Paxie55:
Op should answer first.

czarina:
Any time he wants. Even if he wants to wait until a walking stick becomes necessary.

Randy100:
Nawa for you people self. How is he going to train the children that will come out of the marriage? N.B procreation is the major reason why we marry.

Paxie55:

I'm not here for gender juxtapositions, I asked a question that demands an answer.

coolestofall:
Nigga hold ur horses. U dnt have 2 become a player. What u did wrong in both relationships is that we're trying, trying 2 please. Never do that, only do what u feel like when u feel like. D key is 2 please ur self, then others r secondary. I bet u wld become more real when u do that.

Admin401:


So you're saying this will stop women from cheating?

x2x2:
Good day fellow nairalanders..
Don't mind my English pls..
I'm a regular and active member of this section,but I needed to open another account to seek for help in my relationship.
I will clock 32 soon and i have only dated two girls all my life.Both we agreed to be serious relationship and not just chop and go kind of...The first relationship lasted 3yrs and after i investested my all,i caught her cheating and telling me lies,i ended it. Second one ended days ago and I'm currently hrt broken as i type this right now. Same issue i had with her was cheating and lies...
I did my best in pleasing them,in s+x,funding and all that..I forgave several times,but this last one still continued..She lies more than devil himself,it took me special procedures to known that she was cheating on me.
I can swear that in these two relationships,i never cheated on any of them,because I really don't like sleeping around and deceiving anybody..Rather i gave my all and now i have been scammed again.
So i have decided never to be nice to girls anymore,so how can i stop being too emotional? I don't wanna love again, I want to start being a player(a very wicked one). Guys in the hux how can i make my hrt become stone towards girls please....Pls don't insult or blame me...All i need is advice regarding my questions...Thanks...

Randy100:
Because it is the right thing. It is something divine.

x2x2:
Good day fellow nairalanders..
Don't mind my English pls..
I'm a regular and active member of this section,but I needed to open another account to seek for help in my relationship.
I will clock 32 soon and i have only dated two girls all my life.Both we agreed to be serious relationship and not just chop and go kind of...The first relationship lasted 3yrs and after i investested my all,i caught her cheating and telling me lies,i ended it. Second one ended days ago and I'm currently hrt broken as i type this right now. Same issue i had with her was cheating and lies...
I did my best in pleasing them,in s+x,funding and all that..I forgave several times,but this last one still continued..She lies more than devil himself,it took me special procedures to known that she was cheating on me.
I can swear that in these two relationships,i never cheated on any of them,because I really don't like sleeping around and deceiving anybody..Rather i gave my all and now i have been scammed again.
So i have decided never to be nice to girls anymore,so how can i stop being too emotional? I don't wanna love again, I want to start being a player(a very wicked one). Guys in the hux how can i make my hrt become stone towards girls please....Pls don't insult or blame me...All i need is advice regarding my questions...Thanks...

Abcruz:


Free yourself like a bird from the hand of the bird catcher...

Turn away from the "mistress of sorceries" and save yourself from the immoral union called "relationship"...

Beware of the one who has nothing to lose...

Remove the veil of emotional manipulation from your eyes, flee from fornication and return to JESUS for your own good...

Look!
I, the LORD, have put a curse on those who turn from me and trust in human flesh--Jeremiah 17:5

Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.--2 Timothy 2:22

A word is enough for the wise.

Raalsalghul:
That's how you folks go about forcing marriage on people's necks like a trend or something. Did the Op mention anything about marriage. How do you know he's capable of handling a family especially in this part of the world where our leaders don't have plans for your unborn kids?

emeejinsm:
My dear every body destiny no be the same
You want to become a wicked player na for your head oo cuz you fit contract hiv

Randy100:
I tire for this generation. A man who is 32 should be talking of marriage. My take

x2x2:
Thanks to everyone for all your words of advice.God bless...As for DAT lad that was talking about sex life...I de well for DAT part.....with all that have been said here,my fault was being too nice to them and not giving them a reason to fight for their place.Right now,I'm gonna work on myself to ensure that never happens again....Once more ,God bless you all.

AnonymousBee:

Did you provide solution to the young man?

