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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 11:53am On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
OK. I won't stoop so low. It's obvious u letting off steam. All this tantrums ain't necessary to think you are 10yrs my elder. Jesus
Oh i guess you have more growing up to do. Spoilt little brat!
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 11:54am On Feb 05, 2019
emkz:
For some, it is a scam because either one or both of them are not true to the relationship. With commitment and discipline, it can work.

Circumstances like work can keep a couple apart for some time. Temptations will arise, as some outsiders would want to exploit the distance and take advantage. No one knows how this would pan out. I have seen two cases where the woman was devoted to the man even though they were 9 hours apart across the Atlantic. I even cautioned one when she was hanging out with a man in a "harmless" friendship. She cut him off.

For a wayward woman, there can never be an excuse to cheat since it is embedded in her DNA. Once the husband goes to work, the fuckboy starts his work in his house with his wife or in their hideout. It has nothing to do with distance. A woman who is decent and respects herself and her relationship would not cheat or create the environment for it to happen and vice-versa. So please, let us not generalize because of some indecent people we have seen/experienced.
This has nothing to do with Cheating. I was mindful not to generalize.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 11:56am On Feb 05, 2019
Yigiyaga:
Oh i guess you have more growing up to do. Spoilt little brat!
Hmmmmmm, How Love turns into Hate in a Day. Why don't you tell this people what I did that was so unforgivable? Inconsistencies in my profile? Have I ever claimed to be what I am not? You have deep issues I swear down.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by murphyibiam15(m): 11:58am On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Yes I am... But I'll b fine
hanty sorry, rip to your konji
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by DanDeeBoss(m): 12:00pm On Feb 05, 2019
kazyy160:
if you are in the right relationship distance will not be a barrier
gringrin
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:01pm On Feb 05, 2019
kazyy160:
if you are in the right relationship, distance will not be a barrier
You right

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:02pm On Feb 05, 2019
I really don't agree with you,i actually prefer a long distance relationship tho,i was in a LDR
Even my current relationship is long distanced
I love that space and focus on my work

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:03pm On Feb 05, 2019
Simplep:
I really don't agree with you
From experience. I didn't Generalize o
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:04pm On Feb 05, 2019
Yigiyaga:
Oh i guess you have more growing up to do. Spoilt little brat!
You just made me break a code. I don't kiss and tell but it's obvious you do. Very bad.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:08pm On Feb 05, 2019
Naughtysite:


Are you looking for husband ?

Am I handsome enough ?
I am done looking for Such!
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by AmKen(m): 12:09pm On Feb 05, 2019
You can settle this offline.

This back and forth from you two is unnecessary.

If you can't face distance like most of us can, then follow the principle of THE NEAREST IS THE DEAREST.

Peace!!!!!

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:14pm On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Hmmmmmm, How Love turns into Hate in a Day. Why don't you tell this people what I did that was so unforgivable? Inconsistencies in my profile? Have I ever claimed to be what I am not? You have deep issues I swear down.
No thanks. I guess u r looking for some cheap publicity through me? Hell no! Aint giving it to you sissy. Watch your curse words....doesnt sound ladylike.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:15pm On Feb 05, 2019
Speaking from experience I’m a Nigerian and I met this white lady online from USA nov 2017 and dated her until nov 2018 after all the promises to meet and after the incessant unnecessary fights we broke up then I met a handful different ones that aren’t serious but then I met another black American lady this year and we’ve been together for 2months the very second day we met she got her visa and she’s coming in a few months so it’s not ok to say all LDR’s are scams cos yours didn’t work out if God accepts it’ll surely work that same Nov 2017 my friend met this italian lady and she came here I was with them until she took him out of here na me escort them to airport gate till them fly out he’s my testimony that LDR’s are possible

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:21pm On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I am done looking for Such!
That sounds like a burst of frustrations. Baby dont give up on love...its the best feeling.we felt it but you let it slip away cause you gave in to temptation. Now you can meet me up on my own thread where im in control..we can start all over again if you wish. Cheers
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 12:23pm On Feb 05, 2019
Yigiyaga:
I had to open a thread because i haven't found who im looking for. She's definitely not the one so why should i waste time.







Oh ok


Where is your location?

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by OmowumiJ(f): 12:25pm On Feb 05, 2019
Ceeroh, you met the devil himself in disguise of a lady.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Biglittlelois(f): 12:27pm On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Apart from wasting one's time if it falls apart, the unsatisfied tensions and all, not to talk of the risk of traveling to visit the person. God forbid one dies via accident on their way to visit what will you tell your maker?

