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Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Jannuxajj(m): 7:44pm On Oct 29, 2020
After service I went to stay with my aunt then I met this beautiful girl that stays with her. we both became lovers through out my stay there. I got a job in another state so I left. Fast forward to almost 3 years later now I got a contract in their state so I had to go stay with them. Due to covid this girl was around at home with me. Both of us are always home alone. Now looking at the scenario you will think this will be enjoyment for me as me and her dey dey home alone!!! WRONG. When we had a relationship 3 years ago little did I know that it was due to boredom and frustration of staying at home and waiting for admission that made her decide to date me. Now she has entered uni met alot of other guys and now more exposed. Due to this she rejected me. Naturally this should not be a problem, Na to move on na. But it is a very big problem because we both stay home alone everyday and this brings out the feelings I have for her because I truly liked her. But the most painful part is she doesn't even have a tiny spark of feelings for me. What really made this a problem is the fact that I am a conc stay at home introvert. I work from home on my laptop so we are always home alone together. I used style style to make sure she sees my account balance. she saw it and only hyped me that night. she still didn't budge even though am always taking her out and buying stuff for her. The major pain of this issue now is there is this our young neighbor guy that usually come and pick her with his father's tinted glass car. they will drive to one corner and wind up and that drives me crazy. I will start imagining what they are doing in the car. I even bone her for like one week she no even send, the major problem is staying alone with her and seeing her every minutes makes it hard to move on in my mind. Sometimes I even feel like a simp for being home alone with her and not being able to do anything with her.

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by fati2001(m): 7:45pm On Oct 29, 2020
ALPHA MALES DON'T MINGLING WITH GIRLS...... SO BE ONE OF THEM.

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Oct 29, 2020
You know she doesn't like you the way you like yet you went ahead to shower her with gifts, trying to entice her with money.If she decides to date you and chop your money, na still you go come on top nairaland dey cry sey Nigerian girls are too materialistic.

Try move out or give her a wide berth

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by IamD18: 7:50pm On Oct 29, 2020
5 minutes of masturbation can immediately end all these madness and obsession.

Just five minutes of masturbation.

Step 1 : Make sure you try as much as you can to create a full imagination of her in your head.

Step 2 : Kindly get yourself in a good private place, this could be in your toilet, bathroom or room.

Step 3 : Check any porn website and use the search box by typing "Biitch fvcked in a tinted glass car" or "Introvert fvcks a bitch after showing her his account balance".

Step 4 : Using step 3, related videos of your case with the lady will appear, plug your earphone, bring out your gbola, start watching the clip with the imagination of the lady's looks in your head, start wanking, self-service with her on your head and mind till you cum.

Step 5 : Repeat step 1-4 again for like 5 times and that lady will be history to your feelings.

If the feelings continues, call Fashola.

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by WrittyWritter(f): 7:51pm On Oct 29, 2020
Guy forget her..u actually thought her seeing ur acct balance will make her fall 4 u grin...d girl already said she is not interested so better move on..and try to go out..all this is because u are seeing her..try to get a babe..but if she sees u with another babe and gets angry..oga don't fall oo..Don't be a simp grin

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Jannuxajj(m): 7:52pm On Oct 29, 2020
fati2001:
ALPHA MALES DON'T MINGLING WITH GIRLS...... SO BE ONE OF THEM.
when person no be gay
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Jannuxajj(m): 7:52pm On Oct 29, 2020
WrittyWritter:
Guy forget her..u actually thought her seeing ur acct balance will make her fall 4 u grin...d girl already said she is not interested so better move on..and try to go out..all this is because u are seeing her..try to get a babe..but if she sees u with another babe and gets angry..oga don't fall oo..Don't be a simp grin
exactly what I want to do. but seeing her every time makes it hard
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Dannyyoung26(m): 7:53pm On Oct 29, 2020
Carry babe come house nah, shey na only her dey nii

