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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Mcy56(f): 9:16pm On Jan 13, 2019
dominique:
Thank you o!
Lol. The guys are missing the point here and are deliberately 'seeing what they love to see', thus twisting the whole story in favour of the man. grin

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Dfinex(f): 9:20pm On Jan 13, 2019
prince3009:


Be quiet! The foolish lady is pained because she has lost out! She definitely was interested but was forming hard-to-get and the dude decided to find an alternative and got married meaning he was very serious and had no intention of playing her.

And what proof is there that he was engaged while he was wooing her? I know of many men who saw a lady, struck a chord with them in weeks and they get married almost immediately.

You sef keep quiet and stop talking what you don't know nothing about. From my experience guys are always fond of these. I don't know if they assume it to be a kind of fun game or something. ...Now that the matter is about your gender, all of you are excited.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Delivar(m): 9:23pm On Jan 13, 2019
faithfull18:
Men... He already had another lady engaged yet he was still disturbing her.



People didn't get the message she was passing across.

The man was probably engaged, preparing for his wedding, yet he was still disturbing her and asking for a meetup a month to his wedding.

Can you imagine the effrontery.

That's probably why she called him out.
I am glad you wrote "probably". Why should you and her talk like you are so sure he was engaged during the period he was contacting her?
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Dfinex(f): 9:25pm On Jan 13, 2019
Ralphjoe:
This story points to the fact that the man genuinely want the lady at first, hence asking her out for that long but along the line he gave up hope on her in his mind since she was not forthcoming and decided to marry someone else but truth is he still like the lady and was hoping something can still come up between them before he finally gets married but unfortunately nothing of such happened and he moved on happily to marry his girl while this lady was pained because she discovered that she like him too and she is regretting why she didn't accept him.

Ok...let's assume that was the scenario that played out and the lady finally agreed, are you telling me that the guy would have called off his engagement with the other babe?
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Dollabiz: 9:25pm On Jan 13, 2019
let.that.dog roam.he will find.his way home
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by tiwiex(m): 9:26pm On Jan 13, 2019
sexy74:
Him Dey ask you out since you Dey do shakara now you come Dey complain Abeg park well.

Unless the story was written wrongly, that's exactly what it looks like. She dey form shakara since.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by gypsey(m): 9:27pm On Jan 13, 2019
KingSango:



There is only one truth. One God. Develop accuracy in your speech and you can converse with me.
God doesn't exist, it's all Fairytale
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Dfinex(f): 9:28pm On Jan 13, 2019
Delivar:

I am glad you wrote "probably". Why should you and her talk like you are so sure he was engaged during the period he was contacting her?

Because in Nigerian reality - marriage doesn't happen SUDDENLY

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by KingSango(m): 9:35pm On Jan 13, 2019
gypsey:
God doesn't exist, it's all Fairytale


You mean you don't exist. grin

I've never seen you. As far as I know you are A.I. grin

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Ubdavis(m): 9:36pm On Jan 13, 2019
The guy got married just about when she was about to agree. No be small heart Ache .
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by remedick: 9:38pm On Jan 13, 2019
faithfull18:

The fact that he was already seeing someone else yet he was still disturbing her.
okay, now tat the guy has freed her, shouldn't she be happy or is she pained that she hasnt been married to the someone she was seeing while a man that was asking her out has tied the knot ? I don't understand.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by remedick: 9:38pm On Jan 13, 2019
Ubdavis:
The guy got married just about when she was about to agree. No be small heart Ache .
grin
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Delivar(m): 9:40pm On Jan 13, 2019
Dfinex:


Because in Nigerian reality - marriage doesn't happen SUDDENLY
Weak defence. A man can still engage and marry a female friend within a week. Especially in cases where there was an initial proposal but the lady hasn't yet decided. In a situation like this the man is free to hunt other fish in the sea

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by rame18(f): 9:46pm On Jan 13, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Aah Madam.... I am not ooogringrin











grin
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Dfinex(f): 9:46pm On Jan 13, 2019
Delivar:

Weak defence. A man can still engage and marry a female friend within a week. Especially in cases where there was an initial proposal but the lady hasn't yet decided. In a situation like this the man is free to hunt other fish in the sea

You can you marry a lady in a week or even a month? Be honest with urself
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:48pm On Jan 13, 2019
rame18:












grin
Just my opinion...And I am having fun toogringrin.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by rame18(f): 9:51pm On Jan 13, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Just my opinion...And I am having fun toogringrin.