When you are so sexually frustrated who will be there to deliver you? D love at the other side of the phone? Mtcheeeew.

P.S, If you've known your partner before distance came in between fine and Good. That works atleast you know him or her.

But social media distance relationships are Scams(might work 4 few). Not to talk of so many psychos on the lose waiting for an unsuspecting victim.
So reason it well before you enter a time wasting venture in d guise of a distance relationship.


Hmmm
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Biglittlelois(f): 12:28pm On Feb 05, 2019
Kalapizim:
immaturity ! Distance will always come at one point of your lives except you both aspire to stay in one city all through without seeking advancement.

Thats the way I see it.

Deep.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Feb 05, 2019
OmowumiJ:
Ceeroh, you met the devil himself in disguise of a lady.

Well, you're right. Where the devil can't go, he sends women.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Feb 05, 2019
victorian:







Oh ok

Where is your location?
Lagos.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Feb 05, 2019
victorian:







Oh ok

Where is your location?
Lagos.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Biglittlelois(f): 12:32pm On Feb 05, 2019
Dinho20:
LOVE IS PATIENT AND KIND;
LOVE DOES NOT ENVY OR BOAST; IT IS NOT ARROGANT OR RUDE. IT DOES NOT REJOICE AT WRONGDOING, BUT REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH. LOVE BEARS ALL THINGS, BELIEVES ALL THINGS, HOPES ALL THINGS, ENDURES ALL THINGS.


Nice smiley
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 12:33pm On Feb 05, 2019
Yigiyaga:
Lagos.








Oh cool.

Let's chat offline. Will send a pm.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Biglittlelois(f): 12:36pm On Feb 05, 2019
iammo:
Distance relationship is intresting and it's a true test of love and patience


True, especially patience.

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:36pm On Feb 05, 2019
victorian:









Oh cool.

Let's chat offline. Will send a pm.

You are very stupid for this. Backstabbing bitch.in my own thread fa

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:38pm On Feb 05, 2019
Yigiyaga:
No thanks. I guess u r looking for some cheap publicity through me? Hell no! Aint giving it to you sissy. Watch your curse words....doesnt sound ladylike.
Great Choice. Like I told you before, wish you all the best. You can go to your thread to meet up with ladies there biko. No vex
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Biglittlelois(f): 12:38pm On Feb 05, 2019
emkz:
For some, it is a scam because either one or both of them are not true to the relationship. With commitment and discipline, it can work.

Circumstances like work can keep a couple apart for some time. Temptations will arise, as some outsiders would want to exploit the distance and take advantage. No one knows how this would pan out. I have seen two cases where the woman was devoted to the man even though they were 9 hours apart across the Atlantic. I even cautioned one when she was hanging out with a man in a "harmless" friendship. She cut him off.

For a wayward woman, there can never be an excuse to cheat since it is embedded in her DNA. Once the husband goes to work, the fuckboy starts his work in his house with his wife or in their hideout. It has nothing to do with distance. A woman who is decent and respects herself and her relationship would not cheat or create the environment for it to happen and vice-versa. So please, let us not generalize because of some indecent people we have seen/experienced.


Very true.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 12:40pm On Feb 05, 2019
AmKen:
You can settle this offline.

This back and forth from you two is unnecessary.

If you can't face distance like most of us can, then follow the principle of THE NEAREST IS THE DEAREST.

Peace!!!!!
My Thoughts at first. Dude said I won't be able to use my Monicker when he's finished with me. It's not like I cheated or stole his money. This life sha

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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Biglittlelois(f): 12:41pm On Feb 05, 2019
Philomathhh:


And chances are that it'd work out fine. I'm in a distance relationship for almost a year and some few months now. We see each other once in a blue moon, but that has never made me cheat on my partner. And I equally trust my partner. Because it doesn't/didn't work for you, doesn't mean it won't work for others.

This is nice of you, self control is always the issue of those who cheat.
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by LordAdam16: 12:41pm On Feb 05, 2019
Randy91:




Gbamest!!!!!..
I got engaged recently but due to work,I stay very far from Fiancee but as I come here oooo,one sharp babe begin take care of me better than my fiancee...na ghost mode I dey nowcheesy cheesy cheesy

Later when your significant other cheats on you in the future, you go dey vent like say u dey chop bottle.

First to do no dey pain, shey u knw?

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