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olsome:
How long can you wait

(a) 1 day

(b) 1 week

(c) 2 weeks

(d) 1 month

(e) 3 months

(d) 6 months

(e) 1 year

(f) 12years

Oma307:
u forgot to mention 24 years also, how can a reasonable man wait for a lady response for 12 years. op, take time

DanDeeBoss:
Highest two days...

SmellySperm:
Am a 1min man so 1min is ok

Wuraola01:
Lmao

Wuraola01:
Ahh. Really :?

No chill at all

I cannot wait for two weeks or a month, then get "no" as an answer.... .....

SmellySperm:
sweetheart shebi u no won chat with me, u dey shun me

DanDeeBoss:
I cannot wait for two weeks or a month, then get "no" as an answer.... .....

Wuraola01:
Ohh. So if you wait 2 days and the girl says no.
It won't pain you too much abi

Yeah... You know some ladies with their "lemme Goan think about it"....

Wuraola01:
Of course not
Not shunning u

LuciferGospel:
Right there when I ask you.



Reason is, I can't meet you right now & ask you out immediately (except its a hookup).
I will usually let you spend sometime with me before I make my move.

So if after all you've seen & know about me, you still "need time to think", then you're not what I'm looking for.

I don't check back for a response.
If I don't get my answer right there, I assume its a "No" & move on.

I don't even want "pity relationships".


Those that bugged me after waiting & waiting for me to check back either ended up severely fvcked & dumped or they deleted my number in anger at my 'shakara'.

DanDeeBoss:
Yeah... You know some ladies with their "lemme Goan think about it"....

SmellySperm:
Am taking note of ur snubs...

Wuraola01:
How many is down

SmellySperm:
The one u did in da afternoon plus dis evening own that's 2

Kidaholic:
I don't think any guy who really love a girl will have a "SPECIFIC" time for her to respond to his advances. I mean in Nigeria, you have to toast and toast again, even while you're dating you will still be toasting to ensure she stays with you

To answer your question sha, I don't really know cause my ex and current girlfriend gave me their reply on the spot

Eagba:
weak man spotted. How you go dey toast ur girl to remain with. Believe me when these stupid nairaland boys say girls like being partially ignored, they didn't lie. Be the alpha male, treat them like trash and atimes, treat them like they are the most precious thing on earth and you've got yourself a lapdog.

Wuraola01:
You're really counting for me
Okay. I'm sorry, then Ur meme tho

Kidaholic:
My Life, My Problem
When you get yours, treat 'em like trash.
Mind you, there's a huge difference BTW toasting and bugging, girls hate being bugged all the time and yes that's where the partially ignore part comes to play. Toasting on the other hand implies remind
/showing her how much love her, little things you do that makes her feel you
Take me for example, I'm a guitarist (acoustic) so I sing her love song like Ed Sheeran's "All of the stars" which she enjoy so much, at times she even asks me to play something for her during calls.

If I am what you call a weak man, then I'm proud to be one!

Kidaholic:
My Life, My Problem
When you get yours, treat 'em like trash.
Mind you, there's a huge difference BTW toasting and bugging, girls hate being bugged all the time and yes that's where the partially ignore part comes to play. Toasting on the other hand implies remind
/showing her how much love her, little things you do that makes her feel you
Take me for example, I'm a guitarist (acoustic) so I sing her love song like Ed Sheeran's "All of the stars" which she enjoy so much, at times she even asks me to play something for her during calls.

If I am what you call a weak man, then I'm proud to be one!

Hafeexla:
Hum ! Older User ?