But seriously as women, the power of controlling our emotions is the beginning of great things. In three months, you get to the point where you’ll want to kill your self for a man, then you’re emotionally and mentally unstable. Let’s start guarding our mind and heart ahbeg, taking responsibility for ourselves. If you’re emotionally wise, a nigga of three months will never get you to that point, as a woman you must have some masculine traits in you. This world is a wicked place.

Michelle55:
you don't see a future with her yet you approached and professed love to her.. That singular act of yours is sheer wickedness. You knew you were traveling yet you played with her emotions? Or do you think she's a cyborg without an iota of feelings in her veins? If someone should mess with your sisters in such a crude manner, how would you feel?
Let your conscience be your judge dude.. I'm done advising the likes of you and I pray she muster enough courage to move on cos truly you don't deserve her!
Goodluck!

Saffi:
But seriously as women, the power of controlling our emotions is the beginning of great things. In three months, you get to the point where you’ll want to kill your self for a man, then you’re emotionally and mentally unstable. Let’s start guarding our mind and heart ahbeg, taking responsibility for ourselves. If you’re emotionally wise, a nigga of three months will never get you to that point, as a woman you must have some masculine traits in you. This world is a wicked place.

Well said!!

Saffi:
But seriously as women, the power of controlling our emotions is the beginning of great things. In three months, you get to the point where you’ll want to kill your self for a man, then you’re emotionally and mentally unstable. Let’s start guarding our mind and heart ahbeg, taking responsibility for ourselves. If you’re emotionally wise, a nigga of three months will never get you to that point, as a woman you must have some masculine traits in you. This world is a wicked place.

I truly understand your pov but the truth still remains that not everyone is as strong hearted like some of us.. Why do you think suicide is gaining ground each passing day? Some people are too frail and emotional and any little thing can wreck them forever, that's the more reason why it's advised to curtail our words and actions most times because it's not everyone that can survive it.
When he approached the said girl, we weren't there so I see no reason why he should seek our validation now that he wants to end the relationship.
Op, na your cross.. Carry am wella

at 27 and above dnt approach a guy/babe if u not sure (or be too quick to define the r/shp if u have not known them and convinced ur mind)

still working on depression I acquired recently cos a girl I had 2yrs and put my energy in and we made plans to tie it up this year suddenly bailed out with flimsy funny reasons

I know how it feels, handle this with emotional intelligence, if not God go punish u if she lose her life,...

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mmadu5:
My girlfriend threatens to kill herself if I breakup with her. im really worried and feel like im in a bondage i was going to report to the police but wanted to seek advice on NL first to know what to do ,cos she has been texting me all day , the reason for breaking up is because i am traveling abroad and i dont really see a future with her only known her for 3 months ,pls advice

She wouldn't give a hoot about you if she were in your shoes. Perhaps, what's up with the attachment, the relationship is just 3 months. It's not as if you've been stringing her along for 5 years.

Michelle55:

Well said sir! Not everyone can handle breakup amicably, the least he could have done is have a heart to heart talk with her, make her see reasons with him and not dump her outrightly just because he's travelling out.
Na you be the first person to travel out ni?

How do you know he hasn't done that?

Mankosi:
Do well and hand her over to someone else to occupy that position before u zoom off.

You just spilled this from your anus right?

Ahmed0336:
Guy just play along. D moment you leave this country all I can say is actions speaks louder than words

That wouldn't be a nice move
Best thing is, he should let the girl know they can't continue anymore so the girl won't be waiting for someone that ain't coming back..

He just need to a little wisdom to make the girl understand they ain't for each other

Raalsalghul:
She wouldn't give a hoot about you if she were in your shoes. Perhaps, what's up with the attachment, the relationship is just 3 months. It's not as if you've been stringing her along for 5 years.

Bro you are so very right, still going through the aftermath of a 3 years+ relationship breakup, simply because she is going to serve in Benue, while I am in Lagos. My advice to the OP is to never make any decision based on her threat to end her life, she won't go through with and you'll be surprised at how quick she will change if she gets the same opportunity, she no go even tell you

Skeendip:


Bro you are so very right, still going through the aftermath of a 3 years+ relationship breakup, simply because she is going to serve in Benue, while I am in Lagos. My advice to the OP is to never make any decision based on her threat to end her life, she won't go through with and you'll be surprised at how quick she will change if she gets the same opportunity, she no go even tell you

That's just the truth. There's a certain thread here where a married woman got a scholarship to study abroad. If you see the rate at which those feminists advised her to leave the marriage as it is a one in a lifetime opportunity. Marriage oh, not relationship. And the silly Op dey here dey form lover boy on top 3 months toasting. Mtchewwwww

MissRaine69:
You are not responsible for her life. If she opts to end it it’s her choice and you should not feel guilty. She is emotionally blackmailing you and that’s blatant manipulation. Continue with your plans and do what you have to do if she ends her life that that’s it she will be very dead.
Don’t be sucked up in all her mind games. Actually she should be ex-girlfriend by now.

You are so logical and rational in your thinking that I sometimes doubt you are a woman.

dingbang:
Sniper full everywhere.

