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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by jeff1607(m): 4:58am On Jan 07
samysmoothfresh:


i did not put her up for hire purchase nor did i test her!!



If i wanted to test her or "put her up for hire purchase", i would have personally met my friend and told i'll pay him if he tries to get her in bed but NO that wasnt what happened.


My friend dared me, doubting my ex's loyalty and literally insulting her by calling her an untrustworthy cheating wh0re.


I quickly jumped to her defence and gave her a chance to prove my friend wrong but she ended up proving him right, showing me how much of a wh0re she is and yet i'm the bad guy who "put her up for hire purchase"?. undecided




I think your friend wanted her from the get go and probably been doing it or gotten green light from her before, a man who sleeps with his friend's woman ca
n kill betting or not I can never do such cos afterwards it breeds distrust between the two of you.

love is just a word when you have got marriage in mind,we all make must, maybe you haven't shown commitment and she needs to be sure of her position, do you know what your friend told her before she agreed to the act? do u know if he told her about your escapades with other girls or lied about one? think about it .


where you planning to marry her? has she positively affected your life? has she deprived herself things just to make sure you are happy?
if yes , bro go get her back ASAP or your friend will.


we all make mistakes

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by KevMitnick: 5:05am On Jan 07
Op, you, your backstabbing friend, the whorrre and everyone supporting her here are all mad.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Trigonometryme: 6:01am On Jan 07
Martinez19:
It's irrational to put any blame on him. A spouse whose faithfulness you can vouch for in public and you are proven correct is indeed a spouse. Samysmoothfresh did not gamble, from his perspective he thought he had seen free money. Why should the girl cheat? That girl doesn't deserve the Op. The bet is a blessing to op as it enabled him dodge a bullet. Girls should be happy if they have a boyfriend that trusts them so much that he can vouch for them at the expense of his money.

Girls sef. You no trust them, problem. You trust them, problem. grin

Happy NEW YEAR.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by uthlaw(m): 6:21am On Jan 07
PHOTSEE:
Sorry guy na the 8k they pain you abi you loss your girl to someone who wan use am way you stil pay on top. either way you lose both ways,why is he your friend? i must say you keep bad companies,true friend watch for their own ,such bounderies should not be cross no matter what and if at all such sh ould happen for instances switching of both girlsfriend with their constant as done in advance world .unless you have afalish for your girl to be smacked by some guy.
na the 8k pain him, girls of this generation are cheaper than pure water...

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Bidobado1: 6:26am On Jan 07
placeofallure:
Do you think you are a better person than her? If not for the fact that you said, you have severed ties with her, I'd say you deserve each other. You are a gambler and she's a slut!

See packaging, fear women!!
A man bet that his wife will never cheat, the Biitch did and you somehow want to make this brother feel guilty for trusting that Wh0re and using his money as a leverage against her honour.
He trusted her and bragged publicly that she is not like the others hence the bet.
Naija girls are nothing but cum buckets.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by PHOTSEE(m): 6:40am On Jan 07
men and loyality,by the way,who is loyal? what guys need from girls are respect and by satify with that and not the other way round, cause only she can decide what do with herself. just as she decide to woe you.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by uniqueflash(m): 6:41am On Jan 07
samysmoothfresh:
Honestly, most girls do not deserve a man's trust, love and care cos they are just plain gold digging slцts.
Sometime in october last year, during one of our normal guys hangout, a friend made a dare saying he could get my girlfriend (now ex) laid in just 4 months and suggested we made a bet of 8k.
I declined at first cos i felt it was absurd but i later gave in after they persuaded me saying the reason i refuse to bet is cos i don't trust my girl.
I swear i trusted this girl with to a very large extent cos i could tell she loved me to hell and back.................she was the one who even asked me out before we started dating.
Imagine the shock and dissappointment i felt when my friend brought proof of them fvcking yesterday.
I had to pay the 8k and this morning, i called her to end things.
I'm officailly single and I've officially experienced my first break up of 2019 which will definitely be the last since i've decided to stay of relationship for the entire year.
These wh0res aint to be trusted, even the once who seem genuine at first.
I'm not saying you should do the stupid thing i did, but not until you test them before you know they aint loyal one bit.
so your babe carry 8odd?

