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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by kollinskollins(m): 4:02pm On Jan 08, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:
The lady and her mother are mad like really mad, very very mad, like super mad, terribly mad, like high level madness, customised madness, HD madness, Superior quality madness, highly durable madness angry
And LED MADNESS
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by shollish(m): 4:03pm On Jan 08, 2019
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Ardar:
Hi everyone,

I have a very serious family problem, my parents decided to take a female relative of ours from our home town to come live with us in Port Harcourt, due to the fact that she couldn't continue with her education and had to learn a skill.

This lady was enrolled in one of these computer centers to at least be a computer literate since non of my family members had the time to teach her and she wanted to learn.

Every morning she goes on an errand for my mom before moving along to learn in the computer center, not knowing she was dating and sleeping with a guy.

My mom never thought she would ever behave in such a stupid way, I mean coming to an unknown place for the first time and already dating a guy within a short period was something my mom never expected.

She got pregnant a month before Christmas, she told no one and waited till we all travelled back home to tell her mother. All of a sudden we started hearing rumors of how the girl we brought back home got pregnant and my mom was to blame for it.

This girls mother took out the all the blame on my mom and not her daughter, this woman said that my mother neglected her daughter to fall prey to men in the city but took care of me because am her own child, till today my mom and the ladies mother are not speaking to each other.

For Christs sake this lady is 26 years old and 4 years away from clocking 30, am younger than the lady and due to my introvert nature i tend to stay indoors and out of trouble not even because of my mom, if I wanted to become wild i would have, a long time ago.

So pls is my mom truly at fault here?
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Thatdopekelly(m): 4:03pm On Jan 08, 2019
chymer:
Is your mom, wrong?

Now, go back and re-read what you wrote up there, and answer that question, yourself.
Hahahaha
So many intelligent pshycos full here aswear, no insult intended just overwhelmed by ur observation grin
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Kenswitch(m): 4:04pm On Jan 08, 2019
That's too bad.
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by abbeyty(m): 4:06pm On Jan 08, 2019
26 years old? Hope the the lady's mother knows that some of her daughter age mates have kids in secondary school? She is 26years old woman for Christ sake

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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by AngelicBeing: 4:07pm On Jan 08, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:
The lady and her mother are mad like really mad, very very mad, like super mad, terribly mad, like high level madness, customised madness, HD madness, Superior quality madness, highly durable madness angry
Hahaha, savage grin

Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by boomssey(f): 4:08pm On Jan 08, 2019
Abortions:
i don't like the kind of English u speak this days. Which one be KEEP CONTINUE
thought I was d only one. Lol
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Martin0(m): 4:09pm On Jan 08, 2019
Ardar Ardar chai abeg go and ask that babe if she nor get sense? why will she allow the guy to tell her it was not going to yield fruit??

anyway as you you ardar your mummy is a good mummygrin

as for you yourself, you say you be introvert abi, OK anuguwo mu eh i go help you cure amgrin
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by olaolaking: 4:10pm On Jan 08, 2019
Abortions:
i don't like the kind of English u speak this days. Which one be KEEP CONTINUE
??
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by bluefilm: 4:10pm On Jan 08, 2019
Whether your mom is responsible for the girl's irresponsibility or not, what exactly do you want nairalanders to do for you by bringing the story here?

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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by crunchyg: 4:13pm On Jan 08, 2019
Ardar:
Hi everyone,

I have a very serious family problem, my parents decided to take a female relative of ours from our home town to come live with us in Port Harcourt, due to the fact that she couldn't continue with her education and had to learn a skill.

This lady was enrolled in one of these computer centers to at least be a computer literate since non of my family members had the time to teach her and she wanted to learn.

Every morning she goes on an errand for my mom before moving along to learn in the computer center, not knowing she was dating and sleeping with a guy.

My mom never thought she would ever behave in such a stupid way, I mean coming to an unknown place for the first time and already dating a guy within a short period was something my mom never expected.

She got pregnant a month before Christmas, she told no one and waited till we all travelled back home to tell her mother. All of a sudden we started hearing rumors of how the girl we brought back home got pregnant and my mom was to blame for it.

This girls mother took out the all the blame on my mom and not her daughter, this woman said that my mother neglected her daughter to fall prey to men in the city but took care of me because am her own child, till today my mom and the ladies mother are not speaking to each other.

For Christs sake this lady is 26 years old and 4 years away from clocking 30, am younger than the lady and due to my introvert nature i tend to stay indoors and out of trouble not even because of my mom, if I wanted to become wild i would have, a long time ago.