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by JasperVII(m): 7:54pm On Oct 29, 2020
Jannuxajj:
After service I went to stay with my aunt then I met this beautiful girl that stays with her. we both became lovers through out my stay there. I got a job in another state so I left. Fast forward to almost 3 years later now I got a contract in their state so I had to go stay with them. Due to covid this girl was around at home with me. Both of us are always home alone. Now looking at the scenario you will think this will be enjoyment for me as me and her dey dey home alone!!! WRONG. When we had a relationship 3 years ago little did I know that it was due to boredom and frustration of staying at home and waiting for admission that made her decide to date me. Now she has entered uni met alot of other guys and now more exposed. Due to this she rejected me. Naturally this should not be a problem, Na to move on na. But it is a very big problem because we both stay home alone everyday and this brings out the feelings I have for her because I truly liked her. But the most painful part is she doesn't even have a tiny spark of feelings for me. What really made this a problem is the fact that I am a conc stay at home introvert. I work from home on my laptop so we are always home alone together. I focused on my hustle and for the first time I had almost a million in my account. I used style style to make sure she sees my account balance. she saw it and only hyped me that night. she still didn't budge even though am always taking her out and buying stuff for her. The major pain of this issue now is there is this our young neighbor guy that usually come and pick her with his father's tinted glass car. they will drive to one corner and wind up and that drives me crazy. I will start imagining what they are doing in the car. I even bone her for like one week she no even send, the major problem is staying alone with her and seeing her every minutes makes it hard to move on in my mind. Sometimes I even feel like a simp for being home alone with her and not being able to do anything with her.
Jasper stopped reading immediately he saw the bolded. When will guys learn that money won't make women love them?

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Sundrus: 7:54pm On Oct 29, 2020
Look for another girl Oga....no let obsession go tie rope for ur scrotum oh.
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by KindlyAssist: 7:56pm On Oct 29, 2020
Senior man, comot go outside find a fine girl and let her visit you at ease.

DON'T EVER SHOW YOUR ACCOUNT BALANCE TO ANYONE, if you still want to enjoy life.

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by suzzyboss(m): 7:57pm On Oct 29, 2020
Lol find one female friend that you'll be taking out instead..

That's how to move on...
You can even find to or three more female friends sef as far as you don place boundary...
Forget that babe

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Regardless: 7:58pm On Oct 29, 2020
Jannuxajj:
But it is a very big problem because we both stay home alone everyday and this brings out the feelings I have for her because I truly liked her. But the most painful part is she doesn't even have a tiny spark of feelings for me.

I focused on my hustle and for the first time I had almost a million in my account. I used style style to make sure she sees my account balance.

The major pain of this issue now is there is this our young neighbor guy that usually come and pick her with his father's tinted glass car. they will drive to one corner and wind up and that drives me crazy. I will start imagining what they are doing in the car.
You're still buying her things?? Don't you read through romance section Oga focus on your hustle and stop being an annoying simp.

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Jannuxajj(m): 8:00pm On Oct 29, 2020
MhisTahrah:
You know she doesn't like you the way you like yet you went ahead to shower her with gifts, trying to entice her with money.If she decides to date you and chop your money, na still you go come on top nairaland dey cry sey Nigerian girls are too materialistic.

Try move out or give her a wide berth
exactly what I want to do but it's hard
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Jannuxajj(m): 8:01pm On Oct 29, 2020
Dannyyoung26:
Carry babe come house nah, shey na only her dey nii
na wetin I dey reason be that
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by slawormiir: 8:02pm On Oct 29, 2020
Damnnn niggarrrr

Get a Lamborghini and watch how she Borges

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Oct 29, 2020
grin

All I know is that you can't stop the Red Pill Movement

R.P.M for life



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What do you guys have to say?

Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Jannuxajj(m): 8:03pm On Oct 29, 2020
suzzyboss:
Lol find one female friend that you'll be taking out instead..

