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PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by madewin(m): 10:48pm On Jan 22, 2019
Pls I need some tips on how to toss a girl.
Yeah I know is funny enough to make one cry but I have to come out of my small pride bcuz am obviously dying inside me.
I met a gal last year after closing 4rm work, we were waiting 4 a bus, unlike the usual me I confronted her, though at first, did not know wot to say or do rather than saying hi, but thank God she seems to be interested in me and replied with her name. She did all the talking as if she was the one toasting me, obviously, even though I am a novies, cud tell she was into me.
We got very close later on, that's abt 2 months down the line, up to the extent she visit me frequently but I couldn't tell her how I feel not bcuz I wasn't bold enough (depending on how u see it) rather I didn't know which words to use, I av never woe a gal successfully with words dat eventually, she excepted me, tried few times, but, well I just accepted my fate (i.e I may never av a gf). With time I was friend zone, fully aware of wot was going on but cud nt let d flame out bcuz I dnt av d matches stick, I couldn't approach my friends cuz they will mock me 4 the rest of my life, all I did was jux to wallow in pain, watching another guy do wot I wasn't man enough to do.
Why can't I toast a gal?
I was a polytechnic graduate from ozoro, delta state.
Studied civil engineering, with only abt 3 to 4 gals as course mate (if u know any engineering friend/guy, u will get wot am trying to say), though during my ND I wasn't much into gals not to talk about dating, because I didn't care more or less, at then, with the whole of campus one composing of the faculty of engineering only!, u will hardly see any lady apart from the iron feast once lolz.
When I started my HND program, it was then I noticed a niche in me, relating to dating. I was bothered bcuz I could not call a lady 4rm the other side, didn't know what to say to her, I don't really have female friends only guys bcuz of d nature of my department.
This made me do some silly things then like going to campus 2 for no reason than finding a gal to woe lolz, campus 2 which host the other faculties with plenty of ladies there (as crazy as it sounds, yeah), in fact it was blif that if u ar finding a woman /gf, d Best and important place to search for one was campus 2, this was the same campus through out my OND (ND) I didn't step foot in.
I actually did get some gals contact then, but all ended up in, well u know, in case u don't, "in failure ". Did everything I cud, am actually was an introvert (through out my ND) but this somehow now place me inbetween the line of intro- and extro-vert, bcuz I started going to places, places I weren't dreaming of going to b4. While trying to av a gf, I can't seem to denial the fact that I was exposed, to things I wouldn't care about b4, it actually upgraded my life for good, but didn't stop me from being gf-less (girlfriend less).
Graduated, did my nysc, still don't know how to woe a gal, watching someone from nowhere taking d gal I did love but didn't know how to express myself, was d last straw of it.

Pls guys I jux need some tricks on how to go about woeing a lady.

ur opinions are welcomed with good Heart including those who will insult, Note: no one is perfect so I tk God beg u, I nor come here 4 u to correct my grammar
Biko !!!!





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Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by ochusdb(m): 11:14pm On Jan 22, 2019
lemme go and buy popcorn �, This will be interesting!!

Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by ABCthings: 11:27pm On Jan 22, 2019
Do you have a toaster?
Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by clive2u(m): 11:58pm On Jan 22, 2019
resort to wooing them on social media then to calls. if they accept, try and kiss her, it'll send d message
Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by labanj1(m): 12:00am On Jan 23, 2019
The problem is that you are afraid of what she would say. Say your mind, ladies don't bite. The worst response will be a NO.
Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by baralatie(m): 12:15am On Jan 23, 2019
toss a girl like head or tail
Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by oxladexo(m): 7:54am On Jan 23, 2019
Lots of blunders which I will overlook...

I don't really get your case, cos if I understand you, you're not shy to approach them?...

Approaching them is the issue for many, but if you've successfully approached a girl and gotten her number, I don't see any other problem.

If you don't like talking then just focus on chatting.

And about the 'woo... The only proposal a man should make to a woman is "will you marry me?".

Honestly asking a girl if she will be your girlfriend is not only gross, but will also most likely bring an unconvincing response, unless she's already into you big time, in which case that question will be totally irrelevant.

Just go with the flow, don't even ask if she's single.

Importantly, make sure your chats don't get boring and cliché.
Keep her interested, till the point point she starts calling you regularly.

That's the clearest indicator she's into you.
Then you can teasingly ask her if she's your girlfriend.

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Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by madewin(m): 12:37pm On Jan 23, 2019
thanks pal
Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by faithfull18(f): 2:12pm On Jan 23, 2019
You need tips on how to toss her out lol...just kidding.
Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by ghettochild(m): 5:43am On Jan 24, 2019
U need tips on ur English first

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Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by Cholls(m): 5:46am On Jan 24, 2019
faithfull18:
You need tips on how to toss her out lol...just kidding.
my sister no mind the guy na joker him be.
Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by Kelly2713(m): 6:58am On Jan 24, 2019
I did not read it
Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by ebonyggurl(f): 9:23am On Jan 24, 2019
I didn't understand half of what I read.
Re: PLEASE o, I need tips on how to toss a girl by youngberry001(m): 9:46am On Jan 24, 2019
ebonyggurl:
I didn't understand half of what I read.
u be male or female sad

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