I wonder why she will kill herself, person that needs to be killed is the guy. Add small something inside his ........ And bounce. He is a wicked and cruel somebody.

please let her do, in fact we are too much in this country

My candid advice is this like a brother to a brother,
Good girls are hard to come by if u like go to Pluto, if dat babe is good for u bro hold her tight, dont say u don't how if u will make it quick over there, u better sort out ur relationship b4 moving so u will know wat u are hustling for,

5 years from now nigeria girls will b worst than as u see them now

Paxie55:

I know you have dated several guys in your whole life that you don't feel anything when they break up with You, but then Sis, everyone can't be you.
You didn't see how he has gotten the girl in love with him and you think it's so easy to.let go.

Why should you even date someone you know you have no future plans with @ op.

I thank God it's still early, she will.bounce back.

I am a realist, I have dated people and things have not worked out but it did not culminate in threats of suicide.
Not every relationship leads to marriage that is the trap most women find themselves in and if they changed their perspectives ( yourself included based on your comment belong to the same school as the OP’s girl) a tad bit then they would be in a position to move on from a relationship. We are not talking about being in love it’s her threats of wanting to end her
life because he wants a secure a better life.
It’s not mandatory that every man you meet or have a relationship with should marry you and I say that with no malice just oodles of reality.

all things being equal... its a blackmail

mrblessed:
You are very cold and extremely unfeeling towards the travails of a fellow woman. The young woman is apparently lovestruck, hence her inability to think properly.The young man nonetheless must carry out his plan, but I expected a sort of knid word from you to him.

To the topic: don't just dump her like a tissue of paper. Her suicidal threat is a demonstration of uncertainty and love. Even if you don't see a future with her, at least, her peace with her before you travel.

It’s manipulative pure and simple and as fellow women go I show empathy when it’s warranted. Not in this case though. If she was mature about this he could have looked at her differently even if he had travelled and maybe continued.

Paxie55:
You knew you will be travelling abroad, yet you proposed love to her?

This is what some of you guys are always into, make some one head over heels in love with You, then dump her like trash.

You didn't know it will hurt her right?
She will get herself but it will hard I know, but I pray she gets the comfort to move on cos your type is evil.

Not all relationships lead to marriage that is a lesson most women need to learn and fast.
Why is he at fault here? They have been dating 3 months far little time to conclude anything.

Ire2:


Guy shut up. Will you say this if you are the gf? Just forming uncessary feminist online and offline you be hypocrite.

Technically I cannot shut up as I am not speaking. And how do you even tie feminism into this? If I am advocating for the man that makes me a feminist? I think you got things muddled a tad bit here.

Raalsalghul:
You are so logical and rational in your thinking that I sometimes doubt you are a woman.

I have a vagina I checked just now ...I am a woman .

MissRaine69:

Technically I cannot shut up as I am not speaking. And how do you even tie feminism into this? If I am advocating for the man that makes me a feminist? I think you got things muddled a tad bit here.

You know Tad and bit can both be used on their own for a similar meaning, you didn't have to use both at once in one sentence, I take to you that you are an idiot feigning intelligence, mugu, they come nl they blow Grammar. Thunder fire you there go and do something useful with your life

MissRaine69:

I have a vagina I checked just now ...I am a woman .

You approach things so logically, little wonder other females beef you.

Ire2:


You know Tad and bit can both be used on their own for a similar meaning, you didn't have to use both at once in one sentence, I take to you that you are an idiot feigning intelligence, mugu, they come nl they blow Grammar. Thunder fire you there go and do something useful with your life

So all that is in aide of what exactly?
This is a forum it is not?
And opinions are expressed if you disagree fine that’s allowed but your approach which is to make it personal shows your level of intellect not mine.
Bottom feeder.

Raalsalghul:
You approach things so logically, little wonder other females beef you.

You learn to compartmentalise especially when it comes to this forum, emotional reasoning is rife here and this is why things escalate when they should not.
Ps
Thank you

MissRaine69:

So all that is in aide of what exactly?
This is a forum it is not?
And opinions are expressed if you disagree fine that’s allowed but your approach which is to make it personal shows your level of intellect not mine.
Bottom feeder.

This is a forum it is not? RIP English
Fucking Clown. Trying too hard.

Ire2:



This is a forum it is not? RIP English
Fucking Clown. Trying too hard.

The brief life you have lived on this planet shows how much you need to learn.
Adieu.

MissRaine69:

The brief life you have lived on this planet shows how much you need to learn.
Adieu.

Shut up and adieu raine.

Rip.

rame18:












I wonder why she will kill herself, person that needs to be killed is the guy. Add small something inside his ........ And bounce. He is a wicked and cruel somebody.

why should he be killed? So because of girl, a guy will not travel abroad again? Or is that the same advise you will give your younger brother if he tells you same story?

You guys are even adding salt to the injury na.
Stop confusing OP with all these grammar here

shortgun:
How old are u?

One of the reasonable comments here

HebronHF:
You guys are even adding salt to the injury na.
Stop confusing OP with all these grammar here