That's how to move on...
You can even find to or three more female friends sef as far as you don place boundary...
Forget that babe
it's not that easy for an introvert
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Shortyy(f): 8:05pm On Oct 29, 2020
You're in lust not in love. I pray she doesn't fall for your plight.

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Nicklaus619(m): 8:06pm On Oct 29, 2020
Op sorry to say but you are a fucking simp, why the fvck will you be showing her your account balance, lemme shove some red pills down your throat,

ask your self, are you trying to make her love you again because of your account balance or because she has feelings for you and wants to stay with you,

Please let her be and move on, she doesn't love you brah, man up and get your lazy ass of that couch and go get your self a girlfriend and stop being a simp

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by AnonymousIQ: 8:06pm On Oct 29, 2020
Jannuxajj:
After service I went to stay with my aunt then I met this beautiful girl that stays with her. we both became lovers through out my stay there. I got a job in another state so I left. Fast forward to almost 3 years later now I got a contract in their state so I had to go stay with them. Due to covid this girl was around at home with me. Both of us are always home alone. Now looking at the scenario you will think this will be enjoyment for me as me and her dey dey home alone!!! WRONG. When we had a relationship 3 years ago little did I know that it was due to boredom and frustration of staying at home and waiting for admission that made her decide to date me. Now she has entered uni met alot of other guys and now more exposed. Due to this she rejected me. Naturally this should not be a problem, Na to move on na. But it is a very big problem because we both stay home alone everyday and this brings out the feelings I have for her because I truly liked her. But the most painful part is she doesn't even have a tiny spark of feelings for me. What really made this a problem is the fact that I am a conc stay at home introvert. I work from home on my laptop so we are always home alone together. I used style style to make sure she sees my account balance. she saw it and only hyped me that night. she still didn't budge even though am always taking her out and buying stuff for her. The major pain of this issue now is there is this our young neighbor guy that usually come and pick her with his father's tinted glass car. they will drive to one corner and wind up and that drives me crazy. I will start imagining what they are doing in the car. I even bone her for like one week she no even send, the major problem is staying alone with her and seeing her every minutes makes it hard to move on in my mind. Sometimes I even feel like a simp for being home alone with her and not being able to do anything with her.

Bro what do you really want from her? Cos your story shows that if you weren't with her in same house been bored, you won't feel that attraction and you have clearly noticed she is not into you So what do you really want?


NOTE: No real guy shows a girl his account balance to impress her, it rather makes you a show off than a real nigga so quit it!!!

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Shortyy(f): 8:08pm On Oct 29, 2020
JasperVII:

Jasper stopped reading immediately he saw the bolded. When will guys learn that money won't make women love them?
I wonder.

Once you start bragging about your wealth sef, it's bye bye from me.

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Oct 29, 2020
Shortyy:

I wonder.

Once you start bragging about your wealth sef, it's bye bye from me.

No one asked you please

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Shortyy(f): 8:11pm On Oct 29, 2020
collinsuchendu:


No one asked you please

I can't remember mentioning you dear.

Lol
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 29, 2020
Jannuxajj but she said NO.

Why not leave her alone? There are others girls out there.
If you truly like/love her you would leave her alone after she told you NO.

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Oct 29, 2020
IamD18:
5 minutes of masturbation can immediately end all these madness and obsession.

Just five minutes of masturbation.

Step 1 : Make sure you try as much as you can to create a full imagination of her in your head.

Step 2 : Kindly get yourself in a good private place, this could be in your toilet, bathroom or room.

Step 3 : Check any porn website and use the search box by typing "Biitch fvcked in a tinted glass car" or "Introvert fvcks a bitch after showing her his account balance".

Step 4 : Using step 3, related videos of your case with the lady will appear, plug your earphone, bring out your gbola, start watching the clip with the imagination of the lady's looks in your head, start wanking, self-service with her on your head and mind till you cum.

Step 5 : Repeat step 1-4 again for like 5 times and that lady will be history to your feelings.

