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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by kweenkong(f): 1:49pm On Dec 14, 2018
jakandeola:
I respect my girl and treat her as queen take her to eatry and all she know that. My girl living me for dat

But you beat her
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by LoveMatchmaker: 5:11pm On Dec 14, 2018
coolcatty:


Remember the adage ..a f000l at forty...you have less than 4yrs more to turn forty but i make bold to proclaim that you are a certified,authenticated,factory fitted myopic and poor f000l.....

Its where you see women that you have power.....Mr i have window unit AC at 36yrs....go to alaba and see boys way younger than you buying up the whole lagos.....wretched top loader manual washing machine owning elder like you is boasting with a rented dilapidated 2rooms sparsely furnished apartment in ajamgbadi....

Azu amu

Ok!!!!!
You need to stop it right now.
If OP commits suicide now you cannot absolve yourself

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by KanwuliaExtra: 4:38am On Dec 17, 2018
jakandeola:
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Na which kain topic be dis? undecided
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 10:16am On Jan 08, 2019
kweenkong:


But you beat her
dear I wish u can walk in my shoes and see am not a bad pperson av been put in pains for so long by ladies. I beat her cos she did wrong I hardly beat her. I have bad tempar and I know its not gud but its beta to beat ur woman than divorced or cheat on her. life VI's a game sometimes good or bad but DAT dosnt mean u give up. am just tired cos her mother is just a devil. if I tell u what she did on new year u will ask I dump her.
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 10:16am On Jan 08, 2019
LoveMatchmaker:

Ok!!!!! You need to stop it right now. If OP commits suicide now you cannot absolve yourself
ignore her dear
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 12:30pm On Jan 08, 2019
jakandeola:
dear I wish u can walk in my shoes and see am not a bad pperson av been put in pains for so long by ladies. I beat her cos she did wrong I hardly beat her. I have bad tempar and I know its not gud but its beta to beat ur woman than divorced or cheat on her. life VI's a game sometimes good or bad but DAT dosnt mean u give up. am just tired cos her mother is just a devil. if I tell u what she did on new year u will ask I dump her.

You’re 30+ and still sounding like a baby. undecided undecided undecided

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jan 08, 2019
9JAFULLBREED:
At OP are you a stammerer?

He types like a stammerer right?

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jan 08, 2019
But op, I thought you said you have money and money is not problem for you, so why not hire somebody to be washing your mothers clothes and be ironing for her too. shei you have money ba?

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by ImaIma1(f): 2:50pm On Jan 08, 2019
Why would i waste precious time washing my mum inlaw's clothes? Can someone be paid to wash it? Can a washing machine be made available for a mum you so love? So your wife will leave the work in the house and proceed to your mum's house to wash...naaah.

You cannot say you love your babe because you take her to eateries. That is not a show of love. You even beat her. That is not love.

You need to start a life with your wife that means limiting third party interference...and in case you dont know, your mum is a third party. Please move to another location and detach from mummy.

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jan 08, 2019
9JAFULLBREED:


Good to know that you’re a du.mb stammerer! u just dey talk like a barren goat. Sissy boy grin you said money is not ya problem but somehow sense is your problem.



U bragging about having AC in 2018? shocked

How old are you again? 36 for real? shocked

U said u get money but no common sense to know how to buy washing machine for your mother.

With the way u dey type It’s not that hard for me to know that you’re a stammerer + u come lack sense join

You want this OP to cry for 3 days ba?

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by RSVP: 2:28am On Jan 10, 2019
9JAFULLBREED:
At OP are you a stammerer?

This one got me .. cheesy LMFAO
Even Moses sef no fit stammer like dis .. lol
dude is just catching fun . ha

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Raalsalghul: 2:54am On Jan 10, 2019
jakandeola:
Am a young guy dat is sucessful in life handsome got house furnish with AC washing machine and all dat money aint my problem i wish to get car next year. Am in pains of love since cos Ibo girl I train in skool and wish to marry Neva sex her turn out to be animal. I got a girl dat rule my world now I wish to marry early next yr prophet have confirm her but her mother is the problem. D woman don't like me and do all so we brake up cos everybody is OK wit it only dis woman. Am a man ready for marrage but am close to my mum am not ashamed to say dat am a mommys boy so I got house close to her street. My girl mother say before marrage day I must lived Dere and go far from mom cos she think my mom will cause wahala and I sware my mom aint like dat.my mom only dat my girl wash for her on weekend. She got mad at me and say her daughter is not a slave.anytin bad der? She accuse me dat I beat her daughter when it's a small issue even my girl have quarell wit her dat she deserve the beat. Now she say wedding will not hold next yr cos Iv not done rite thing and dat she may Neva allow me married her. A guy wit car is toasting my girl too this woman also insult my mother wen we do introduction. I feel so sad cos I dont want to loose her a sweet Yoruba girl can cook good in bed and all. Am 36 if I loose her were will I start from.am a dicipline guy tho not married but Neva go to hotel for prostitude I stop dat wen I am born again. My ex dat marry still call and dat she wish she marry me cos am d sweetest guy she know dat I have a good heart
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 2:31pm On Jan 10, 2019
9JAFULLBREED:

You’re 30+ and still sounding like a baby. undecided undecided undecided
and ur a fool at 40
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 2:37pm On Jan 10, 2019
ImaIma1:
Why would i waste precious time washing my mum inlaw's clothes? Can someone be paid to wash it? Can a washing machine be made available for a mum you so love? So your wife will leave the work in the house and proceed to your mum's house to wash...naaah.

You cannot say you love your babe because you take her to eateries. That is not a show of love. You even beat her. That is not love.

You need to start a life with your wife that means limiting third party interference...and in case you dont know, your mum is a third party. Please move to another location and detach from mummy.
dear is not DAT easy are u married.did u have mum in law. I sware with my heart I love my girl and will do anytin for her. her mum is a demon if not I love her truly I will dump her. I agree is wrong to beat her but dats relationship. fight must dey, love must dey. my mum cant try rubbish she knows becos I protect my girl well. dear is nothing wrong if my girl work for mum. this is Africa and we have culture
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 2:38pm On Jan 10, 2019
ImaIma1:
Why would i waste precious time washing my mum inlaw's clothes? Can someone be paid to wash it? Can a washing machine be made available for a mum you so love? So your wife will leave the work in the house and proceed to your mum's house to wash...naaah.

You cannot say you love your babe because you take her to eateries. That is not a show of love. You even beat her. That is not love.

You need to start a life with your wife that means limiting third party interference...and in case you dont know, your mum is a third party. Please move to another location and detach from mummy.
I dont lived with her but dont want her to be alone
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 2:47pm On Jan 10, 2019
mhd5757:
But op, I thought you said you have money and money is not problem for you, so why not hire somebody to be washing your mothers clothes and be ironing for her too. shei you have money ba?
I can buy 10 washing machine but use ur Brian u be guy.wen u marry and ur mum visit which did u think she will preferences if ur wife buy food for her or cook for her.if she wash for mum is sign of respect
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by tabithababy(f): 5:49pm On Jan 10, 2019
cheesy cheesy

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by ImaIma1(f): 7:37pm On Jan 10, 2019
jakandeola:
dear is not DAT easy are u married.did u have mum in law. I sware with my heart I love my girl and will do anytin for her. her mum is a demon if not I love her truly I will dump her. I agree is wrong to beat her but dats relationship. fight must dey, love must dey. my mum cant try rubbish she knows becos I protect my girl well. dear is nothing wrong if my girl work for mum. this is Africa and we have culture


Yes I am married and I have a mum inlaw but she doesn't stay close. And even if she did, my husband won't even suggest that I go and wash her clothes. He would look for another way that benefits all.

Beating is not necessary in relationship as you make it sound. I have never been beaten in my relationships and even in my marriage. Not all men beat and not all women tolerate beating.

This is Africa but we are not in the 50s. So you need to free your woman from this cultural shackles that you are trying to imprison her with. All the best.

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by ferhyntorlah(f): 12:17am On Jan 11, 2019
Seriously, this post is a laughter tonic.
I've been laughing my ass out.
The poster is one heck of a joker!
I thought it was the writings of a 25/26 years old man till I saw "I'm 36."
A 36 years old man, as in M-A-N, fully grown adult reasoning like this?
I shudder!

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 10:53am On Jan 11, 2019
ImaIma1:


Yes I am married and I have a mum inlaw but she doesn't stay close. And even if she did, my husband won't even suggest that I go and wash her clothes. He would look for another way that benefits all.

Beating is not necessary in relationship as you make it sound. I have never been beaten in my relationships and even in my marriage. Not all men beat and not all women tolerate beating.

This is Africa but we are not in the 50s. So you need to free your woman from this cultural shackles that you are trying to imprison her with. All the best.
hmmm nice one dear u sound matured. sometimes am forced to beat her but I know its wrong God help me to stop DAT . but u still need to obey ur hubby all the time. we are African let be proud of our culture
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 10:54am On Jan 11, 2019
ferhyntorlah:
Seriously, this post is a laughter tonic.

I've been laughing my ass out.

The poster is one heck of a joker!

I thought it was the writings of a 25/26 years old man till I saw "I'm 36."

A 36 years old man, as in M-A-N, fully grown adult reasoning like this?