How will religion solve emotional problem?

passionate87:
bro I feel ur pain cos I'm 32 and married,I planned to marry earlier but got my heart broken by my first ex gf.I had serious trust issues and I call many relationships quit without blinking,I think one of ur problem is that u enter into the relationship more invested than the ladies and they have assessed that if the relationship falls apart,you've got more to lose.from the day one I enter into any relationship,I start with an I don't give a damn attitude,if the lady messes up I immediately scold her.and I call the shots all the time,I showed them I had options to fall back to if they peradventure mess up,you've got to man up and put these ladies straight or else,they would use u to play ping-pong.mind u I love my wife but she can attest to the fact that there are some things I won't tolerate because I started doing that in the relationship.
Here is the secret,have a lot of female friends and u can be in romantic relationship with few,take time to study their character,go for women above 25years of age or mature minded ladies.
Don't ever show commitment initially till ur are 80% certain,u can be serious with the lady in question based on her being serious minded, don't try to be sentimental because relationship are for the strong hearted. break off relationships when u notice foul play,be less tolerant about it or else it would come back to haunt u.
Initially during ur relationship pay surprise visit and always be prepare for the worst,never let emotions take the best part of you,for this u would thank me later.

x2x2:
Good day fellow nairalanders..
Don't mind my English pls..
I'm a regular and active member of this section,but I needed to open another account to seek for help in my relationship.
I will clock 32 soon and i have only dated two girls all my life.Both we agreed to be serious relationship and not just chop and go kind of...The first relationship lasted 3yrs and after i investested my all,i caught her cheating and telling me lies,i ended it. Second one ended days ago and I'm currently hrt broken as i type this right now. Same issue i had with her was cheating and lies...
I did my best in pleasing them,in s+x,funding and all that..I forgave several times,but this last one still continued..She lies more than devil himself,it took me special procedures to known that she was cheating on me.
I can swear that in these two relationships,i never cheated on any of them,because I really don't like sleeping around and deceiving anybody..Rather i gave my all and now i have been scammed again.
So i have decided never to be nice to girls anymore,so how can i stop being too emotional? I don't wanna love again, I want to start being a player(a very wicked one). Guys in the hux how can i make my hrt become stone towards girls please....Pls don't insult or blame me...All i need is advice regarding my questions...Thanks...

Paxie55:
Okay.
Good luck in your molosho journey.
Don't come and ask us the symptoms of HIV
But then,
Did you consider why they are cheating? How's your sex life? Do you need divk enlargement? How long can you last? 2 secs man?
The fault may be from You, cos two ladies can't break your heart with the same reason and you still think it's not your fault. Work on yourself, are you potbellied?

lovebishop:
Every woman's relationship need: A sense of stability, security and monogamous commitment that is life-long, from her man. That is the ideal need of every woman (even a prostitute).
So, when a woman is in a relationship with you, and doesn't have this need met, she'll feel like a passenger aboard a ship cruising without a definite destination. If she sees another ship heading to her destination, she'll cry "Ahoy, ahoy!!!!".
So, I ask you bro: what is the destination point of your "relationships"? Because I no go tell you lie: once woman see say you no get destination, she go begin find "auxillary gear".
Money and time investments wen you don use take do "relationship", don reach you arrange 1 traditional marriage o! No vex o...But na how i see am be dat.
Wetin you dey relate for 3yrs, 5yrs, etc.? Time dey go o. Na when you clock 45, na im you want begin buy pampers?
Me feel say you dey waste time. If you see babe wen your spirit love and accept, no waste time; marry am... Chikena! No fear. After all, all women are 'basically' the same. Again, you no fit study woman finish. If you like date am for 30years before marriage; she go still exhibit some kain character wen you neva see before...After you marry am. Na love and patience, na im you go take manage am. Me wen dey talk; I meet and toast my wife for December 2013...Com marry am for August 2014. 8months coursthip. If to say I bin dey waste time 3years, 5years....She for don fashee me since; find anoda man wey ready to go where she dey go.

Paxie55:
Okay.
Good luck in your molosho journey.
Don't come and ask us the symptoms of HIV
But then,
Did you consider why they are cheating? How's your sex life? Do you need divk enlargement? How long can you last? 2 secs man?
The fault may be from You, cos two ladies can't break your heart with the same reason and you still think it's not your fault. Work on yourself, are you potbellied?