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by peepydelano(m): 6:46am On Jan 07
Martinez19:
Don't believe this stvpid story. It didn't happen. It's just one of the various defence mechanisms we are seeing from various untrustworthy h0es on the thread only that this is a stvpid as it can get grin. Their plan is to discourage us from testing as they know that they are not trustworthy and will fail. You sef see am now, that story, sey e make sense? grin

As for me o, nothing can stop me from testing. I go dey test dey go, I go dey fish out all these bimbos one by one. Samysmoothfresh, carry go nothing do you.
bro,it happened first hand and I was fully involved and aware,some ladies are unpredictable,she did not only bleep the bf friend once,it went for almost a year and she wasn't hiding it as well, d bf nd d Friend later had a serious fyt and d girl outrightly told dem dy were both fools and she has dealt with dem her own way.She wanted to include me in the bleeping revenge but I am not cheap.poo happens everyday,some of this girls are nothing to write home about.I personally will do Wat d op did if I find myself in such situation,but won't b bitter about the outcome.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by ayenika1: 6:53am On Jan 07
placeofallure:
Do you think you are a better person than her? If not for the fact that you said, you have severed ties with her, I'd say you deserve each other. You are a gambler and she's a slut!
Sacarstic..!
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Prakash247(m): 7:25am On Jan 07
placeofallure:
Do you think you are a better person than her? If not for the fact that you said, you have severed ties with her, I'd say you deserve each other. You are a gambler and she's a slut!
Get out with your monkey sense.What are you insinuating?The dude trusted the wrong person.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by excessmon(m): 7:40am On Jan 07
With ur comment I can see the kind of family ypi came out from

iyke926:


They believe because of their pvssy, that the world is theirs. Nigerian men got to learn how to treat women like toys or tools like you call it. And then treat rare one's like queens.



OP, you did the right thing. Don't trust b!tches and don't take them serious.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Nobody: 7:49am On Jan 07
dingbang:
Your guy bleeped the poo out of ur girlfriend and u still paid him 8k ontop.. You are the biggest olodo.. Sorry to say

Another angle grin

His friend is the winner here

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Valerie47(f): 7:58am On Jan 07
MariaLavina:
So you place a bet on your girlfriend? You are very very wise! Very wise!

But come to think of it, why do you guys do this shitt? I remember a guy did the same thing to me, he placed a bet with his friend , Later he came applauding me that I passed a test. I was irritated and my hype for him just went down.!
That was the beginning of the end of the relationship. If you can bet on me, it means you aren't scared to lose me!

Bro, that shiit isn't cool, forget that your babe failed. It isn't cool at all. Testing your partner /betting on them simply means you don't value them. You ain't perfect either! undecided
But why will she open leg for his friend, she is a cheap slut.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Nobody: 8:03am On Jan 07
Teespice:


Prolly a stupid thing to do. This has got to be one senseless statement I have heard in ages.

You deserve her well. For you to place a bet on someone you claim to love shows you never loved her in the first place. I am happy she failed your test.

You created this thread expecting your fellow shamers to applaud you but sadly the reverse is the case.

Good for you.

For God to place a bet on Job's loyalty against the devil also shows he never loved him in the first place.

I don't think your brain can process this information quick enough so take your time. Food for thought.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Nobody: 8:07am On Jan 07
sunbilor:
If a places a bet on you, it simply means he trusts you and proud about it. God places bet on the people he trusts and have absolute confidence in.

Don't mind the dumb fools. Every Sunday they go to church and read the Bible.

Zero lessons learned. Tueh

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by ikennamadu1(m): 8:30am On Jan 07
One olosho has been spotted

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by lereinter(m): 8:33am On Jan 07
Yu and your friend are stupid
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Paxie55(f): 8:35am On Jan 07
samysmoothfresh:






i know it was prolly a stupid thing to do but it doesnt mean i wasnt scared to lose her. For me, it meant i trusted her to do the right especially since she knows the guy is a friend.
If it was a random guy, i definitely wouldnt have made the bet cos i would have been skeptical but this is my friend!.......someone she knows to be "my friend" yet she slept with him.
I repeat, it prolly was a stupid thing to do but i'm glad i did cos a girl who can sleep with your friend isn't worth it,
if she had passed, i would never have told her about it and i would have cherished her more.
What do you expect from a girl that has the boldness to ask a guy out?
Lool.
She was stupid though, by sleeping with your friends but then, you are madder by gambling with your babe.
Height of insecurityangry angry
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Paxie55(f): 8:40am On Jan 07
ibkayee:
*Shrug* ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Coming from guys who think cheating is their birthright and who probably would've lost this same bet, you got what you were looking for, sorry not sorry lmao
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by samysmoothfresh: 8:43am On Jan 07
jeff1607:




I think your friend wanted her from the get go and probably been doing it or gotten green light from her before, a man who sleeps with his friend's woman ca
n kill betting or not I can never do such cos afterwards it breeds distrust between the two of you.

love is just a word when you have got marriage in mind,we all make must, maybe you haven't shown commitment and she needs to be sure of her position, do you know what your friend told her before she agreed to the act? do u know if he told her about your escapades with other girls or lied about one? think about it .


where you planning to marry her? has she positively affected your life? has she deprived herself things just to make sure you are happy?
if yes , bro go get her back ASAP or your friend will.


we all make mistakes


she's was good to me.......really good to me.
But when trust is already broken, it's pretty hard to accept whats left.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Nitah1: 9:03am On Jan 07
placeofallure:
Do you think you are a better person than her? If not for the fact that you said, you have severed ties with her, I'd say you deserve each other. You are a gambler and she's a slut!
And you are?

