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Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
2buffagain: 100 percent right. One almost beat me up in a strip club in New Jersey just because I refused to touch her fake ass. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ishilove: 12:57pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
2buffagain:You sound like dem don do you strong tin before |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by jantavanta(m): 3:14pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
There is 400 years of separation between the not-so-desirable Black American woman and the Nigerian desirable. During those centuries, America built it's prosperity by practically wiping out an entire race and zombiezing them into the mental state of The Living Dead. If we are attracted to America's prosperity, we have to understand that Black Americans fought slavery, fought Jim Crow laws and fought for Civil Rights to make America conducive for us to emigrate into. I am not asking anyone to be attracted to the ungroomed large-tattooed "badly brought-up" incoherently-dictioned sort. But at least, be empathic as you maintain your safe distance. Their minds are being damaged by a school curriculum and broadcast media that tells them that they are a Nobody in History, so they are living out that classification. 3 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
khiaa:Lozz.i think I should focus more on my country matters. |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 6:03pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
Bidobado1: you don't mean it |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 6:09pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
jantavanta: Making excuses for these pathetic lot. Even during the brutal era of Jim Crow, black folks were not this useless in America. the men were largely responsible, and had families that they fought for. we had black doctors, engineers, lawyers, we had Thurgood Marshall and the list is endless. If they did not crack during the jim crow era, why is the family unit in that sub culture done for after Civil rights? They are the ones damaging themselves (along with Section 8 too) No excuses biko. Black folks were equakkt dehumanized in Africa by colonialists, so its not as if we as Africans had it rosy either. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 6:13pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
Section 8 has it's own part too in this mess. There is now an incentive to have fatherless kids and the govt (and the unfortunate father) will reward you for it. So why be useful in life, when you can have four kids from three different men and get the "benefits" What these niggers fail to realize (and it's a common trait amongst blacks worldwide to not think long term) is that these actions will have serious consequences in future in our community. To cut them some slack tho, mass incarceration also played its part. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Favor99(m): 7:54pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
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Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Favor99(m): 8:01pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
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Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Chommieblaq(f): 8:09pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
Ugosample: The emboldened is the problem with blacks, we don't look beyond short term gratification,what impact will our actions have in years to come. When the consequences start showing up, we look for excuses and the blame game will start. Slavery is over many years ago, same with colonial rules, they are no longer excuses! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 11:09pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
Chommieblaq: at last... someone that understand me. Decades of opting for section 8 has produced a lot of useless kids who are also producing useless kids Now the society is in a mess. Nigeria too is tending towards becoming a failed state in the next decade and a half if we don't nip certain things in the bud now. but short sightedness and myopia will not allow foolish nigger Nigerians to see it. promotion of instant gratification, promoting wealth without work, etc etc 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by 2buffagain(m): 12:15am On Jan 02, 2019 |
Ugosample: Why aren’t you interested in Igbo women? I have the same mind but I am interested in your reasons. |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by khiaa(f): 12:37am On Jan 02, 2019 |
Ugosample: You people are an ignorant bunch, (this includes 2buffagain) all you do is focus on the poor blacks in America (you never criticize the poor whites who have an advantage for their skin color alone) while being blind to the poor in your country. Why don't you build your country and stop running to other countries to make a better life for yourselves? For your information (you seem to lack intelligence) there are black American doctors, lawyers, engineers, scientist, professors, dentist, physicists, bankers, entrepreneurs, and more(the op will never tell you this because he is trying to paint you a false picture of black America) but you are too full of hate to see beyond your prejudices. Have you even stepped a foot in America? By the way, what is a nigger? 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Nobody: 12:45am On Jan 02, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:u r on point |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Nobody: 12:47am On Jan 02, 2019 |
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Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 3:22am On Jan 02, 2019 |
khiaa: I never said there are no black successful people I have black Americans as in laws and friends and some are doing just fine, while one is in jail, and another still in school in Savannah. The topic on ground are the RATCHET BLACK FOLKS not all black folks are ratchet, but a good number are, and its unfortunate. I'm a well travelled person, that's all ill tell you I can bet that i have been to more countries and places than even you, but I'm not trippin We have white trash too (dem plenty for deep south) but the topic on hand are ratchet black folks. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 3:23am On Jan 02, 2019 |
2buffagain:I think this is the second time you are asking me You really want to knw? If you insist, I'll tell you |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by BlackAdam55(m): 3:25am On Jan 02, 2019 |
blissgregory:she's not on any point. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 3:32am On Jan 02, 2019 |