If the feelings continues, call Fashola.


Haha! No be Fashola sef.
Call Lagbaja!
Lol?
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Oct 29, 2020
Jannuxajj:

exactly what I want to do but it's hard
Go out more.
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Oct 29, 2020
IamD18:
5 minutes of masturbation can immediately end all these madness and obsession.

Just five minutes of masturbation.

If the feelings continues, call Fashola.
TF?? grin grin
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by suzzyboss(m): 8:29pm On Oct 29, 2020
Jannuxajj:

it's not that easy for an introvert
It's not compulsory for the girl to be a stranger.
You should have some ex-school mate, or even a church member ...
Invite them over
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by peppermint7(m): 8:30pm On Oct 29, 2020
Jannuxajj:
After service I went to stay with my aunt then I met this beautiful girl that stays with her. we both became lovers through out my stay there. I got a job in another state so I left. Fast forward to almost 3 years later now I got a contract in their state so I had to go stay with them. Due to covid this girl was around at home with me. Both of us are always home alone. Now looking at the scenario you will think this will be enjoyment for me as me and her dey dey home alone!!! WRONG. When we had a relationship 3 years ago little did I know that it was due to boredom and frustration of staying at home and waiting for admission that made her decide to date me. Now she has entered uni met alot of other guys and now more exposed. Due to this she rejected me. Naturally this should not be a problem, Na to move on na. But it is a very big problem because we both stay home alone everyday and this brings out the feelings I have for her because I truly liked her. But the most painful part is she doesn't even have a tiny spark of feelings for me. What really made this a problem is the fact that I am a conc stay at home introvert. I work from home on my laptop so we are always home alone together. I used style style to make sure she sees my account balance. she saw it and only hyped me that night. she still didn't budge even though am always taking her out and buying stuff for her. The major pain of this issue now is there is this our young neighbor guy that usually come and pick her with his father's tinted glass car. they will drive to one corner and wind up and that drives me crazy. I will start imagining what they are doing in the car. I even bone her for like one week she no even send, the major problem is staying alone with her and seeing her every minutes makes it hard to move on in my mind. Sometimes I even feel like a simp for being home alone with her and not being able to do anything with her.
Op carry that ur same acct balance comot outside go find beta gal. Like you have a thousand different choices once your outside.
Girl been de do me like that. Omoh a pack my laptop leave my coding go outside go hunt enough bush meat. Las las she come de find my time but I was already long gone. As for that tinted glass Boy. That one no be problem. Make de yeye geh allow make person use im papa car de whine her head. Time will tell

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Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 8:37pm On Oct 29, 2020
Leave the girl alone she does not want you, besides toto dey plenty for town!
Re: Guys Help How Can I Handle This Girl? by SpeciMental: 8:48pm On Oct 29, 2020
You're human, it's okay to feel all that now you're always together.
First, you're making yourself suffer because you're trying to get her. Never try to get a girl. Your happiness in life is not tied to anyone. You asked her out, she said no, let it end there.
That you even bought her things is already a turn off because every penny you spend on her tells her how desperate you are and she loses all interest in you cause she's already fed off all your desperation you give off . In other words, the more you do to please her, the farther she will be from your reach. Stop all that and soon she'll start coming to test whether she can still mugu you. If you stand firm and not budge for even the littlest things, you'll regain emotional control and the tables will turn.
You work from home, you're prolly a techy. If so, you have a whole world of skills to develop no matter how much you've already got. So focus on that no matter the urge for her. Just keep setting high goals in your tech field and keep reaching for them, gather all the skills and don't stop, you'll soon see you have no time. Make yourself a great achiever and soon you'll see you don't deserve a girl that's been passed around all sorts of men and has no value and skill set but only a virgin to wife and who can add value to you.
And for future purposes, do not take counsel on issues like this from women but only reasonable guys

#Unemotional, purely Mental from the unapologetic SpeciMen#

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