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by PHOTSEE(m): 9:10am On Jan 07
Nitah1:
And you are?
She, is a she
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by jeff1607(m): 9:12am On Jan 07
samysmoothfresh:



she's was good to me.......really good to me.
But when trust is already broken, it's pretty hard to accept whats left.

and you think girls out there are any better?

do u know if your so called friend told her secret things about you, it's when you understand that women are the embodiment of emotions only then u would understand .

if u were in her shoes you might have been forgiven. Hear her out before you decide, I ain't saying you should take her back but listen to her.

NO GOOD LADIES OUT THERE OOOOO, for a lady to give anything out is rare very rare,

do away with that friend of yours

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by TSoul(m): 9:29am On Jan 07
Bidobado1:


See packaging, fear women!!
A man bet that his wife will never cheat, the Biitch did and you somehow want to make this brother feel guilty for trusting that Wh0re and using his money as a leverage against her honour.
He trusted her and bragged publicly that she is not like the others hence the bet.
Naija girls are nothing but cum buckets.
cheesy
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by somehow: 9:34am On Jan 07
Then God is also a gambler, afterall he placed a bet with the devil on Job's loyalty.
placeofallure:
Do you think you are a better person than her? If not for the fact that you said, you have severed ties with her, I'd say you deserve each other. You are a gambler and she's a slut!

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Durchess(f): 9:37am On Jan 07
placeofallure:
Do you think you are a better person than her? If not for the fact that you said, you have severed ties with her, I'd say you deserve each other. You are a gambler and she's a slut!
Damn ���
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 9:43am On Jan 07
samysmoothfresh:
Honestly, most girls do not deserve a man's trust, love and care cos they are just plain gold digging slцts.
Sometime in october last year, during one of our normal guys hangout, a friend made a dare saying he could get my girlfriend (now ex) laid in just 4 months and suggested we made a bet of 8k.
I declined at first cos i felt it was absurd but i later gave in after they persuaded me saying the reason i refuse to bet is cos i don't trust my girl.
I swear i trusted this girl with to a very large extent cos i could tell she loved me to hell and back.................she was the one who even asked me out before we started dating.
Imagine the shock and dissappointment i felt when my friend brought proof of them fvcking yesterday.
I had to pay the 8k and this morning, i called her to end things.
I'm officailly single and I've officially experienced my first break up of 2019 which will definitely be the last since i've decided to stay of relationship for the entire year.
These wh0res aint to be trusted, even the once who seem genuine at first.
I'm not saying you should do the stupid thing i did, but not until you test them before you know they aint loyal one bit.
.

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Agu87(m): 9:51am On Jan 07
capsule:


would you say same thing if the op lost a bet His babe placed on Him? please don't defend stupidity. you don't bet on ppl you don't trust (though that's extreme), the babe isn't a street babe ( at least He thought so). And did you read the part where the op said the dude is His friend? a guy who's well known to the babe ( the babe would have probably f**ck'd him anywhere without the bet, was only a matter of time). OP, pls rid yourself of such babe and that your friend (He will come after your wife in the future).
God placed a bet on Jesus.
God placed a bet on Job.
Bet wisely, ticket de cut.
. You are good with words bro...keep it up!
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Vickhtor(m): 9:53am On Jan 07
Even if a woman is caught red handed cheating on her partner... You can trust her fellow women to support her blindly... Gambling or not.. there's no excuse for cheating.. BTW, is there anything like a loyal partner again sef

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Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by emelda86(f): 10:01am On Jan 07
Maybe one day when u finally marry one slut, u will still gamble with her to your miserable friends or gamble your children with friends.

But the babe didn't try atall
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by Teespice(f): 10:01am On Jan 07
greyham:


For God to place to place a bet on Job's loyalty against the devil also shows he never loved him in the first place.

I don't think your brain can process this information quick enough so take your time. Food for thought.

Those are two completely different scenarios.

Then again, you are too dense to understand.
Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by TanyLoe(f): 10:05am On Jan 07
Hmmmm
Sleeping with your guy's friend
Not good
It means she didn't love you at all
Because if she did
She wouldn't dare

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