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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Teespice(f): 1:11pm On Jan 07, 2019
greyham:


Sometimes I wonder how a Barrister can be so dumb. In case you did not know, it's the same setting. One party putting the trust of a second party to test.

I'm not breaking it down for you more than this since you fail to apply simple logic.

Yeye

Yeye dey smell.

How does the two correlate?

You are the dumb one.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by wiseone28: 1:26pm On Jan 07, 2019
samysmoothfresh:


i did not put her up for hire purchase nor did i test her!!



If i wanted to test her or "put her up for hire purchase", i would have personally met my friend and told i'll pay him if he tries to get her in bed but NO that wasnt what happened.


My friend dared me, doubting my ex's loyalty and literally insulting her by calling her an untrustworthy cheating wh0re.


I quickly jumped to her defence and gave her a chance to prove my friend wrong but she ended up proving him right, showing me how much of a wh0re she is and yet i'm the bad guy who "put her up for hire purchase"?. undecided

Don't mind them even God tested Job's loyalty and he didn't fail

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by ekanempatrick28(m): 1:26pm On Jan 07, 2019
for one I don't support wat d guy did but why are u ladies sounding as if ladies too don't test dere boyfriends. both gender do it. let's not lie here. though I find it irritating

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Headlesschicken(m): 1:28pm On Jan 07, 2019
I didn't plan to comment,buh yuh stupidity caught my attention, which gals r upping dia game's,n!ggas r still phucking u thots wiv a 1960 secondary School rhyme,b!tch wake d Phuck up Dix x 2019..
funmisticqueen:
I agree. we ain't loyal and we don't owe you shit loyalty. You gotta earn it.

Gone are the days where asking a girl out and telling her empty words are just enough. Girls are getting wiser. So up your game or remain a bachelor.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by supereagle(m): 1:52pm On Jan 07, 2019
samysmoothfresh:
Honestly, most girls do not deserve a man's trust, love and care cos they are just plain gold digging slцts.
Sometime in october last year, during one of our normal guys hangout, a friend made a dare saying he could get my girlfriend (now ex) laid in just 4 months and suggested we made a bet of 8k.
I declined at first cos i felt it was absurd but i later gave in after they persuaded me saying the reason i refuse to bet is cos i don't trust my girl.
I swear i trusted this girl with to a very large extent cos i could tell she loved me to hell and back.................she was the one who even asked me out before we started dating.
Imagine the shock and dissappointment i felt when my friend brought proof of them fvcking yesterday.
I had to pay the 8k and this morning, i called her to end things.
I'm officailly single and I've officially experienced my first break up of 2019 which will definitely be the last since i've decided to stay of relationship for the entire year.
These wh0res aint to be trusted, even the once who seem genuine at first.
I'm not saying you should do the stupid thing i did, but not until you test them before you know they aint loyal one bit.

I can get you one if you are ready for Marriage.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Zither(m): 2:07pm On Jan 07, 2019
placeofallure:


Happy New year bro. It's never right to hop from bed to bed. For guys even, it's not right how much more a girl. She's a shameless LovePeddler and we disown her. However, I still maintain it's not right to place bet on a human being. She's not Arsenal or Barca match. He could have devised other means to test her credibility. What about opening a faceless social media account and chat her up? If he puts her away afterwards, he alone knows the reason why he's done that.

You are the only lady here whose comments make sense. Why are your fellow ladies so pained that a guy tested his girlfriend and she failed? Would they be equally pained if the guy ended with the report that she passed and that his love for her is greater now than it was before the test? I thought a fellow lady here made a comment that she has stopped testing her boyfriends after all her ex's failed her test. Are girls the only sex with the monopoly of testing their guys especially the ones they intend to marry?
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by zudoteku(m): 2:17pm On Jan 07, 2019
[quote author=samysmoothfresh post=74514332]

Why are all the females on here getting esp defensive and judgmental about this. We know how many post we see online of women who test their spouse or bfs for Faithfulness, only to see them fail; leading to the regular cries of " Men are scum". However a guy does this now, and it is sinfully wrong and punishable by death.
Bro! i don't agree nor disagree with your decision on Testing her, all I know is Thank God for you.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by zudoteku(m): 2:21pm On Jan 07, 2019
samysmoothfresh:






i know it was prolly a stupid thing to do but it doesnt mean i wasnt scared to lose her. For me, it meant i trusted her to do the right especially since she knows the guy is a friend.
If it was a random guy, i definitely wouldnt have made the bet cos i would have been skeptical but this is my friend!.......someone she knows to be "my friend" yet she slept with him.
I repeat, it prolly was a stupid thing to do but i'm glad i did cos a girl who can sleep with your friend isn't worth it,
if she had passed, i would never have told her about it and i would have cherished her more.