So pls is my mom truly at fault here?
How old are you, the girl senior you or you senior her?
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Jan 08, 2019
Age is not maturity or wisdom. 26 year old babes in some villages reason like 16 year old teenagers raised in some cities.

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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by 4dor: 4:18pm On Jan 08, 2019
Ardar:
Hi everyone,

I have a very serious family problem, my parents decided to take a female relative of ours from our home town to come live with us in Port Harcourt, due to the fact that she couldn't continue with her education and had to learn a skill.

This lady was enrolled in one of these computer centers to at least be a computer literate since non of my family members had the time to teach her and she wanted to learn.

Every morning she goes on an errand for my mom before moving along to learn in the computer center, not knowing she was dating and sleeping with a guy.

My mom never thought she would ever behave in such a stupid way, I mean coming to an unknown place for the first time and already dating a guy within a short period was something my mom never expected.

She got pregnant a month before Christmas, she told no one and waited till we all travelled back home to tell her mother. All of a sudden we started hearing rumors of how the girl we brought back home got pregnant and my mom was to blame for it.

This girls mother took out the all the blame on my mom and not her daughter, this woman said that my mother neglected her daughter to fall prey to men in the city but took care of me because am her own child, till today my mom and the ladies mother are not speaking to each other.

For Christs sake this lady is 26 years old and 4 years away from clocking 30, am younger than the lady and due to my introvert nature i tend to stay indoors and out of trouble not even because of my mom, if I wanted to become wild i would have, a long time ago.

So pls is my mom truly at fault here?

Yes your mum is 100% at fault. Why? In this time and age she doesn't know you have to stay away from extended family members.

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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by carammel(f): 4:23pm On Jan 08, 2019
My 24year old sis-in-law has been living with me since she graduated, did her NYS and now through, beautiful and mature, so you mean to tell me I will take the blame for this lady if she ever gets pregnant outside wedlock?
Why would anyone blame another person for the actions of a 26year old woman, this is beyond me.

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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Jahwinaboy(m): 4:23pm On Jan 08, 2019
Ur mum is partly responsible because u people did not properly educate her. If u call people home(village) uneducated and unexposed, it becomes ur responsibility to guide them. Village girl and township girl no b de same irrespective of age. Abi u no see adult of 35-40 im mama dey give food? Plus ur mum friend scored the goal. Don't blame the village lady much
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by sheystar(f): 4:25pm On Jan 08, 2019
grin
EbukaHades10:
Mummy Ebuka wey no dey collect nonsense.

The one that stayed with us was sent back to the village when she begin dey show signs of waywardness.

In Mummy Ebuka's words,"if u want to be wayward,go and be wayward where ur parents can see u"
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Jan 08, 2019
Ardar:
You know the worst part is that the guy that got her pregnant is even a friend to my mom.
It happened under your mom watch so she has to take some of the blame.
She is an adult so she has to take some of the responsibility but since she is still living under your mom, more should have been done to protect her.
The fact that she got pregnant for your mum's friend will also make the mother to suspect your mom gave her to the friend

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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Asology(m): 4:36pm On Jan 08, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:
The lady and her mother are mad like really mad, very very mad, like super mad, terribly mad, like high level madness, customised madness, HD madness, Superior quality madness, highly durable madness angry

Etc
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by tintingz(m): 4:36pm On Jan 08, 2019
thorpido:
Not exactly your mom's fault but if you bring a girl from the village to stay with you,you should have spent time educating and counselling her.
The moment you notice anyhow waka,you put her on the next night bus. angry

Boys for city tear eye and 'bush meat' dey quick fall.

The milk is spilt and there is little you can do now.Your mom has to take part of the blame.When someone is staying with you,you are responsible for that person's care and guide.
She is 26 years and I'm sure she knows the consequences of having sex without protection. A 26 year old girl knows what she's doing except she has a mental issue or defects or raped.

I don't know the op mother, she might have counseled her on this issues but that's not even the case, the case is she knows what she was doing, she was only caught because she got pregnant!

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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by andyanders: 4:38pm On Jan 08, 2019
Ardar:
You know the worst part is that the guy that got her pregnant is even a friend to my mom.

Are you saying that the guy in question is your mum's friend? Are you saying friend as in man friend, boyfriend or no daddy with you guys OR your mother a single mother?

If yes, then your mother has a question to answer because she must be aware of what went wrong despite that the lady in question is an adult. Are you sure the guy never raped her and your mother asked her not to say anything bad about the guy?

