dairykidd:

Sometimes God brings them your way although they may not be the exact full package.. If ur smart u will know that none of us are truly complete... Its our job to work on each others short comings but u girls be looking for the right man. That right man u see with another lady if u no the work when she done put in over the years to make him the "right" u covet so... It goes both ways too. No right woman or right man just see the great part u can hold on to forever & work on what's not there yet. Life is easy but we just keep getting it complicated because we want it all at once & before u know it [b]evening newspapers & grey hair bachelors [/b]everywhere

faithfull18:

Hmmn, everybody can't be outgoing you know. Some people are just wired like that. They keep to themselves even in the midst of people, mostly indoors, they enjoy their own company.

Oh you seem to gloss over the last line. I met someone on Twitter a long time ago and we actually dated. A friend met his current fiancée on Tinder. I don't expect complete introverts or people with tight schedules to have time for outings. The point is trying to socialize with people and it's a shame that some people are terribly horrible at this, and in that case, they gotta work on themselves.

Eniqurl:
What about those that got married early and divorce few years after ?

Marriage is not an acheivement

achievement.


how old are you that you are talking?

faithfull18:

Like you don't know.
Scarcity of responsible, diligent, God-loving/God fearing men.

Mind you, men are all over the place. The right ones are just no where to be found.

Hey faithful! Do you yourself possess all those qualities you listed? Stop looking for the perfect man. He only exists in minds...

Bamz:


While wishing and prayers are good, I don't expect obembet to sit home all day expecting an imaginary man to sweep her off her feet. She needs to get out there, work gatherings, hangouts, religious meetings, etc
Then there's Tinder and other useful online platforms.

You can tell her that

ashewoboy:



achievement.


how old are you that you are talking?

Twice ur age

lefulefu:
as beautiful as u look u shoudnt be saying this.u givin d impression that u lack men and a attractive lady like u shouldnt be givin out dat impression.i am very sure there are goodlooking comfortable men near u who have been askin u out endlessly that u have been ignoring.

Lolzz guy... so many beautiful girls die single & lonely. No be by fine girl oo. Outside fit fine na the inside matter most.

Eniqurl:
What about those that got married early and divorce few years after ?

Marriage is not an acheivement

A divorcee spotted. how has it been?

Eniqurl:
Twice ur age

you this small girl with a........ . if I hear.

you better hold me tight if I ask you out now. no let me go.

dairykidd:

Lolzz guy... so many beautiful girls die single & lonely. No be by fine girl oo. Outside fit fine na the inside matter most.

lol thats hard to beleive.d way some of we guys dey chase babes dese days will make it hard for someone to believe any lady is single.even the ones wey no fine get men dying on their case and not to mention an attractive one .their phones are always ringing from male admirers and their facebook messages is filled with unread messages from countless male admirers and a girl will still come out and say she is single? how come?

faithfull18:

Like you don't know.
Scarcity of responsible, diligent, God-loving/God fearing men.

Mind you, men are all over the place. The right ones are just no where to be found.

Find a left one and drag the idiot to the left���

ashewoboy:




you this small girl with a........ . if I hear.


you better hold me tight if I ask you out now. no let me go.

Am 38

Eniqurl:
Am 38

your big girl age. you will be 20 this year.

faithfull18:

Like you don't know.
Scarcity of responsible, diligent, God-loving/God fearing men.

Mind you, men are all over the place. The right ones are just no where to be found.

if u c d right 1ce u go no?

Raalsalghul:
Any single and desperate woman has herself to blame. Meanwhile, what's your business op?

Somtyms no b so,I no som beautiful ladies wey life played fast 1 on 4 Deir prime and dem dey responsible 2 d core!my broda study life well.how I wish I fit do voice note I 4 explain beta.

lefulefu:
lol thats hard to beleive.d way some of we guys dey chase babes dese days will make it hard for someone to believe any lady is single.even the ones wey no fine get men dying on their case and not to mention an attractive one .their phones are always ringing from male admirers and their facebook messages is filled with unread messages from countless male admirers and a girl will still come out and say she is single? how come?

Lolzz... Make i clear u the matter. U see some of all these fine girls that are single mostly are rotten on the inside so yes they will have guys queueing up from here to the great wall of China just to dip in & out but none ready to stay and be her man. So at the end of the day they end up living a lonely life outside the company of their friends & fûckers admirers.. No companionship that is what i mean. Just because she goes on 10 different outings per week with different guys doesn't mean she aint single. Being single has nothing to do with the number of bed mates or toasters on ur dm u have or potential fûckmates wooing u with gifts and all... Its about companionship, that one person, that ride or die , anyhow anyhow una both dey cane the line dey go, good or bad una dey share every every from physical, emotional, psychological bonding with that one person... Companionship.

Yes we chase them because they are easy on the eyes but only a dead beat will still remain there when he realises her character & personality stinks just because of beauty that is everywhere.

