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marvin906:
I will still say this there's nothing wrong training a girl whether you're dating her or not but if you must train her as a gf do it expecting the inevitable..

U dey try! I remember one babe wey I been dey nyash during my service year. The babe was trained by a guy who deals on cosmetics in Aba with the promise of marriage after service.

Mehn, dis babe go rest her head on top my chest dey tell d guy say she has and will never cheat on him whenever he calls.
I shah looked the guy up on Facebook, only to see that almost half of his pictures there he took with the babe.
I com joking ask the gal one day why she is cheating him, her reply: "he is not my type and cannot marry an Aba indigene."

I shock! Wetin concern me ! As far as kpekus dey come board, me no get kpele

ClixMaster:
U dey try! I remember one babe wey I been dey nyash during my service year. The babe was trained by a guy who deals on cosmetics in Aba with the promise of marriage after service.

Mehn, dis babe go rest her head on top my chest dey tell d guy say she has and will never cheat on him whenever he calls.
I shah looked the guy up on Facebook, only to see that almost half of his pictures there he took with the babe.
I com joking ask the gal one day why she is cheating him, her reply: "he is not my type and cannot marry an Aba indigene."

I shock! Wetin concern me ! As far as kpekus dey come board, me no get kpele

that nigga has put all he's egg on one basket..
like I said there's nothing wrong with training a chick..
buh never put your egg's in one basket
always expect the unexpected

marvin906:
that nigga has put all he's egg on one basket..
like I said there's nothing wrong with training a chick..
buh never put your egg's in one basket
always expect the unexpected

Do you know what that money would have done for that guy's business? The gal was just heartless. The guy has moved on sha cus he was desperate to marry then because of her beauty

lefulefu:
most guys who sponsor ladies do it wit d promose of marriage.anyway edo guys hardly carry last for dis type of thing.if it has to come to sponsoring a girl and d babe promise to marry am then na to nack her belle so in case she graduate she no go fit dump am most guys who sponsor ladies do it wit d promose of marriage.anyway edo guys hardly carry last for dis type of thing.if it has to come to sponsoring a girl and d babe promise to marry am then na to nack her belle so in case she graduate she no go fit dump am

So if there's no promise for marriage, you wont help a girl in need?

xpac01:
I won't even try that rubbish. in fact when I am kicking off a relationship with a student and she starts telling me her food stuffs has finished or she needs to buy some handouts, I will start Michael Jackson in the relationship.

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Eberechi24:
So if there's no promise for marriage, you wont help a girl in need?

why not? if she is a friend and really in need and i have then i fit help.iyam of those who use marriage as a form of trade by barter to sponsor a girl.

lefulefu:
why not? if she is a friend and really in need and i have then i fit help.iyam of those who use marriage as a form of trade by barter to sponsor a girl.

That's where problem started, people give withexpectations. Their condition for giving is collect to something in return which is wrong. And they won't give if they are not promised something.

In order to get that favor from them, some gave careless promises. With the mindset "if we get to river we would know how to cross it" thereby breaking their promise at last.

Give because you want to help solve someone's problem and not for gains.

d girls will prretend dey Neva saw it. I Neva put a blog for people again but I will put their name ishilove geekybabe fluxbush ifyalways ahnie amarabae highpriestess safarigirl sinaj rosalieene rosieluv ginaz makydebbie cleopatra4 xhosanostra Dominique Victorian cuddlebudgie imalma sisisioge pocohantas

Eberechi24:
That's where problem started, people give withexpectations. Their condition for giving is collect to something in return which is wrong. And they won't give if they are not promised something.

In order to get that favor from them, some gave careless promises. With the mindset "if we get to river we would know how to cross it" thereby breaking their promise at last.

Give because you want to help solve someone's problem and not for gains.

how many ppl would really give without expecting anything in return
even pppl that donate huge sums to churches do so with the expectation that praises and songs will be done in their name .anyway its pathetic using school sponsoring to force a girl into marriage.

