go and be deploying begging and regrets, then she will be giving me conditions if I still want our relationship (bBae is a wicked manipulator). I read this thread and mAke it a way of life ( Not like I am practicing it on different girls),by focusing this drills on bae. After two weeks of going silent, she has been callimg and calling since Monday, at times in the dead of the night I will wake up and see her miss calls, but I womnt call back, she has been wondering where did I suddenly get the liver. Now she has been distyrbing my phone with messages, begging, begging and begging so I can give her chance to come and see me at home, she even send an SMS some minutes ago that she want to come and spend weekend withy me(something I have been begginh her to do and she use to give exvuses that she cant do it), that I should please just reply. Bae, perhaps,has been unable to sleep.

I am just enjoying the whole drama.

PaulAris:

Really?? But I do some for target practice, nothing serious really.

HARDDON:



Whooo hooo!! I literally jumped out of my working swivel! As my heart leaped for joy... A ball has been liberated! I like reading writes like this!


First emphasized, that is the way to go! The drills ain't just the musings of a drunken master or theories whipped from the cocoons of many books, they are the ways of life of the true man. Most just live it, they can't put a name to it nor understand it. They just notice it works and they stick with it.
Luckily for yours truly, he understood it deeper and could put them to words.

Btw, they are not meant for bae alone! You can deploy them on whoever. The world needs a lil fun, a lil laughter! Most especially ladies. They usually get bored on da constant.

Now, I would love to explain what is really going on with her now: she thinks another lady is giving you medication and healing you of her spell
How can a guy she got under wraps all of a sudden change? Oh God, I hope I have not lost him to these prowling Jezebels?

You have effectively broken down her stupid ego! Though your balls isn't fully with you yet, it is not with her again either. It is hanging in the air! Your next move and how you handle this situation going forward, would determine if you would effectively own it back or she would manipulate you into shape again and pull if to herself.
Hopefully, you wouldn't let that happen again after feeling the joys of a librated man in control of his life.

" please just reply bae! " hahaha, she is a comedian!

See why you should never beg a lady for anything? See how shallow they really are?

I keep saying it; if guys truly understand these drills, ladies would always beg to be with us and everything else! How can you have it all: balls, jrod, money, love, fun, wits and wisdom yet let these tiny creatures run the rule over you?

Like I would keep saying, a man needs just a Rose and thousand of flowers. Flowers keeps the Rose under checkand they constantly remind her that others are lined up at the door. Should she side step, she has herself to blame! You must constantly have this thought at the back of your mind. Abundance mentality. It would help you not to cling unto any lady like your life depends on her. Put her in her place!

Imagine yours truly calling a BM of a bank that has older guys working for her "smallie" and go spanking her bum bum whereever she steps into the room! Sendless. Totally tame her. Why? because he send less and she has seen the caliber of woman on his trail!

Back to you, going forward, let me hear from you how you intend to nail this situation to your eternal advantage and pluck your balls from the air because you can't keep ignoring her. If you still want her, that is.

irumole1975:


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@ Harddon, you are the best inspiration. Let me be frank, I don't know how my life woulda been had I not come across this thread, because bae had literally been in possession of my mumu switch for a long time. She visits me when she feels like, and not when I rather wanted. BUt over the time the game has changed,. Why would I lose thought over her again when I have some flowers that are ready to impress me with their ways and wine?even though bae is a wife material and shes the one I am planning to take to mama

As to your question, Bae has already deployed the service of her best friend,which is equally my friend too,to talk me into picking her calls and of course forgive her. Bae will call me tonight , and I have been planning to let her know my stand as to how I will be having things my own way if she still want us together ( as she used to say those times she had my mumu switch). I am planning to have her in my crib tomorrow to thrash things out

HARDDON:


@ emphasized, Never, ever use such words again! It is at your bidding going forward not hers! IF YOU STILL WANT IT.

When she call tonight, keep the talk very brief, end it because you got some other things to think of. Never promise you would call either. If she tries to bring up some cheap talks, your reply would be: "this is not the place nor time! Aiit, bye. " you end it. You roll.
You must tell her when you would be free tomorow. If she suggest a time, never go with it. You must set the time.