Why are all the females on here getting esp defensive and judgmental about this. We know how many post we see online of women who test their spouse or bfs for Faithfulness, only to see them fail; leading to the regular cries of " Men are scum". However a guy does this now, and it is sinfully wrong and punishable by death.
Bro! i don't agree nor disagree with your decision on Testing her, all I know is Thank God for you.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Rextizzle(m): 2:27pm On Jan 07, 2019
samysmoothfresh:
Honestly, most girls do not deserve a man's trust, love and care cos they are just plain gold digging slцts.
Sometime in october last year, during one of our normal guys hangout, a friend made a dare saying he could get my girlfriend (now ex) laid in just 4 months and suggested we made a bet of 8k.
I declined at first cos i felt it was absurd but i later gave in after they persuaded me saying the reason i refuse to bet is cos i don't trust my girl.
I swear i trusted this girl with to a very large extent cos i could tell she loved me to hell and back.................she was the one who even asked me out before we started dating.
Imagine the shock and dissappointment i felt when my friend brought proof of them fvcking yesterday.
I had to pay the 8k and this morning, i called her to end things.
I'm officailly single and I've officially experienced my first break up of 2019 which will definitely be the last since i've decided to stay of relationship for the entire year.
These wh0res aint to be trusted, even the once who seem genuine at first.
I'm not saying you should do the stupid thing i did, but not until you test them before you know they aint loyal one bit.
Bro go date a white girl, Naija girls are nothing but a whortless and useless pieces of trash.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Rextizzle(m): 2:30pm On Jan 07, 2019
Saffi:
Stupid man. Who places a bet on his girlfriend? You are daft and deserve everything that comes your way. For you to place a bet shows that she’s just a game to you, and I’m glad she didn’t remain loyal to you.
Stop thinking with your clitoris for once
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by NNEWIsuper: 2:35pm On Jan 07, 2019
Pearl05:



I got what your saying but I think .....

It's either your friend and you are broke dudes for you to lament about 8k or that you don't place much valve on your ex- girlfriend, 8k only. Next time tell the friend to bet #50k -#100k if he meant business.


Now listen, any friend that can go to the extent of sleeping with your girlfriend in the name of bet is best tagged enemy. He can do same with your wife, sister, daughter, aunt, mother, mother -in- law or even your she-goat.


There is a limit to every thing. What stopped him from getting chat or text evidence of her willingness to sleep with him? But he actually did the do. To me that is gross. You are better off without that friend.




But above all things the babe is not worth keeping except on friends with benefit basis no mutual commitment where every party knows what is on the table for him or her.

you made the highest sense here
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by NNEWIsuper: 2:36pm On Jan 07, 2019
Rextizzle:
Bro go date a white girl, Naija girls are nothing but a whortless and useless pieces of trash.
where them white girls dey abegii
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Rextizzle(m): 2:40pm On Jan 07, 2019
NNEWIsuper:
where them white girls dey abegii
Travel out of the country bro

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jan 07, 2019
Equal2DeTask:


keep quiet there! What do you have to offer in a relationship? That's why guys keeps on using and dumping you..
I have absolutely nothing to offer. Not even what is between my legs. Absolutely nothing.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jan 07, 2019
Headlesschicken:
I didn't plan to comment,buh yuh stupidity caught my attention, which gals r upping dia game's,n!ggas r still phucking u thots wiv a 1960 secondary School rhyme,b!tch wake d Phuck up Dix x 2019..
you missed it when you assumed that it was all about body count.#pinkpilllsecrets# #proudgolddiigger#
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Nobody: 3:53pm On Jan 07, 2019
So you people are still here? grin grin
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Manasp: 4:02pm On Jan 07, 2019
obembet:


It will be more sweet when the guy can do.it very well than u. Do u even trust yourself?




You see, don't make that's mistake again.

Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Martinez19(m): 4:39pm On Jan 07, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
If this is true then u are a very stupid being. I pray d friend hands you their wedding invitation dumb morafacka
He is not dumb, the bet is a blessing as it enabled him dodge a bullet. Why should he be bothered if his cheating ex and friend present their wedding invitation afterwards? Should he cry that he missed his chance of marrying a cheat? Samysmoothfresh, nothing do you carry go.

As I have said, boy on this thread should wise up. Look at how girls on this thread are condemning the Op and are trying, in various subtle ways, to discourage us from betting on our gfs because they know their hands are not cleans. If I can't vouch for your faithfulness at the expense of my money and be proven correct then you are not a worthy girlfriend and there is no use being in the relationship. Besides, why are girls not condemning the cheating girlfriend? Well, Buhari can't condemn Buhari. Look at the way they are calling the op a gambler, from the perspectives of the op, he knew his girlfriend wouldn't cheat and that bet was free money to him, so why not? You people should stop making it sound like he used her, like a commodity that he owns, to bet and stood a chance of losing her to someone's ownership on a bet he wasn't sure of. *spits* NwanyiAwkaetiti of all people.

Nothing can stop we boys from betting. In fact, we will keep on betting and betting and fishing these unworthy h0es out. Boys take note, don't let any girl bully you into not betting.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by SmellingAnus(m): 4:50pm On Jan 07, 2019
Take it as a lesson.... Next time don't even bet on you wife cos just as men are imperfect same way women are also imperfect... In the words of my former Psychology lecturer... " Anyman that thinks his wife cannot cheat on him is a stupid man"...
In this case we are even talking about ordinary girlfriend...

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jan 07, 2019
Teespice:


Yeye dey smell.

How does the two correlate?

You are the dumb one.

It's pointless trying to make you think with your head. You missed the point since my first post.

Dumb girls like u and the op's former gf are plenty so I am not surprised. Your case is worse because being a lawyer did not even help your situation.

Bye

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by PHOTSEE(m): 4:58pm On Jan 07, 2019
Guys orna dey shame me greatly, why not bet unknown that is where the fun lies,then dating girls within your circles, well, if na dat one orna want, dem girl sabi do am pass orna, na stil orna go stil come open thread they cry like pickin way no see ehe mama.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Tallesty1(m): 5:04pm On Jan 07, 2019
Saffi:
Stupid man. Who places a bet on his girlfriend? You are daft and deserve everything that comes your way. For you to place a bet shows that she’s just a game to you, and I’m glad she didn’t remain loyal to you.
Do you and your friends know anything about betting at all? I mean, do you not know that there's a wide gap between placing a bet on and placing a bet with?


I would have hurriedly given the OP the most stupid man of the year award if the story was that he placed a bet with his girlfriend but the reverse is the case, he placed a bet on his girlfriend.

He staked high, no gambler stakes high when the odds are not in his favor so why do you call him names?

Makes me wonder if you people are indirectly saying that y'all will fail the same test.


Somebody is talking about value and trust, who brags about a partner s/he doesn't trust? Who doesn't value what/who s/he trusts?


Abeg, sometimes it is just better to read and ignore than to comment and leave a bad impression.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by bjboss(m): 5:11pm On Jan 07, 2019
funmisticqueen:
I agree. we ain't loyal and we don't owe you shit loyalty. You gotta earn it.

Girls are getting wiser. So up your game or remain a bachelor.

See this one... i shake my head for you
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by sacajawea: 5:13pm On Jan 07, 2019
I feel sorry for the Men that will wife the Girls on this thread smh.


Most Naija ladies no matter the class have MAJOR not Minor but MAJOR flaws

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:14pm On Jan 07, 2019
samysmoothfresh:
Honestly, most girls do not deserve a man's trust, love and care cos they are just plain gold digging slцts.
Sometime in october last year, during one of our normal guys hangout, a friend made a dare saying he could get my girlfriend (now ex) laid in just 4 months and suggested we made a bet of 8k.
I declined at first cos i felt it was absurd but i later gave in after they persuaded me saying the reason i refuse to bet is cos i don't trust my girl.
I swear i trusted this girl with to a very large extent cos i could tell she loved me to hell and back.................she was the one who even asked me out before we started dating.
Imagine the shock and dissappointment i felt when my friend brought proof of them fvcking yesterday.
I had to pay the 8k and this morning, i called her to end things.
I'm officailly single and I've officially experienced my first break up of 2019 which will definitely be the last since i've decided to stay of relationship for the entire year.
These wh0res aint to be trusted, even the once who seem genuine at first.
I'm not saying you should do the stupid thing i did, but not until you test them before you know they aint loyal one bit.

