Delivar:

I am glad you wrote "probably". Why should you and her talk like you are so sure he was engaged during the period he was contacting her?

faithfull18:


No, I won't. The last time I checked, freedom of speech was/is one of my rights.

Read what she posted and this time read to comprehend not to react.

The guy got married in Dec and asked her for a meetup in Nov.

He had someone else by the side because I don't see two complete strangers meeting each other and marrying in one month in Nigeria. It's possible but rare.

Lastly, I don't think she was into him, she was only pointing out how irresponsible some men can be.

rame18:













I did, had a cool walk in the evening.

That's cool ....Alright then

EVILFOREST:

POSSIBLY
U said the RIGHT thing
She wanted to consent when her CONFUSION had resolved.
They are almost always CONFUSED

faithfull18:

I was talking about the one month period between the wedding and when he was asking her for a meetup.

Are you saying the lady he married in that one month was never in the picture.

He just woke up the next day, saw a lady, did traditional ,white etc.

Ubdavis:


She felt that playing hard to get will add more value to her.

Dfinex:


You sef keep quiet and stop talking what you don't know nothing about. From my experience guys are always fond of these. I don't know if they assume it to be a kind of fun game or something. ...Now that the matter is about your gender, all of you are excited.

Delivar:

Yes of course. It has to be in a situation where I have known her for a long while as friends and not actually marrying a lady I met as a stranger a week ago.

faithfull18:


No, I won't. The last time I checked, freedom of speech was/is one of my rights.

Read what she posted and this time read to comprehend not to react.

The guy got married in Dec and asked her for a meetup in Nov.

He had someone else by the side because I don't see two complete strangers meeting each other and marrying in one month in Nigeria. It's possible but rare.

Lastly, I don't think she was into him, she was only pointing out how irresponsible some men can be.

prince3009:


Your experience because you always meet moronic men and there is a popular saying like " You attract who you meet!"

Ralphjoe:
Yes he would have if he finds out that this lady has better qualities than the one he wanted to marry before and remember she was probably the first choice before the one he finally got married to now.

austine4real:


u well so??

Dfinex:


What me I have come to understand with men is that whenever they have made up their mind to marry and that date is fast approaching but the one they love is not responding positively , they will just go ahead and pick any girl in their list who is averagely ok and willing to marry them and get done with the whole marriage thing.

faithfull18:

The fact that he was already seeing someone else yet he was still disturbing her.

Dfinex:


What me I have come to understand with men is that whenever they have made up their mind to marry and that date is fast approaching but the one they love is not responding positively , they will just go ahead and pick any girl in their list who is averagely ok and willing to marry them and get done with the whole marriage thing.

grandstar:


If he was engaged, why was he asking her out? He just wanted to sample and dump her?

faithfull18:


Without knowing any one related to her, her background, nothing. You just saw her on the road one day and the next day, you are going straight to the altar. I hear you.

I am not saying it's not possible oh but Nigerians are not known to do crazy things like that.

sexy74:

why is she complaining now.
Remember she said over a year and she shows no interest, he now marries she begin shout.
why didn't she tell us when he was toasting her?

Dfinex:


No...I won't have you insult them.... It's not their fault that they keep loving women who don't feel same way for them. The only challenge we are having with them is why they endlessly profess love to these ladies and get married to others within a twinkling of an eye

cococandy:
really? She could have been his wife? Are you people really hard of comprehension or are you just being willfully ignorant?

EVILFOREST:


They like behaving like PEACOCKS
Always walking on their shoulders.
U will find a Local Lady forming Accent

abi na PEAHEN

prince3009:


So if i as a man professes my love to a woman and she does not reciprocate or she accepts me and i later discovers she falls below standards, i should continue to entangle myself with her and stick to her rather than look for someone else who is exactly (or at least close to) whom i desire to bring out the best in me?

Why do you women act like a man's world revolves round you?

Dfinex:


Why would it take you a whole year to realize that the first woman falls below standard but you become very sure of the next woman within weeks? Doesn't it sound ridiculous to you?

rockyh:
Nigerian ladies n their I don't fancy u attitude has led many guys to marrying them not cos of love but for companion. Personally i don't believe in love but companion ones u are free from lies n deceit, am good for the altar

prince3009:


Exactly bro...love is seriously overplayed!

A man sees a woman with contours and he thinks it's love. A lady sees a guy with a G-Wagon and she thinks she's in love and at the end of the day, they realize it wasn't worth it!

What matters is companionship and compatibility in marriage.