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ClixMaster:
U dey try! I remember one babe wey I been dey nyash during my service year. The babe was trained by a guy who deals on cosmetics in Aba with the promise of marriage after service.

Mehn, dis babe go rest her head on top my chest dey tell d guy say she has and will never cheat on him whenever he calls.
I shah looked the guy up on Facebook, only to see that almost half of his pictures there he took with the babe.
I com joking ask the gal one day why she is cheating him, her reply: "he is not my type and cannot marry an Aba indigene."

I shock! Wetin concern me ! As far as kpekus dey come board, me no get kpele

i notice na guys wey no dey educated dey mostly dey sponsor girl with promise of marriage.some dey even sponsor from jss1 up to finals for univ.

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jakandeola:
d girls will prretend dey Neva saw it. I Neva put a blog for people again but I will put their name ishilove geekybabe fluxbush ifyalways ahnie amarabae highpriestess safarigirl sinaj rosalieene rosieluv ginaz makydebbie cleopatra4 xhosanostra Dominique Victorian cuddlebudgie imalma sisisioge pocohantas

Anyways I can't understand how u feel, training a gf and she dumps u for another .
Cause my parents were the ones who trained me to university , while my late mum gave me N4,000,000.00 ( that's four million naira to start up my company way back 2007) and the company is still operational till date, all thanks to God and wisdom.
But she died 6months after dashing me such huge sum. She didn't get to enjoy the dividends.

What am I trying to say here? Its better and with great peace of mind for parents to train and invest in their kids , and the parents won't be thinking of marrying such kid later. At least they will allow us choose whom to marry at the end.

So Jakandeola sorry , next time invest wisely on your kids or bride . simple!

lefulefu:
i notice na guys wey no dey educated dey mostly dey sponsor girl with promise of marriage.some dey even sponsor from jss1 up to finals for univ.

Na true

na so i take dump ma ex ....in her finals
complaining abt house rent and school fees na me send u school
unto d next one

lefulefu:
how many ppl would really give without expecting anything in return
even pppl that donate huge sums to churches do so with the expectation that praises and songs will be done in their name .anyway its pathetic using school sponsoring to force a girl into marriage.

We need to learn to give without expectations. That's only way to curb this. If You have and can help, you help. Money is just a piece of paper that comes with value.

Personally, I see money as a means of exchange not a possession, if I die today, them no go bury me with money.
There is this guy in my department that won't help a lady unless she submit kpekus, even #10 pure water, he came to me for monetary help one day, I gave him in fact borrowed. Why? To teach him no one is immune to be helpless and in need of money. Smartness may not save us sometime. If he were in my shoes and he has he won't help me, lai lai. Women are evil and scammers. I have come to scam him.
This same thing with some many men that can afford to help but won't unless a girl submit kpekus. Not fair.

Remind me to share a story with you tomorrow. Kinda busy now.

Shit like this never happens in the North.

Eberechi24:
We need to learn to give without expectations. That's only way to curb this. If You have and can help, you help. Money is just a piece of paper that comes with value.

Personally, I see money as a means of exchange not a possession, if I die today, them no go bury me with money.
There is this guy in my department that won't help a lady unless she submit kpekus, even #10 pure water, he came to me for monetary help one day, I gave him in fact borrowed. Why? To teach him no one is immune to be helpless and in need of money. Smartness may not save us sometime. If he were in my shoes and he has he won't help me, lai lai. Women are evil and scammers. I have come to scam him.
This same thing with some many men that can afford to help but won't unless a girl submit kpekus. Not fair.

Remind me to share a story with you tomorrow. Kinda busy now.

Can you give me too ?

Eberechi24:
That's where problem started, people give withexpectations. Their condition for giving is collect to something in return which is wrong. And they won't give if they are not promised something.

In order to get that favor from them, some gave careless promises. With the mindset "if we get to river we would know how to cross it" thereby breaking their promise at last.

Give because you want to help solve someone's problem and not for gains.