I am not 30

Agboki:



Somtyms no b so,I no som beautiful ladies wey life played fast 1 on 4 Deir prime and dem dey responsible 2 d core!my broda study life well.how I wish I fit do voice note I 4 explain beta.

Bros abeg forget that thing. Do you know how many men approach a woman in her younger years. At that time, they are spoiled for abundance of choices. At least if they don't see their spec of man, there should be something closer available. It's just choosiness, lack of foresight, not setting their goals and playing around that leaves them single and desperate. Unless, it's a spiritual matter which is not their fault. I repeat again, any woman who finds herself desperate for marriage has herself to blame. Now what do you have to say for thise decent ladies...?

lefulefu:
lol thats hard to beleive.d way some of we guys dey chase babes dese days will make it hard for someone to believe any lady is single.even the ones wey no fine get men dying on their case and not to mention an attractive one .their phones are always ringing from male admirers and their facebook messages is filled with unread messages from countless male admirers and a girl will still come out and say she is single? how come?

As in ehn, the talk tire me. Women don't have any reason to be desperate for marriage. The number of admirers is to infinity. Any desperate woman dull herself. Simple!

dairykidd:


Lolzz... Make i clear u the matter. U see some of all these fine girls that are single mostly are rotten on the inside so yes they will have guys queueing up from here to the great wall of China just to dip in & out but none ready to stay and be her man. So at the end of the day they end up living a lonely life outside the company of their friends & fûckers admirers.. No companionship that is what i mean. Just because she goes on 10 different outings per week with different guys doesn't mean she aint single. Being single has nothing to do with the number of bed mates or toasters on ur dm u have or potential fûckmates wooing u with gifts and all... Its about companionship, that one person, that ride or die , anyhow anyhow una both dey cane the line dey go, good or bad una dey share every every from physical, emotional, psychological bonding with that one person... Companionship.

Yes we chase them because they are easy on the eyes but only a dead beat will still remain there when he realises her character & personality stinks just because of beauty that is everywhere.

Part of what I'm saying. Any desperate woman has herself to blame

Timagex:
Hey faithful! Do you yourself possess all those qualities you listed? Stop looking for the perfect man. He only exists in minds...

Leave those beings. If they see the God fearing man, they will tag him boring.

go through nairaland threads, read posts, if you have sense you wouldn't have to ask why Nigeria women stay single for so long but just in case you missed it, it's the lack of quality men , too many duchebags like the op available this days

It's not easy oo. I'll be 35 this year, still no husband.

Raalsalghul:
Bros abeg forget that thing. Do you know how many men approach a woman in her younger years. At that time, they are spoiled for abundance of choices. At least if they don't see their spec of man, there should be something closer available. It's just choosiness, lack of foresight, not setting their goals and playing around that leaves them single and desperate. Unless, it's a spiritual matter which is not their fault. I repeat again, any woman who finds herself desperate for marriage has herself to blame. Now what do you have to say for thise decent ladies...?

Oga use ur brain,stop 2 dey reason tins as u take tink say u c am!e get many tins wey u no fit understand,hope u Don hear of kachi d sosoliso flight crash survivor, she get dat issues wen she dey 16 and now she dey 29/30. I Don also c a grl wey go dey her middle 30's now she suffered from severe ailments 4rm wen she was abt 18/19 till now she jst dey recover,shey u go use say bcoz u wan marry 4 ur 20's even 4low any man wey say hello?how u wan take even no d serious 1ce? When u no say bad 1ce plenty pass, Some get serious relationship wey dem tink say d partner go finally marry dem Bt e Leta no end well ,bro every tin na luck, even ask urself how many young men of even 30 and above ready 2 marry,which pple suppose marry does our aunty wen Don reach 30?reason well b4 u criticize or judge.I rest my case on dis.

makydebbie:
It's not easy oo. I'll be 35 this year, still no husband.

don't worry dear.. Time still de.. your nairaland role model is 43 and still without a husband.. And she didn't die.. Tho she's in a depressed state now.

With your nose like g string.. Being the 4th wife to a village chief no go bad

Raalsalghul:
Leave those beings. If they see the God fearing man, they will tag him boring.

. True talk here o

SillyeRabbit:
When a lady is over 30, the older she becomes, the lesser her chance of finding the man of her dream. Truth hurts. Keep saying marriage no be achievement.

Really!! And I immediately thought about Linda ikeji! Unmhnm!

Please don't marry.....

Eniqurl:
What about those that got married early and divorce few years after ?

Marriage is not an acheivement

obembet:
Hmmmm, its well.. Pray for us...I don't want this year to pass me by

will you marry me?

Eniqurl:
Am 38

Mumu

makydebbie:
It's not easy oo. I'll be 35 this year, still no husband.

It will be a honour & a dream come true to be your husband. Will you marry me honey?

Dream