I enjoyed trolling today. grin one grill dude said he will tell me the story of my life, I still d wait for the story. wink
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by prince3009(m): 9:54pm On Jan 13, 2019
dominique:


And how often does it happen that a man meets a woman and they get married within the space of a month? According to the lady, the man is Igbo and we know that Igbo traditional marriage rite is not swiftly done. Before the knocking of door, meetings between both families, compiling of bride price list, acquiring all the items in the list etc, no less than 3 months would have elapsed. Let's not excuse irresponsible behaviour because we want to fault the lady.

Well let me burst your bubble! My paternal cousin did all these including his white wedding within a month. Secondly, is it the man's family that the bride price will be paid too? What if he settled for a non-igbo bride? The north don't do all the jamboree you mentioned in your comment above and getting married to a lady from the north is in a matter of day as long as both the man and woman have made up their minds. Let's not excuse the lady's blame game and scorn because we want to blame the man.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:55pm On Jan 13, 2019
rame18:













I enjoyed trolling today. grin one grill dude said he will tell me the story of my life, I still d wait for the story. wink
Lol... Na wao, story of your life?? A magician maybe......When he does, please mention megringrin
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by robosky02(m): 9:56pm On Jan 13, 2019
Rule:

Girls who play too hard to get
Often regret never been gotten grin

Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by rame18(f): 9:58pm On Jan 13, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Lol... Na wao, story of your life?? A magician maybe......When he does, please mention megringrin











I will o, so you can laugh with me... grin
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by austine4real(m): 9:59pm On Jan 13, 2019
nograv:

Ahem... You thought he would wait all day but he moved on...
Mtchew...
u well so??
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:01pm On Jan 13, 2019
rame18:












I will o, so you can laugh with me... grin
I am laughing already...gringringrin
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Ralphjoe(m): 10:02pm On Jan 13, 2019
Dfinex:


Ok...let's assume that was the scenario that played out and the lady finally agreed, are you telling me that the guy would have called off his engagement with the other babe?
Yes he would have if he finds out that this lady has better qualities than the one he wanted to marry before and remember she was probably the first choice before the one he finally got married to now.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by rame18(f): 10:03pm On Jan 13, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
I am laughing already...gringringrin












Some people here DON mad before, their chain DON cut since. cool
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by gypsey(m): 10:04pm On Jan 13, 2019
KingSango:



You mean you don't exist. grin

I've never seen you. As far as I know you are A.I. grin

why do you need to see me? you are the one telling me about God. well....maybe i don't exist.

what ever A.I. means i don't know. grin grin man! you are not making any sense. you must be smoking some Highgrade Ganja and i want some of what you are smoking.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:05pm On Jan 13, 2019
rame18:













Some people here DON mad before, their chain DON cut since. cool
Just be looking for trouble.. cheesycheesycheesy
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by rame18(f): 10:06pm On Jan 13, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Just be looking for trouble.. cheesycheesycheesy











grin
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Nobody: 10:07pm On Jan 13, 2019
Ubdavis:
The guy got married just about when she was about to agree. No be small heart Ache .
POSSIBLY
U said the RIGHT thing
She wanted to consent when her CONFUSION had resolved.
They are almost always CONFUSED
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:09pm On Jan 13, 2019
rame18:












grin
Hope u had a nice day?? gringrin
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by rame18(f): 10:11pm On Jan 13, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Hope u had a nice day?? gringrin












I did, had a cool walk in the evening.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Delivar(m): 10:11pm On Jan 13, 2019
Dfinex:


You can you marry a lady in a week or even a month? Be honest with urself
Yes of course. It has to be in a situation where I have known her for a long while as friends and not actually marrying a lady I met as a stranger a week ago.

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