khiaa: and just so you know, black communities ACROSS THE WORLD ARE IN A MESS. Most of them. So don't think because you are a black American, you are on a pedestal Black neighbourhoods are known for a certain reputation (not all neighbourhoods, but a whole lot) Just so you know, it's black Americans(descendents) like y'all that runs Liberia, and Liberia today is one of the worst run down countries in the world, with a $hithole status, so no chip over anyone shoulder Black communities in Europe (especially ones filled with Jamaicans) aren't much better Then African communities (oh lawd) is equally in a mess. African Americans (and Africans in general) need to step up, and quit being foolish and silly A good number of African Americans feel they are better than Africans and act conferencing towards them (you know this, so don't even deny) which is fking stupid A good number of Africans also feel that they are better than Afro Americans (which is also stupid) What they don't realize is that in America (and the world) we are all seem THE SAME In America, the color of your skin COULD expose you to racial profiling, no matter where you come from Diallo was killed and he was from the carib. Before you open your mouth, the color of your skin has said a whole lot already, 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by 2buffagain(m): 3:51am On Jan 02, 2019 |
Ugosample: This guy, Asking you twice don pass insist. Answer question. |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 4:18am On Jan 02, 2019 |
2buffagain: I just can relate with an average Igbo woman culturally (especially the ones who were born and raised in the SouthEast) I just can't deal with it, that's all. The oriaku mentality, the general way of reasoning and the world view of the women is not compatible with me or that of family. both my parents are Igbo, but just like me, they were not born , neither did they spend like a considerable time there, so you can see that with that, the mentality differ That's just how I can put it for you It's much wider in scope, but thAt just a picture. |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by 2buffagain(m): 5:17am On Jan 02, 2019 |
Ugosample: It is refreshing to finally meet an igbo chap that doesn't throw a fit whenever it is mentioned that there is something twisted about igbotic mentality when it comes to matters of contentment and pragmatism. It shows you reason without bias and can think independently as opposed to illogical group-think. Igbo folk generally don't care if you die from hypertension, because they place brainless/unneccessarily-expensive cultural practices above intelligent reasoning or sense. A culturally in-grained inability to live a modest pragmatic life. I don't get the reason why they must drag you to their village to show-off for everything to people who really don't need to be knowing about your matters. Including when you want to marry or bury the igbo woman....no matter where her actual family is....na village straight even if everyone lives on the other side of the atlantic. The day I realized there was something wrong with that culture, was the day I tried to "reason" with an igbo ex-fiance (and every igbo woman after that) regarding matters of applying sense to things instead of omenala/oriaku BS. That is when I knew, from first hand experience, that I was never going to deal with women from that culture ever again...neither was I interested in having them as in-laws. I have made several threads asking why these behaviors and why they haven't adapted to the reality of the times....but I never get any logical argument back besides "culture is culture. We must follow it". To me, that is just a ret@rded way of living ones life. Independent thought is necessary. |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by jantavanta(m): 7:28am On Jan 02, 2019 |
Ugosample: I agree with you that we also had our challenges. I am not supporting any xenophobic behaviour towards us. I relate well with those of them who have decided to make Africa their Spiritual Center of gravity. Colonialism was a more advanced form of slavery combined with Jim Crow. They allowed the slave trade abolitionist, William Wilberforce, to have his way because they were moving on to the partition of Africa. Now we are are in Neo-colonialism. African Independence was for their faithful servants in Black Skin to compete to take over and eliminate any stubborn African leader who did not agree to the continuation of economic disenfranchisement of Africa. The opppressors of Black Americans realised that the family unit was their strength and cracked it by the spread of Crack in the 80s and State support for family units to break up. As a consequence, those Black Americans I may be seen to be making excuses for, have been switched into autopilot self-destruction. Our dehumanization in Africa was more of economic and psychological/spiritual and did not involve direct physical confrontation with Racism (except for apartheid South Africa and maybe Zimbabwe). |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by bejeria101(m): 7:35am On Jan 02, 2019 |
khiaa: He doesnt know just likes to use words. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 10:11am On Jan 02, 2019 |
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Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Nobody: 10:53am On Jan 02, 2019 |
blissgregory:she aint |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by khiaa(f): 12:50pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
On the topic, rachet Nigerian men will marry ratchet American women, no matter the race. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 12:57pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
khiaa: you have a point tho But then, some men "desperate" to settle (if you know what I mean) may just settle for the RATCHET ones |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by khiaa(f): 1:09pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
Ugosample: 1. But all you do is run your mouth about the unsuccessful ones, I swear you guys must feel inferior that's why you always look down on others. 2. I wish your black inlaws and friends could read what you really think of them. 3. Yes, the topic is ratchet black folks so how about we include you ratchet Nigerians because lord knows there are a whole lot of you all as well, and that's unfortunate. 4. Who cares how well traveled you are, that doesn't give you the right to judge a whole nation of people who you know nothing about. 5. Yes, there are lots of poor whites all throughout America not only the south but for some reason, you arrogant people will close your eyes to that because you can't believe that your idols can be poor even poorer than the black Americans you love to judge. Once again the topic is ratchet black folks so include your ratchet azzes in the topic as well. 6. I'll ask you again, what is a nigger? |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 1:09pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
2buffagain: Nwanne You don talk am finish. You can never be too sure about the character of a naija girl while she is in Nigeria, especially the ones from diadvantaged backgrounds. It's a risk that may or may not pay off. |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by Ugosample(m): 1:15pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
khiaa: why so angry? A Nigerian feel inferior to an Afro American This lady is tripping. If you want to talk of ratchet Nigerians, open your own thread for that Actions black folks irrespective of origin take often leave a stain for us all. It's not that serious |
Re: If You Are A Ratchet Akata, That Nigerian Man Will Never Marry You For Real by khiaa(f): 1:21pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
Ugosample: It must be something to that statement because we are on your minds 24 hours a day 7 days a week. 2buffagain has been making these stupid threads for years. It's an obsession. |
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