I shudder!
dear wats ur point?
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by ferhyntorlah(f): 11:02am On Jan 11, 2019
jakandeola:
dear wats ur point?

My point is you don't sound like a 36 going on 37 year old man. I'm sorry to say this but you reason like a teenager.

I'm not insulting you; I'm just stating the obvious.

I wish you well.

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Oyindidi(f): 11:11am On Jan 11, 2019
Jaks the blogger don kee me with laugh grin

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 1:58pm On Jan 11, 2019
RSVP:



This one got me .. cheesy
LMFAO

Even Moses sef no fit stammer like dis .. lol

dude is just catching fun . ha


grin cheesy grin
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jeff1607(m): 3:00pm On Jan 11, 2019
bujebudanu1:
Well.i didn't understand the comprehension.

Owning a house with AC , washing machine and the likes even a car.is that what you call successful?

the thing tire me o, never knew that having a washing and air-conditioning machine makes one successful

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 3:18pm On Jan 11, 2019
jeff1607:


the thing tire me o, never knew that having a washing and air-conditioning machine makes one successful


I swear.
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by ImaIma1(f): 10:40pm On Jan 11, 2019
jakandeola:
hmmm nice one dear u sound matured. sometimes am forced to beat her but I know its wrong God help me to stop DAT . but u still need to obey ur hubby all the time. we are African let be proud of our culture


Who said anything about disobeying my husband? He wouldn't even want to make life complicated or more difficult for me. He has my interest at heart.

Being proud of our culture doesn't mean that other alternatives cannot be made to get mumsys clothes washed.

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Mizwisdom(f): 11:57pm On Jan 11, 2019
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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by azelab: 11:12pm On Jan 12, 2019
op listen to me carefully , their is noting wrong if your wife wash your mother's cloth even 100% supported by me but you need to assist her in some other domestic works , if I were you op I will decide to be washing my cloth myself likewise I and her would be washing my mother cloth because nothing could be quantified the work of mother in someone's life.

meanwhile I will not and never advise you to stay away from your mother because of your wife , most people that advised you to do so don't know the position of mother in someone's life , who is that wife or lady that would marry you if the work of your mother is not manifested in your life meanwhile note that most people of nowadays would see the truth but would fail to back it up because of their level of hypocrites.

Please op don't beat your wife if she disobey to act upon your instruction just call her attention to it and remind her , but if the disobedience turns to her habitual way of life just let her go. Believe most nowadays ladies are nagging ladies and anybody that advised you that your wife shouldn't wash your mummy cloth is irresponsible. But never and ever turn your wife to a slave , sincerely speaking she is your partner and give her full respect like the way you wish to be respected ....

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by ImaIma1(f): 8:23am On Jan 13, 2019
azelab:
op listen to me carefully , their is noting wrong if your wife wash your mother's cloth even 100% supported by me but you need to assist her in some other domestic works , if I were you op I will decide to be washing my cloth myself likewise I and her would be washing my mother cloth because nothing could be quantified the work of mother in someone's life.

meanwhile I will not and never advise you to stay away from your mother because of your wife , most people that advised you to do so don't know the position of mother in someone's life , who is that wife or lady that would marry you if the work of your mother is not manifested in your life meanwhile note that most people of nowadays would see the truth but would fail to back it up because of their level of hypocrites.

Please op don't beat your wife if she disobey to act upon your instruction just call her attention to it and remind her , but if the disobedience turns to her habitual way of life just let her go. Believe most nowadays ladies are nagging ladies and anybody that advised you that your wife shouldn't wash your mummy cloth is irresponsible. But never and ever turn your wife to a slave , sincerely speaking she is your partner and give her full respect like the way you wish to be respected ....



Let him.just move in with his mother or move her into his house to be very close.

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Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by Nobody: 10:10am On Jan 13, 2019
jakandeola:
Kimbraa is it bad if u wash ur mother cloth so why not my mother day take her as daughter.my sister must be stupid if she refuse to help mother in law I live close to mum but I sware she dont control me cos she know I get angry easily. What some men of 60 Neva achive I achive so dont go dere. Will blog dis in romance tomorro
Helping someone in house chore is a choice. Let me ask you these questions.
1. Is your girlfriend comfortable in washing your mum's cloth or you assumed is her responsibility ?.
2. Was your mun expecting your girlfriend to wash her clothes?
Re: My Girl Mother Is Frustrating Me. by jakandeola(m): 11:24am On Jan 13, 2019
ferhyntorlah:


My point is you don't sound like a 36 going on 37 year old man. I'm sorry to say this but you reason like a teenager.

I'm not insulting you; I'm just stating the obvious.

I wish you well.
may god purnish u dere. its ur genaration that is a teenager

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