SillyeRabbit:
There are lady that once you give them something like money, they automatically perceive you to be a potential maga. Then the bills start coming in, then they start luring you with sexxx just because they believe that's the only way they can continue to collect money from you. But fact is only a few guys will not want a returned favour. Some girl are damn too cheap too, or maybe it because of poverty level. With little amount, they automatically become your sexxx machine.

They are ladies who wouldn't see you as a potential maga, lets concentrate on them...

lilmax:
it's better to donate that money to Buhari supporters, than wasting money

You lack wisdom.

Splinz:




It depends on what your motives are.

This phone or tab you want to buy for her, is it out of just genuine concern of helping one in need or to lay her?

If it's the former, then you've done excellently. But you must demonstrate convincingly that the motive was of a pure heart. And if the latter, then be bold enough to tell her to her face: so the GIFT can stand as some sort of a contractual term agreed by all for a desired result; and not as a Greek gift.

But let me tell you of a more honourable way. Go for the former.

You're very sensible.

Tamarapetty:
I feel like dashing a guy money now, with no G-strings attached.

Damn!

Eberechi24:

Even as a married man you think like fuckboy which is very shameful. After sleeping with her, will you get your money back? What is this fuss about money?
The last time I met your kind he was riding keke napep. A man who owns a big shop and a comfortable ride went down to square one. Life humbled him. No one has immunity over poverty or helpless state.


I was very happy when I saw him, Lol and i wish same for every man who feels the only way to be compensated for helping a girl in need out is by sleeping with her even against her will.

.. So after helping out a lady who has no one to help her,I should also extend the help to the one that has a fiancé? Or is it that you people did not understand the question asked by the op? Nawa o.

pocohantas:


It is a really bad one. That is why when a girl sees a guy that gives without expecting, she will be seriously suspecting him. It isn't a very common occurrence with them.

I don't ask, I don't receive either, except from very close friends. I know how 99% of them reason.

This is the very reason I made this thread.

Wilfredpat22:
Don’t buy phone for a girl because we will use your phone to call other guys to banng us. It is your phone she will use to receive calls from someone in kano and travel there, get bannged and she is back In Lagos.


Try to use your head when dealing with us oo

Only cretinous beings will take you serious.

u can for anyone u like.it doesnt necessary have to mean it has to be a girlfriend and besides wat is phone?

pocohantas:


It is a really bad one. That is why when a girl sees a guy that gives without expecting, she will be seriously suspecting him. It isn't a very common occurrence with them.

I don't ask, I don't receive either, except from very close friends. I know how 99% of them reason.

Poco, me sef tire. The truth is, they don't know that we are just managing most of them and tolerating their excesses.

Their warped mentality is really getting absurd. I sometimes wonder if ever they start giving without expecting, won't the world be a better place?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Only cretinous beings will take you serious.

It's a guy behind that moniker

Earthbound:

It's a guy behind that moniker

I know so.

lefulefu:
u can for anyone u like.it doesnt necessary have to mean it has to be a girlfriend and besides wat is phone?

Exactly! But I have to think from the guy's perspective. If someone I barely know buys a phone for my girlfriend and she accepts and uses it, we'd start having trust issues.

Jaywest1j:
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Abeg nack me sure 6 odds. I'll only pay if I win. Deal?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Yes I will. You guys/men should learn how to give without strings attached or expecting benefits in return.

I'm tired of Nigerian guys, ask them for something now, they'll refer you to your boyfriends. Give without attaching strings, that way both parties will be happy. Be a giver today.

but if a girl start to dey hassle money frm me as if i keep money for her i suppose ask make she go ask her boyfriend nau .extortion is different from asking for help.

Earthbound:

Exactly! But I have to think from the guy's perspective. If someone I barely know buys a phone for my girlfriend and she accepts and uses it, we'd start having trust issues.

u barely know a girl and she"s already demanding phone from u?
that na yahoogirl oo

lefulefu:

but if a girl start to dey hassle money frm me as if i keep money for her i suppose ask make she go ask her boyfriend nau .extortion is different from asking for help.

Yes, and that's if she keeps disturbing you for money. If she wants to be useless, refer her to her parents, not her boyfriend. Her boyfriend isn't her father. No one supports an unrepentant beggar, but if you have to give for once, make it count.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes, and that's if she keeps disturbing you for money. If she wants to be useless, refer her to her parents, not her boyfriend. Her boyfriend isn't her father. No one supports an unrepentant beggar, but if you have to give for once, make it count.

if i have and she is my friend i will give.i only use that angle of telling those ones who want to exhort from u to go and meet their boyfriend .

UyaiIncomparabl:


Poco, me sef tire. The truth is, they don't know that we are just managing most of them and tolerating their excesses.

Their warped mentality is really getting absurd. I sometimes wonder if ever they start giving without expecting, won't the world be a better place?

I will give you things because I'm your father abi?

Women and entitlement mentality

UyaiIncomparabl:


I don't blame you. Nairaland has turned us to mates.

Lol, naija girls and their demanding mentality. I wonder hkw u guys survive without chokin to death cus i wud if i live my life this way. Anyway naija women are very strong. And thats why they take so many unimaginable dehumanizing things in their relationship.
I bet ur bf beats u in real life and u re here forming that sn is not ur mate...smh

lefulefu:
u barely know a girl and she"s already demanding phone from u?
that na yahoogirl oo

Lol. I've known her since. Na her bf no know me

UyaiIncomparabl:


Abeg nack me sure 6 odds. I'll only pay if I win. Deal?

Really? Just 6?

UyaiIncomparabl:


You lack wisdom.

because it's better to give the money to the poor instead of a girl?

lilmax:
because it's better to give the money to the poor instead of a girl?

Be sensible. The girl might be needy too. I pray you wake up to enlightenment this day. Do not quote me again.

Earthbound:

Really? Just 6?

Just 6 is manageable. You get to give?

Gaspardd:


Lol, naija girls and their demanding mentality. I wonder hkw u guys survive without chokin to death cus i wud if i live my life this way. Anyway naija women are very strong. And thats why they take so many unimaginable dehumanizing things in their relationship.
I bet ur bf beats u in real life and u re here forming that sn is not ur mate...smh

You lack wisdom.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Just 6 is manageable. You get to give?

Tomorrow. I'll mention you tomorrow with it.

If you're a 'neighbourly' brother to her or good friends, well sure but a stranger? I can't even take it. And for me to collect from a friend, he must have 2 phones atleast and his sister/girlfriend are not in need.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Be sensible. The girl might be needy too. I pray you wake up to enlightenment this day. Do not quote me again.

who be this one?

JONNYSPUTE:
.. So after helping out a lady who has no one to help her,I should also extend the help to the one that has a fiancé? Or is it that you people did not understand the question asked by the op? Nawa o.

You are the one who don't understand the question asked by op. Because once you see a thread about girl and gift, your three leg become restless. Does it mean you are sex starved or what?

What if the girl who has fiancé needs help nko, she shouldn't be helped because of her fiancé?

What if the fiancé in question belonged to your crew who believes a girlfriend shouldn't be spent on" aka aka gum?

what if the the fiancé doesn't have to help nko?

Even Married couple(woman) at once in time needs help, she shouldn't be helped because she has husband who Bleep her?
Oga your mate set up Charitable foundations without microscopicing who's fucking recipients!!!
I wonder who enjoys being in need or helpless.

lefulefu:
u can for anyone u like.it doesnt necessary have to mean it has to be a girlfriend and besides wat is phone?

Happy new month Sweetheart,

Earthbound:

Tomorrow. I'll mention you tomorrow with it.

If you get higher odds sef, nack me. Oil dey your head.