I don't believe in giving without expectations it does not exist in this world even when we give to beggars we expect that one day God will bless us. Girls should not make promises they can't keep in order to get favour.

Because training somebody in school involves a lot of sacrifice and when someone sacrifices he/she must expect something in return. That is the law of nature.

Eberechi24:
We need to learn to give without expectations. That's only way to curb this. If You have and can help, you help. Money is just a piece of paper that comes with value.

Personally, I see money as a means of exchange not a possession, if I die today, them no go bury me with money.
There is this guy in my department that won't help a lady unless she submit kpekus, even #10 pure water, he came to me for monetary help one day, I gave him in fact borrowed. Why? To teach him no one is immune to be helpless and in need of money. Smartness may not save us sometime. If he were in my shoes and he has he won't help me, lai lai. Women are evil and scammers. I have come to scam him.
This same thing with some many men that can afford to help but won't unless a girl submit kpekus. Not fair.

Remind me to share a story with you tomorrow. Kinda busy now.

.. There's a big difference between training a lady in school and giving a lady money.

Eberechi24:
We need to learn to give without expectations. That's only way to curb this. If You have and can help, you help. Money is just a piece of paper that comes with value.

Personally, I see money as a means of exchange not a possession, if I die today, them no go bury me with money.
There is this guy in my department that won't help a lady unless she submit kpekus, even #10 pure water, he came to me for monetary help one day, I gave him in fact borrowed. Why? To teach him no one is immune to be helpless and in need of money. Smartness may not save us sometime. If he were in my shoes and he has he won't help me, lai lai. Women are evil and scammers. I have come to scam him.
This same thing with some many men that can afford to help but won't unless a girl submit kpekus. Not fair.

Remind me to share a story with you tomorrow. Kinda busy now.

i quite agree wit u.hmm ok about d story u want to share i will remind u tommorow.lemme go and sleep.gudnight.

that is totally the wrong to look at life

the rule is this if a lady,girl comes to you for help. give her the help with no conditions attached(no sex,kiss)just from your heart you give what you can afford and bounce out of the way.

the other one is if you want to marry go and marry and stop wasting time.

if the lady you proposed to says that she needs to go to school first before marriage then go marry someone else

It's dumb to send a mere GF to school. No self-respecting parents would love-vendor their daughter out like that, neither would they allow their own son to be that stupid. Certain things are a responsibility of the parents. If they're proud people, they'd never let this happen. It's shameful.

samchuks2018:
I don't believe in giving without expectations it does not exist in this world even when we give to beggars we expect that one day God will bless us. Girls should not make promises they can't keep in order to get favour.

Because training somebody in school involves a lot of sacrifice and when someone sacrifices he/she must expect something in return. That is the law of nature.

Give what you can afford to lose. Don't be expected of anything. Promise and expectations can be unfulfilled.
If you can't afford to train a child and forfeit it. Don't do it! and no one would question you.

They may give you those promise under duress and at last break it.

And if God didn't bless you for giving a beggar some token, you go and fight him.

jakandeola:
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No guarantees in life.
Sometimes you win and sometimes you lose.
Women also make sacrifices.
Such is life.

KanwuliaExtra:
No guarantees in life. Sometimes you win and sometimes you lose. Women also make sacrifices. Such is life.

but did u think is right

Life itself is risky. I see nothing wrong in sponsoring your girl through school. She could've been your sister, niece, cousin or even a friend. Everyone needs help at a point. When you do this, just expect nothing in return, that way your heart is at rest. It's just an act of benevolence.

A father can sponsor his child through school, in the end, that child gets a good job, becomes rich and even forgets the father who gave him that privilege. And that's even a Father-Child relationship, let alone lovers. Nothing in life is certain. We all get disappointed, all we just have to do is be logical in whatever we do.

Anyone can be ditched. Stop painting 'women' as a thing to be avoided. There are good women, as there are men too. If your woman wasn't loyal, then that's your business. If you simply can't take the heat, then get out of the kitchen.