I was even saying before that your mother has nothing to do about what happened and coming to read from you that your mother is even a friend of the guy who got her pregnant has made me to think otherwise

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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by timota(m): 4:39pm On Jan 08, 2019
ur mum is to be blame cos the impregnator is her friend.The guy could have deceived the girl that if she will not agree he tell ur mum to sent her back or tell the girl that ur mother has approved their friendship or ur mum was not use to giving her pocket money else she could have bought morning pills, I had a romance with a virgin girl some years ago and was surprised when she bought and drank some preventive medicine and when I asked why ,she told me she did not want to get pregnant.
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Martin0(m): 4:41pm On Jan 08, 2019
Ardar Ardar chai abeg go and ask that babe if she nor get sense? why will she allow the guy to tell her it was not going to yield fruit??

anyway as you you ardar your mummy is a good mummygrin

as for you yourself, you say you be introvert abi, OK anuguwo mu eh i go help you cure amgrin
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by chiboy1116: 5:07pm On Jan 08, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:
The lady and her mother are mad like really mad, very very mad, like super mad, terribly mad, like high level madness, customised madness, HD madness, Superior quality madness, highly durable madness angry
4k madness.
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by 0ubenji(m): 5:07pm On Jan 08, 2019
crunchyg:

How old are you, the girl senior you or you senior her?
to ask this question after reading the story, your brain definitely dey leak oil.

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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jan 08, 2019
shollish:
you school in Unizik right?
yes I do
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Jan 08, 2019
andyanders:


Are you saying that the guy in question is your mum's friend? Are you saying friend as in man friend, boyfriend or no daddy with you guys OR your mother a single mother?

If yes, then your mother has a question to answer because she must be aware of what went wrong despite that the lady in question is an adult. Are you sure the guy never raped her and your mother asked her not to say anything bad about the guy?

I was even saying before that your mother has nothing to do about what happened and coming to read from you that your mother is even a friend of the guy who got her pregnant has made me to think otherwise

Because their shops are close to each other making them neighbors.
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jan 08, 2019
4dor:


Yes your mum is 100% at fault. Why? In this time and age she doesn't know you have to stay away from extended family members.

Yes you are right at that, she has learnt her lesson the hard way though.

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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Abdul4trust1(m): 5:17pm On Jan 08, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:
The lady and her mother are mad like really mad, very very mad, like super mad, terribly mad, like high level madness, customised madness, HD madness, Superior quality madness, highly durable madness angry
lol
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by SmartMindsFx: 5:18pm On Jan 08, 2019
Ardar:
Every morning she goes on an errand for my mom before moving along to learn in the computer center,
this part got me.

You are an introvert and you stay indoors. So, who does the errands before the idiot girl came into your family?

Plus you didn't tell us the type of errands and to where exactly......

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Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by frankobinna(m): 5:19pm On Jan 08, 2019
For Christs sake this lady is 26 years old and 4 years away from clocking 30,

Its obvious that at 26 she don't
know her left and right.
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jan 08, 2019
Ardar:
Hi everyone,

I have a very serious family problem, my parents decided to take a female relative of ours from our home town to come live with us in Port Harcourt, due to the fact that she couldn't continue with her education and had to learn a skill.

This lady was enrolled in one of these computer centers to at least be a computer literate since non of my family members had the time to teach her and she wanted to learn.

Every morning she goes on an errand for my mom before moving along to learn in the computer center, not knowing she was dating and sleeping with a guy.

My mom never thought she would ever behave in such a stupid way, I mean coming to an unknown place for the first time and already dating a guy within a short period was something my mom never expected.

She got pregnant a month before Christmas, she told no one and waited till we all travelled back home to tell her mother. All of a sudden we started hearing rumors of how the girl we brought back home got pregnant and my mom was to blame for it.

This girls mother took out the all the blame on my mom and not her daughter, this woman said that my mother neglected her daughter to fall prey to men in the city but took care of me because am her own child, till today my mom and the ladies mother are not speaking to each other.

For Christs sake this lady is 26 years old and 4 years away from clocking 30, am younger than the lady and due to my introvert nature i tend to stay indoors and out of trouble not even because of my mom, if I wanted to become wild i would have, a long time ago.

So pls is my mom truly at fault here?
Both your mum and your grammar are at fault. This is about the worst post I've ever read on this platform sad
Re: Is My Mom To Blame For The Irresponsibility Of A 26 Year Old lady? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jan 08, 2019
SmartMindsFx:
this part got me.

You are an introvert and you stay indoors. So, who does the errands before the idiot girl came into your family?

Plus you didn't tell us the type of errands and to where exactly......

I was in school for most of the time the lady was around and who did it before? my mom did sometimes my dad too.

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