You're just a man.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Shawnnn01: 5:19pm On Jan 07, 2019
MariaLavina:
So you place a bet on your girlfriend? You are very very wise! Very wise!

But come to think of it, why do you guys do this shitt? I remember a guy did the same thing to me, he placed a bet with his friend , Later he came applauding me that I passed a test. I was irritated and my hype for him just went down.!
That was the beginning of the end of the relationship. If you can bet on me, it means you aren't scared to lose me!

Bro, that shiit isn't cool, forget that your babe failed. It isn't cool at all. Testing your partner /betting on them simply means you don't value them. You ain't perfect either! undecided
This is an hopelessly senseless comment. How do you know you are not dating an olosho if you do not test ? You have to test for trust be trust, trust do not just fall on any girl or guy. How you go about the test is what is debatable not being able to test. Relationship itself a test of faith love n many others stuff many girls can not comprehend.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Shawnnn01: 5:19pm On Jan 07, 2019
MariaLavina:
So you place a bet on your girlfriend? You are very very wise! Very wise!

But come to think of it, why do you guys do this shitt? I remember a guy did the same thing to me, he placed a bet with his friend , Later he came applauding me that I passed a test. I was irritated and my hype for him just went down.!
That was the beginning of the end of the relationship. If you can bet on me, it means you aren't scared to lose me!

Bro, that shiit isn't cool, forget that your babe failed. It isn't cool at all. Testing your partner /betting on them simply means you don't value them. You ain't perfect either! undecided
This is an hopelessly senseless comment. How do you know you are not dating an olosho if you do not test ? You have to test for trust be trusted. Trust do not just fall on any girl or guy. How you go about the test is what is debatable not being able to test. Relationship itself is a test of faith love n many others stuff many can not comprehend.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Ay04z(m): 5:35pm On Jan 07, 2019
She say am not her ideal man to settle down with. But she milk me so badly for Abt a year. Girls are mad o
i lost my relationship. No more love. Just to enjoy the puna and move on.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Isaacmacdon(m): 5:42pm On Jan 07, 2019
E no get wetin I wan talk. I think I'm tired of constantly explaining the need to be very careful in dealings with girls of today.
They are girls for a reason. They are emotionally unstable and lack focus.

Guy, sorry for loss, but thank God for your life. You dodged a bullet.
A promiscuous/cheating woman is a man's greatest nightmare.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jan 07, 2019
ibkayee:
*Shrug* ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Coming from guys who think cheating is their birthright and who probably would've lost this same bet, you got what you were looking for, sorry not sorry lmao
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by PHOTSEE(m): 5:45pm On Jan 07, 2019
Tallesty1:
Do you and your friends know anything about betting at all? I mean, do you not know that there's a wide gap between placing a bet on and placing a bet with?


I would have hurriedly given the OP the most stupid man of the year award if the story was that he placed a bet with his girlfriend but the reverse is the case, he placed a bet on his girlfriend.

He staked high, no gambler stakes high when the odds are not in his favor so why do you call him names?

Makes me wonder if you people are indirectly saying that y'all will fail the same test.


Somebody is talking about value and trust, who brags about a partner s/he doesn't trust? Who doesn't value what/who s/he trusts?


Abeg, sometimes it is just better to read and ignore than to comment and leave a bad impression.
Lol, the object/subject is the girl and the means is the money,8k.betting on or with ,what is the different?
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Ishilove: 6:31pm On Jan 07, 2019
ibkayee:
*Shrug* ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Coming from guys who think cheating is their birthright and who probably would've lost this same bet, you got what you were looking for, sorry not sorry lmao
As in ehn cheesy

Everything little thing you'd see them beating their chests like testesterone crazed gorillas and shouting "men are polygamous by nature!" Now his ex has shown him that what is sauce for the goose is sure as hell sauce for the gander. Polyandry is real. grin cheesy

3 bottles of CHILLED malt for the babe jor! cheesy

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