One last very important thing:

DO NOT LET HER COME TO YOUR PLACE[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]! yes I know you just want to hit it. You missed it but freaking have some balls! Tell her you changed your mind that it would be better you guys meet at, suggest a place. Any other place but your crib! She might try to cajole you so she can come home, don't fall for it. Tell her that the overcome of discussions would determine if she is still welcomed home or not! You should be totally sendless! Getting your balls backs entails you pulling crazy, impromptu stunts she never would beleive you could!
Hopefully, you didn't devulve nothing to the said friend. because that friend is a probe she deployed and it worked. Keep it straight hence on. Don't let third party into your Partie!


On a final note, don't pull up childish demands. Infact, you need not demand anything. Keep her in a loop. Just sit and listen to her explanations with a straight face. Have a conversation, air clearing conversation. Don't explain why you refused taking her calls either. She tries to bring that up, shut it down with; that is in the past now.

If you can pull this off, all your lost respects, would automatically be restored and you balls used as an icing on the cake!

HARDDON:


With this typa gurl, you must have a planned sequence if not, you would wake up one day and realise that actually, with all the efforts you ploughed in, you on da free roll, da Zzone!

Stop calling randomly. Give it a sequence.

I would edit this post leta with details.

HARDDON:


In basic Biology, all living thing move right?
Is it same thing in advanced one?

Sense Pill


Get to the point where even your target practice is someone's dream wify! For when we were young, we did childish things, having advanced in age, we must put away childish stuffs. It is no Pride. It is called class.
For no matter the social standing of the jungle, Lion don't roll with rats

HARDDON:


@ emphasized, Never, ever use such words again! It is at your bidding going forward not hers! IF YOU STILL WANT IT.

When she call tonight, keep the talk very brief, end it because you got some other things to think of. Never promise you would call either. If she tries to bring up some cheap talks, your reply would be: "this is not the place nor time! Aiit, bye. " you end it. You roll.
You must tell her when you would be free tomorow. If she suggest a time, never go with it. You must set the time.

One last very important thing:

DO NOT LET HER COME TO YOUR PLACE! yes I know you just want to hit it. You missed it but freaking have some balls! Tell her you changed your mind that it would be better you guys meet at, suggest a place. Any other place but your crib! She might try to cajole you so she can come home, don't fall for it. Tell her that the overcome of discussions would determine if she is still welcomed home or not! You should be totally sendless! Getting your balls backs entails you pulling crazy, impromptu stunts she never would beleive you could!
Hopefully, you didn't devulve nothing to the said friend. because that friend is a probe she deployed and it worked. Keep it straight hence on. Don't let third party into your Partie!


On a final note, don't pull up childish demands. Infact, you need not demand anything. Keep her in a loop. Just sit and listen to her explanations with a straight face. Have a conversation, air clearing conversation. Don't explain why you refused taking her calls either. She tries to bring that up, shut it down with; that is in the past now.

If you can pull this off, all your lost respects, would automatically be restored and you balls used as an icing on the cake!

HARDDON:


I am nothing but a dedicated observer,
An opened minded learner, one not afraid to go into d field n wage theories against practicals. Knowledge Extrapolator, brain made up of blotted paper.
An ardent modifier. Swift deployer.
Once upon a time, intoxicated by the allure of softness.
Now dedicated to the true course where with i was born:
touch lives positively!

Sense Pill

A balanced preacher is one who has tested both worlds! He is not easily swayed by the riches n softness of this world ..... Don

derrick015:
Hello boss Hardon and other bosses in the house

I need serious help on chatting with girls on WhatsApp
After I broke up with my ex. getting a new gf has been so difficult. Girls I have interest in have been put off by my chats. it always hello how are you fine etc. sometimes I try to spice it up with some jokes but it always been rebuffed.

