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chiommy123:
There is true love but in trying to put up some stupid test to find out if they are truely the one we push them away

Yeah, I was at the end of some stupid test. And the worst thing is it's a test any fvckboy will pass in flying colors.

I left her with a smile on my face, She was shocked that a guy can dump her.

Estringx:
I do not blame anyone for the reasons why it is kinda difficult to find true love in Nigeria. But the truth be told, if you are lucky enough to get that person who is ready to sacrifice every thing just to be with you in Nigeria, do every thing in your power to take care of them. The economy we find ourselves have changed virtually everything about us including our adaptivity and survival. People no longer get married to the ones they love because of a limitation which is money precisely. Some girls tend to deny whom they love just to live a comfortable life with that rich man. It is not at all a funny matter, may be I haven't been to places. But as for Nigeria that I am presently in is alarmingly surprising that most girls, ladies or women want to marry for money. Everyone wants to live a comfortable life, the purpose of marriage doesn't matter anymore. I attended a church and the pastor said "marriage is not marrying someone you love but someone with the same dream". Up till date I hardly find people who marry for the sake of same dream thing. Survival has become the determinant in our world today. But where is true love? does this term still exist? At times, I don't even know the real definition of true love. Everything has almost become a mixed up. If I will live the rest of my life marrying someone for the sake of money, what about continuity, endurance and management after marriage? Will I be able to love and care for this person after math? The fact that we all want to live fine has overcome the way we want to really live. Everybody wants to be wealthy. I will never advise you to marry for money. True love requires sacrifice; you will not find that easily. You might not find someone who is ready to struggle with you. Most ladies want all ready made product, they do not want to know about the processes.







THE QUESTION IS HOW DO I FIND MY TRUE LOVE HERE IN NIGERIA?



#1 – FORGET ABOUT BEAUTY

Men are always the cause, when you set a target you don't get outside your target. A man that wants true love will not set a beauty contest target or an eight shape or curvy competition. All he thinks about is a Love that is true and rare. You will find one when you think like this.



2# – HIDE YOUR WEALTH

Most of time you don't find true love showing off. You end up packing all sorts when you are showing off your wealth. You hardly find yourself around the real ones, only fake ones who wants to spend your money will move close. Money doesn't entice her easily, she just want to be happy with her better half. Keep your money please but it doesn't mean you shouldn't buy her things



3# – LET HER SPEND FOR YOU

She will buy you gift unexpectedly to show you how much you mean to her; she will invest so much in this gift. She just want to choose the best for you to know she loves you so much. Don't go for a careless lady – she doesn't fear you. The lady who is in love with you won't want to make mistake easily when you are around because she just want you to love her more. But that doesn't mean she is perfect.



4# – SHE WILL CARE SO MUCH

She doesn't joke with your issues. She is up in the night to think through your problems. She cares a lot like she is on fire. She wants you to be happy just like she's fixing herself up too.



6# – SHE WILL BE RARE

She will be so different from those spenders you call slay queens. She will be their boss because she doesn't act stupid. She is born to be rare. All she wants to do is make sure she doesn't act careless or flown around men. "You can keep your money" is her best quote.



7# – SHE WON'T HIDE A THING

When she begins to trust you, she won't hide anything from you. She tells you all her past, she get to find a way to make you meet her relatives, friends and families. She visits your mother and take care of her. She is married to everyone linked to you especially your siblings if you have one.



Be very careful, marriage is a lifetime thing. We do not support #DIVORCE.

Source : https://www.mindmingers.com

If your love for your partner is really true then it means you have found true love , stay true even in midst of storms or u get dumbed believe in what you have inside not what you are getting from outside , that is when you hit the saying that true love never dies , never hurt etc. Discover yourself feel free and fall in love you may even cherish the moments it lasted and move ahead in life... Remember it is in you , true love is in us , be sincere to yourself and guide your heart jealously.

Evercurious:
I understand your perspective.. I ll advise you take your time to sieve your friends(both male and female)now that you seem 'broke'.. Cos that condition won't be permanent and this is the best time to do that. I know SUCCESS has so many friends.. But we know that there is something like fake friends..

I speak from experience and I still believe in true and real love cos they exist.

Thanks for the advice..
Buh am.neither broke neither am I rich buh getting there by the grace of God..
Buh my ideology about love came when I was kinda unstable financially

marvin906:
My experience has made me to believe that and I wish am proved wrong someday

True love exist.

But I tell you, your belief that there is no true love due to your past experience is your greatest obstacle to finding true love that you are wishing for.

You can never find true love that way.
It is like driving north, while wishing to go south.
It's a mental obstacle that you must get rid of if you really want to find true love.

Open your mind to love. Don't allow that single failed relationship to mar your entire future of love. Forget the past and move on. The girl in question have moved on.
And guess what? She doesn't care!

I know it hurts so much, but it happens.
I will advise you not to make the mistake of deciding not to truly love any girl again because of what the previous girl did. Consider it as her own personal character and behavior. All girls are not like that

And don't allow her to be affecting you from a distance by hindering you from opening your mind to love and in the process find true love.

marvin906:
Thanks for the advice..
Buh am.neither broke neither am I rich buh getting there by the grace of God..
Buh my ideology about love came when I was kinda unstable financially

Okay dear. God's Grace