Now there's this girl we attended same fellowships back in university. Then I tried talking to her professing love but she rejected me( I havent been reading this post then tho.)
But of recent I noticed some sort of green light from her. I never had her number she calls me etc. and messaged me on WhatsApp.

I want to go for the kill with her. I don't want to appear desperate or needy. and I need to show this tru texting because distance set up apart for now cause i am in a different place to hers

I have flopped in texting in the past as I run out ideas on what to say. I have tried downloading videos online but all to no avail.


Please peeps from your depths of wisdom help me

HARDDON:




you are trying too much not to mess it up. That is actually the beginning of messing it up.
You are too self-conscious.
the vibes from you tells only one tale: I just want to say/do the right thing and then swiftly bed you! who wouldn't ignore you?

try and work on your self-esteem and confidence first. Learn to rein in Jrod. the emphasised is your main ish

You are the best thing to happen to any gurl!

we have flogged this a couple of times already.

HARDDON:




you are trying too much not to mess it up. That is actually the beginning of messing it up.
You are too self-conscious.
the vibes from you tells only one tale: I just want to say/do the right thing and then swiftly bed you! who wouldn't ignore you?

try and work on your self-esteem and confidence first. Learn to rein in Jrod. the emphasised is your main ish

You are the best thing to happen to any gurl!

we have flogged this a couple of times already.

derrick015:
Hello boss Hardon and other bosses in the house

I need serious help on chatting with girls on WhatsApp
After I broke up with my ex. getting a new gf has been so difficult. Girls I have interest in have been put off by my chats. it always hello how are you fine etc. sometimes I try to spice it up with some jokes but it always been rebuffed.

Now there's this girl we attended same fellowships back in university. Then I tried talking to her professing love but she rejected me( I havent been reading this post then tho.)
But of recent I noticed some sort of green light from her. I never had her number she calls me etc. and messaged me on WhatsApp.

I want to go for the kill with her. I don't want to appear desperate or needy. and I need to show this tru texting because distance set up apart for now cause i am in a different place to hers

I have flopped in texting in the past as I run out ideas on what to say. I have tried downloading videos online but all to no avail.


Please peeps from your depths of wisdom help me

derrick015:

I have been trying to get girls to day all to no avail. owing to the way I chat.

I just need the basics on how to get to attract girls through chats of which is the only thing I can do for now.cause of our distance. The girl in question have been giving me green light. And it won't be wise of me to let her slip because I can't chat or because I want to take things slowly and wait till we meet which won't be until mid next year

Lrdsft:
Never told I would be doing this just needed some advice there is this girl have been dating for like six months initially before we started dating I asked her if she has someone she said yes but she said they are not in close contact..later on I know she's lying they are in contact so I challenged her she begged me to give her time cos she can't break up with no tangible reasons..the funny part me and the guy have met like twice and we both know we dating the same girl..so recently I asked her about the time she said I should give her she said she can't leave either of us and that's what she told the other guy also I want to walk away but I love this girl almost all my family members knows her she do come to my house don't know what to do seriously

lakesidepapa:


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lakesidepapa:


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Lrdsft:
Never told I would be doing this just needed some advice there is this girl have been dating for like six months initially before we started dating I asked her if she has someone she said yes but she said they are not in close contact..later on I know she's lying they are in contact so I challenged her she begged me to give her time cos she can't break up with no tangible reasons..the funny part me and the guy have met like twice and we both know we dating the same girl..so recently I asked her about the time she said I should give her she said she can't leave either of us and that's what she told the other guy also I want to walk away but I love this girl almost all my family members knows her she do come to my house don't know what to do seriously

Lrdsft:
Never told I would be doing this just needed some advice there is this girl have been dating for like six months initially before we started dating I asked her if she has someone she said yes but she said they are not in close contact..later on I know she's lying they are in contact so I challenged her she begged me to give her time cos she can't break up with no tangible reasons..the funny part me and the guy have met like twice and we both know we dating the same girl..so recently I asked her about the time she said I should give her she said she can't leave either of us and that's what she told the other guy also I want to walk away but I love this girl almost all my family members knows her she do come to my house don't know what to do seriously